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I practice what I preach.
/r/seduction07/01/26 02:05 AM
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Don't see the feedback for what it is. The truth is, people want what they can't have. It's human psychology. If you were to tell a girl who liked you you were gay, there would be a part of her that would wanna shatter your "unattainability." It could help for sure. Ethical? Not here. The biggest issue I have with this sub is how sugar coated people tend to make seduction. They mistake the natural push and pull of human nature with all kinds of manipulation, not realizing there has to be resista…
/r/seduction12/12/25 08:19 PM
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From the comments I can tell they don't go outside lol. This is hilarious I don't see how this wouldn't work with confidence.
/r/seduction08/12/25 02:08 AM
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Keep the tension going a little longer. Keep her guessing so eventually it's her that brings it up. She just confessed her love. I don't think it was just liquor talk. Give her the ball too soon, and the chance to deepen the connection fades. Just keep this in mind you got you this far after all don't overthink it.
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:52 PM
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Smash in public.
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:24 PM
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Insta's how I met my drinking squad! Balance is good. Just be unique and send her something she probably hasn't heard before.
/r/seduction01/12/25 09:39 PM
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Horrible take. Love is love. Online connection shouldn't be forbidden as long as there's balance.
/r/seduction25/11/25 02:50 PM
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Women care about words looks catch attention but dont keep it.
/r/seduction21/11/25 08:07 PM
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Clubs and bars are elite! Bars for slower paced, conversational, potentially spontaneous vibes. Clubs for chaotic, mad energy, let them be overcome by the bold vibes. Anywhere there are women is a decent environment to meet women. Well maybe not a family reunion.
/r/seduction21/11/25 08:06 PM
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I stopped trying to seduce people who weren't my type or too busy for seduction. Low and behold, its like every interaction flows and nothing feels forced. I have genuine female friends now which is weird to me lol. Cockblocking mfs but I love em I guess my biggest shift was being okay with being the friend. Everyone's tryna win them over. I'd rather flatter and confuse her so she pursues me.
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:19 PM
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The pain of failure is always petty to the pain of living in fear.
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:39 PM
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The first step in seduction is to make her come to you. You cant do that without instilling doubt in her head that all you wanna be is her friend. That's when she pursues.
/r/seduction10/11/25 12:06 AM
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In the book The Art of Seduction And being a Coquette is a simple game, once you accept the fact that your power increases with time. It takes an attention to clothes, unique subtle body language, and a quality you can feel confidence in alone. If I want a swarm of musicians to run my studio? - I make a beat on my laptop at the mall. Works extraordinarily well. I want that girl to talk to me in the club? - Hang around her vicinity and don't talk to her till she engages me. When we catch eyes, it…
/r/seduction05/11/25 12:38 AM
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Play his own game. Keep it subtle! Speak more with your offhand glances, brushes on the shoulder, quick retracted statements, etc. These all last longer in his head. The more he fantasizes, the deeper he pursues.
/r/seduction30/10/25 10:00 PM
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Terrible advice. Mystery is the lifeblood of seduction. Just dont overdo it. Revealing yourself over time is much more meaningful and deepens the spell.
/r/seduction30/10/25 06:29 AM
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Go down to da base quickest way for him to fall in love
/r/seduction29/10/25 08:02 PM
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People who think this is AI cant imagine people writing paragraphs about a subject anymore lmao insane. I use AI too this sounds nothing like it.
/r/seduction28/10/25 10:06 PM
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Beethoven & Napolean did not have more success than Errol Flynn lmao
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:53 AM
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1 and 2 are dope. But 3 tanked it. "Think you're better than the girl you're talking to." This only works on a specific type of girl. And not the majority. In fact, this is one of the fastest ways to draw out their insecurities and close her off even more. Seduction (and humans) are way more complex, and roles dont always fall into the black and white categories of man/woman, dominant/submissive, leader/led. It all depends on our unique psychologies.
/r/seduction26/10/25 04:36 PM
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Gotta second this. Errol Flynn was one of the greatest seducers of all time. He damn near slept with a woman every other day. But his game? Making women feel like the most interesting & attractive person moreso than him. Some girls are leaders some like to be led.
/r/seduction26/10/25 04:26 PM
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Yall responding too defensively lol. See past it! It's most likely a test. I know what you're thinking. "If it's a test, I dont want it. I dont play games." Fair point. But its in their nature. Trials of love has been a thing ever since humans started falling in love. It does two things: Makes the prize more "valuable". Feeds their ego of wanting to be desired. It's all geared towards maximizing both the pleasure the pursuer gets from winning the chase, and from the pursued from feeling worth th…
/r/seduction26/10/25 03:10 PM
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/r/seduction26/10/25 01:34 AM
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Keep talking to girls till you meet 1 thats natural. For every 7 there's one that just feels effortless. It takes getting used to a lotta vibe check fails though.
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:23 PM
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You grow your awareness. Not just others, but yourself. You make connections that can exchange value. You learn to walk with presence, talk easy both others, and start attracting the right people. Definitely learning to keep on your toes around the inevitable wrong ones. You are what you do everyday. "I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times." ~ Bruce Lee
/r/seduction24/10/25 04:33 AM
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You know what also works? Silence. You dont always have to be the interested one. Try it out. You'll be mindblown once she starts asking you questions.
/r/seduction23/10/25 06:23 PM
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The game is won, not when you find out how to get women, but when you find out how to get women off of you.
/r/seduction19/10/25 04:09 PM
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Its real simple. The reason you come across as insecure is because you're in your head, not theirs. "What do they think of me? Do they like me? Am I losing them?" Rather than "I wonder what they're into. What they like/dont like." Focus on them. On their face, body, tone. Even more than words, because our words cont convey as much as the body. It's gonna take some practice, but the minute you start, the difference is already night and day.
/r/seduction19/10/25 03:41 PM
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You don't. You let it be awkward. You're making a point. I reciprocate the energy give it to me. That void you're trying to fill is the same void you need for her to chase you. Then you won't be the one doing all the talking. Push and pull. The natural dance of seduction.
/r/seduction17/10/25 11:31 PM
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Of course it hurts. Thats the price you pay for success.
/r/seduction17/10/25 11:21 PM
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You gotta pick the loose 5 or the solid 1 bro.
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:42 PM
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You dawg 😎
/r/seduction16/10/25 02:12 AM
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Keep your intentions to yourself at the start. Keep her guessing. More room to fantasize 🔮
/r/seduction15/10/25 08:20 PM
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Dangerous Liaisons
/r/seduction14/10/25 08:07 PM
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Moderation? This is the seduction sub take that somewhere else. Especially on this post lol
/r/seduction14/10/25 07:34 PM
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What's said through subtle gestures is often more effective and endearing than words. A glance here, an offhand comment there, a physical brush, etc. Love thrives off uncertainty, because it keeps you in their mind. Let her assume these things have upset you through your demeanor, and you'll double your chances of achieving the end result you want.
/r/seduction10/10/25 02:55 AM
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Ah, it's no surprise you're seeing results. Subtlety is key in seduction. The less you say, the more people can project onto you (which is what you want if you know how love works). When you talk slower, hold eye contact, have open body language, yet, don't seem to be in need of attention or approval, you become a wonder: - "Why is he so quiet but so loud?" - "Why isn't he chasing me?" - "Is he happy? Is he pissed?" All in all: YES. Develop this further. Subtlety is of the most insidious & effec…
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:56 PM
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The only way to overcome rejection is to know what you're truly afraid of. You're not afraid of them saying "no". You've been told that before. You can handle it. What you're truly afraid of is coming to terms with the fact you're still a student. Each rejection shows you the reality of your allure. It only hurts because it doesn't match the version of you idealized in your head. Think of it like your subconscious being fat, and each conversation can be a mirror reminding them. It doesn't feel g…
/r/seduction09/07/25 10:07 PM
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What the helly
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:20 PM
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Your appeal to her is that she probably sees you as innocent. Play this up, cause this will only make her pursue you more. She probably wants to fulfill a fantasy, but the last thing you should do is just give it to her. Since she comes in semi regularly, theres no need to rush. And the longer you wait, the greater the final outcome. You should let it escalate on her terms, and not give a fuck about the manager, or if you do, don't let her find out, because nothing is more anti-seductive than a …
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:18 PM
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Uhh, dont talk about your medicine and future specialization in general diagnostics and treatment of various body systems to start lol. You two definitely have countless other relatable interests. Music? Hobbies? Dreams? Love languages? Anything but that. Unless you want her nani dry. Well, until you can get her obsession. Then she'd listen to anything.
/r/seduction09/07/25 07:13 PM
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I like this.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:22 AM
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That bench shoulda caught all yall love juices, just saying.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:21 AM
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Directness isn't the name of the game in seduction. Mystery is. Mystery gives them space to interpret, fantasize, project. All the necessary ingredients for attraction. You don't have to stop being the "nice guy". In fact, it'l really help you out here. There are moments when you aren't always nice, whether that's setting boundaries, someone catches you no filter, etc. From time to time, step into these less pleasing parts of your character and see the effect it has on people who thought they ha…
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:18 AM
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It's hard to say. All this sounds too mechanical. Moreso than what you say, pay attention to what's being said through tone, and the body, because those always reveal truth. What she really wants.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:15 AM
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This one
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:11 AM
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Change is slow, so start here. Practice 1 mixed signal a day. You're only needy because you fear that you pulling away will make others lose their interest. And yeah sure, be gone too long and they forget about you. But pull away strategically, and you'd be surprised that now you're the one being pursued. Love often dies not from distance, but from suffocation.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:10 AM
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Pretty good stuff here. But we can't sleep on the past relationship talks. I get them to talk about their relationships cause it gives me so much info on what they're missing. Such a good source to fulfill her needs, which I often always have to pay most of my focus and attention to.
/r/seduction06/07/25 12:05 AM
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If you can't wait it out, send something that'll get her thinking about a dope moment yall shared. Maybe stir up old feelings. Works every time if you play your cards right.
/r/seduction05/07/25 11:59 PM
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2 words. Mirror neurons. It's the most primitive way we can enter someone's "spirit". Rapport comes from trust. Trust comes from familiarity. By subtly mirroring their moods, tastes, fantasies & body, you bypass the conscious mind and tap into those unconscious needs that doesn't just win their favor, but brews desire. You're like them, and people love themselves. You become familiar. So to answer your question, practice stepping into peoples shoes. It's not the place, it's your ability to step …
/r/seduction05/07/25 11:54 PM
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How bad is she?
/r/seduction04/07/25 04:39 PM
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He gets it.
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:31 PM
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If familiarity is the death of seduction and of relationships, - then mystery and ambiguity will be what makes it alive.
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:29 PM
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Say something to surprise them. Not something to get them to like you. They want excitement. Not to be approached by everybody the same. Stand out, and be bold. Women anywhere are a sucker for that shit.
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:08 PM
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Casual only? I just don't keep them that long. As much as I enjoy their company, I know ill start to fall if I don't have the discipline to leave suddenly.
/r/seduction02/07/25 04:51 PM
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She's a mixed signal diva. But you gotta keep your feelings lowkey for now. She's showing interest and initiative, clearly. Yet whenever you wanna see her, she always seems to have something going on. Most of it may be genuine. But we cant ignore that she likely knows this throws you off, which puts the ball in her court. She's feeding illusions. Building your desire. It's not always malicious. The back and forth is a natural part of seduction. But now's the time to get the ball back: - Ask her …
/r/seduction02/07/25 04:04 PM
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Yeah, people too caught up in their work have little to no space in their head for you to fill. And that's the essence of seduction. It's not impossible, you would just have to approach them like you would a Lonely Leader. - Very patient, clever, and calculated. Treating them as equals, or even acting as their superior. The treatment they rarely get.
