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Red Pill Theoryratthing/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 03:50 PM
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Red Pill Theoryratthing/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 07:33 PM
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I re-cast failures as "feedback". And I take what I can learn from them. I have lots of regrets and MASSIVE failures in my life but I have used those events to make me a better man.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:34 PM
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Not just yes, but hell yes.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:37 PM
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I'm about 15 or so years older than you and agree totally. There was no "red pill" back in the 70s when I hit puberty, but the rules of engagement were all easily understood by anyone who understands "red pill". This is why I know I was seriously "blue pilled" back then.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 10:19 PM
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Have a plan for your life but realize that no plan ever survives reality. Save money. Money is a complex tool, nothing more. Don't make it the purpose of your life but learn how to manage this complex tool. Get a credit card to establish good credit but use it responsibly Get into the habit of exercising, don't ever stop Except for your mom, no women have your best interest at heart. Network. Never burn bridges. I have personally discovered that having a wife and kids is a wonderful experience t…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:49 PM
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I'm 56, and happily married. I figure my urges to "pickup" women will probably go away about two or three days after I'm dead.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:32 PM
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I have been wanting to move to Botswana, to work and teach. I don't know exactly why my brain chose Botswana, but I think it would be an interesting adventure.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:57 PM
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I love being a husband and father. Best thing that's ever happened to me.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 03:19 AM
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The best time in my life is right now! I am 55 years old, and struggling a bit like everyone else, but have a lot to be grateful for. I am a much better person now than I was when I was younger. My time in college was pretty good too. I was bullied pretty badly from grade 3 to grade 12, so leaving home to start a new life at a big world class university was awesome.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:42 PM
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Believe it or not, that doesn't matter much in the end. Yes, people from world-class schools will almost always get the pick of the litter for jobs and other resources. But that does NOT mean that you can't get a share of the pie too. Make the best of your situation, and EVERY situation you find yourself in. If you turn out to be a great mechanical engineer, I can GUARANTEE you that you will find jobs and teams where they would rather work with you instead of the arrogant fuck from Imperial Coll…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:05 PM
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First of all, don't lose hope. Life is full of major disappointments as well as major high points. You've just experienced your first huge, major stumbling block in life. You know what? That's a GOOD thing. It's good because you now have a treasure trove of lessons. ALWAYS take the lessons learned from these stumbling blocks and apply them. The first lesson you should learn is this: If anyone is actually "disappointed" in you, that's their problem, not yours. It only becomes your problem if you …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:01 PM
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This is a great read, mostly for the very good psychological insights this guy provides.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 04:40 PM
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Another happily married TRPer here. And I've been through two divorces and learned my lessons. I find the fear of divorce rape somewhat hilarious. It's happened to me. On my last divorce, all I had left was my truck, clothes, and some books. But I think fear is not a real smart way to live, so I press on. If you work hard money and material things will come to you. Marriage is not easy but it's worth it, to me anyway. And I know that my wife will literally get disgusted with me if I ever bluepil…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 07:15 PM
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Many. Ultimately it was two things that brought me to Catholicism: 1) Jesus Christ, and 2) the deep intellectual history of the Church. The crisis the church is going through right now truly sucks. Sometimes I'd like for nothing better than for every bishop on up to the pope to be taken out and shot. But every day the church does so many good deeds and helps millions of people. those are the things no one ever hears about.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:03 PM
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I was raised Catholic, became atheist for a long while, and have since come back to Roman Catholicism. I have a long story about my life's journey and reasoning my way back to the faith. It is extremely important to me.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:39 PM
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Raised by single mothers, in addition to ridiculing and devaluing the role of the father in raising kids.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:07 PM
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All of this advice is excellent. Take care of yourself. I've also been burned badly in the past by super crazy bipolar women and it really does take a toll on you. Establish yourself, regain confidence, and you'll be back in the saddle again.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:32 PM
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Figure out what those things you want to learn are. Write them down. Next, prioritize them from most important to least important. Once you do that, start at the top of the list, find some vids on YT that cover that topic, and just dive in. You'll find you're really good at some things and not so good at others. That's OK. Just keep learning and go down your list. One really good source of information for basic life skills for men is the Boy Scout merit badge learning materials. They cover prett…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 10:00 PM
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I'm 54 years old and have been working with a personal trainer on cardio and strength training. I used to lift when I was in my late teens and early 20s, but that fell by the wayside as school, career, then family came along. Now I do it for my own well-being, and hopefully to look better too. It's never too late!
