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You claim these men barely cross your mind, but here you are, putting in the effort to mock the premise of the post. If the subject was truly beneath your attention, you would have ignored it. Okay so take this logic to its conclusion. The fifty or so women who have responded to you in this thread mock the premise of the post. The other 3.5 billion women who are ignoring it hardly even think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:18 PM
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Being a guy on the apps is like being in a desert looking for water. Being a woman on the apps is like being in a swamp looking for clean water.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:16 PM
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Lol for most of literate human history men didn't even let women read and write. Christianity's creation myth blames Eve for everything. And thousands of years later women can finally talk to each other about predatory men, and that's the disaster?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:09 PM
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Alright, so round up the boys and give them their new marching orders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:51 PM
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Up to each man to figure out on his own!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:45 PM
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No. Its not a transaction and there's no score keeping. We are one unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:48 AM
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Men invented a whole ass fake male god lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 02:15 AM
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What is this, a guide to fragility? This is some seriously fearful stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:01 AM
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... which is exactly like saying women will make excuses for and ignore the red flags in men if they are attractive.. do you really not see the parallels?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:05 AM
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That's like saying attractive women are more likely to be entitled so avoid all attractive women if you want to avoid entitled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:43 AM
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You're giving directions to an imaginary, "average" store. There are billions of stores, most won't even let you in, and most don't have what you want. You're best chance, I hate to tell you, is that you gotta do your best to check out as many individual stores as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:26 AM
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I think red pill have a tendency to overestimate how much of ABC they got right. It feels like a huge insight when you start connecting your anecdotal experience to wider patterns, but as soon as you start generalizing your insights to everyone, you start losing the emergent, random, human element. Biology makes us crave social interaction, close connections, and mating behavior. It's hard-wired into most of us. We're not all economists trying to maximize outcomes, most of us just want to live a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:35 PM
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I dunno man, maybe we're just wired differently. It kind of sounds like you're living your life on an island and you've never had a true partner in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:19 PM
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Wouldn't a smart, beautiful woman with interesting hobbies up your lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:37 AM
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Emotional intelligence unlocks the entire conversation skill tree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 06:26 PM
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I'm certainly more blue pill than red, but the "blue" part of it isn't the part that really worked. Maybe I should adjust my flair. If I had to give advice to younger guys today, I'd say be funny, emotionally mature, and learn to either cook or dance. You'll have a ton of fun, and likely will do well in the "market"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:48 PM
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You literally said ugly can be hella funny, attractive will be seen as more funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:01 PM
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Louis is in the conversation for comedy GOAT, Matt isn't even top 10 today
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:45 AM
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Yeah, but that would be true even if Matt strife was a silent mime instead of a comedian. Were talking about whether unattractive people van be considered genuinely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:34 AM
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Halo effect is real, but louis ck is still a thousand times funnier than Matt strife and we all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 10:30 AM
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Everyone has to make their own choices. But I guarantee you Keanu Reeves is living a more fulfilling, love-filled life than a guy like Leo DiCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:53 PM
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Moral "goodness" and romantic attractiveness are independent traits. Too many guys seem to think that all guys fall into one of two categories - "bad" chads who are taking all the women and "good" but conventionally blah guys who can't get a date. This misses the other two groups. There are truly morally good men who are also attractive. And they tend to be in long term relationships. Many marry their high school sweethearts. Guys like Keanu and Pierce Brosnan are often dragged in public because…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:19 PM
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Many just means some, so more than 1 but less than most, which is a majority. It makes the whole thing completely undebatable, of course many women areike that, just like many men are rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:20 PM
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It's always easiest to punch down, and they perceive fat people as below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:40 PM
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And you're free to do what you're told or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 07:04 PM
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Freedom means the freedom to make your own choices, and no individual is responsible for fixing what another individual thinks is a societal problem. Blame women all you want, I have other things to do and it seems like most people do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:18 PM
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If your primary concern is that women are advantaged in your current environment, there is a much larger but less developed world out there where you can have the advantage back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:17 PM
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If you consider the entire world, statistically, we know what the median man and the median women are likely to experience. The median man is a married father in his early thirties living in South or East Asia — most likely India or China — who does physical or semi-skilled labor in agriculture, construction, or manufacturing, earns the equivalent of perhaps $12 a day, completed primary school, practices Hinduism or Islam, owns a basic smartphone, and lives in an extended household where his inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:16 PM
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Is it okay for a guy to lie about his body count or his virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:56 PM
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How many men kill women? How many women kill men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 02:31 PM
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Do you believe in shaming promiscuous men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:22 AM
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There's advice that works for men, and there's advice that works for women. It seems like you're upset that the advice that works for women doesn't apply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:12 PM
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What's the percentage for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 11:15 AM