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:53 PM
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Welp, it's as easy as tapping them on the shoulder and saying "Yeah she mine bro, you're good." Nothing crazy, but stern. Enough to make them pursuing and her engagement questionable. Sometimes, that's not enough. And if she keeps entertaining them, that's for you to start teaching them lessons.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:39 AM
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You got an opportunity. This is gonna sound weird, but it works. Keep going for her the long way, but on your terms. Make her believe you're all over her, (which she still needs to an extent), and then, pull back. Ghost. That pull back? That's your BIGGEST power in seduction. It takes balls of steel, but it works. This is how you get women to pursue.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:33 AM
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Well, you ever thought of the idea that's why she might like you? Women don't like a man who is too social now, especially outside lol. But it's more likely she sees qualities in you she wishes she had for herself. This doesn't mean never talk to anyone, but just keep in mind maybe social is the title she likes claiming, and you're a support for that. A need.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:27 AM
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Ah, the Casanova syndrome. One of the most notorious womanizers. He burnt himself out too. The seductions were too quick. As much fun as daygame is, true seduction calls for patience, letting the fruit ripen and fall by itself. Time for you to start aiming for the high prizes. You won good sprints. But now's the time for marathons, and experiencing it's newfound pleasure.
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:53 PM
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It depends on the type of seducer you are. But for the most part, the indirect approach is easily the more effective one. It shows you can be patient, clever, and seduce them right under their nose. You really can't create love out of thin air in any other way.
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:48 PM
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IG IS FUN ONCE YOU KNOW HOW TO PLAY IT! The game? Stand out. They get 100s of messages, so do what you gotta do. Stand out. Don't worry about the kind of reaction. You got motion as long as you got one. Lastly, phone calls are the secret to an emotional connection. You can DM a girl 10 months and be beat out by a vibe she was talking on the phone with for 3 hours. Key word BOLDNESS! IG is an untapped goldmine.
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:46 PM
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You can, if it's too much to work through. We gotta start somewhere. Or, you can embrace your flaws just as boldly as your strengths and see the power it has over people. Last resort? I'd go bald. But remember hair isn't the focus. The focus is on her, and how you make her feel.
/r/seduction24/06/25 11:39 PM
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#1: Reflection. Whether you get no play or you're a game master, everyone needs to reassess what went right and wrong in every interaction. Otherwise, all that work was for NOTHING! A dead lesson you never learned cause you didn't show up. The fundamentals that keep flow going is as simple as embracing the changes. It's not always gonna be peachy, but those moments of coldness or silence are key elements in building attraction. With no space, there's no room to imagine, fantasize, desire.
/r/seduction22/06/25 10:42 PM
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3 second rule is dope. My rule? 0 second rule. Won't even give me time to process what I'm saying. All she really cares about is how I say it and how it makes her feel. I could yell "Bungee button banana bitch!" (not recommended) across the street with so much grace that she'll be too distracted with how lax and calm I was. More intrigued than anything. But I already made a show of my difference, and that's all it takes.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:52 PM
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Seduction is a skillset like any other craft is. Get in the habit of talking to women as much as you can, wherever they are. Groups are definitely easier. More time to spark attraction. But we can't sleep on our short encounters either or even social media. Your wife may be in front of you at the grocery store. Maybe the most potent love you've ever had is a smile, hello, or a wave away.
/r/seduction19/06/25 06:46 PM
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Play a bar game. Don't let yourself leave until you talked to x amount of people. Don't make it impossible. If it's 1, it's 1. But that's enough to move the needle. It's best you practice the same thing, over and over. Approaching them on impulse, and not giving yourself time to think. Practice focusing on them and not you. That's the skill to acquire. The ability to develop attraction out of thin air is one of, if not, our greatest gift. 🔥
/r/seduction18/06/25 09:28 PM
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You keep calm, and show her you aren't easily shaken. Half of the magic is in how you react.
/r/seduction18/06/25 09:21 PM
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Yup, ol reliable: • Go before I give myself time to think of the consequences. No hesitation, because she senses I acted on impulse, and she reflects the same. Just a comfortable and relaxed air. And it's like we've known each other for years. No setup, no overthinking, just a natural superpower we all have that I practice tapping into everyday.
/r/seduction16/06/25 03:50 PM
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If a place is turnt, turn up! Upscale? Present yourself with grace. Casual? Keep it social and lukewarm. Same applies to the people at this event. Are they hype, mysterious, flirty? Bring out those sides of you. That's that instant chemistry you might tend to see strangers have out of nowhere.
/r/seduction13/06/25 11:15 PM
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Eye contact. That's the first communication without any words being spoken. She'll reply. With her eyes.
/r/seduction13/06/25 11:09 PM
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Yup, she's a coquette. They're the masters at this game. At the height of your interest, they go cold, and then the anxiety comes. She knows you'll pursue her to calm this down. And her statement shows the ball is in her court. But that's not a bad thing. And it's not always manipulative. The good thing is, the move for them is to hit them back with their own hot and coldness. Now she becomes the pursuer and the cycle repeats. If you manage this one, keep her long. They're the best lol.
/r/seduction13/06/25 06:40 PM
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I'll show you better than flirty or witty. Let her speak damn near 70% of the time. And while shes speaking, pick up cues. On what she's saying, how she's saying it, all that. She could either want that brain convo, a vibe in silence, a dance, a swift move, but it depends on how she feels in that moment. If you can pick up on it, the wit & the flirting becomes natural, because you're attuned to what she likes.
/r/seduction13/06/25 06:13 PM
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Women (well people in general) feel secure when they meet someone like them. Sounds like your move should've been a bit more passive and patient. Like her. But look, If you're sharing similar life experiences to hers, or subtly mirroring body language, or interested in her interests, this goes beyond the surface. You're confronting her vanity directly and subconsciously. Then she'll likely show you she's anticipating your bold moves from her eyes and body before she tells you with words.
/r/seduction13/06/25 06:08 PM
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When it's early, attention matters more. It really depends on her. But switching your patterns now and then breaks the loop, and now she's scrambling to make you predictable again. That's when she pursues. So ironically, I let this happen because I care more now than ever lol.
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:56 PM
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Ah, I've been to Europe! But in any club in the world, seduction is a human language. It's all the same. Peep the vibe. Enter the vibe. Focus on them. Be bold. Slowly let loose and think later. Adjust accordingly. It's so much easier once you realize you can attract all women in pretty much the same fashion. But just because you can doesn't mean you should lol. Shoot for your missing parts.
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:51 PM
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It's okay to let go. Whether you wanted her back or not, letting her go for now is the best move. Absence is it's own language in seduction. We need it so we can long for eachother. At this point, the best chance of her coming back is if you let her first. No texting, calling, ig subs, nothing. This is what women want to see. That you have something to stand on. That she cant pull your every strings. But now is the perfect time to take everything you feel and put it into something. Express yours…
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:44 PM
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Have you ever had an intense emotional connection with someone in a day?
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:41 PM
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That's definitely top ranked. People are so direct nowadays, and they think it's transparency and vulnerability. But the ability to delay gratification makes or breaks attraction. It's effortless to lay it out all on the table. But look at those who let it build. To let the plump fruit fall on it's own. That's your Cassanova's, Russel Brand's, most desired figures. They understand the power of mystery.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:40 PM
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You don't want it easy. But they need to learn to make it easier. Seduction is a game of push and pull. The pursuer becomes the pursued, and eventually, vica versa. Men need to start initiating with less thought to think of the consequences because we over exaggerate the fears. Women need to understand the power they have over men when they approach. It's all fair game, as long as desire is involved.
/r/seduction06/06/25 09:25 PM
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Well, yeah. So far. I pick one girl I want even if I gotta wait the whole night. I can't choose someone with the same puzzle piece as me. We gotta fulfill some kinda need. And I don't fuck that night. Maybe not the week. I won't allow it cause the longer the wait the deeper she fantasizes.
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:20 AM
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All of them. But I play the long game.
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:15 AM
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This is good. I'd like to add. Sometimes that silence is necessary. It teaches the pursuer to chase as well. Seduction in it's true form is a dance. Push and pull.
/r/seduction29/05/25 09:07 PM
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I agree men need more female friends. But let's run it back turbo: Most men trying to make female friends turns them into accidental pursuers. Men get friend-zoned all the time. But once we do it, they want us! It's harder than it sounds. A man who disappears or is reserved around women doesn't by default make them fuckboys. Maybe they got things going on, maybe they're open to a certain energy they aren't getting, either way, this is just social skills, and that takes time. We're always approac…
/r/seduction26/05/25 03:34 PM
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Did u say it with enough skepticism?
/r/seduction22/05/25 01:42 AM
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What's your sign? With a skeptical intrigued look. Works every time.
/r/seduction21/05/25 06:10 PM
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First things first, get looks out your head. It attracts short term, but people who rely on it don't learn to develop their other qualities. Women's weakness is language. It is easier at a job, class, social event, cause you have more time to build attraction. Night clubs, definitely street approach. It can be a fast game. But I've had a fling with a business woman and a year long relationship with a girl off of tinder. Since then, I'd like to think anywhere there is woman, there's a chance to d…
/r/seduction21/05/25 05:13 PM
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Fire
/r/seduction21/05/25 12:04 AM
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Fax. Literally that's it. No one cares about your mental chess match. Talk. Learn. Repeat. That’s the game.
/r/seduction21/05/25 12:01 AM
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True. Sometimes it's about quality over quantity.
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:32 AM
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If we're talking seduction, this idea was passed around like wildfire amongst the greatest. "Talk to women, talk to women as much as you can. This is the best school. This is the way to gain fluency because you need not care what you say and had better not be sensible."
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:11 AM
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Pretty much haha. Well you can be a child if someone looking for a sugar baby lol
/r/seduction20/05/25 01:07 AM
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Welp, guess you gotta go outside to meet people again.
/r/seduction20/05/25 12:55 AM
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From the looks of it, the good news is it's likely just in your head. Performance anxiety will destroy any trouser tower. The mind and body are connected much more than we might think. All it takes is keeping calm, relaxed, and engaged in the moment. Focused on her. Don't expect a change overnight, especially if you use Cialis on the regular. But expect to feel more sensitive and stimulated over time. Should be easier since your girl seems to be real understanding about it. Keep knocking them an…
/r/seduction18/05/25 05:06 PM
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Clubs & bars are dope bro. And they have something for everybody. If you feeling bold, clubs. Like em cougar like? Upscale. But you gotta seduce those with time. But it's so much easier being a part of a group. Eventbrite meets Work Clubs But sometimes it's one question away from your cashier, who might fall in love. Just talk to women as much as possible. They invented seduction literally lol.
/r/seduction11/05/25 04:29 PM
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Terrible advice. I've met business partners, creatives, uhh fucking friends? But try making one of these girls your friend I promise they'll start slanging 🐱 all over you
/r/seduction11/05/25 04:24 PM
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They're testing your boundaries ! They want to possess you, whether they know it or not Whatever qualities you got is spurring them on 🥴 No regards to your personal space. But really no awareness. Some either don't see or care how you react, but the truth is, for as long as you are afraid to establish your own boundaries, you are telling them "this is fine", and so does your subconscious 🧠 It's up to you to decide how you want to use that attention to either make or break you.
/r/seduction11/05/25 03:16 AM
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Hell naw! Seduction thrives off mystery! Keep your superpowers! You'd be in their mind tenfold if you kept them wondering what your intentions were. We desire enigmas, and things we can't automatically get. You don't have to lie, but let your answers be ambiguous, and open to different interpretations. Keeping you on their mind is the game of seduction. And what better way than to make them work for your intentions? 😏
/r/seduction09/05/25 08:50 PM
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Congrats g. Meditation changed my life I'm sure it will yours too.
/r/seduction24/04/25 06:07 PM
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Don't kill it. That's free energy! There's people who wish they could be horny again. Don't shame yourself for being human. Redirect it productively. - Creative hobbies - Workout - Bars (No humping legs now. Just inflame women they can sense repression) - Yoga - Mindfulness meditation (To harness and control it) You're sitting on great superpowers, OP. Just for the love of god, don't waste it on porn.
/r/seduction23/04/25 09:27 PM
1

