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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love me I think you're thinking about it the wrong way. Being genuine and blvulnerable are attractive features in a man but they might not mean what you think they mean. To be genuine is to absolutely, 1000% detach yourself from the need for validation from a woman or anybody for that matter. You don't need them to like you to be happy. You can make yourself happy because you're dope and your life is dope. To be vulnerable is to do the risky thing. To put yourself out there and risk being judged. Risk b…	/r/seduction	26/05/22 01:31 AM
1	If she tells you she needs to check if she has plans after you asked her out and doesn't tell you if she has until the day before the date? You already asked her out. She said she'll let you know. So wait for her to let you know. If you reach out beforehand it makes you come across as needy and insecure. It is a far less attractive state of mind. You should just assume that of course she's interested in me. Ofcourse she'll reach back out. I'm a catch and hanging out with an amazing guy like me is the most fun thing she could possibly do. If she doesn't reach back out, it's not because she's too shy. It's because she's not interested…	/r/seduction	21/05/22 06:03 PM
2	If she tells you she needs to check if she has plans after you asked her out and doesn't tell you if she has until the day before the date? It's a soft rejection but not 100%. The ball is in her court. If you are unbothered by her "rejection" she might think about it, talk to her friends about you and then reach back out and ask if you're still free for the date. At this point your job is done. Do nothing. Make other plans for that day and if she reaches out reschedule for some other day. Your time is valuable and you need to act like it	/r/seduction	21/05/22 05:00 PM
1	Why does working on yourself feel so lonely and hollow? You're body is telling you something. Listen to it. You may not be very passionate about your job and/or hobbies. Be open to trying new things and change up your routine. When you're doing something you're passionate about you'll get a childlike sense of wonder, joy and accomplishment from doing it. Write a list of stuff you LOVE to do. Not just like or kinda enjoy.... LOVE! For example, trying new restaurants with friends, watching sports, listening to music, reading sci-fi books, cooking, etc.…	/r/seduction	13/03/22 02:12 AM
1	3 days to respond, left on read. What should I do? Taking days to respond is an immature way people go about indirectly telling you you're not a priority to them	/r/seduction	03/03/22 08:56 PM
1	Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid? If you want to give her this ride as a friend, just be chill and have a casual conversation. Imagine she's your sister, mom, cousin or whatever and talk to her like a normal person. If you posted this in r/seduction because you want to know how to get her to like you and find you attractive... don't. Tell her to get a ride from someone else or take a bus/train. Doing favors for girls you like does not make them like you more.	/r/seduction	01/03/22 07:47 PM
7	[deleted by user] Be flirting and hanging out with other girls Pro tip: Girls hotter than her	/r/seduction	27/02/22 03:36 AM
2	What if some men are incapable of attracting women? You're attractive to somebody, bro. It's statistically and biologically impossible for no one to be attracted to you lol. But, you gotta be so attracted to yourself that it's funny to you when other people aren't attracted to you. In your mind you gotta be like, "oh, that's too bad. They have poor taste." And keep it moving. It doesn't hurt to also hit the gym and stack the odds in your favor even more.	/r/seduction	25/02/22 01:38 PM
5	Why can't I build the confidence to approach a woman i find attractive. Great advice. Just to add, confidence is knowing. When you first learn how to drive, it's nerve racking and scary. Now you're going 80 on a 45 because you're so confident you can safely get from point A to point B. Same goes with approaching women. Just put yourself in that situation so many times that it becomes second nature. It will be silly to you that you used to be afraid of approaching.	/r/seduction	15/02/22 10:11 PM
15	my post about not listening to women's advice was removed No, when it comes to language, the majority of men are pretty literal unless they're blatantly lying. If a man says "I don't want X" it means he doesn't want X. When a woman says "I don't want X" it sometimes means, I want you to try harder and see if you actually care about X or I want X to be YOUR idea.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 02:07 PM
