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This is a helpful answer, thank you. I'm finally beginning to address my life long issues with self-esteem and insecurity and its obvious to me now how much all of that has been holding me back with women for so long. Part of that means making real changes in my life, part of it means accepting where I am at now and owning those insecurities as you wrote here
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:27 PM
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One thing that confuses me is "not covering up your emotions" but at the same time having a "take it or leave it mentality." What if your real emotions are needy? Isn't it honest to express that and deal with the consequences?
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:22 PM
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Going through something similar rn. Just got dumped by a girl I had been dating for a month. It hurts a lot but the fact is that I knew it wasn't going to work out one way or the other. Thankfully it was a short fling and I (mostly) kept my expectations in check. The cool thing is that she's the first girl I've ever actually picked up irl. So even though this situation didn't work out, the fact is that she is probably the best girl I've ever been with and I only got with her because of improveme…
/r/seduction27/10/22 12:05 AM
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The last girl I dated had just moved to our city a few months before I met her. She went on a bunch of Hinge dates for the first few months and basically said that none of them were long term dating material. When I met her she had just decided that she was done dating off the apps, and so when I asked her out in person she got really hyped. She later said that I was the first guy who asked her out in person for many years, and that she was really impressed by it. Also the fact that I took her o…
/r/seduction18/10/22 11:30 PM
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Fwiw, I've found that while "texting for logistics only" is a little overboard, it's best to keep the banter to a minimum if you're the type of guy who struggles with it. The real action is on the date. And most girls in my experience, if they like and feel comfortable enough with you (as they should after a few good dates) will take the initiative when it comes to texting. Not saying you shouldn't try to improve but it's not always necessary
/r/seduction18/10/22 01:48 AM
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This makes sense if you want to be a player. What if you want a relationship? I know some of this still applies but at what point does the game end
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:44 PM
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I've mostly let the conversation run it's natural course and then go silent besides a quick check in a day or so before. It's fine if you only have to wait a few days. On the other hand I tried the same thing with a girl where the date was a week out and she ended up not responding when checked in the day before. I don't blame her, I should have sent at least one or two texts in between. She seemed cool too. Oh well
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:40 PM
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Lmk if you ever figure it out
/r/seduction17/10/22 11:32 PM
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As someone who mostly texts for logistics, I find that it rarely tanks my odds but it does feel a little awkward sometimes to not make at least some small talk between dates. I'm still trying to figure out the most minimal amount I can text without hurting my chances and how exactly to do it. I think the move is probably check in every day or every other day with a light joke or reference to something we had mentioned before. Let that spark a conversation, then let it burn itself out as quickly …
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:43 PM
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This kind of attitude kept me from pursuing so many sure-things (and plenty of probably-things) over the years. Attraction is normal and healthy and you shouldn't be ashamed to want to date girls. At the very least she'll be flattered
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:28 PM
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No you're right. Honestly I'm pretty sure my reaction tanked my chances with a girl who had been into me for a while up to that point. Oh well, live and learn. I'll be ready for the next dickhead
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:33 PM
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This is good advice. I recently had a situation where I aggressively took on someone who was trying to AMOG me and I think I overplayed my hand and fucked up the vibe.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:32 AM
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Dude I can't believe there are people who can do shit like this in the world. I've been on this sub for a while and have pulled out a couple agonizing and awkward cold approaches but cannot even comprehend the level of balls it would take to do that. One day....
/r/seduction07/08/22 03:31 AM
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Yeah you're probably right, but so much of my AA comes from not knowing what to say, so I intentionally keep it simple for now
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:29 PM
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Great advice, thanks
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:29 PM
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What surprised me so much is how happy most girls are when they get compliments. Idk if it's good game (I'll leave that to the more experienced daygamers) but it's always a great feeling to tell some random girl how cute she is and have her beaming with the biggest smile and thanking you. It really changed my perspective on how most women think, because my assumption for years was that they would spit and scream and mace you and call the cops if you so much as acknowledge their appearance. Also,…
/r/seduction26/07/22 05:16 AM
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Hey I did this recently too, stopped pretty early though, I think around day 7. Should pick it up again. Those small talk exercises were really useful to helping me get more comfortable talking to strangers, although I still have only done a couple proper cold approaches. Good luck man, I'll be following you
/r/seduction20/07/22 05:01 PM
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Excellent work bro
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:18 AM
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This is gold, will be referring to this in the future
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:04 AM
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It's only expensive if you buy a bunch of pre-made shit. Easily the cheapest grocery store of the three in my area
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:15 PM
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Not sure what exactly your comfort level but I've found its best to take baby steps if you're just starting out. Break it down into a system. Here's an idea, from one day to the next: -look 5 people in the eyes and smile at them as they pass -say hi to 5 people as they pass -say hi to 5 people that are near you (sitting nearby, in line, etc) -try to start a conversation with 3 people near you -stop 3 people on the street and ask them where they got their shirt/coat/shoes whatever -tell 3 girls t…
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:04 AM
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You don't want intimacy or companionship?