"How is head usually initiated for you?" Mayne this ain't algebra! We human beings! Intimacy is nothing to overthink. It's a feeling. Always has been, always will be. But it starts in quiet settings. And the temp rises through body language. No rational thought. No thinking of the consequences. Just getting lost in each other's company and going with the flow.
/r/seduction22/04/25 06:19 PM
3

Honestly, catch the momentum. EVERYBODY is waiting days to reply. Everyone plays the same game. It gets boring and predictable to them. Make a show of your difference. Women don't like a man who seems too in control of himself. Catch that momentum! Text her back today. This will boost her ego and she'll be more than happy to finally engage with a man whose already giving her the attention she's looking for. Keep that balance of course. Absense increases respect. But adapt with how she responds. …
/r/seduction21/04/25 12:41 AM
25

Deep down, your value was actually increased. Think about it. Why would she be mad if you weren't someone she was interested in? Your value came from those girls engaging, but not to her at that moment. Just how people with great power tend to have bigger egos, beautiful women tend to have more insecurities. They're always wondering if their charm is waning, and you going with the flow with that group drove a big ass nail in her coffin. ⚰️ Lol. She needed focus superglued to her. But it can be e…
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:32 AM
1

Goated.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:21 AM
1

Well said.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:13 AM
1

It depends on the girl! Some girls just wanna keep the adventure going. Video or board games, wine & pizza is a vibe for anybody buzzed. Some girls want to be conquered. Making some gesture of sacrifice to win her over feeds her vanity. Some girls want to lead *you*. Let her be the boss. Maybe her crib might be a dope change. But some girls like cheesy or corny. Its all up to you.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:08 AM
2

No master, yet a forever student. This dynamic is the very dance of seduction. Push, and pull. Too much niceties can come off as insecure. Women want a modest hardihood. A devilish gentleman. Every now and then, speak without much thought. Double down on your boldness. This is exciting to be around. Most importantly, give them space to miss you.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:00 AM
2

Most difficult? Just dance battle them! Play their game they wanna have a good time. Every time.
/r/seduction21/03/25 08:38 PM
2

Shes gonna trick you out if that's the case
/r/seduction26/12/24 03:01 AM
-1

Go for it! Might be a crazy love story to tell when y'all love locked.
/r/seduction26/12/24 02:57 AM
1

He got the point bro lol
/r/seduction22/12/24 11:55 PM
1

What are y'all seductive vampires? Day game, night game, people don't turn into werewolves they're still human! Lmao. The best game is to appeal to your interests vanity. Matching their energy subconsciously does this! • It's more about how you make them feel through the non-verbals. Recognize the weirdos. But be open to those you might be over reading. You'll be surprised the assholes end up being the dopest kindest people.
/r/seduction22/12/24 11:54 PM
-21

TLDR ... No for real I ain't read that shit
/r/seduction21/12/24 03:43 PM
3

Lost me at 3
/r/seduction18/12/24 02:55 AM
1

You made the right call. I would've done the same thing. That first move is classic. You won't escape it. Delaying plans sucks, but it builds anticipation and keeps you reactive. Responding back? You didn't fumble! You played it smart mirroring her same move. That's why she hit you again! Her ghosting a second time was just her trying to take the power back. You made her feel slighted and she's probably not used to it. But it was how quickly she ghosted again that tells me she might not be worth…
/r/seduction17/12/24 02:31 AM
1

I also get what you're saying. But that's fear of failure.
/r/seduction12/12/24 04:25 AM
32

Women invented seduction bro. We're playing their game lol
/r/seduction10/12/24 02:36 PM
5

You got a free program. The reprogram! Reprogram your mind to rely on action without thinking!
/r/seduction10/12/24 04:20 AM
3

Simple. Girls like mystery. Show some of your cards. Not all of them. Once they feel like you're locked, the chase stops being fun. Onto the next one! Give them a reason to keep coming back! Push and pull. The art of seduction.
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:17 PM
1

I could tell you get no 🐈
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:15 PM
1

It depends on the person.
/r/seduction09/12/24 08:35 PM
1

I like this answer!
/r/seduction08/12/24 04:22 AM
-1

Great start!
/r/seduction06/12/24 03:26 AM
1

You most certainly can rate yourself with a superb level of emotional intelligence, self awareness, and outside perspective. Also, ratings aren't limited to looks.
/r/seduction03/12/24 08:03 PM
3

We shouldn't have to create a new sub. The men on here should just understand that seduction isn't limited to men.
/r/seduction27/11/24 07:07 PM
0

That's hilarious lol. We just exposed some real racists look at those dislikes
/r/seduction27/11/24 02:01 PM
0

True. But insinuations are real. Whether it was a genuine question or not, "hood dude" ain't necessary at all.
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:39 PM
28

That's the first step in seduction. You'd approach them like you would any other woman. And a kid the ones who are trying to skip this phase. Those are the 🚩
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:19 AM
-6

That's racist as fuck bro. Tupac had a sweetheart side to him. Fuck outta this sub 🖕🏾
/r/seduction27/11/24 04:07 AM
2