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:19 PM
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Houston, Texas has a large population of black and latino folks.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 02:30 PM
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Don't conflate your mission with your job. It's great if you can get the stars to align and find a paying gig that also supports what you perceive as your life's mission. But I feel that focusing on a job to be a mission is putting way too much pressure on yourself. At a minimum, a job is simply a means to earn income. A mission is related to purpose and values. Figure out what your values are, from there derive your purpose, and your mission. I'm 55 years old, made a couple of big career shifts…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:32 PM
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One thing that has helped me in the regard is to remember and focus not only on my mission in life, but also on the concept of abundance. Yes, she was the absolute most beautiful, intelligent woman I've ever had sex with, and the sex was awesome. But, there are PLENTY of other women out there who are as good or even better than her. Make yourself into the best man you can, and there will be NO problems with finding companionship from women.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:07 PM
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One thing that helped me a lot in this regard was to study how other men do confrontation. This sounds ridiculous, but one person I've settled on to guide me on confronting others head on was the comedian Larry David. His clueless/fearless way of confronting people is pretty savage, but if you tone it down it works really well, at least for me.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:47 AM
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Good advice, I like to divide investing into three broad categories: Long term/Low risk, Medium term/Medium risk, Short term/High risk. Put about 80% of your money into the long term low risk category. Things like IRAs, bonds, CDs, your education. Put about 10-15% into medium risk investments like stocks. Put the remainder into high risk things like risky stocks, cryptocurrency, etc. It all depends on what you'd like to end up with, and your comfort level with risk. Best of luck!
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:40 AM
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Adjunct teaching. I love teaching and am good at it. I teach courses at night and online in neuroscience and research methods at two big public universities. Also do the occasional consulting gig on the side, but that's rare nowadays.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:32 AM
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Excellent post. Your TL; DR could be "Red pill is journey, not a destination. "
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:43 PM
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Not saving money. Not pursuing girls because I thought they were out of my league. Not sticking with and getting good at something, anything. Probably the biggest is not serving in the military.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 07:36 PM
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Solid post. Thanks for sharing. The part that is most important to me is the "blissful calmness" you describe. It lets you see the pain and misery that most of the blue pilled world lives with, most of it self-inflicted.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 06:14 PM
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"Light switch" is a great term for this effect. When it happens to you, it is literally a sudden change that is bewildering if you don't know what is going on. I've noticed that crazies (e.g. bipolars, severe personality disorders) tend to "switch" a lot faster than those who are not so crazy, or the change is much greater.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:24 PM
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Im a 54 yo, and I teach courses at two large public universities. I'm happily married, but if I wasn't I have no doubt I could easily find myself dating women half my age or even younger. Every semester at least one outright propositions me. You'd be surprised how many 20 something women prefer older men.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:57 PM
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Damn, that was my exact M.O. during my blue pill days: Open up wif my FEEWINGS to pwoove how much she means to MEEEEE. You can guess how well that went.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 11:06 PM
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I'm 54 and have many of the same regrets.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:52 PM
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Exactly. She is very non-materialistic. For example, we could be living in a very expensive and large home, but she preferred us to buy a small house in a middle class neighborhood, so we could pay it off in 10 years. In 2016 I bought her a new minivan and she was absolutely floored that I had "wasted" money on a NEW vehicle, when we usually buy used.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:28 PM
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AMEN! I never realized how true this is.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:29 PM
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If you are with a high intelligence women usually they will treat you more like a king. Very true. My wife (a redpilled wife with a PhD) has been with me as my income has increased by an exponent since we've been together. She never pulled anything like this, and has done everything in her power to keep me happy.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:26 PM
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One HUGE area right now is anything having to do with business applications for data analytics and AI. You need to work hard to crack into a particular niche area but once you do that and build trust with a few key clients, the money is very, very good. I guess that's the same for getting into any business.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:23 PM
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I'm 54 years old, and what helped me a lot recently was losing a lot of weight and just eating a more healthy diet. I'm not where I was when I was in my teens and 20s, but the improvement is significant.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:30 PM
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Excellent analysis and summary. Thank you. The reduced cortisol and T in fathers is a result that is typical across other mammalian species. It is probably related to the need to bond with and protect one's kids. The greater tragedy here is that there is little desire on the part of The Powers That Be to do anything about this mess.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 12:01 PM