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On the first point... shouldn't the fair way be to average all these modern superdads with the ones that aren't even there? Behind every single mom is a single dad that just noped the fuck out of that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:49 AM
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Is it really surprising that women have changed? American women have more freedom, more opportunities, and more control of their own lives than almost any other time in human history. Meanwhile, I see entire towns of men who spent their lives working a single skill at a single factory, and when the factory closes, most of them can't make any change whatsoever, and even the suggestion that they change seems to offend them. There are plenty of men that have changed with the times, and they are abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:04 PM
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Your answer should be, "I get paid more than most lawyers to conduct a train. Want to see me make you go Choo Choo? Make sure you're wearing an over the top train conductor uniform.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:48 AM
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Any person can only take responsibility for him or herself though, right? I'm personally not a very angry person, but lots of guys have anger issues. There's no mechanism by which I can "take responsibility" of the wider problem of male anger issues. Most women are in the same boat as most men - we're all individuals just trying to do the best for ourselves, neither gender has a hotline to the male collective or the female collective. When you meet people, especially in dating, the best thing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:08 PM
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Since men airing out their grievances in dating more or less requires criticism of women This strikes me as a false premise. Why would it require criticizing women? You can't criticize the rise of social media? The transition to app-based dating funded by silicon valley? The offshoring of once high-paying blue collar jobs by the CEOs of the past forty years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:01 PM
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I don't even know what you're saying, race wasn't even a part of this conversation until you brought it up... the categories men and women generally include all races
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:06 PM
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lol i'm not white either bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:57 PM
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I'm not clear on what you ideally what changed, or what alternative you'd prefer. A world where women are blamed instead of men? Where men and women are equally blamed? A world where we only blame the small group of elites with real power? Also, after all the blaming, what alternative would you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:11 PM
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Well, there's the first thing I said, which you ignored. Most women are in the same powerless position as most men. The only difference is, there is no equivalent group of elite women who write laws for women, there's just the one group of elite men who who write laws for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:41 PM
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Women are the same as men, except without a small elite of women who old institutional power. The average woman doesn't write laws, shape media, or design social policies, they just get more matches than you on tinder, which is what you're really mad about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:32 PM
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rich women get to access the institution of marriage on completely different terms than most women do. They get to protect themselves in areas where most ordinary people just have to take a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:26 PM
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If this particular "demand" is thought of as sacrosanct, it will lead to awful outcomes like coerced sex. With pedophiles, no one suggests providing them with unwanted children. Voluntary chemical castration is a far more victimless solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:03 PM
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Who decides what the preferred outcome is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:01 PM
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You're inferring causation where there isn't any. For someone to be a woman beater, they must first have access to a woman. What you're seeing are men who can attract, who also have abusive behaviors. There are men who would beat women if they could, but can't because they simply can't attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:20 PM
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By that logic, the first girl from any group of girls to get married will have a failed marriage???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 05:54 PM
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Isn't this just kind of logical? If you're looking for a FWB, you're looking for sexual gratification, and it's gratifying to have sex with someone attractive. The same as if you have a sugar craving, you're gonna try to satisfy it with chocolate cake, even if you know broccoli is better for you. Nutrition isn't the reason you eat cake, it's because you have a craving for sugar. So you get sugar. Sugar is attractiveness, nutritional value is personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:08 PM
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Every professional graduate school is full of party people. Look at any top business, law, or medical school, and you'll find the majority of the people there "party" but are also at the top of their professions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:56 PM
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If you have to break the analogy to make it work, maybe it just doesn't work... i've never heard of a desert with a swamp inside. It wouldn't be a desert anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:11 PM
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Just because you find yourself in a swamp doesn't mean you should drink the first liquid you come across... why wouldn't you choose to search for clean water??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 07:07 PM
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Dating for men is like trying to find water in a desert. Dating for women is like trying to find clean water in a swamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 06:12 PM
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I agree that the show didn't focus on solutions for boys, but the message I took away from the show wasn't about solving that problem, it was about waking parents up to a reality they're most likely ignorant of. I saw this show as more of an analogy to "Hey parents, your boys aren't safe behind closed doors with Catholic priests" rather than "How do we get child predators out of the Catholic church."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:31 PM
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It's not going to help everyone who watches it. It sounds like you're someone who took the wrong lesson from it. The movie is really about the danger of parental indifference and ignorance in a world with evolving dangers. Parents today aren't raising their children in the same world they grew up in. The greatest dangers to first-world children today are on the internet, it's not a guy trying to kidnap them in a white van. I really see this series as an extension of Jonathan Haidt's work on how …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:00 PM
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It's not just loneliness, it's literally any pain or discomfort. In entrepreneurship, the first question any investor will ask is, what consumer pain have you identified that you are solving?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:55 PM
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Maybe younger guys don't know about the effect make up can have. I think by the time guys hit 30 or so, they understand that Fergie doesn't really look like Fergie. I mean, women literally calling it putting "their face on."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:58 PM
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I hope you find love bro. It's the most unbelievable thing, and it makes life worth it despite all the other bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:39 PM
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How were schools designed for women when it took centuries for women to even get the right to an education? The first female lawyer in America came around in the 1870s. We didn't have a female federal judge until 1920, and Sandra Day O'Connor, the first female SCOTUS justice wasn't appointed until 1981.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:38 PM