Me: Do you know who you look like? Them: Who? Me: Nevermind... walks away Just achieved the intense level of chasing and validation- seeking men strive months for within 3 seconds. Good luck!
/r/seduction25/11/24 07:57 PM
2

Game!
/r/seduction25/11/24 07:54 PM
2

That's the name of the game. Don't give either of you time to reflect on the consequences. It sets the tone for the whole interaction. Night and day difference. 🌃⛅
/r/seduction25/11/24 03:01 AM
1

Try seducing woman you wouldn't typically. You'd be surprised. This how I met my wife lol.
/r/seduction23/11/24 06:10 AM
1

Mirroring is the apex and the sole strategy to every single person I've ever met. Anyone whose telling you otherwise is a fat ass fucking fraud 🤥
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:54 AM
0

This is singlehandedly the most inaccurate statement I've ever come across on here. You should be ashamed of yourself.
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:52 AM
2

I moved to Georgia for this reason lmao.
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:19 PM
7

Huh
/r/seduction21/11/24 09:04 AM
1

This the first time Im hearing that who said we believed that bullshit lol
/r/seduction19/11/24 09:25 PM
2

Beat those thoughts to the race!
/r/seduction19/11/24 03:42 PM
23

Fear of failure is already evidence of failure. The solutions easy. Don't give either of you time to think of the consequences. Just go. 👍
/r/seduction19/11/24 05:56 AM
2

Nothing to lose. What do you plan on saying?
/r/seduction14/11/24 02:05 AM
3

Leave her the hell alone if she's repulsed by you.
/r/seduction14/11/24 02:04 AM
2

Fuck! I'm a monster... What have I done???
/r/seduction14/11/24 01:34 AM
1

Women prefer a modest hardihood or a hearty modesthood
/r/seduction13/11/24 06:27 PM
1

You just discovered Hot & Cold 101! We desire things and people we can't have. And oldie but a goodie.
/r/seduction13/11/24 04:07 PM
2

It's just recycled advice. People regurgitate it without thinking about it. But it probably came from the number of people who failed at being able to handle that kinda relationship. In all honesty, seduction requires observing, fulfilling needs, and keeping the leverage. You can do this anywhere, including school, and jobs.
/r/seduction11/11/24 05:47 PM
1

It does when you play the quantity over quality game like most people on here. Even Casanova burnt himself out being a fuckboy. Seduction actually gives me life when I play the game how it's supposed to be played. Patient, ant invisible.
/r/seduction09/11/24 12:12 AM
5

Yes. It's called projection and we do it all the time unconsciously.
/r/seduction08/11/24 06:54 PM
6

✅🫡
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:33 AM
16

Well fuckin said. One day Imma get like u bro
/r/seduction07/11/24 10:18 PM
26

Key words used to. hehehe
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:21 PM
187

TLDR: Porn bad 👎 Talking to people good 👍
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:20 PM
1

Of course. Most people get rejected by a girl and feel hurt. I feel grateful she showed me how to treat the next one.
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:07 PM
1

• Analyze. • Assess. • Repeat. It starts to get fun the better you get at it.
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:38 PM
1

Negatory. Looks are short term amusements. Seduction lasts longer.
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:23 AM
2

True TLDR: Seeking sympathy and praise for my sob story of me being terribly inexperienced with women, despite my very realistic significant body count of 70. Did I mention I get pussy?
/r/seduction03/11/24 09:48 PM
2

True. Women invented seduction. I'd be curious too if my own game was being thrown at me.
/r/seduction03/11/24 12:01 AM
0

username checks out edit: put ur reply back the people wanna see it!
/r/seduction02/11/24 03:23 PM
4

I second this. woman want to be a part of the life you already have (or potentially will have) Fire quote. But let's not forget the women who need drama to stimulate them for emotional vulnerability. And there's the men out there who have the same needs and same willingness. Kendrick and Whitney lmao
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:29 PM
1

🥳🍾 damn how is it @ 250 already
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:18 PM
1

🥳🍾 damn how is it @ 250 already
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:18 PM
1

🥳🍾 damn how is it @ 250 already
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:17 PM
420

You discovered a basic rule of human nature! Absence increases respect. In all shapes, sizes, and sexes. If they're used to you being outgoing, that sudden distance keeps them on edge. They're likely wondering why the sudden change. Is it you? Is it them? Either way, you're on their mind and they're curious. That's the name of the game. Not deliberate mind games, but acceptance of seduction's natural dance. 🪩
/r/seduction01/11/24 11:55 PM
1

Yes! The mind & body are insanely more connected than we think. Take up more space with your body. It signals to your brain openness and comfort. I like to do a light stretch before my nightly shenanigans.
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:36 PM
1

That first sentence is just way off...
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:19 AM
206

TLDR: Money and looks? Who gives a fuck. Women really want to be lead. They’re looking for the guy who runs his own circus, calls the shots, and doesn’t beg for a seat at the table. Bottom line: Own your life, set the vibe, and stop asking for fucking permission. Women smell that confidence from Andromeda. Yeah you followed her on insta, but shes ready to follow the leader. p.s: good shit OP but DAMN your post was og mudbone long
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:04 PM
1

Two of my girlfriends were strippers! They were the sweetest souls 🥹
/r/seduction30/10/24 06:55 PM
1

Narcissism 101
/r/seduction30/10/24 04:54 PM
1

You don't get no 😹
/r/seduction30/10/24 04:44 PM
1

yeah but no cheap looking lights anything else lol
/r/seduction30/10/24 04:42 PM
31

Peep. Vanilla candles Scent plug in every room Crib spotless Drank on the nightstand (but let her bring it up) RGB anything Let her pick YouTube music while you massage her 👊🌇
/r/seduction30/10/24 02:30 AM
1

That's two different games. Ones the messenger, ones the shot caller.
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:56 AM
1

Translated: How do I find someone with the confidence, charisma, and presence I lack to seduce women for me?
/r/seduction29/10/24 02:28 AM
78

Lmao no. No girl is the same. Find out what SHE needs. And how you can tie it into yours. This should be the only thing consistent in your approaches. Fulfilled needs = 🐱
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:51 PM
1

It means true seduction is invisible to the seduced.
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:47 PM
10

This n°gga gets 🐱
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:56 PM
4

That mf part
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:56 PM
12

Dangerous Liaisons This dude was based off one of the greatest seducers of all time.
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:18 AM
1

okay fuck you too whoever downvoted me agreeing w/dude
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:42 AM
5

Mans got an internal gender ratio calculator on deck lol
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:32 PM
1

Fuck yeah
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:30 PM
2

Just get platform shoes. More comfortable!
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:22 AM
12

Imma put you on game game. Networking Events EVERYONE is there to talk and meet people. Nothing to fear.
/r/seduction21/10/24 02:58 AM
1

I too receive the best sun affection at OP's said mother's home.
/r/seduction21/10/24 02:57 AM
37

Let me guess... You approached a girl in the club, trying to catch a vibe, when some dude threw you off with his comment and got in your head. Yeah this happens, but it's not as common as rocks. I've gone out for years. Dudes will always try to throw you off take your attention away, etc... The name of the game is swift deflection, and disdain. If you give them attention, you give them power. If the girl sees you distracted, she won't be feeling you like that. If you're unfazed, completely ignor…
/r/seduction21/10/24 01:00 AM
1

wat
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:35 PM
1

The best Pixar movie yes
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:35 PM
1

🫰🫰🫰
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:34 PM
1

Start as slow as you can. Crumbs is still eating.
/r/seduction20/10/24 01:24 AM
2

It's good you know the problem. That's half the battle.
/r/seduction20/10/24 12:52 AM
1

Linguini took all Ratatouilles credit, and he was cool with it. 🤷‍♂️🐁👨‍🍳
/r/seduction19/10/24 07:32 PM
1

That's exactly right. You have the answers. Apply them!
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:26 PM
1

The source of the problem is that you feel miserable. Sadness can be seductive, but not when it's overbearing. You ever dig deep to the source of this fear?
/r/seduction19/10/24 06:19 PM
6

Good news! The key to long conversations is by being a great listener. Since you're already not much of a talker, it's perfect. Get them talking about what they could talk about for hours. Their dreams, interests, fantasies, binges... Throw in your own experiences, relating to them deeper. Recipe for success.
/r/seduction19/10/24 05:49 PM
1

🎯
/r/seduction19/10/24 05:22 PM
-1

They can be successful. But there's a difference between learning how to cook on YouTube, and from a chef. Granted the chef can cook lol.
/r/seduction19/10/24 04:14 PM
1

Interesting. Imma look into it. The biggest lie we've been told is that pain is bad.
/r/seduction19/10/24 03:20 PM
2

Say that self aware line louder for those in the back.
/r/seduction19/10/24 03:06 PM
98

TLDR Two years, 10-15 women, and somehow I wrangled an hour of convo. No hookups? No problem! Welcome to my friend zone trophy collection! Here’s the truth: Quality over quantity – Skip the rejections. Pick your targets and pray for a miracle. Those “no’s” hit harder than a hangover. Location > pickup line – okay I actually agree with this one
/r/seduction19/10/24 01:34 AM
1

Be outer directed. People often respond to the energy you give them. Go out, be fearless, make eye contact, MIRROR MOODS. We speak a second language. Body language. Prioritize this over everything else and the difference will be 🌌 and ⛅
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:39 AM
4

So don't use it as one.
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:44 AM
1

😂😂
/r/seduction17/10/24 11:51 PM
1

Facts. Can't stand when people become friends, it doesn't go anywhere, and they blame it on the "friend" dynamic. That's my first step. The longer you take, the deeper the relationship can be. Directness works. But being able to turn a friend into a lover? True seduction.
/r/seduction17/10/24 03:16 PM
3