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Dude, I think I can out-cringe you any day. :-)
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:24 PM
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Truth. As has been said here a million times, this doesn't mean you become an "asshole". Being a man of respect is quite the opposite of an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:23 PM
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Great story. I hope you do not succumb to her and bring her back into your life. She's going to try every trick in the women's book to get you back. Been there.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:20 PM
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You did good. Don't EVER go back and forget about her as best as you can. Take care of yourself, lift, and adopt a mindset of abundance. This is something I wish I would have known when I was your age.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:53 PM
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We've all been there. Sorry you're going through this, but hopefully in the end it'll help you grow more as a man.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 10:19 PM
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I have found it is next to impossible to tell the difference between a woman being a sociopath and a woman being a woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:25 PM
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I find it interesting that there have been several recent meta-analyses done that support academic feminist views. A recent one showed that there were no difference in certain brain structures between men and women. When you're trying to be the dispassionate scientist, all you can say is that we need to continue looking, and constantly question our results and methods. But I think the problem is that there are so few researchers who are looking at these questions from a "politically incorrect", …
/r/askTRP26/01/17 01:59 PM
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My son is 15, and started a light weight training regimen last year. He's a big kid though. What we did was found a personal trainer (at Gold's Gym) who knew how to work with teenage boys. So he has our boy going through a whole series of different exercises every week, including bench presses, etc. He also does PT for JROTC at school, but that's mostly running, pushups, etc.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:03 PM
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Put another way, I discovered the truth about women at that time, and the truth about myself being a beta. Only recently have I understood it as "TRP" and had the language to understand what happened and what I was going through.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 02:59 PM
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I'm 52. I discovered TRP when I was about 40, give or take. It's never too late.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 12:54 PM
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I don't know if OP was trolling, but thanks to all who answered here so far. I've gained an extra bit of extra understanding as a result of these great answers.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 08:19 PM
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I think this is pretty much correct. Evolutionary psychology's biggest detractors claim that gender and gender roles are entirely social constructs. the challenge that evolutionary psychology has (as well as TRP) is to be able to demonstrate how our behaviors are influenced by our evolutionary past in the face of culture and language. That's hard to do, because of the very wide variance you see in human behaviors. For example, there is a lot of variance in AWALT amongst straight women, with some…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 03:24 AM
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I crossed the six figure line about 10 or so years ago. I work in consulting and training, and have side gigs teaching at universities. Basically, you need to network, and never be afraid to do something new. Whenever an opportunity arises that looks like I would learn something, I go for it. The downside is that I am always working, but i've gotten used to it.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:57 PM
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Depending on the school you attend, the humanities and arts are going to be poisoned by feminist doctrine to different degrees, some worse than others. If you're in the arts and humanities, there's no getting around it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 04:12 PM
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I wouldn't even refer to it as "after the fact". Raising Chad's kids with your own resources is cuckolding, plain and simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 04:24 PM
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Next! That's it. She's already cheating on you, I guarantee it. Don't be a pussy. In a very business-like way, just tell her sure, no problem, and disconnect yourself from her in all ways. As an old guy, I can tell you for sure that you will be SO GLAD you did. Sometimes, this makes you attractive again, and she may "change her mind". Don't buy it. She's already proven that she is not worthy of a LTR with you. At best she's a plate, but I wouldn't even do that. Lift, be confident, and have fun w…
/r/askTRP28/10/16 09:55 PM
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Part of me hopes this is just a troll doing a parody on TRP. But the other part me me knows this story too well. You're very young, OP, and are very lucky to have learned this hard lesson early in your life. I'm not as cynical as a lot of the men here, but AWALT, in one form or another, is a very realy thing. Take care of yourself, lift, and have a blast with as many ho's and bro's as you can.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 03:55 PM
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I would recommend EO Wilson's classic work, Sociobiology. It is the merger of evolutionary theory, population genetics, and social behavior, and was one of the forerunners of modern evolutionary psych.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 09:39 PM
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This is going to be one of the few times in your life when you can just focus on yourself with few distractions. Do just that. Lift, study hard, get good grades, and network with as many clubs and organizations as you can. Don't give a fuck about what anyone says or thinks. Big state colleges are also great opportunities to learn about areas of knowledge you never even knew existed, so take advantage. One thing you'll likely notice is how pathetic most young men from 18-25 are. They're unable to…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:49 PM