1	How? A lot of inexperienced guys just don't know they're supposed to make the move. They are looking for some obvious sign from the girl that she's open to a move being made on her or they hope she'll just initiate Because: 1) They're scared of rejection 2) They are afraid if they make a move it can be taken poorly and they'll be accused of sexual harassment or abuse And/Or 3) They don't know what to look for from the girl to know she's ready to be kissed, etc. The key is if she's there with you, she…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 01:46 PM
1	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? Match and mirror the energy. If she's responding right away, respond right away. If she's taking several hours, you should as well. It's not playing games, it's simply matching the level of priority she puts on you. It really messes with your sense of self-worth and overall mental health if you don't do this and respond right away even when she takes 6-8 hours to respond to you.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 03:25 AM
1	How many rejections in a row is too much? If a salesman walked up to you at a car lot and asked for your credit card information you would tell him to get the hell away from you, too lol. Don't go straight for the number. Have a conversation and talk to the girl first. "Hi, how are you?" with a smile on your face is a better pickup line than "can I get your number?"	/r/seduction	03/01/22 10:01 AM
6	Starting from zero I love your question on explaining what it means to be confident. A lot of people throw that around as if it were some brilliant insight, but a man's brain doesn't work that way. It won't just click into place and we'll start acting confidently just because someone on Reddit told us to. So it's important to start with some examples of what confident behavior looks like. Luckily we have movies, and a lot of the ultra badass heros we all love display a lot of the confident characteristics we can e…	/r/seduction	01/01/22 09:03 PM
4	How to become more physically attractive? Make eye contact with strangers and smile more. It's amazing how much of a difference this makes. People are more attracted to you than you think because, biologically, attraction isn't a choice. Humans can't control who they find physically attractive. We usually reject ourselves with our behaviors which demonstrate low social/emotional intelligence or lack of self worth. Hint: height and body hair don't matter. If it doesn't bother you it won't bother her.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 01:57 PM
203	Should I Flake More Often? Toxic behavior is only going to attract more toxic behavior	/r/seduction	29/12/21 02:48 AM
-1	Women, do you know the exact reason of why you're not feeling a guy? Biologically, Men think about attraction with the left side of the brain "she's attractive, she'd make a good mother, she's loyal, etc.". Women think of attraction from the right side of the brain, i.e. "How does he make me feel?" When she feels aroused, attracted, safe, comfortable, positive vibes, etc. She equates that to liking the guy. If she only feels friendship vibes or creep/asshole vibes, she's not interested. So when you ask a women to logically explain why she's not into a guy most if…	/r/seduction	27/12/21 01:20 PM
2	[deleted by user] Yeah I think you're onto something, bro!	/r/seduction	18/12/21 07:25 PM
424	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Don't be afraid to be sexual and masculine when you're talking to a woman you're attracted to. Be proud of your hard on (figuratively. Please don't publicly expose your erection). I feel like a lot of us men hold back our sexual interest in a woman because we are trying to be "respectful", but the reality is we're not being honest about it. That doesn't mean to be a creep and tell her how sexually interested you are in her. It's more in your energy around a girl, holding strong yet flirty eye co…	/r/seduction	16/12/21 03:03 AM
3	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? Talk to the women you like the same you you would talk to your friends, strangers, family, etc. The talking part doesn't change all too much. The difference is more so the context. You're going to ask her out on dates. If you invite her out for drinks in the evening with just the two of you, she'll know it is because you're interested. When you're on the date, talk to her like a normal human being, but make the move when the signs are there (i.e. she starts touching you, playing with her hair, h…	/r/seduction	08/05/21 02:05 PM
5	First night out Great job. Make sure you talk to everybody not just girls you find attractive. Get your brain so comfortable with talking to strangers, that talking to pretty girls doesn't phase you at all.	/r/seduction	27/03/21 03:00 PM
1	Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating. Be grateful for all the awesome stuff you already have going for you. You feel like something is missing and you think that the missing piece is a gf/wife, happy relationship and family. The energy that you are putting out into the universe is one of lack. You must already feel complete within yourself before attracting a long-time partner. A healthy relationship is two people who already feel complete sharing their completeness with the other. You are not there to complete eachother. You don't …	/r/seduction	14/03/21 10:40 PM