Well done. Well spoken.
/r/seduction15/10/24 08:25 PM
2

This dude gets pussy I just know it
/r/seduction15/10/24 08:00 PM
1

I know there's a college in your city!
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:56 PM
2

It's not that he doesn't take you seriously. Quite the opposite actually. He just knows the cards to play to get you thinking about him. Spontaneous dates? Creating triangles? Elusive maneuvers? Those scream seductive gymnastics. I'm the same way lol. Why he does this? You may not be the easiest to grasp, so he plays it less familiar to keep your interest. It's not as horrific as people make it seem to be. This is just human nature, and we all do it to some degree. Might be overplaying his part …
/r/seduction15/10/24 07:39 PM
2

I approve of this message. 🫡
/r/seduction15/10/24 12:16 AM
1

Never. Keep her guessing. It's more exciting that way for her.
/r/seduction14/10/24 10:12 PM
1

I'm on both of your sides. You should keep playing it bold/nonchalant. Super subtle. But yeah asking when to make out like it's a doctor's appointment is crazy work lol. Just set up the date to link, but let her know you'll only kiss her if you like her vibe. This way, she won't know what'll happen until you both link up. And you're encouraging 'good' behavior. You create space for uncertainty, mystery. That's the excitement she's looking for. 🔥
/r/seduction14/10/24 08:58 PM
2

For the most part, u cooked!
/r/seduction14/10/24 08:51 PM
12

Wanna know how I met one of my girlfriends? "I hate the fact that we're strangers."
/r/seduction14/10/24 08:50 PM
4

Bro, Cleopatra is the inventor of seduction. We're playing their game 😂
/r/seduction14/10/24 05:38 AM
1

Keep her guessing It's better.
/r/seduction13/10/24 11:29 AM
22

And guys say the friendzone doesn't get you anywhere... Lol you just completed what other guys work months for in a single night. Capitalize! Drop hints of your interest in women. Keep them guessing. But don't make it obvious. Honestly, they might not even think you're gay. Maybe they just like your vibe. Either way, build that trust, and find what they love to talk about. You don't know how many times I've 'good listened' my way into 🐱
/r/seduction11/10/24 09:51 PM
0

Go out, meet people, have fun! Women are forever the best teachers. You gotta be fearless. Let them correct you and reject you. They're shaping you into the man they desire. The only correct way is to try. The only wrong way is to never try.
/r/seduction11/10/24 07:23 PM
2

Platform shoes.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:12 PM
1

Love hurts
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:10 PM
1

Tell that to Stephen Hawkings wife lol
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:08 PM
6

>! The one that fed your ego I'm not surprised lol !< This the one!
/r/seduction11/10/24 06:29 AM
27

• Maybe their paternal instincts kicking in wanting to help. • Maybe walking sleep deprived makes you look crazy as hell. • Maybe you're a bit more chill and relaxed when tired. But it's probably a bit of a 3 hit combo here.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:46 AM
17

He's just talking to them he's not putting a ring on their finger chill lol He's working Chick Fil A drive through for a day.
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:16 AM
1

If you invited them, pay for the bill. Show them they're at least worth a meal If they invited you, let them pay, or offer to split it. If they insist on paying, they're a keeper
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:36 AM
0

You went to one yoga class and left with: "Yup. All yoga classes are filled with old people not for me." Like yoga is exclusive to people in their 40s. you know what imma shut up before someone soft bans me
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:20 AM
7

It's AI drunk at 4 in the morning
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:16 AM
3

The friendzone isn't a trap. It's the first step in real seduction. I'm sick of explaining this I'm going to sleep. 💤
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:11 AM
1

Don't give away the sauce! A fourth of this is more than enough. Give them something, but make it stir their curiosity. Stand out and liven up the tone a bit. You'll be golden.
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:11 AM
6

🫵😂
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:19 PM
45

Flirting is the most effective through subtle gestures. Not so much direct words. Why? Because we speak through the body first. And it's the most exciting form of seduction. A glance here, an indirect gesture there, and yeah, maybe an ambiguous comment sometime to surprise them. The name of the game is all about reading signs. No person is the same, therefore no approach should be either. Let loose, experiment, and be surprised. Cause this shit works like a charm. ✨
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:18 PM
1

Moving blankets! Or acoustic foam and pin it to your wall
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:20 AM
1

Oversimplified truth.
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:57 PM
1

It's not about being dominant and masculine. That's the issue. It was never about you. It's more about them. Outerdirectedness: What do they want? What are their needs? What is their body saying that their words aren't? The one thing that's been consistent with all the greatest seducers in history such as Casanova, Don Juan, Errol Flynn, and Cleopatra, was their ability to deeply observe, mirror others moods, and keep them surprised. That's a real man. At least, how they'd describe you if you ca…
/r/seduction08/10/24 06:39 PM
1

Beautiful
/r/seduction08/10/24 06:34 PM
2

That's a wild oversimplification of human behavior 😂
/r/seduction08/10/24 04:21 PM
1

Hey bebe, you read books?
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:21 PM
1

Hey, I do this! To be honest, it was to this girl who came across as cold. This is just the way I slowly build rapport. I might have small talk every now and then. But know they longer the take, the greater their interest. As was mine 😌 you can say hi too you know maybe you're just too cute for his eyes to fathom.
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:44 PM
2

hit her with that rizz
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:39 PM
0

🍿
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:02 AM
1

just let us know when it's out sounds sick
/r/seduction07/10/24 06:20 AM
1

dudes legit. he's a programmer
/r/seduction07/10/24 06:19 AM
4

That's everyone. Somebody's got a preference. 😉
/r/seduction07/10/24 06:10 AM
1

These comments will always be the answer lol
/r/seduction07/10/24 05:51 AM
5

I'm super bold and don't take it serious. My strategy is to go for any reply to get a reaction. Any emotion is better than boring. I've never sent the same message twice. Night & day.
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:53 PM
4

Lol
/r/seduction06/10/24 05:51 PM
-1

Performance anxiety. 🥴 I deal with this strangely. Hear me out: Run in the opposite direction. Next time you're with someone and you see a baddie, willfully try to make it as awkward as possible. Even exaggerate the awkwardness or call it out. People can sense what you're doing and will actually find it amusing. Those nerves turn into a weird charisma. On my good days I'm smooth. But if those nerves creep in, this is what I resort to. Never seems to fail.
/r/seduction05/10/24 09:33 PM
1

PREACH
/r/seduction05/10/24 08:51 PM
0

Get you a sugar momma. Both problems solved 😎
/r/seduction05/10/24 08:05 PM
5

lol fr
/r/seduction04/10/24 11:13 PM
3

It's not so black and white. Too much talking can though.
/r/seduction04/10/24 09:50 PM
2

Oh yeah you don't even gotta try if you're famous lol.
/r/seduction04/10/24 09:49 PM
2

That right. Supply and demand is the exact same philosophy.
/r/seduction04/10/24 09:48 PM
1

Not really. But sometimes. Girls show interest when: 🔸They're interested in you 🔸They want something bought 🔸They're pushing comfort zones 🔸They just feel like it 🔸They wanna turn you down or make fun of you for their ego Not all "making fun of" is bad. Some are playful because they like you. You just gotta get good at reading the signs.
/r/seduction04/10/24 04:49 PM
1

Lol 💯
/r/seduction04/10/24 04:35 PM
3

I moved to a new city by myself. I cut off my socials too. It got real lonely. But if I wanted to connect to people, I was forced to go out. To this day I'm out minimum 5 days a week I love it.
/r/seduction04/10/24 08:08 AM
4

Kiss her earlobe. No bullshit. It's like a red button. and give her hickeys everywhere
/r/seduction04/10/24 03:28 AM
263

Its less about being ignored. It's more about raising your perceived value and making them feel like they could lose you. We only appreciate things when they're gone. Those moments where we pull back are intended to make her chase. Oh, and for clarity they don't like it. They just prefer it to neediness. They want to earn their man not win him.
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:35 AM
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That's inspiring let's go 💎 Georgia!
/r/seduction04/10/24 01:10 AM
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No these are just people I met last night that wanted to follow me.
/r/seduction03/10/24 09:29 PM
4

My dawg
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:47 PM
8

Don't even have the app I use the browser for that reason lol
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:47 PM
3

😂😂😂 probably both
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:46 PM
1

That last move she pulled was shiesty. Bad news: She's playing with you at this point. Good news: She's playing with you cause she wants you to want her. Classic hot and cold. Your best defense is to do that shit back. A taste of their own medicine never fails 💊.
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:39 PM
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There's gonna be more girls than her there. If you had dibs, she's yours. If your friend did, go talk to the other girls. Brocode. Or if you and your friend are cool like that, let her choose. 😎
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:34 PM
1