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Cornelius Vanderbilt's net worth in the late 1870s was about $3 billion in today's dollars, but it was actually more than that relatively speaking - his net worth was 1.1% of America's GDP. We still have Vanderbuilt university, but by the 1970s, not a single Vanderbilt heir was a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:23 PM
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Well yeah, of course. The best you can do is increase your probability of success, there are no guarantees. It's like trying to get a good job that pays well and doesn't destroy your soul. There is very little you can do to guarantee getting such a thing. Some people are born lucky with rich and connected parents, or extraordinary talent and charisma which makes them valuable to most employers. Most of us work hard to make ourselves as employable as possible and hope for the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:27 PM
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Most people believe?? Reading this post is the first time I've ever thought about this... who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:53 AM
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Depends on why they're rich. Inherited money guys go for attractive women from within their old money networks from established upper class families. Self made guys either stick with someone from before their wealth that they can trust, or go for someone that they're highly attracted to but in a guarded way e.g. prenuptial. This is just in general, there are always outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:20 AM
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I don't think you understand corruption. In a corrupt system, you can always pay your way out. Let's see what happens in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:08 PM
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There's no evidence that there's no evidence. See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:49 PM
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OP brought him up
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:24 PM
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Cool, so the way to the truth is to wait and see what happens at trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:47 AM
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I'm not the Crown Prosecution Service, or the Bedford Police, who referred the evidence. Ask them. Or wait for the trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:47 AM
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There was enough evidence for two different countries to charge him. Let things run their course and we'll find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:37 AM
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I can't figure out what you're saying. Couldn't Tate just do everything he did except the illegal stuff? And if there is someone else who can without the criminal part, the government would also stop them too, just before they got big?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:58 AM
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RP should drop Tate the way Subway dropped Jared.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:48 AM
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Okay... but can we agree that Tate trafficking girls is why he had human trafficking charges hanging over his head? It's not like they framed the dude, this is usually what happens when criminals proudly and publicly commit crimes and brag about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:48 AM
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You're just describing political enemies doing what political enemies do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:42 AM
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Tate wasn't jailed for discussing masculinity, it was the trafficking of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:36 AM
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The best way I've heard this expressed - Online dating for men is like trying to find water in a desert. Online dating for women is like trying to find clean water in a swamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:47 PM
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Historically, women have had VERY little control over men's sexual access. For most of human history, a small handful of men had control over most of the desirable women in their society, and it was privileged men who controlled average men's sexual access. Only recently have a small minority of women in privileged parts of the world gained bodily autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:43 PM
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You seem to equate personality with "talking to women." Assuming most women are interested in men, they're going to have naturally developed better skills at talking to men in a romantically interesting way than talking to women in a romantically interesting way. Or, in other words, their personalities will tend to be optimized for attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:07 PM
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I think we men did this. More specifically, the most privileged men of the boomer generation. The incredible environment that adult American men enjoyed right after WW2 meant that men wanted to believe in a story that they earned and deserved the riches of their situation. It's why all of the CEOs who made fortunes in the 80s-2000s hired PR firms to create "Great Man" images of themselves. Fast forward a few decades, and people like Malcolm Gladwell have shown that it was mostly good timing and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:49 PM
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Red pill is a very specific belief system, kind of like believing that "drinking makes everything more fun." Blue pill isn't really a specific belief other than not believing in red pill, kind of like saying, "I don't think drinking makes everything more fun."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:56 AM
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nah. it's a small percentage of men making us all look bad. Once we get those guys to act right, we're all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 08:54 PM
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Sounds like once men stop traumatizing women, everything will be okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:42 PM
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Relationships are transactional, but they're not zero-sum. In the best relationships, both parties come out ahead of where they would be if they were single. To illustrate this, look into a psych/econ experiment called The Public Goods Game. The game goes like this - two people are given $10 each. You can choose how much to keep for yourself, and how much to contribute to the public pool. At the end of each round, whatever was donated to the public pool is doubled, then distributed EQUALLY to bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:45 PM
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Is it a general superiority complex? Or just a superiority complex in the world of social media? There are absolutely industries where women are simply more desired, like in modeling. So, do those women get a superiority complex generally, or just in their world of modeling? Social Media is a primarily visual medium, so whoever the consumers decide they want to see more of, that's what will be rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:45 PM
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I'm a lot closer to valuing all species equally than believing humans are the only ones that matter. As a species, we make too many other species go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:30 AM
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Sorta? I'm not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:29 AM
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The economy is just a game we play, the environment is forever. The best thing we could do for the environment is depopulate and give the planet a chance to recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:42 PM
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?? Wanting children has always been more associated with women than men. Men without children are just men. Women without children are seen as defective by most societies. But if you're just in this conversation to play the blame game, sure, go-ahead and blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:36 PM
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But it takes two to tango and it's not solely about what he wants. A man who wants to family has to pair up with a woman who wants a family as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:31 PM