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"Start reading this subreddit and the sidebar stuff" is good advice, but it is confusing at first. Its confusing because it's all a mix of different perspectives on the red pill. But your job is to read it all, re-read it, and figure out for yourself how it fits into your life. I think you'll find the core "truths" to be true. The challenge is to figure out how those core truths will affect your view of yourself and your relationships. Your view of women will change, and will ultimately fall som…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:23 PM
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As an old, 50+ redpiller, I can tell you I've done this "experiment" a few times, but I didn't know I was doing it. Hook her with alpha behaviors, then go beta on her, only to have her hold you in contempt. But it is a very familiar pattern to those of us who give off alpha-vibes but were beta underneath.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:17 PM
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Thanks for posting this, a great piece. I fucking need to start lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 04:11 PM
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Not to mention the decrease in the birth rate, dooming us all eventually.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 08:05 PM
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Somewhat wrong, but I think you're both partly correct. The truth is MUCH more complex than the oft-parroted "Galileo Good. Church Bad" meme. Galileo was in fact being a dick because he was stuck in a very complex battle. The wikipedia page on the "Galileo affair" lays out pretty well a lot of the political and social background, including the fact that one of his biggest defenders was a Benedictine monk, and that the cardinal who adjudicated his case simply stated that heliocentrism should not …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:32 PM
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This is true. I've found there is no good way to introduce or bring up TRP with anyone at anytime. People have to find it by themselves.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:29 PM
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I gotta say that the advice given here so far is really good. I wish I would have learned TRP 30 years ago.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:06 AM
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Yes, I wish I would have added this to my reply above: PUT YOURSELF FIRST! Decide whatyou want out of life and make it happen. If it's a wife and family, or money and pussy, it doesn't matter. Put yourself first and go from there. Once I started doing that, the blue pill really started fading away fast.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 12:11 AM
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I think most guys here would tell you to not get married, but I have the opposite opinion. It's a personal decision, but you need to go into it fully understanding your situation. I've been married 3 times, the first two during my bluepill days, and they ended as you would expect. I'm now married to a Ph.D. from the Philippines, and we have two kids. Life is great, mainly because my wife is red pill, and actually has helped me to get more and more red pill over the years. I earn a lot of money. …
/r/askTRP04/04/16 12:07 AM
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Look for another therapist, preferably a male that practices cognitive therapy or rational emotive therapy. These therapeutic approaches are geared at simply getting you to recognize the thoughts and emotions you're having that are dysfunctional, and helping you replace those thoughts with more useful ones. Mention also that you don't like the neediness and feewings that come with other forms of therapy and you want to deal with those as well. Of course, lift, get outside, exercise, and eat heal…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:25 PM
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That's just raw numbers, due to one big group (boomers) having just over two kids per couple. The real problem is the per capita birth rates and fertility rates plummeting in the west.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:33 PM
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I've done open mic nights at comedy clubs and also have taught university courses for many years. Teaching is definitely up there with stand up as a way to improve confidence, but stand up, for me, was MUCH more of a challenge. When teaching college, you start off with a certain level of authority and respect with the students. In stand up, you have none of that, so you have to work harder to capture your audience.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:58 PM
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This is actually a really good question to ask from a scientific perspective. I've often wondered if more feminist-inclined couples would be more likely to be infertile than more traditionally inclined couples. We know that the feminist-inclined couples (i.e., a woman who holds strong feminist views and a male partner who is what we would call "blue pill"), tend to have less children, but that may not at all be due to decreased fertility, simply to different life priorities and decisions. Instea…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 05:00 PM
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I would have had TWO failed marriages by now if I had not finally understood all of this from a RP perspective. My wife loves me, I know this. But she only loves me as much as a woman CAN love a man. I've learned that the "mmmmmhmmms" mean "Suck it up, loser". So I keep my mouth shut and vent to any bros who are willing to listen.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 09:43 PM
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Not much to tell. My ex was a stunningly beautiful woman, who literally turned heads when we entered a room. She was raised in a very traditional Mexican culture. I thought a good, feminist "man" was supposed to show his vulnerable side. Over the years I did, sharing with her how I felt, which was really bad because I suffered from and still suffer from major depression. And, predicatably, over the years, she came to view me with utter contempt, until finally our marriage mercifully ended. Even …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:17 AM
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Preach it, brother. Same here. Used to think it was a good thing to show my "vulnerability". Biggest. Mistake. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:46 PM