7	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Lol that kind of mentality will kill your game. Women aren't robots. "There's no book that says if she does this do this. If she says this do that". Just make sure you're the one that is smiling when you approach. You don't have to be perfect, just relax and have fun. 90% of guys won't even approach so that gives you a leg up on the competition.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 11:45 AM
180	Approached two girls at a bar last night and made a fool of myself. Great job! Here's a tip to help you improve. Try only approaching girls who make eye contact with you and smile. Hold eye contact and let them look away first. If they look back your way, that's a pretty clear sign you can approach. Instead of telling jokes try just asking a lot of questions to get to know the girl. Once you do this a few times and get comfortable, you can start approaching the more difficult groups of girls but personally I like it when things are easy.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 04:13 PM
4	She's not the prize, and neither are you This is absolutely correct. The man's job is to extend the invitation and show her a good time. THAT'S IT. The best way for her to have fun is for you to have fun. Too many guys go into dating attached to an outcome whether it be having sex or making her your girlfriend. Both of those things are just things that may or may not happen naturally when you're both having a good time.	/r/seduction	28/02/21 11:18 PM
25	She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored. Women will never (rarely) message you to ask you out. They will throw out some random shit like "I saw something on TV that reminded me of you". Your job as the man is to use this opportunity to make a date NOT to chit chat like her friend. If she says anything other than "Yes!!", then tell her to give you a call if she changes her mind and end the conversation.	/r/seduction	24/02/21 11:30 AM
0	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? You must have a piant genis because that is right on the money.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 03:45 AM
0	I am not particularly used to be "tested", is this what is happening? Bro I feel like you've been doing everything perfectly. Don't overthink it. Some girls can be like Florida weather. Sunny and bright one minute then storm clouds and thunder the next minute. Have fun and keep doing what's working.	/r/seduction	17/02/21 03:41 AM
1	How to flirt? Most of what people are saying is spot on. You really just need to get comfortable being yourself and talking to her like a normal human being. However, you need to be careful about holding back your interest and putting out the vibe that you're only there as her friend. Don't be afraid of your masculinity and your sexual attraction for a girl. Hold eye contact. Be careful with too many compliments on her looks as they may come off as creepy, but if you think she has an amazing body or looks gre…	/r/seduction	13/02/21 12:46 PM
23	How to keep a girl interested in texting and ultimately get her to go out with you? You should have way more important things to do than talk to a girl on a dating app. You can't get to know someone over the phone. Talk to them online for a bit until they're comfortable and know you're not a serial killer, get their phone number, call them to see if they seem cool over the phone and ask them for a date. The phone should only be for making dates to get to know eachother in person. Think about it like this - If you were truly a high value man with a successful career/business and…	/r/seduction	11/02/21 06:47 PM
7	Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1] This explanation is the winner 👏	/r/seduction	10/02/21 08:37 PM
3	This entire subreddit seems to be about seducing women, what about seducing men? There's this little thing women do with their eyes that drives me crazy whenever we're holding eye contact. The sexual tension in the room just explodes. I don't know how to describe it, it's kind of like a squint+smirk, which tells me "it's time".	/r/seduction	08/02/21 02:17 PM
2	Unpopular Advice To Become More Confident I'm an actor and I love this advice. It definitely helps!	/r/seduction	05/02/21 03:37 PM
3	im happy even tho i get rejected Confidence is doing something you know how to do and doing it well. Do you get as nervous driving your car on the freeway now as you did when you started learning? No. Because you got the reps in. Time and repitition = mastery. The more you ask girls out and the more you get rejected, the more comfortable you'll become and the more confident you'll appear. Keep it up!	/r/seduction	04/02/21 11:33 PM