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Korea and Japan both have fertility rates of around 0.6 to 0.8 depending on which year you look at. This is way below replacement level. You can blame capitalistic pressures and whatnot, but yeah, a lot of people are deciding that if they have to choose between a life with a child but in poverty, or a childless life with higher quality of life, then the higher quality of life is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:19 PM
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Not if we collectively choose it? If everyone suddenly decided it's not worth having kids anymore, who's left to say they're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:01 PM
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Do we really want everyone reproducing? How many permutations of our gene pool do we really need expressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:21 PM
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well yeah, depopulation. slow dwindling of the world population. nothing wrong with it if it's voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:20 PM
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It's a spectrum. There's Simon Cowells and there are Kelly Clarksons. There are players coaches like Pete Caroll and dictators like Bill Belichick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:35 PM
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Those who beg for advice don't get to choose how nicely it's packaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:42 PM
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Bro they called women they didn't like witches and burned them u bum
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:58 AM
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please learn... anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:06 PM
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Because it just worked on us! Here we are, two guys without a billion dollars, and now we're already arguing over the billionaire instead of joining forces against him. The idea that either party is working for us is the big lie. Democrats and Republicans "fight" the way WWE wrestlers "fight" - it's all a show.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:19 PM
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But the man with billions (and Twitter) tells one half-million men that the other half million men are the enemy and they're taking all their jobs and ruining the country. That's America.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:00 PM
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A man with a billion dollars and a man with nothing have very different interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:48 PM
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people overwhelmingly seem to agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:53 PM
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The 4B movement doesn't even have goals. It can't fail because it's not trying to accomplish anything. It's a reactive mechanism designed to reduce a very specific risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:03 PM
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R/regretfulparents
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:50 PM
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blue pills the placebo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:37 PM
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Do you play video games? Child rearing is more like a boring, 18 year long escort mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:25 AM
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Only after your basic needs are met. You can live without love and sex. You can't live without food and water. Enough men and women are without food and water that yes, the sexlessness of men with adequate food and water just isn't as big a deal as real humanitarian problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:05 PM
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Womens media?? Basic instinct was Paul Verhoeven, who also did Starship Troopers... Sharon stone wasn't crossing her legs for other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:26 PM
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Seriously?? Basic Instinct is iconic. The women in Sex and the City are terribly flawed. Cameron Diaz played an absolute psycho in Vanilla Sky. Once you graduate from G-rated media, the portrayals of women become far more complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:02 PM
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Violence. It almost always takes violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:11 PM
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Huh?? There's a thing called air quality and most people care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:41 PM
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Being indiscriminate correlates highly with being dirty. Think about what you're willing to eat versus what a dog is willing to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:35 PM
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Some people's 0% is more attractive to more people than other people's 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:09 PM
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I don't trust that men are capable of actually having a healthy sexual relationship with one woman This is really sad and it's 100% not your fault, nor is it an uncommon feeling or belief. Frankly, I think it's partly because the people who are in truly healthy, loving, sexually satisfying relationships... tend to keep it quiet, because we're surrounded by friends/other couples that aren't nearly as happy, so making a big deal out of our happiness seems insensitive at best, and boastful at worst…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:31 PM
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if you were married, it was "our" stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:26 PM
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Advantage is usually something that helps you, not just a way you're useful to someone else. It's like saying delicious chickens have an advantage over dodo birds because they taste better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:39 PM
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Men and women aren't competing against each other to survive, so describing am advantage one has over the other makes no sense. It's like saying sharks have a swimming advantage over horses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:37 PM
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Reproductive capacity coupled with less physical strength makes women far more vulnerable, there's no advantage there, unless you count being kept around as a breeder an advantage, but that's not a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:33 PM
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Organized sports?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:31 PM
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Not all women, but roughly 1 in 4 will be sexually assaulted at some point in their lives, so a good portion of them, yes. Also about 6% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:57 PM
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If you don't feel safe, and reality says you are then the correct reaction is to shut up and ignore the feeling. Yeah this is what we used to tell veterans with PTSD, and it didn't work for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:16 PM
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It's more that not being the provider puts you in a position of relative weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:51 PM
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Here's the real answer - because it's always general advice, and no advice works all the time on everyone, but most advice can work somewhere on someone, so the one guy who gets a specific piece of advice to "work" thinks he's unlocked some universal secret when in reality, he succeeded once.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:48 PM
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Women also plan it out because they have to. Many men can kill most women with their bare hands, on an impulse. Very few women are capable of the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:38 PM
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Worse in what way? As in more likely to be premeditated? Because men kill at 10 times the rate women do, that seems to be worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 04:03 PM
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Yeah, we size each other up to se what our chances are if shit goes down. Women already know 95% of the time they're fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:34 PM
2