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I definitely do NOT regret being married. And I've been on the receiving end of a marriage ending. The end of my first marriage was a classic case of a woman getting disgusted with her overly-beta husband. In the end, she got EVERYTHING. I was left with my old pickup truck, my clothes, and my books. But now I've been married for 15 years to a wonderful woman who naturally gets the whole red pill dynamic of male/female relationships. She's a Filipina, and a college professor. She was raised in a …
/r/askTRP16/08/15 11:56 PM
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I really hope this is some kind of sophisticated troll. This guy cannot be for real.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:19 PM
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I'm 51. From a RP perspective I have many, many regrets, all having to do with lost opportunities and failed relationships. All because I was such a beta loser that I either passed up some awesome career and love opportunities, or that I just fucked up the opportunities that I didn't pass up.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 10:56 AM
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I have always viewed STs as an evolutionary adaptation, as this excellent post is inferring. Women are (consciously or unconsciously) looking for the "unbreakable" alpha male. A shit test is an opportunity to demonstrate your fitness by navigating through verbal puzzles and landmines.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:15 PM
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OP, I have been through the same process. I am an academic, and also work in corporate America and am very good at what I do. I used to get all butthurt about people "using" me, but it turns out that's pretty much how the world works. You will find a few people who actually do like you for who you are as a person, but they'll approach you first only because they need to use you somehow. That's OK. Women especially are interested in little more than your utility, even when they don't admit it to …
/r/askTRP15/12/14 03:21 PM
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I've been a college professor for 25 years and also an IT consultant and IT architect. I currently make my living in my "day job" working for a very large IT company, where I do training and education on AI technologies, which requires me to speak in front of corporate and research types on a weekly basis. All of the advice given here so far is very good. But the one thing that helped me the most was to record myself on video then review the results. When I first did that over 20 years ago, I wa…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:59 PM
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It is unfortunate that OP's post isn't hyperbole. While you get variance depending on which university you're talking about, in general they've all gone down the postmodern, feminist, atheist rabbit hole, and academia is worse off because of this. Some have fought back against this tide. So the "great books universities" such as Thomas Aquinas College and St. Johns College, have been very successful at reviving the Western tradition of knowledge and explicitly rejecting the negative influences o…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 03:39 AM
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This is absolutely horrific. I feel so badly for those little girls. The root cause of all of this was a weak, feminized husband who let his wife run the family. The fool even refuses to take responsibility for the well-being of his wife and precious daughters.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:36 PM
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From the linked article: Michael Gillings, who studies molecular evolution at Macquarie University in Sydney, thinks that PMS could have a purpose. In a perspective piece published August 11 in Evolutionary Adaptations, Gillings proposes that PMS infers an evolutionary advantage, increasing the likelihood that a woman will leave an infertile mate. He hopes that his idea could lead to more research and less stigma about the condition. But while his hypothesis certainly sparked a lot of discussion…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 03:23 AM
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/u/pauly_pants gives great advice. My attitude is to simply interview people wherever I go. People love talking about themselves, and if they spend a lot of time talking about themselves to you, they'll like you more. That's how you can get a lot of casual friends and acquaintances. Watch guys on TV like Jimmy Kimmel or Craig Ferguson do interviews, how they just riff off of everything a person says and keep asking for followup info. REAL friends are those who reciprocate the interviewing, who w…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 12:03 AM
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THanks for sharing this. Great advice for this recovering beta loser.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 11:24 PM
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I'm kind of glad there's a subreddit like /r/TheBluePill, since it means that more guys will be coming over to TRP to see what all the fuss is about, and some of them will stay and learn.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:37 AM
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It is pretty obvious from reading the article that TCF merely cherry-picked her way through this subreddit and found statements that supported her claims. She is the embodiment of everything that is wrong with society today.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:50 PM
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35 practical steps to a life of unfettered misery and frustration.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 07:29 PM
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I agree. Erin Pizzey's insightful observations are pure hindsight.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:29 AM
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OP, I'm in almost the exact same situation as you. I've never been a complete blue pill doormat to my wife, but the fact remains that I had failed to be the man of the house. The only RP thing that I had going for me was that she knows I have a lot of potential girlfriends waiting in the wings, and that bit of leverage kept me from being a completely pathetic BPer in her view. But since I've learned about TRP, things have gotten MUCH better, just like for you. Even more important to me is the fa…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:51 PM
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I always say, "Including you?"