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:57 PM
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Great stuff. I'm taking notes
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:38 AM
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You might be interested in Alabaster Girl. It's very flowery, not nuts-and-bolts, won't straight up give you lines to use. But it's a good look into the mind of someone who pulls a lot. I don't know why this one isn't mentioned more, maybe because the writing is so cheesy. Still worth it
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:12 PM
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Yes he ignored her during sex. He was looking out the window the entire time
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:33 PM
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I did Skype coaching for a couple months. Really cheap, I think $10-20 each for 30min sessions twice a month. I'm still a huge rookie but it helped me build up to my first cold approach which I'm not sure I would have done otherwise. Plus he's a really chill guy and clearly does it for love of the game. This probably sounds like a fake promo but w/e! Dm if interested
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:54 PM
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This is a good question, and it's something I've thought about a bit. Part of the reason cold approaching is so difficult for men at first is bc society pretty explicitly tells us not to. There's strong social pressure for most men (with cultural differences ofc) to let women do their own thing during the day, to not hit on them, to not even do anything that can be construed as hitting on them. It makes sense, women don't want to be harassed or even bothered just going about their day. I empathi…
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:09 PM
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Yeah but first you have to say you like it when she spends 45 minutes recapping the entirety of Tiger King
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:07 AM
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Thanks for this. I can see how indirect makes sense in certain contexts, but if you're just approaching women off the street... At that point it's such a breach of social expectations you might as well be up front with it, no? Still figuring out how I feel about all this, hoping to get in a lot more practice soon.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:10 AM
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With the caveat that I'm nowhere near where I want to be with women... I'll say that yes, I've learned a lot from this sub. But you have to be a critical consumer of the information here. 95% of it is either uselessly vague or just wrong. Biggest thing I've learned from the sub is very specific advice like physical escalation, strong eye contact, leading. This stuff has all been extremely useful and basically changed the way I interact with women, very much for the better. Everyone should get th…
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:04 PM
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Can you explain this more?
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:32 AM
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To all the nonbelievers: some of you have never known anyone with good game and it shows. This story is obviously on the extreme end of the spectrum, but I used to hang with a few guys who could and (occasionally) did pull off shit like this. Sadly, I didn't absorb game from them because I was too much of a pussy... but I've seen them in action enough times to believe OP. And for what it's worth OP, I've been following your field reports since the beginning. You do good work. Honestly inspiring …
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:16 AM
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Tbh this is something I struggle with too, but what works for me (sometimes) is take some time to think of how you'll feel later that night, or tomorrow, or a year from now, if you don't approach. Actually imagine the feeling of sitting down and feeling regret about how you didn't take the shot. Then when you're in the moment, you'll be forced to acknowledge that what you're actually doing is making an exchange between your current discomfort (mild) and your future regret (probably much worse).
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:06 AM
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Everyone is skipping over the fact that he asked you out and you presumably rejected him. Speaking only for myself here, if I ask a girl out and she rejects me or doesn't seem interested in the prospect, then I immediately assume she's not interested and move on. And yes, even if you are genuinely busy and can't hang when he asks, if you don't make an effort to figure out another time then I consider that as good as a rejection. Not saying guys should do that (it's probably not doing me any favo…
/r/seduction20/10/21 11:22 PM
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I'm somewhat similar. It's probably better to be strategic about how you reveal that side to people. Especially those who don't know you well yet and are still forming their impression
/r/seduction06/08/21 10:44 AM
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I was at the gym with my very attractive female friend recently. At one point we separated so she could go off and do leg presses or something. When I looked over I saw her getting hit on by this guy (also very good looking) and I could tell that she was flattered and had a huge smile on her face. Later I asked her about it and I was like "I thought guys aren't supposed to hit on girls at the gym" and she was like "it can be awkward having to see them around after, but I've hooked up with guys f…
/r/seduction05/08/21 08:43 PM
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Good shit. Even if you're in a tough spot now, you'll be back on your feet in no time. Life just goes through cycles.
/r/seduction04/08/21 01:26 AM
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I've been shy around women my whole life. There have definitely been many opportunities I could have taken advantage of if I didn't have so many hang ups. So I guess I'm here to get more motivation to approach women and hopefully learn some skills to keep me from burning out too bad when I do. Really need to start doing some cold approaches...
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:41 AM
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