Actually the environment is the adaptable one. It just has to exist, it doesn't necessarily have to be habitable by us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:57 PM
3

You literally just compared women to things you acquire, like a deer or a house...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:39 PM
5

The problem with this approach is that you're thinking of women as an object to be obtained, and you're hoping to ask people who successfully obtained a similar object. A much better analogy might be the relationship between a quarterback and his wide receiver. Not all quarterbacks are great with all wide receivers, and vice versa. In that case, a good quarterback should absolutely ask receivers how they can perform better as a partner so that both can be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:15 PM
4

Forget good advice and bad advice for a second, and let's assume all advice on reddit is different degrees of bad advice. Who would have the least bad advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:52 PM
2

Self-improvement absolutely works... to improve your self. It also likely increases your chances of dating success, but the only thing guaranteed is that the self is improved. Bluepillers would praise a successful manipulative redpill guy over an honest guy who gave his best but failed. uh no...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:12 PM
3

Everyone uses weaponized incompetence, just for different reasons. There's absolutely no reason a guy can't learn to cook a whole chicken or load a dishwasher or shop intelligently for their wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:47 PM
1

Egalitarian is an ideal to strive towards. The best relationships are 60-40, with each partner striving to be the 60 and trading off as needs fluctuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:05 PM
3

Ask them. Their feelings of entitlement mean nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:01 PM
4

?? The women of a country don't "belong" to the men of that country, everyone is a free agent until they get hitched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:36 PM
2

Attractive is better than unattractive, which is better than repulsive. Most of the things you listed are repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:37 PM
4

I was in grad school, no money, just potential. Met her in yoga class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:42 PM
9

He's telling you to stop scrolling online and talk to people in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:58 PM
9

If it does, then that's our collective decision and at least we chose it freely.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:44 PM
35

That's their right...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:22 PM
4

It's dating. Everyone's failing until you succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:07 PM
2

look at any wedding registry site like withjoy and just browse around. thousands of everyday people get married every week. Americans have somewhere between 1.5 to 2 million weddings every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:31 PM
6

exactly. if it was normal behavior, half the guys in your dorm would be having Irish Chad's lifestyle. he's a statistical outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:29 PM
5

As you get older, the single people you encounter are the ones that haven't settled down. The ones that find a partner and are happy disappear from those public spheres - they're the ones you ignore because they're coupled up and dressed like they don't care about being seen, because they don't. Try to wish for good things to happen to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:04 PM
5

Women just have to exist, not be that fat. You're assuming women are only valuable to men because of their physical qualities. Women have leveled up in crazy ways in the past few decades. Maybe in the 1950s or 1960s, the "top" women were just beautiful women and nothing more, but nowadays you have women who are both beautiful and high-achieving, and the top people from both genders are often interested in being with an equal. A guy like Jay-Z isn't interested in just a pretty face - Beyonce is (…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:28 PM
4

Only way I see most of those women having a family is becoming single moms (serial polygamy) or sharing men (polygyny). In both cases, it probably implies a kid raising without a father and less money for the family. What if men made a concerted effort to become the whole package? Men used to be conditioned to compete for status, first primarily athletically as children, and then financially as adults. That's not the only criteria anymore. As far as the genetics, shouldn't that be worked out in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:10 PM
2

These generalization posts are so annoying to deal with. Can we all agree that dating is kind of like getting a job? You generally go for the best paying or best aligned job that also fits your lifestyle and interests. The mix between compensation, lifestyle, and purpose/interest varies by individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:09 PM
3

5% of other people, assuming you're only attracted to one gender, means a hetero man would find about 1 out of 10 women attractive. Sounds about right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:12 PM
0

things don't have to be forever to have meaning. a successful marriage can end if it's no longer serving one or both parties. people change, as do circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:27 PM
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Unfortunately there's no way to look at a man and see inside his head to see if he's a rapey predator or a decent human being. It's like the problem with bad cops in America - not all cops are bad, but there's no surface way to tell if you're dealing with a good cop or a bad cop, so the rational reaction is to be wary of all cops until you have more information, and to proceed with caution. This is just women proceeding with an abundance of caution because they never know who they're dealing wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:47 PM
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The problem is created by the that "handful of guys," not by women. If you want to stop the problem, you have to call out those guys when you see them doing unethical or criminal shit. Women are reacting rationally to a problem created by men. If you want to fix the problem, you have to fix the problem with problematic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:55 PM
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Easy. I remember being tempted by PUAs. I stayed blue and met my dream girl. Nice guys can win.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:44 PM
1

Yup! Little too much is much better than too little, ribs and bones are a turn off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:41 PM
15

so is the fear of dying in an airplane accident, or even a car accident. I bet you still buckle up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:30 PM
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The problem is survivorship bias - the most visible examples of relationships are the noisy, drama-filled relationships that blow up and fail. Tons of nice, average middle-of-the-bell curve men and women get together, and live happily ever after VERY QUIETLY, mostly out of public view.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:23 PM
0

I read fine, I'm a lawyer. And "abuse is a crime" is a gross oversimplification. The criminal code only explicitly recognizes a few forms of abuse (mostly child abuse and elder abuse, situations where there is a dependent relationship). General emotional abuse doesn't appear in most state codes (I don't know about the weird ones like Louisiana). We have an entire federal Office on Violence against women because of the magnitude of the problem - the 2022 DOJ report on Violence against Women shows…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:37 PM
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You talk about skills in statistics... and then you ignore the entire body of statistics I cited to choose Canada (why Canada?) with their statistically insignificant sample size of 4. You have literally all worldwide homicide statistics in front of you! Use them! Or focus on Canada, idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:26 PM
1