/r/askTRP30/05/14 01:29 AM
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Six months ago, I might have judged Nina for her cruel and ruthless behavior towards Adam, but today this story doesn't make me think less of her. This statement is one that resonates deeply with me. I lost out on a long-term casual sex relationship with an insanely hot babe half my age, only because I beta'd on her so badly that she got disgusted with me and broke it off. Until I found TRP I assumed she was a psychopath, but her behavior was pure and simple normal AWALT. Although I lost any opp…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:03 PM
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Game adjusting is a matter of trial and error. The important thing is to keep track of the responses you get from women and be able to relate those responses back to your own actions. in that way, you can build up a solid game that will work for you in your unique situation. This is one reason keeping a journal is usually a good idea for self improvement.
/r/askTRP17/05/14 02:49 AM
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The best advice is to not worry about women. Focus on building yourself into an honorable, self-confident man. Work out, read, build friendships as best you can with other men, learn as much about the world as you can, and get good in your craft or studies. Learn the rule of plenty, that there are PLENTY of hot young babes out there. Attracting them is about improving yourself, and making yourself immune to their wiles and guiles. They'll sense that and try harder, and you can deal with them as …
/r/askTRP17/05/14 12:01 AM
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This is actually a rather serious problem in biomedical sciences right now. It doesn't have anything to do with feminism. The issue (as any TRPers would agree with) is that males and females are different. The most recent evidence for this came from pain studies, whereby male rats were affected by the male pheromones being produced by male researchers. This caused them to become stressed, and stress induces a state of pain relief in mammals ("stress induced analgesia"). So if you're doing resear…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:51 PM
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Grace Hopper
/r/askTRP17/04/14 06:11 PM
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Little rough around the edges, but a pretty damn good article. Gangbang Barbie! HAHA!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 11:15 PM
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I've always thought that the male/female divide in comedic ability was due to evolution. Specifically, males evolved a sense of humor to demonstrate two things to potential female mates: 1) intelligence, and 2) the ability to defuse potentially dangerous situations. In turn, females have come to find many funny men as attractive and charming. This is also why comedy is perceived as more of a male activity than a female activity, and why we as a species are more comfortable with male comics than …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 04:51 PM
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Thanks for posting this, there's a lot of good lessons here. Move on and keep on TRPing!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 04:40 PM
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This is a good reminder for all of us about NOT doing what OP did. Lots of good advice for OP here.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 08:06 PM
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I wouldnt put much credence into this particular study. Studies involving self-reports are easily biased in one direction or another, plus we have no idea how the questions were administered, who the sample was or even how big the sample size was.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:11 PM
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The part about starting out as a confident alpha then slipping into a blubbering, idiotic "I wuv u" beta... Yup, been there... but never again.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:26 PM
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She had a quote a couple of years ago where she said how important it was to her to eventually have kids and a family.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 07:21 PM
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I think the primary emotion that unattracted women manifest toward their victims is contempt. It always seemed to me that they unconsciously felt contempt toward a man for not acting like a man.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 11:10 PM
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I'd love to tell the story of how I fucked up a relationship just 3 years ago with a sexy "on the side" plate by being Blue Pill Boy, but every time I think about it I cringe at how fucking pathetic I was. EDITED TO ADD: Though I guess she wouldn't have technically been a "plate" since I was technically a Blue Smurf.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 04:57 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. I really enjoy reading these types of revelations, because they all mirror what has happened to me during the 40 some odd years of my life that I spent as an ignorant BPer.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:18 PM
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The entire notion of "coming of age" has been killed by post-modernism and radical feminism. Coming of age implies that one goes from boyhood to manhood, and in a world where men are viewed with suspicion and derision, it isn't hard to understand why coming of age is no longer a celebrated point in a young man's life.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:22 PM
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Really bad article. It makes too many generalizations that are simply not true. I think the only generalizations you can reasonably make is that women with more education have less children, and tend to be healthier. Otherwise they're as diverse and woman-like as any other.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 06:00 PM
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Great article. You need to be comfortable enough with yourself such that showing a little vulnerability is no big deal. The fake alphas are the clowns who cover up their fear and insecurities with arrogance and bravado.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:12 PM
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Devout Roman Catholic. My affinity for this subreddit is due to my conservative upbringing, as well as my professional work in neuroscience, evolutionary theory, and psychology.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:00 PM
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Indeed. that's about all you can say about this situation. Poor kid.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 03:10 AM
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This was a great story to read, and matches perfectly the findings from social psychology about 20 or so years ago: All that matters in dating ads for women is that they're attractive.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:54 PM
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My guess is that negging = verbal teasing and kino = physical touching.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:55 PM
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Just. What. The. Fuck. I can't believe that some man lives like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:04 PM
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