| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 106 | Never let a man put your life in danger. This is not cute, it’s dangerous and toxic. | NAH, SIS | rating-throwaway88 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:50 AM |
| 91 | The lies we are told | NAH, SIS | rating-throwaway88 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:36 AM |
| 21 | Going on a first date during his birthday? | DISCUSSION | rating-throwaway88 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:20 AM |
| 20 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs? | DISCUSSION | rating-throwaway88 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:33 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Please report im posting this here cause it is a woman behind it and it is horrificThere’s also IP addresses and other info about them and their website (that’s based in another country) but sharing this info with people that can’t or won’t do something won’t help much | /r/PussyPass | 20/09/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Please report im posting this here cause it is a woman behind it and it is horrificMessage me for address if you want but it’s outside of US territory so not much can be done. | /r/PussyPass | 20/09/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Please report im posting this here cause it is a woman behind it and it is horrificWe know HIS location but there’s no known agency in Buenos Aires that handles it. When it’s out of the US/Europe territory, it’s very hard to do something | /r/PussyPass | 20/09/20 09:54 PM |
| 156 | LVM only say this when they are looking for an ego boost from Barbara the Builder/Therapist Theresa. Don't fall for it! Remember: the only person who can save him is himselfUsually “Broke my heart” = didn’t get me the ps5 for my birthday or did not forgive my cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 11 | If he wants you he would tell you - PERIODYikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 67 | Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters.That’s why some guys go after girls who were raised by single moms. They control, manipulate, and gaslight them - and after they call them crazy bitches with “daddy issues”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 13 | The Ultimate Pick-me: SzaSza has been called out on her behavior previously. I think she has low self esteem issues. If you look back far enough when she was starting her career, she was overweight, looked completely different, unkempt fashion style, and seemed to be trying anything to up her music career. I’m pretty sure she will change her song topics soon. This R&B pick me isha stuff is just a fab | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Rant on some more LV things to warn you all aboutSuper informative and spot in. Agree with video game and especially the anime part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 14 | LVM shows his true colors, pickmeishas are in the comments blaming his reaction on women🙄My ex used to do that. He would text me out the blue “come outside I ll be there in 10 minutes” then throw tantrums that I wouldn’t be ready. Another thing that he would do, which I absolutely hated because he knew I put in time into his appearance, is he would try to smudge my makeup once I would get into the car. He would use his hands or sloppily kiss me to try to mess up my make up. I would be so mad and he would be laughing. Ugh can’t believe I used to miss this guy after we broke up. That … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 14 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?I think it’s opposite to the halo effect. The halo effect in psychology is when a person is good at something or pretty, people assume that everything about them is good as well. So men think if one thing about women, according to them, is bad then everything else is bad as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 36 | Pickme culture is so pathetic. “Act like puppies”? Like pee on the floor in excitement for a trip to Target? 🤮This video is not bad but some of the comments are sick. The guy got someone to watch their baby and took his wife out for the day. These girls in the comments act like that is the epitome of a successful relationship and is life goals. Please, women raise your standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 12 | I can't believe this male combs through our sub and even dedicates time to writing future posts for when we hit 100k. Haha. I assure you buddy, there isn't any risk of us becoming "inclusive" or "average". You males have shown us what average looks like and we are not interested!“End of an era” haha they wish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | LV date Hall of ShameI had an okay date set up but not FDS-like. We took a walk along the lake and then we went out to eat in a mid range restaurant. It was late at night so in that part of town everything was closed (this was during the BLM protests so places closed really early). We both needed to pee but I said I can hold it in until I get home. We saw a park bathroom and we went there but it was closed. Next thing I know he turns around and is pissing in the middle of the damn park. Oh my gosh. I was in shock. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 5 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.Yes!! “It’S aLl thE WomENs FauLt TheY cAnt OrGAsm” BS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 72 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.I hear guys talk about vaginas the same way like you did in your post but no one ever says that a problem. Nothing that women do will be enough for some men smh. On another note that you for writing that post. I learned so much new info. Never even thought about how different shape/size can give different sensations and might be the reason why some women can orgasm with one guy but not another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:54 AM |
