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There must be something else going on behind the scenes. Maybe cash, gifts, free services. As a woman, trust me when I say women are not looking for short, soft, rude and unintelligent men. They will put up with it if there's something else being offered but it's just toleration, nothing more.
/r/seduction22/10/17 01:03 PM
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I like what you did. You asserted yourself while still being civil. Very classy.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:03 PM
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How is this even a question. Grow a fucking back bone.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:08 PM
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Only thing is I don't know how you would screen. I'm a LTR-focused guy who doesn't mind casual sex, and my screen is to have sex with the girl. If she doesn't know what the fuck she's doing in bed and tells me a low number, she's probably telling the truth about being low count and is potential LTR material. I'm going to disagree with this. A woman in a loving LTR will learn a hell of a more about sex and how to please her man than a slut who just fucks like a porn star. In the LTR there will be…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 10:45 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 09:58 AM
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He's a troll. Check his post history
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 09:53 AM
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https://youtu.be/LaPHPQt91w8
/r/askMRP01/10/17 01:33 PM
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If he's your friend/part of your group she's probably wondering why you aren't putting a stop to it. She's the new one in the group and probably doesn't want to come off as the bitch. Ask her if it bothers her, she should say yes, and then tell him to suck a dick. If she says no she could just be trying to play cool because he's your friend.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 03:08 AM
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I'm assuming you're male: Would you want a woman who shows "vulnerability" to every other male to show you vulnerability? Would it mean anything if you know she gives her emotional self away so easily? I'm genuinely curious because I'm from the "guys do the chasing, and girls should play hard to get" school of thought. If I can just flirt with every guy(one at a time) until one finally gives himself emotionally to me then that opens up a whole new world. It takes vulnerability to flirt and I nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:30 PM
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We're only speaking in the context of a romantic relationship. A guy doesn't need to show vulnerability at work or with his friends. It may be more socially acceptable for a woman to publicly show vulnerability than a man but there is a limit to how many times she can show/offer this vulnerability to the one she wants. If for whatever reason the man takes advantage/rejects her she can't just move on to the next guy and display her vulnerability again (assuming this is all being done under the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:12 PM
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vulnerability is a negative for both sexes. Both would leave themselves open to being taken advantage of or rejected when something better comes along. Hypergamy and hard/soft/demotion to plate is the same thing. Trust me: a girl wants a man's vulnerability just the same as a guy wants a woman's vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:47 PM
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that could be true and ditto for the man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:43 PM
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This is not easy when you aren't getting the guy you want. You can see him but you can't do anything about it -god forbid he sees this as desperate or too aggressive. Or worse, he is just so used to it it doesn't phase him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 06:43 PM
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This is interesting. In both fantasy scenarios - obsession for women and great sex/unconditional love for men- men and women want essentially the same thing: a partner who is exclusively available to them and will offer them anything they want while the men/women no longer need to put in the effort to not only maintain the relationship but not even to improve themselves. There is zero vulnerability and maximum power/control in both cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:52 PM
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Well, that's easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:27 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:07 PM
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Asking for a hand is a shit test?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/17 02:44 AM
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That could why some do it. The consequences are the same.
/r/askTRP25/08/17 02:02 PM
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I mean, that's a given. I'm not going to allow anyone to harm me. I don't want HPV or whatever! I get my partners checked. Morally though, I don't want to judge people, but I know that when I see girls who ride the cc they just seem emotionally depleted. It breaks their heart a little at a time and they can't see the emotional consequences. That goes for men too, just not as much.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 09:43 PM
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Sure. I'll try. I realized early on that I became emotionally attached to a man after sex. So I only dated men I could love and be loved by. I'm also pretty kinky so I have to make sure the one I'm with is going to understand and enjoy. You can't build that kind of trust while sleeping around. I know I could sleep around but just PIV is so boring. It's mental for me. It has to get deep So good love and great sex are why. Because someone will probably wonder: I'm told I'm beautiful a lot. I work …
/r/askTRP24/08/17 06:28 PM
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Charisma makes women do strange things
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:27 AM
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5 guys in 2 years isn't a lot? I've only been with 5 in 17 years Edit: I'm female
/r/askTRP23/08/17 05:03 PM
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I guess, how much do you really like this girl? She just got back together with her ex. Exs are exs for a reason. I doubt she's serious about him but they have a little history so he knows how to push her buttons and get her back. Are they living together? It seems like she's looking for a good reason to get out of old relationship. If you like her, give her one.
/r/seduction22/08/17 07:31 PM
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I love h&m. You can usually find amazing sales at their flagship stores. I bought a bunch of dresses for no more than $10 each. H&m can be a bit typical but there are great staple pieces there : blazers, t-shirts, camisoles, bags etc.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 05:46 PM
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How do you feel about women doing this?
/r/askTRP13/08/17 06:14 AM
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Maybe she was saying size doesn't matter?