And by the data more men are harmed by women. Are we reading the same post? It says 38% of injuries sustained are by men. That's not "more" men, that's less men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:23 PM
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And nearly 100% of the victims are men. (and a lot of that is gang vs gang violence) Wrong - men commit 98% of homicides, and they're the victims in 79% of homicides. It's in the same sentence even! In other words, women commit 2% of homicide and yet they are the victims in 21% of homicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:18 PM
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Men commit 98% of homicides worldwide. If you care about all homicides equally, then 98 out of 100 times you're concerned with a man doing the killing. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homicide_statistics_by_gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:07 PM
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Triage principles - you deal with the greatest harm affecting the most people first. Men overwhelmingly commit the vast majority of all violence, and men commit 98% of homicides worldwide. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homicide_statistics_by_gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:05 PM
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We track child abuse statistics. We don't track statistics of how often a child hit a parent first, because usually it's pretty fucking harmless. If there is harm, that's where the criminal code comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:42 PM
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Why the focus on who is initiating vs. who is damaged? I question your motives because you framed it as a question of "who started it." The same study you cited shows that even with 70% of non-reciprocal domestic violence being initiated by the women, men were only 38% of injuries sustained were by men, so women are still being disproportionately damaged when it comes to actual harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:35 PM
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Let me propose an alternate explanation from the field of psychology, using a concept called the counter-factual. The counter-factual, oversimplified, can be thought of as the path not taken - imagine you have a binary choice, taking an uber to work, or taking public transport. You have to be at work at 9am for an important meeting, you usually leave via public transport at 8 and you're there in time, it's 8 right now so you decide to risk it, but there's a massive train delay, and you're late t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:41 PM
3

So if a person only wants to date blonde-haired blue-eyed caucasian fitness models between the ages of 18-22, do you want them to broadcast that explicitly in the name of honesty? What about a person who prefers not to date black people, do you want them to publicize that in the name of honesty? There's a middle ground between broadcasting every preference you have, and being the silent hypocrite you're imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:04 PM
1

It's honestly racist, the two aren't mutually exclusive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:00 PM
3

It's not their job to, they help with virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:18 PM
6

One guy could impregnate a woman every single day of the year. He's now contributed to 365 future lives. Each of the women he impregnated can only have that one child at a time. So by this one guy spreading his seed, he's basically let 364 men off the hook, and we still have the same number of future children as if 365 men mated with 365 women. But if one of those women goes childfree, the ceiling for those people is now 364, where as with men, only 1 out of 365 had to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:02 PM
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It has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with how and why you are engaging with another person. Kant talked about it this way: Humanity Formula: "Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of any other, always at the same time as an end and never merely as a means." You can use people for sex, for professional advancement, to pass the time, to gain status, or a million other reasons. Or you can treat them as human beings and an end in themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:53 PM
3

I'm so glad we understand each other!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:30 PM
5

No one cares about the fate of the world. It's not natural to care about the world. It's natural to care about ourselves. If you were the last man in the world, and the last woman in the world was deformed, hideous, and mentally insane, would you have a child with her just for the sake of continuing the human race?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:12 PM
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Funny, I just read an Atlantic article that theorized that the problem is everyone going for people slightly above their tier. Kind of like how 87% people believe they are an above-average driver. https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:25 PM
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No, pretending to want to be a friend when you actually don't want a friend but a romantic/sexual partner is what gets you friendzoned. Maybe a more useful way to give the same advice - talk to women as if you only want them as acquaintances, not even as friends. Because be honest with yourself, are you currently in the market for more male friends? No, right? But you just happen to be in the market for a new female friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:36 PM
3

A woman accepting means she is potentially interested in you, potentially interested in the slice, and potentially interested in the beer. She is willing to risk her personal safety to explore whether her interest will turn into more or not. The beer and the slice are doing their jobs, are you? Because she is always free to change her mind after she gets more information.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:04 PM
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So your plan is to slutshame every woman you come across, make them feel bad about their natural desires, and impose all of needless suffering on HALF OF THE WORLD'S POPULATION, all in the hopes that, through this endeavor, a perfect little virgin woman will find your inner ugliness attractive enough that she will choose you and only you to have intimate relations with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:56 PM
1

The person asking wants it more. They have the greater desire hence the greater burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:48 PM
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Because it's the time period where they have the least leverage over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 07:15 PM
4

I think of those women the same way I think of those skinny dudes who can seemingly consume 4000 calories a day and never gain weight. God bless them. Not everyone can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:48 PM
1

Many of them don't have to. Why waste time on something that may be irrelevant to maximizing their time here on earth? Floyd Mayweather can't read and he's a half billionaire by being good at dodging.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:05 PM
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10%. It's 10%. 1 out of 10. So if you're marrying hoping for alimony, statistically, you need to get married and divorced 10 times to get alimony from one of those marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:58 PM
2

When exactly was the golden age of dating where the dating economy was ideal?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:22 PM
1