In seduction it's more about them. Who is their ideal lover and what are their needs? Are you solely providing them or not? It has nothing to do with short term or superficial qualities. Study her, mirror her moods, and keep her surprised. That's the name of the game.
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:17 PM
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That's cute. The taboo side of it only makes it more exciting for you two. He clearly likes you. Push those waters. They look promising. By the way, he knows exactly what he's doing. His allure didn't just come out of thin air. Knowing this should give you more confidence! As far as authority, sounds like you don't mind it too much. Just make sure your lines aren't being crossed.
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:06 PM
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Oh shit not bad lol.
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:02 PM
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"Will this ruin my reputation?" If you want your reputation to be a passive introvert who never takes risks, wants to be alone forever, and cares about what other people think, then yes. You approaching those people will ruin your chances of becoming a lint-licking lopsided repulsive loser thunder fuck. How should you do it? Don't think about it too hard. Once you catch eyes, go. What you say doesn't matter nearly as much as how you say it and how it makes them feel. Now go out there and talk to…
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:45 PM
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True story. 2nd grade. Her name was Delilah. My friend told her I liked her. I wasn't prepared for it, but she came up to me. I tried my best to go with the flow. But my body took that shit too seriously.
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:31 PM
6

what I woke up to
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:29 PM
0

Bro cooked
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:30 PM
1

Pretty much same game. What's most important is when you meet someone new, that you act on impulse. You almost immediately always infect them with the energy you initiate with. If you come relaxed, easygoing, no hesitation, as if you've known them for years, they'll fall under your spell. This shit works like 🧈 .
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:25 PM
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Baby Shark URGENT EDIT: MAY CAUSE SEVERE VEHEMENT CHICKEN CHOKING IN PUBLIC
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:17 PM
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The best way is to be aware of it. And you're already there. You know it's a problem. Now next time a girl comes along, dial it back a little. Maybe even some push & pull. Weirdly, if she senses you're trying to keep cool in her presence, she'll see through it but find it really attractive. Don't overdo it. Play your cards right, and this kind of weakness can really work in your favor.
/r/seduction03/10/24 05:51 PM
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Overexposure. Think of it like a snowball on a mountain. 🏔️ You wanna build momentum. Let the rest take care of itself. I started by going to the clubs by myself. Not even talking to anyone. Just sitting looking "weird". I did this until going out felt as natural as chilling in my living room. Good News: I don't give a fuck. And it draws people to me. Cause that shit is rare. Bad News: I don't give a fuck. Men envy me women find me refreshing. I brawl more than I should lol. But if that don't ti…
/r/seduction03/10/24 05:35 PM
1

Play party games. 😸 Say you'll give them a free shot if they can guess your age. Plot twist: Tell everyone they're wrong. But don't reveal your real age. Now all these girls are gonna mingle and ask around about you trying to figure it out all night. If that ain't Rizz, P. Diddy is our lord and Savior.
/r/seduction03/10/24 05:22 PM
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Casanova was a master of open relationships. As long as they know, and you're unapologetic, it's fair game. Have fun.
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:39 AM
1

What's your favorite product in this store? Let him ramble for 30 minutes he'll fall in love with you.
/r/seduction02/10/24 07:43 AM
1

What he said
/r/seduction01/10/24 09:32 PM
1

Don't let this one define your failure. She may have been going through something. Grain of salt.
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:34 PM
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If cold approaching is about meeting strangers off the street, warm approaching is about slowly taking over their mind. 'By chance' in the vicinity of someone Exchanging small words at a time Establishing a friendship Not showing any signs of sexual interest to start When you are engaged, mirroring and observing This is the ultimate essence of seduction. It's not swift lackluster connects that lead to nothing. It's the art of making people fall in love with you. Keeping you lingering in their th…
/r/seduction01/10/24 08:10 PM
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Just clarifying, you are doing nothing wrong by making her laugh hysterically. That is an extremely rare quality, and you should use it if you have it.
/r/seduction01/10/24 07:59 PM
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Of course not. Look at snoop dogg. It's about confidence. Outerdirectedness. You didn't lose it. It's within you. Slowly uncover it every day. It's a skill just like riding a bike or working out is. Focus on how people feel around you. You're gold.
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:39 PM
2

That shit was hilarious lol
/r/seduction30/09/24 11:28 PM
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Just push and pull. All it is is not making yourself too easy.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:58 AM
2

Oh you got it easy! Hit her with the volleyball, then pretend it wasn't you Playful shit talk High five her when she makes a good play High five her friends when they make a good play Play group icebreakers She'll hate and love you after the fourth one lol.
/r/seduction30/09/24 05:56 AM
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I embraced it. It ended up being my source of attraction. Andy Warhol would throw exclusive parties in his flat and every huge Hollywood star was there, mingling, getting into shenanigans, etc. Andy would just stand alone on the corner. Making the smallest small talk. Keeping arms length. Everyone would rip their hair out trying to get his attention. Moral of the story: Where social people win in warm interaction, quiet people win in mystery and intrigue.
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:45 AM
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Yes. Good. Affirmative.
/r/seduction29/09/24 09:42 PM
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It only helps. People want what other people want. If you're mingling with girls, and others start to notice, they'll want in on the action. They might be thinking "What's to him?" or "What does she have that I don't?" Play this up unapologetically. Unless you found the one vibe you want for the night. That's where you play it cool.
/r/seduction29/09/24 08:55 PM
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Hesitation is an obstacle created by timidity. If you move fast, not only do you not give yourself time to think of the consequences, but them either. And that's the kinda shit to make people fall in love.
/r/seduction29/09/24 01:41 PM
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Baby step that mf. I'm talking tiny. Accidentally bump into someone "sorry" Ask the bartender for a water Catch eyes with a girl and smile Seduction works like a snowball. It thrives off momentum. Just start the spec and let it unfold. Who knows what the night can turn into.
/r/seduction29/09/24 11:11 AM
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Good shit OP. 💯 Let me make sure I got it right: You’re "putting in effort" but still striking out with women because you're not really doing enough. Watching videos, reading blogs, and trying a few approaches isn’t gonna cut it. Real improvement demands serious time and energy, consistent practice, and actual analysis. Here’s why you’re failing: Passive effort: Reading and watching doesn’t count. You need real-world action. Inconsistent practice: Trying a few times and giving up won’t get you a…
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:24 PM
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🔸1. The game in clubs isn't about seeing whose single or not. Most people there are trying to get freaky. It's about having fun and embracing uncertainty. 🔸2. Some women set their price too high true. You gotta find that balance. Not easy enough to be unnoticed, but not stubborn enough to be repulsive. 🔸3. You don't have to approach. The game in clubs is not universal. You can create your own game. Only interacting with those who approach you. You like the upper hand. Play that card. Be the sedu…
/r/seduction28/09/24 10:08 PM
2

Ask one a fun question about the other. Itl have them both engaged. Or after saying hi, have them guess your age.
/r/seduction28/09/24 09:19 PM
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Mistakes made through boldness can be corrected with more boldness.
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:56 PM
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"No." Is attention. Nothing is disdain. 🔑
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:51 PM
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Oh bro... If we just met, or especially if they don't know my name, I act disgusted and completely ignore them. They flip their shit. These people thrive off of favors and attention, and probably get it all the time. They don't know how to handle a disruptor. Especially when you flip the script. They feel so ugly afterwards. Sometimes, they've even bought me drinks just so I'd speak to them again lol. Get your power back Kings.
/r/seduction28/09/24 08:30 PM
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Scorpio
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:56 PM
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Welcome to the club! This has been my lifestyle for several years. It's easier than you think. • First, realize solo is your superpower. It creates mystery. • Have great eye contact, and approach those who return it. • Use gradual light touches and adapt to their moods. • Remember names and listen more than you speak. • Don't be afraid to show you can vibe alone at times. You're dolo in the club mingling, dancing, vibing, and everyone's gonna notice, cause that's not your everyday confidence.
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:48 PM
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Very.
/r/seduction27/09/24 04:19 PM
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First things first, give yourself time to process those emotions. 😔 If not, flirting's gonna feel like treading through mud. ••• Once you're ready, flirting is most effective indirect and non-verbal. A glance here, offhand comment here, touch there... It's those subtleties dropped as hints that make the most impact. Over text, it's a similar game, without the physicality. The goal of seduction is to keep you in their mind. - Send mixed signals. - Hype hidden qualities. - Vary your reply times. K…
/r/seduction27/09/24 01:49 AM
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Then let her think that and show her you're not. Who doesn't love a surprise lol
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:38 AM
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Hell yeah! They love when you know the specifics. It makes them feel understood and helps you stand out. Don't stop there! You don't like her red nails... You love her ruby stilettos. 💅
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:23 AM
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If this sounds unrealistic to you, Imma be kind bruh. You need affection.
/r/seduction26/09/24 09:11 PM
3

Feel free
/r/seduction26/09/24 08:01 PM
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I haven't gone on a "date" in years. If it is a "date", it's us hanging out doing date things but not putting a label on it. Why? Cause for some reason, when they don't know your intentions, they're so much more interested. Go on your "dates". But don't call them that. Let circumstance define your relationship. 😉
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:35 PM
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Some doors that seemed bolted shut end up being the most welcoming ones. I don't bother looking for signs, cause they're arbitrary most of the time. Don't judge off appearance. Just go! Worst that happens shes not interested. Move on. Best that happens, y'all working more out than y'all muscles.
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:42 PM
1

That's on me. You probably got an energy to you you're not aware of. Good cause you get positive reactions. Bad cause you can capitalize on this effect by being aware.
/r/seduction26/09/24 05:16 PM
1

Why would those be weird and awkward? I wanna help but not if you're seeking validation.
/r/seduction26/09/24 04:16 PM
1

Not every time... damn near impossible. But I've been going out weekly for the past fucking decade. Man it's the SAME game over and over again. Study all the non-verbals Catch eyes, approach Get them talking non-stop and mirror their every mood Create some nearby competition They just want to be the one you pursue. The games over at this point. If you are comfortable in your skin, nothing is stopping you. Except for "trich" from somebody. I caught it for the first time last year. It's a fever on…
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:43 AM
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LA is the place to mingle. Try hitting up the beach, bars, gyms, and ongoing events. ° Take advantage of your limited time. You won't ever see these people again remember that. ° Approach swiftly and with style. The first impression always sets the tone. ° Make it known you don't have much time there. Well, only if you're looking for an eventful night. Most importantly, have fun. Don't forget to enjoy the city for you too. Now get out there and cause havoc! and save some for me cause I'm in LA t…
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:07 AM
5