| 22 | Never let a man put your life in danger. This is not cute, it’s dangerous and toxic.Obviously this is staged but the general idea that she puts out there is horrible. I had an ex who would do this even though he knew I had ptsd from a previous car crash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 39 | This is a great argument against BDSM, rape fantasies, and other kinks. It’s the same reason why we shouldn’t be okay with pedos saying “it’s just a fantasy, I don’t mean any harm”I read that story. It broke my heart. What other kinds of abuse do these children unknowingly go through? And the fact that many of the people in the comments said it was ok because the baby doesn’t know what’s going on ... smh. If a woman gets rped while she’s unconscious, it’s still considered to be rpe. So why is masturbating near a baby not considered or socially accepted to be sexual harassment or abuse? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 38 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:This!! If you don’t have the social skills for one of the most common and accepted parts of society, maybe you should not date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:06 AM |
| 104 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:The statement about her messages making him smile has a demeaning tone to it. He’s basically saying that he views her and her expressions as “aww look at this cute, naive little girl. She thinks she knows something”. This guy is a creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 12:59 AM |
| 33 | The best advice I was ever given was by a 35+ woman who said, “you have to love yourself more than you love them”.Best quote I heard from a family member is men should love women more than women love men in a relationship; when that is flipped,that’s when trouble starts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 42 | This HAS to be a bit, right??Kinda colder? That poor girl and her sister are PISSED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 9 | LV date Hall of Shame“Love interest” is not what he was thinking. You were probably a “hit it and quit it” option in his mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 7 | LV date Hall of ShameOh yeah, the infamous scenic view parking lot dates 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?That is true but good luck getting their time of birth when first meeting them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?Oh no. I’m so sorry. Abusers are the worst. Hopefully you are able to recover from the abuse and trauma in the near future and find happiness again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?Thank you for this very informative post. I tend to look at a person’s Sun, Mercury, and Venus signs. Sun to see their average personality. Mercury to see how they are communication wise and how they will try to hide their personality. Venus for the type of girl he’s looking. If I don’t match that type, I know things will go wrong and nothing serious will come of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?I’ve heard Libras are comparable to Gemini: always on the lookout for other girls. I’ve heard mixed things about Scorpios but again they are a water sign meaning they’re similar to Pisces and Cancers (can’t stand either one of those signs). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?Aww man. It’s always the subtle love bombing that gets to us. I’m happy that you were able to realize that he was no good for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 19 | He wants to "pull up outside and talk in the car" and not arrange a date.I did the same thing. One “car date” was on my birthday. He told me not to dress nice because we’re not going anywhere and he’s stopping by for a few minutes in his car to wish me happy birthday. I cringe at the girl that I was before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 48 | Women have the stereotype of being needy and clingy whereas I keep meeting men that are needy and clingySo true. The number one thing that I hear from women that work with mostly men is that men gossip way more than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | An article about how to Stop Proving Yourself to the Narcissist, yet so much of it applies to regular dating...True. The projection and narcissism in such relationships can break you down mentally and make you question your every move and thought | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Oh yes how could I forget about the grossness. Pisces tends to have addictions (drugs, food, messiness, etc) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Same here. Very manipulative and needed a mommy/therapist to care for his emotional needs. He projected his insecurities and threats to me. Gaslighting to the max. Also creepy in his behavior to other women. Constantly followed so many pretty girls but to random girls on the street he would be rude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...100% agree. This one Pisces man had “dating me is like winning the jackpot” in his tinder bio 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 32 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Yes. Hella manipulative and narcissistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:34 AM |
| 18 | Where is the lie? And, Who are the worst?? I’ve heard Pisces men...Definitely Pisces men. Pisces women are bomb queens though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:34 AM |
| 6 | OLD strategy for unacceptable datesCompletely agree. It is a nice more budget friendly casual date. You don’t have to buy expensive stuff but you still need to show effort. Cook something at home, bring something that the woman likes, get a fruit assortment, etc. One picnic date I had brought two mini Pringle cans, two mini fruit cups, and two water bottles of a “cocktail” he made at home. 🤦♀️ safe to say there was no other date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:30 AM |