This is absolutely mental. Go look at /r/fatFIRE and see how the FAANG guys really live and what their actual issues are (it's all some form of "wtf do I do with all this money? my wife and kids are all taken care of, how do I form a trust for great-grand kids? Should I buy a boat or charter?)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:17 PM
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As any rational, self-interested being would be expected to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:57 PM
9

yeah but "men" can be dangerous, she's found security and safety and a reliable client in a very dangerous profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:46 PM
3

Two people (or more!) can do whatever they want as both are freely choosing the situation and both are happy with the arrangement!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:45 PM
1

A lot of this confidence/masculinity stuff overlaps with leadership training. Being first to propose a definite activity, throwing out concrete proposals, etc. Leading is also exhausting...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:15 PM
2

Valentine's day is about getting men to spend their money. Go to a CVS or a Walgreens the night before Valentine's day, those places are packed with dudes buying last minute chocolates in red boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:10 PM
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One thing I've noticed from reading this sub a lot is that nearly all of the advice/observations are about the very beginning stages of a relationship - attraction, dating, sexual compatibility, etc. As distasteful as I find Red Pill ideology, there are absolutely elements of it that will help many men improve their outcomes in the "early stage" parts of relationships, such as actually getting dates. The thing is, there is a whole separate world of relationships past that initial stage. When it …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:55 PM
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In a few decades, 16-year olds that don't know better may be the only ones still willing to have children. Generally speaking, motherhood is a really bad deal for the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:57 PM
2

I've read half a book on patriarchal power structures by Bell Hooks. It's not at all about feminism or women's opinions, it's about societal/cultural choices. You mention biology - I'm guessing we both agree that men generally tend to be more aggressive than women? In America, our socially constructed legal system has specific allowances for male rage - think of "crimes of passion" which statistically are nearly exclusively a male problem. Are men naturally more violent? Sure, I'll grant that. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:44 PM
2

I haven't even looked there. I became interested in masculinity recently, and am currently learning about patriarchal power structures from the book "The Will to Change" by Bell Hooks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:38 PM
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I think we're underestimating the amount of support you would have to give, to incentivize a financially stable, well-educated woman who's on the fence about having a child, to actually have that child. Think about women graduating from a top American law school. They likely have $200k-$300k in debt but are also starting at $215k/year annual salary. You really think $10k will change the incentives here? $25k? It's more on the scale of $100k-$200k that we'll start having to pay to motivate women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:36 PM
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I disagree with both of you guys. You guys are two wedded to how things used to be. Single motherhood isn't as good as two parents, but it's better than no children at all. You may not have a choice between single mothers and dual-parent households, the choice may be between single mothers and no children whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:30 PM
1

Where did you learn about the patriarchy? If you have a recommended reading list, please share.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:00 PM
2

Hey, that's exactly what I thought before I learned anything about patriarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:13 PM
4

Patriarchy is about real power structures and their inertia, not about the inner convictions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:22 PM
0

Generally speaking, Western cultures have tended to value having choices and the freedom to choose among the. The extreme version of your philosophy is Ariel Castro with a tied up woman in his basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:50 PM
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People looking for partners with a 0 body count need to start being honest - you're terrified of being judged by someone with any experience, and you're hoping that they just won't "know better" and will stay with you due to lack of options. If a person has never heard a singer before, they can't tell if you're Mariah Carey or talentless Mary singing in the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:02 PM
10

you think guys were selecting female mates based on their... iq??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:12 AM
1

The economic system rewards economically valuable contributions to society, like hard work (labor) and innovation (talent). The genetic system does the same - it rewards genetically valuable contributions via the genetic traits we're attracted to. It's not supposed to reward societal contributions, it's supposed to multiply the traits we generally find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:10 AM
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This is the precise type of claim where if you go looking for something, you'll find exactly the thing you're looking for, because you're looking for it and your brain will ignore counterexamples that don't fit the narrative. Try an experiment - "All the traits pickup truck drivers despise in BMW drivers, they display far more frequently."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:25 PM
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The guy is older and has more experience. He should know better, or he is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:50 PM
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Man, finally another reasonable take from a guy on here. A tiny percentage of us get to be born with Chad genes, or a 4.3 40 or a 97mph fastball - the vast majority of us are in the crowded, fat part of the curve with everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:19 PM
2

Which games have good adult communities? I'll play anything as long as there aren't too many kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:31 PM
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If given all else equal, It's not. The U.S. Department of Justice estimates that 95% of reported assaults on spouses or ex-spouses are committed by men against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:37 PM
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Maybe if you're already in a big enough pool, but a lot of people could just be stuck in a small town waiting to get out to a larger world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:11 PM
5

You owe more to your non-existent kids than you do to your mom. If your child ever asks you, "Why did you have me?" Your answer absolutely cannot be "because my mom wanted me to."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:12 PM
1

There's so much judgment and bitterness in your characterization of the "hoe phase" bro everyone will be happier with their car if they got a chance to test drive some others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:30 PM
5