You say you can't stop being needy because, you haven't seen success. You must learn to love yourself before you can learn to love others.
/r/seduction25/09/24 10:33 PM
2

Tell her "If I catch you again tomorrow Imma think you're tryna set up a coffee date."
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:37 PM
4

Anywhere. It's cold as FUCK in Toronto.
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:13 PM
3

Seduction is patient. Impatience shows you're thinking more about your needs than theirs. Get him to establish a friendship. Nothing sexual. She has a mind and is probably shy because people don't tend to value that side to her. She'll eventually trust the one who does. Either you're a really good friend, or a really questionable wingman lol.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:55 PM
5

I haven't even read the post yet I was looking for this comment
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:51 PM
2

Dick too big, might kill somebody.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:35 PM
1

So why are you asking for guidance if you know how to handle it
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:33 PM
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Get her to talk. Be a great listener. You want the physical touch. She might want some mental stimulation beforehand. Meet her halfways.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:55 AM
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Maybe you had a degree of calmness. But I think there was some truth to what she was saying. The best way to touch a girl is to be in tune with her moods. Focus on her. It's easier to stay natural. When those times to touch come, it'll almost feel mindless. You two won't have to think about it cause you're on the same wave. Keep riding that wave to intimacy, fellow Redditor.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:35 AM
3

Mirror their moods. They feel like shit testing? Test them back.
/r/seduction25/09/24 02:57 AM
4

Be outer directed. It's about them. What do they need? How do you make them feel? To be attractive is to be attracted.
/r/seduction25/09/24 01:21 AM
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It's pretty much the same game. There's some generational differences of course. Some very bold things 20 yr olds do might not translate well to the 40s crowd. The good news is you have the upper hand. Seduction, especially as you get older, is a game of patience. The longer you take, the more interest you show in someone. 20 year old are much more keen to short relationships. But again, same game. Study the person Mirror their moods Provide the needs they signal through their body and words Thi…
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:17 PM
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Yup, should be common, but it isn't. Here's the order of what we register the most: Non-verbal body language Tone/delivery of words Word context Seduction is largely a primal game. It's the most exciting form.
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:41 AM
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Stephen Hawking was adored by many women. The difference is you can talk lol. You have unique skills that are your source of power. Focus on this first, and your circumstance will be pleasantly overlooked by women who value a much deeper side to you.
/r/seduction24/09/24 08:32 AM
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How To Be A Fuckboy 😈 ~ source: a boy who fucks ♦️ Create Triangles | Even a girl who rejects you initially feels the sting of losing your attention to someone else. Make it obvious, so she feels insecure enough to travel back. ♦️ Hot & Cold | Not even dogs like owners who are too nice. Play the sweet, then sour out of nowhere cycle. She'll think it has something to do with her and will start to pursue you anxiously. ♦️ Don't Apologize | For what? If she doesn't like what you said or did, she ca…
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:47 AM
1

Yeah bro it's annoying. But it should be a weird flattery. They're only doing that cause they envy something about you. Something you got that they don't have. The key is finding people who hype up those qualities in you and aren't intimidated by them.
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:17 AM
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Here's ways to demonstrate value: Relaxed demeanor Confident tone and gestures Social engagement with others (especially other women) Great listening skills Dapper clothing Comfortable walk All this aside, women value different things. The best value to demonstrate is whatever the girl seems to enjoy. Listen, observe, and provide.
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:04 AM
1

Bro cooked! Intentions part? Eh. I get further keeping her guessing.
/r/seduction24/09/24 06:58 AM
1

Comfortably close. Just try not to overdo it if she isn't feeling it. And that's exactly right.
/r/seduction24/09/24 06:56 AM
1

It's when you keep poking back into each other's space to talk. It's better when you really don't have to move at all to speak.
/r/seduction24/09/24 02:21 AM
1

Mirroring works wonders. Her verbal context clues can get complex. We have mirror neurons we use all the time. They can do more than just play monkey see monkey do. You can even sense someone's emotional state. Ways of thinking. Their character. You must completely get out of your own mind and into the persons spirit. You'll find it a strange intuitive new sense and likely come upon what she might be thinking. And even better, how to make her think of what you want.
/r/seduction24/09/24 01:05 AM
1

True
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:58 AM
1

You can talk in clubs. It becomes a problem if you're "pecking". I have a very soft spoken voice. If she wants to hear me, I gotta lean in real close to her ear and speak. This close, I can even whisper over loud music. Pair this with physical touch it's game over. + But to ultimately answer your question: Girls will hook up with the man who is bold, defenseless, swift, and completely unfazed by the consequences. Whatever those natural qualities are in you, draw them out, put them into practice,…
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:53 AM
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I see what you're going for. React shocked at something they said that can be interpreted as sexual Use subtle gestures to convey a sensuous vibe over words Use physical touches Accidentally reveal something provocative meant to surprise them Make an off hand comment here and there (after establishing comfort) Sparingly show intense desire in your eyes + The most effective way to communicate ideas is through our non-verbals. Especially erotic ones. Not because sexuality has to be repressed, but …
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:44 AM
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No worries, here you go: Gym Yoga class City sports team (might be your jam) Networking event Speed dating Places with cashiers Jobs Church Park Rec Center Festival Don't rule out clubs! You're only creepy if you feel that way. Get loose and lost in the vibe. You'll attract more than you'll repel.
/r/seduction23/09/24 11:10 PM
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Let's start here. That fear of rejection? Holding you back more than you think. That fear is already evidence of failure. There's only one way out of it. Be outer directed. Get rid of those thoughts in your head wondering if she likes you or if you look presentable. Replace them with thoughts of her. What she needs. Her dreams, what excites her, what makes her tick, etc... You'll naturally be more comfortable and relaxed this way. She will be too with your new focused attention. + The physical g…
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:41 PM
1

Ah, my friend. You are what they call a Rake. Peep this: A woman never quite feels desired and appreciated enough. She wants attention, but a man is too often distracted and unresponsive. The Rake is a great female fantasy figure—when he desires a woman, brief though that moment may be, he will go to the ends of the earth for her. He may be disloyal, dishonest, and amoral, but that only adds to his appeal. Unlike the normal, cautious male, the Rake is delightfully unrestrained, a slave to his lo…
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:25 PM
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Fax. And they're sick wingmen. Her: "Oh my God! 🥰 What's his name?" You: "His name is Anytime. And he said he needs your number for business reasons."
/r/seduction23/09/24 10:05 PM
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The first thing is to take accountability. Good shit. All this means is she wasn't sold on your vibe yet. Women don't want an asshole, they want a courteous lion. Bold, yet gentlemen like. Patient, yet swift when the time comes. + Free game: Let her wonder what your intentions are, rather than seeking labels. It'll keep you in her mind. The essence of seduction.
/r/seduction23/09/24 09:58 PM
1

They're called mixed signals. Why? Because they work. How to deal with it? Do the same thing to them. I'm going to bed.
/r/seduction23/09/24 06:35 PM
2

What he said. Girls have sacrificed relationships to see somebody. I doubt our 9th month of the year is the culprit.
/r/seduction23/09/24 06:32 PM
8

Keep it a mystery. Women love surprises.
/r/seduction23/09/24 06:23 PM
1

Start with light touches as you talk. Test the waters, take it slow, and see her reaction. Try it when telling jokes too. It's called anchoring. Makes her associate those positive vibes to you. The more these vibes, the more her hands may wanna go places.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:42 PM
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It's better to keep them guessing. You aren't a bad person for using time to feel someone's vibe. Not all relationships have to be defined. If they have to question your intentions, they're thinking about you. The quickest way to her legs is her mind.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:32 PM
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Women love men. They just sometimes love when men hate them. It's better that than be ignored. Out feelings are engaged. Uh oh, that's how attraction starts. Imma put y'all on game if y'all didn't know. Cleopatra is the inventor of seduction. She used men's games against them and made them needy. + Let's cut to the titty sprinkles. We game the same way they game. Mirror them. Push and pull. Find their soft spot. The true art of seduction.
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:18 AM
2

Imma put you on game with this one. "I hate the fact that we're strangers." Lights up their faces every time.
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:11 AM
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Best sub on reddit for sure
/r/seduction21/09/24 09:59 PM
1

This is the answer. Make sure y'all on the same 📃
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:24 PM
3

It's a dance floor. No one's there to talk. Dance your way into the crowd and make eye contact. As soon as you catch eyes with someone, do something. Anything. You gotta be swift or it won't work. You'd be surprised what a sudden bold move can do.
/r/seduction21/09/24 12:19 PM
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You know those thoughts that are like "I wonder what she thinks of me" or "I hope she likes me." Replace them with thoughts like "I wonder what excites her" or "What's her current vibe right now?" It's read unconsciously and works wonders.
/r/seduction21/09/24 04:05 AM
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It started when I got someone talking about something for hours. I had a crush on them. But after that, they became super attached. Sometimes too much so. It led me down a wormhole to the base of what attraction is. And 95% of it is outer directed.
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:27 AM
2

You want the click? I got you. This changed my life: Stop worrying about what you want and worry about they need.
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:00 AM
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If it makes you feel better I go out and interact with tens of people a night. I still have no fucking clue how to text women.
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:58 AM
8

bro cooked
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:57 AM
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Sounds like a lot on your plate. Your feelings are valid. This is my insight. First, I learned that my down feelings are my body's way of telling me something needs to change. This was mainly when I was surrounded by fake friends, dependent on authority, sailing far, but not knowing where to. + Change gave me clarity. Moved to a new city solo to start over. Worked plenty jobs until I found the one that could support my vision. Now I work for myself. I took plenty time alone to reflect and heal. …
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:36 PM
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If you assert yourself to a woman, it means you aren't a pushover. Look who she lets herself be seduced by. They're not worried about becoming the bad guy. And it's devilishly seductive.
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:48 PM
1

