rareinstance Archive

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3	how to proceed/escalate Totally understand how you are feeling. It’s hard to be objective about what to do when we are feeling vulnerable. We have varying coping mechanisms when it comes to feeling that way - typically suppress or deal. Think about it this way, she allow herself to express her vulnerability by making the move to ask about your position on the type of women you like and if you are in the mindset of a relationship. That takes courage. No matter how confident someone is, matters of desire and the heart al…	/r/seduction	10/03/18 05:57 PM
6	how to proceed/escalate Well here’s my honest observation. She is not playing the game. You are. She was explicit in her wants and seek clarification on yours. Straight off that bat, I read your response as negging - playing games, non committal, there for the fun but without the responsibility. The fact that she pulls back, she appears to me as someone who knows her boundaries and wants well. A solid character these days. Edit: add response to question Moving forward, I’d say it’s time for candor. If you are into her,…	/r/seduction	10/03/18 05:30 PM