You're a Nissan Sentra. You're fine for people who aren't picky, but most people are picky, so you're not exciting anyone, and you're not getting exciting drivers. Add a nice career and self-care, maybe you're an Altima or a Maxima now. But the instagram girls you see only want ferraris and bugattis. Then you realize those girls only want sports cars, and you're only a sedan. Becoming a sports car is no joke, but if you put in the time and hit on a lucrative career, you can move from Nissan to B…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:15 PM
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You can't "just be confident" you have to be confident in something. If the confidence isn't tethered to something, it's just false confidence. But confidence can be rooted in many things: looks, sure, but also money, talent, charisma, humor, emotional intelligence. For emotionally evolved people, they may simply be confident in who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:27 PM
1

I don't see why not, but it might be tricky fooling your own brain. Can a hungry person embody an "air" of someone who's satiated and not looking for food?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:21 PM
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They do. I dunno, I must have somehow picked up the indifferent "air" of a married man. I will say my headspace is completely different from when I was a horny 20-something looking at every woman as a possible sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:03 PM
5

I feel like there's some kernel of wisdom in your two posts together. I also remember being 25 and trying so hard, gym, designer jeans, expensive haircuts, with little to show for it. Now a decade later, I don't give a fuck, wear Costco clothes, and I swear women are always randomly smiling at me, and if I feel like making small talk, they're always game. I'm a chubby 5"8 brown dude too, so it can't be looks. I'm also married now. When I think of a 23-year old girl equivalent of who I was today,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:34 PM
6

Nothing. You get the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:35 PM
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Sure, if you're determined to be a pessimist. Husband material can also mean that a woman loves you so much she literally stops even seeing other men. That she's so in love with who you are at your core that they want nothing else but to build a life with you. Marriage is just the beginning my dude, the life that you can build with another person you love who loves you back is beautiful and there's nothing like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:56 PM
7

The fact that you believe this will prevent you from being happy in a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:52 PM
2

What do you suggest I read instead, reddit post with no sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:57 PM
5

From all the articles I've read, people in their twenties are barely dating/hooking up anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:15 PM
1

Attaining "true love" is kind of like becoming a successful professional athlete. It won't work out for most people statistically, but the people who have an unreasonable belief in themselves, who are overly optimistic about themselves, and are more resilient to setbacks are the ones who will give themselves the best chance at success.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:50 PM
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nah it's you. When describing any data set, "most" can't ever be below average. you're more correct in other posts where you say that average is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:59 PM
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I don't think it's lack of effort, I think it's lack of IRL experience on the women's side. No one is born with perfect social skills, it takes practice, mistakes and reps to develop into a socially competent person. It used to be that even attractive women would have to go somewhere where they could physically be noticed to get attention - nowadays, any girl with social media can show a little skin to their camera and get attention. So they've skipped those early IRL experiences where they lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 07:26 PM
17

Dude, a society that kills you halfway through your natural lifespan isn't good. History seems cool because we're reading about the 1% of the 1% of the 1%, but the vast majority of people in history lived miserable lives full of manual labor and very little sex, much less sex with someone of their choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:43 PM
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Currently, men's time is probably viewed as more valuable. It's likely cultural inertia - for all the progress we've made toward equality in the workplace, most working people today grew up in households where the dad was the primary breadwinner. Husbands always get a rude awakening when they try taking on full-time childcare for the first time. I'd much rather stare at Outlook and fend off work in the corporate world than deal with a crying baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:18 PM
1

Too bad it sounds like you can't!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:01 PM
4

Seriously, right? There are famous examples of both things happening. Different people behave differently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:43 AM
5

I think cold approach going out of fashion was a direct response to the fucking pickup artist shit that was suddenly everywhere 10 or 15 years ago. It's not terribly surprising that women quickly got sick of packs of thirsty sex pests insulting their appearance as some psychological trick to bed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:32 PM
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I don't think it's just bitter older women, I think most healthy adults look suspiciously on age gap relationships because of the natural experience imbalance. Think about the workplace - most 22, 23-year olds at their first jobs have no idea whether it's appropriate or not to be running non-work errands for their boss, or what kind of behavior is acceptable or not. Think about how helpless new hires are at your workplace, and how easy it is to stick them with the worst tasks since they don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:25 PM
5

What traits do good men have? Emotional intelligence. They can express feelings without losing control. They notice when someone in a group feels uncomfortable, and can find subtle ways to make them feel more welcome. They can sense when your anxiety is growing, and can intervene before it snowballs. When I think of guys who women widely and truly adore and deeply admire (and aren't just attracted to/would sleep with) it's guys who are fluent in the language of feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:08 PM
13

Because you basically described an NPC. What's the argument for being with the female version of Adam?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:38 PM
6

Lebron spends $1MM on his body each year. I'm the same age, but a desk jockey, and still spend maybe $10k/year on health/fitness/wellness/recreation. In my 20s I didn't need to spend anything, but boy do chronic back problems suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:00 PM
5

Okay we get it, women have a better time on dating apps at first. But it's really just the illusion of abundance. Even attractive women, if they want a meaningful relationship, eventually have to choose one suitor! And if that's successful, that is one man and one woman (in the hetero scenario) that is now off the market. Think about it this way - men are at a 1996 Blockbuster with a five dollar bill and they can shoot one shot. Maybe all the new releases are gone, but if you choose right, you'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:22 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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