Still worth going. Being social is being social. Everyone has a unique world worth exploring.
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:46 PM
2

Well, you like her for a reason. Maybe you even like a feisty side to her. But not too crazy. Show her you won't put up with it if it gets too much. She'll either get the message and dial it back, or turn it up a notch. That's when it's time to go for good.
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:45 PM
1

Your game shouldn't be how to talk. It should be how to listen. People love talking about themselves. That attention they receive is rare so it's appreciated. When you do talk, ask open ended questions. The "whys". You'll go a lot further giving others that stage than taking it your own.
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:42 PM
1

You should absolutely go to that bar on the weekend. I suffered with social anxiety growing up. Moved to a new city by myself to get out of it. That's exactly how I started. Going out by myself, looking awkward as fuck in the corner, not vibing. It's been a year since. I meet new friends every night. And these nights aren't Bible study. I learned that me being solo was what actually drew people to me. Don't worry about the start. Keep going out till it feels comfortable. Kinda feels like home to…
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:20 AM
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It's not about keeping happy in those moments. It's about staying calm and confident. Not being afraid of confrontation. If someone is staring at you crazy, call them out! "Wassup bro are you good?" See girls you wanna talk to? Just talk to them! They'll admire you more for being the brave one to approach. Life is not about keeping everyone satisfied. It's about your own well-being and making sure you aren't letting fears ruin the pleasures this life has.
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:59 PM
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It's more common than you think. You're probably in your own zone. Being reserved long-term is where there's a problem. Building relationships and attraction is vital for a good life. 95% of our day involves people. People skills are key. We're social creatures. We weren't meant to ride solo forever. Stay focused, but realize the value of networks and the pleasure from affection.
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:43 PM
1

You discovered the superpower to not be an asshole congrats!
/r/seduction19/09/24 06:42 PM
5

The #1 school is women. Talk to woman as much as you can. And never be upset when they correct you. They are crafting the perfect seducer out of you. The number one fear you must actively work against is fear of rejection. The only thing holding you back.
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:03 AM
2

All the time!
/r/seduction19/09/24 01:50 AM
1

This is how I started yes! With strangers, you can initially be more direct. If it sparks a conversation, those increments are good practice. They'll only be weirded out if it looks too obvious. Trains are nice. And that's a great reason to practice it.
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:31 AM
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Seduction is like magnets. The tides change sometimes. Just make sure you aren't being too repellant. Pull back and let her come to you. 🧲
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:58 PM
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Seduction is a game of push and pull. You have to show you're not always available if you wanna keep your respect. Leaving, even without a quick reason, shows you aren't needy and aren't bound physically and socially. It feels uncomfortable because you might not be confrontational. Understandable. But there's worse to be feared by not playing it cold every now and then.
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:47 PM
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Try this! Look at them 3 seconds, then look at something else for 5. Switch it up so you don't look like a 🤖. If they're gesturing, look at their hands to show you're still engaged. Wanna play it cool? Talk to them without looking. It's off-putting, but intriguing. Start slow. It's the only way to start. 🦥
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:39 PM
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"Hello" is fine. It gives you room to read her and get you two talking. I'm more of a non-verbal man myself. Hey, it's our primary language. At night, bold and respectfully handsy. Sidewalks anywhere, swift and unique. Service workers, comedic and quirky. Public transit, calm, collected, content. + Right huge network at college. You could really sparingly use all of these there. What's more important is who, and what their vibe is.
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:17 PM
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Trippin homie
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:02 PM
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He was probably set on a mood the other girls weren't feeling. Or maybe they just wanted to dance. If he and the one girl seemed to click fast, she might've liked the non-verbals and the energy from him.
/r/seduction18/09/24 10:01 PM
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Game and Seduction are two different games + Game is fast seduction. Quick attention, charm, boldness. Seduction by nature is patient. Vague. The longer you take, the more interest you show. Both skills are valuable. You need to know how and when to be affectionate & daring, and when to be passive and non-committal. + That dude got an edge with that mutual interest. It set the tone for the rest of their relationship. He took the slow route. His game was his swift casual approach. Nothing too cra…
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:45 PM
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Bro I'm so glad you asked this haha! I've been going out solo for 10 years. Here's what I learned was best. Keep them guessing. They came to you for a reason. They were curious and you should double down on that. I've lied, told the truth, but mainly danced around it. What's more important is that your reply doesn't sound defensive. They'll love you if you do it right. I'm on week 2 tonight I wish you luck if you wish mine 😁🌆😈
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:59 PM
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Sure. Listen more than you speak Match the energy of who you're engaged with Pair your interactions with physical touch Play hot and cold to keep them intrigued Either act right away or not at all Remember and say their name often Eye contact Just that first one will change the game for you. Try different environments to meet new characters. Go get em 🧯
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:18 PM
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Apologizing probably wasn't your best move. It's better she's mad at you than numb. Keep playing that card. But switch it to pleasure shortly after. We all love a mystery. She's just painfully curious. Dance around it, even ask her something to throw her off. She'll be intrigued by your audacity to double down.
/r/seduction18/09/24 11:20 AM
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100%. People absolutely reciprocate the vibe you bring. It's primitive and our mirror neurons are engaged all the time. I like to decompress often throughout my day. Meditation, weed, reading, walking... It really helps me keep calm and content. Breaks are very important. Burnout is real. You should take the time to treat yourself.
/r/seduction18/09/24 02:02 AM
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Approached a group of girls outside a bar. We were vibing. I had a LED rose in my hand and each of them kept asking for it. I kept saying "hell naw." I told them it was for whoever won my heart that night. They started arguing about who deserved the flower. It went from 0-100 fast. One of these girls grabbed me and started whispering in my ear. Her friend pulled her off of me and pressed her ass against me. Another girl (outta nowhere) snatched the rose and ran off. They asked "So who won your h…
/r/seduction17/09/24 11:52 PM
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In seduction, it's often wiser to leave her guessing. If she has an idea of what you want, she has leverage over you. If you play it mixed, she won't know what to think and will be probing to find out.
/r/seduction17/09/24 11:23 PM
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😈😈😈
/r/seduction17/09/24 11:20 PM
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After 10 years of clubbing, here's what I've learned: 1: Body language over words. • It's our main way to communicate. In nightlife, no one comes to linger around and sip mimosas. Be swift. • If not, blink and see she just let herself be overcome by someone bold. Just read the signs. Look everyone in the eye. • Make sure it's direct and with desire. Many women will return your gaze if you craft it. Physical contact. • Ease into it cowboy 🤠. Start light touches to build trust and adapt accordingl…
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:54 PM
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Jay Z became attractive by his undeniable skills and drive. The money and fame came with it. Duke de Lauzun had no large wealth nor fame. Who are you asking to agree with you?
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:29 PM
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She's just a drama queen. Something fleeting, but intense. If that's not your vibe, don't deal with it. Make like a 🍌 and split.
/r/seduction17/09/24 07:57 AM
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Low self esteem cause of tattoos? Trippin lol.
/r/seduction17/09/24 07:53 AM
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No. Attraction ≠ physical beauty. Look at Jay Z. Duke de Lauzun was a hideous midget who had the baddest bitch in the land because he was smooth. A coquette. Seduction is a human game. As long as you're human, you can play and master it. Attraction means to attract.
/r/seduction17/09/24 07:33 AM
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If you sense it comes from outta nowhere and little to do with you, red flag ⛳ Those girls can be crazy as hell. And you'll be trapped emotionally. Run!
/r/seduction17/09/24 01:57 AM
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Ask for the date again. Flake on her this time. See how she reacts 🍿
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:40 PM
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It's funny you ask. Even fucking Casanova, one of the greatest seducers of all time burnt himself out. Why? He was more of a quantity than a quality man. Seduction isn't really a numbers game. It's like wine. The longer a seduction takes, the better it tastes.
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:39 PM
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This is my 9th night out this week. I've been documenting my progress and notes from others. From my experience, here's my insight: You already have a good gauge on reading the room. What are they looking for? For fun! However they can get it. Most girls will play hard to get. Cause who wants an easy challenge? Those dudes winning them over? Their superpower is in bold moves and reading signs. No hesitation. Rejection is vital to the game. Most women want you to show them how worthy they are. Wi…
/r/seduction16/09/24 09:34 PM
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Perfect timing. Grew up isolated for two years in my room with an abusive mom. Went to foster home only race of my kind and big language barrier. Left hometown solo to new city and got robbed for everything I owned. Had to start completely over. Tonight I'm back out from a night with a group of friends I met and a bad bitch who keeps rubbing my chest. This is my 8th night out tonight. I get extremely lonely. Put my phone on pause for so long but I feel so free. My body shivers. I've never had th…
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:42 AM
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Yeah, better to keep that part secret. It's better she thinks you're a stud than a dud. You don't have to lie, but you can give it room to be interpreted. She'll be intrigued. Her sneaky ass bringing up her love life? She was rubbing in how much relations she had. Power move. Move on or find someone else, and tap back in with her. Your call boss.
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:27 AM
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How does a typical interaction go?
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:22 AM
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"how long is your throat?"
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:21 AM
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Bro what do you mean? You did what you needed to. The best school will always be women. And you shouldn't be mad if they correct you. They're shaping you into a womanizer. Your bigger fear should be your insecurity growing over your inner boldness.
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:19 AM
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Unattractive??? Who cares.💤 Look at Michelle Obama! (no shade) You got something seductive that's natural to you. Maybe your charm, your bitchiness, your boldness... Whatever you got, use it and put your all into it. Unapologetically. period
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:15 AM
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