| 7 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄“The kitchen” is an every day role. “The war” is once every few decades of so for a small portion of men. They think the army takes in any man with arms wide open? With all the beer belies, bad habits, and the toxic attitude they wouldn’t be able to even get into the army much less the war. With all the complaining some men do and their rotten attitudes they will simply be eaten alive by the drill sergeants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:05 AM |
| 2 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Poor Zeus. Cats do have some special BS meter inside of them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:52 AM |
| 4 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Yes! Or “I’m not a very nice person... give me some time” Literally on a bio of a guy a went on a date with 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | What are some phrases LVM say in the beginning that are red flags in the early phases that we may not notice?Too many compliments. Way too many compliments on your appearance especially. Dating me is like winning a jackpot. My last gf did this.... My ex was psycho/crazy Why is such a charming/beautiful/smart/etc girl like you still single? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:48 AM |
| 3 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menOh yeah. Abused women know “the look”. They are always sweet in the beginning and then your boundaries get pushed a little bit more every time. Push goes to shove. A bit of inappropriate groping in public turns into forced sex. Before you know it, in his head you become his property. His to control and kill if he desires so. I really hope she can escape this situation safely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:42 AM |
| 1 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menI had an ex like that. He sucked all the enjoyment out of my life. Constant questions of what I was eating when I went out of friends. Constant comments when I would post a food pic. Daily morning reminders to exercise. Forgoing comfort in order to look nice (asking me to take of my jacket when it was cold outside so my cleavage would be seen more) etc. I hope this woman will realize that she is better of being without him. Thoughts and prayers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Going on a first date during his birthday?Haha you’re so right. I hope to have your level of awareness some day. I blocked him today because I realized that he’s most likely a creep. I was thinking what would I do in such a situation? And the response is that I would not even mention to someone that my birthday is on that day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 12 | Going on a first date during his birthday?Thank you. I really needed this wake up call | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 9 | Going on a first date during his birthday?He also mentioned that he can cook for both of us if I prefer. I found it to be a strange first date. After the second time he mentioned it, I called him out on that and mentioned that I’m not willing to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:06 AM |
| 12 | Going on a first date during his birthday?He also mentioned that he can cook for both of us and I found it to be a strange first date. After the second time he mentioned it, I called him out on that and mentioned that I’m not willing to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 20 | Going on a first date during his birthday?I thought about this too. Even if I don’t have plans on my bday, I don’t want to spend it with a stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Going on a first date during his birthday?Yeah I think it’s strange too but we have busy schedules. He offered Friday which I couldn’t. Then I offered Thursday or Tuesday and he couldn’t go on those days. We both decided Wednesday then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Just another manipulation tactic!Took the words right out of my ex’s mouth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:44 AM |
| -5 | Even more reasons to vet your partnersWe can’t control what we are attracted to. If we could, conversion therapy would be rampant everywhere. He does have a choice though to act out on it or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Even more reasons to vet your partnersIt’s ok to be attracted but definitely not ok to act out on that attraction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Most comments are about how important safe words are. Perhaps something more important is having a partner that does not fantasise about subjecting you to a crime. And she was 18 and he was 26 (!!) when they started datingSo they decided to engage in this without a safe word? Honestly they both messed up. This is a very dangerous practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | “I don’t have a child”Wow. Poor child, having that human being as a biological dad must suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:52 AM |
| 8 | LVM Manipulation Caught Just in TimeThis is called gaslighting - manipulating the truth to make the victim feel insane to further manipulate them. Most likely this male is a narcissist or worse. Glad she was able to dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Gorgeous! What kind of material did you use for this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Pisces | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:49 AM |
| 1 | NVM comes back into pickmeisha’s life with his newfound religion. Pickmeisha bends over backwards to adapt, and gets mad when her daughter doesn’t oblige and wear a hijab. Wtf!Oh my gosh, this girl will end up disowning her mom in 5 years or so. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:24 AM |
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