/r/seduction12/08/17 04:04 PM
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Gym
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:52 PM
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Obviously she wants to hear a yes. If she's thinking about it she probably wouldn't let it happen. If you think she's starting to get unhealthy, take her biking, swimming, hiking, dancing. And let her know you find health to be the most attractive feature (even if it's not). She will learn that you won't be ok with it without flat out telling her you only want her for her body.
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:50 PM
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Honestly, I'm terrified of making eye contact with a cute guy. I can't help it, it's like my eyes just can't focus so I usually look away or down. If he does say something to me I will smile if I like him and gradually make eye contact. It takes a lot of waking up for me to finally get playful and flirty. I was so shy growing up. Now I'm a lot better but if there's a guy I like in the vicinity I just freeze. How far will I go? Not very, just a shy smile. I like the guy to pursue me because I pre…
/r/seduction08/08/17 04:46 PM
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Your lady is a lucky one
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 01:05 AM
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Sometimes she digs her heels in and does the opposite what I want as a power play like a defiant toddler. If she enjoys submission sometimes she could be what the bdsm community calls a "brat". I'd look into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 05:24 PM
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Black Tryna
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 12:18 AM
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What happens when they find out you're actually not religious? I would feel duped.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 12:13 AM
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Lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 12:08 PM
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Not a phone camera though. They're good cameras but I wouldn't trust them for true representation. I would trust a good Nikon or Canon because their lenses are just better.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 10:09 AM
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here you go
/r/MGTOW22/06/17 06:42 PM
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My sister in law got pregnant at 42 by complete accident. Then again at 44, again, complete accident. Beautiful healthy girls. It will happen. 32 is not old at all.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 04:09 AM
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Honestly, just tell them to f* off. Some guys just don't listen to nice. You need to protect your time. It's precious. Don't even let them take up any air space in your mind. Just work on yourself ​and that should keep you plenty preoccupied.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 01:49 AM
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I mean, I don't really see anything wrong in that but other's seem to. Could be a bit more subtle, more like an "idea". A guy who wants exclusivity would be thrilled and a guy who doesn't will probably give you some good clues that he is uncomfortable with the idea. If there are so many guys why don't you try it on one of them and see. could totally backfire though.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:35 AM
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I agree. It seems a little desperate or BPD to keep people around that you don't care about just to keep up appearances. And really the wrong appearance at that! I would think it looks like you're easy if you have guys saying hey to you every few steps. Anyway, what's your advice in this situation? Wouldn't it be great if a guy could just read your mind and answer the questions you need answering? Yes, but unlikely. Is it a turn off to ask if the guy is thinking exclusivity? Like, a gal can't wa…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:25 AM
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What do you mean by "never give up your orbiters or your loose affiliation with various alphas to keep your man in check"? So just keep playing the field until one of them proves himself?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:35 PM
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You're right. I guess I mean how do you confirm exclusivity. Or do you wait for him to ask for it as well? And then how long do you wait before moving on?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:17 PM
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How do you ask for commitment? I don't think it's high school at all to not waste time about it. It's highschool to beat around the bush about it and never be sure.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:28 AM
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It sounds like things are going well. Since this is your first "real" relationship I would take things slower than what may feel right. 6 months really isn't a long time. Have you read How to vet a man pt 1 ,pt2, pt3 ? I think it's important to reflect on how he makes you feel. Even if you haven't had a real relationship before you've still had other relationships with people and you know how you like to be treated and what makes you feel good. Does he makes you feel that special something? I ag…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 02:17 AM
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Have you slept with these guys before asking for commitment? Usually 3 months mark would be the absolute earliest time I would suggest sleep with someone. I don't want to sound judgey at all, do what you like, but if you have slept with them so soon it would makes sense that they aren't looking to lock it down but still following you around. They just enjoy your company and want to keep things "light" and commitment free. I can't understand why they would keep pursuing you if you've been strong …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:22 AM
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It's such a hard question to answer because I know how cool my mom was. But ultimately I think adoption at birth would probably have been better. Of course that's assuming everything works out smoothly: you are adopted right away, you don't end up in and out of foster care, you are adopted by good people, and you are adopted by people who don't happen to die before you reach adulthood (no way to foresee such an event but life style is usually a good predictor) etc. I think, however, that if ever…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 12:41 AM
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I think abortion would have been the best choice for her.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 11:19 PM
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that's a very cursory and general response. Are you perhaps a teenage mom? I agree that staying with the biological family is probably the better choice but there are so many variables. I would say the majority of families looking to adopt really badly want children just because they love kids and have altruistic motives. I personally would love to adopt. But then you have the crazy people who give the kids back (WTF??) because parenting is harder than they thought, or they're child abusers (i h…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 09:09 PM
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Great Vid. Gotta love Ann and her zero BS policy. But I don't think there are enough not crazy people looking to adopt. I was raised by a single mom. We were poor, she was never home then she got cancer and died when I was too​ young. She loved me dearly but I was a mistake. She wasn't supposed to be able to get pregnant due to cervical issues but she did. I really wish she hadn't kept me sometimes. I wonder if she even had access to abortion. Life is a struggle without the help of both parents.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 04:42 PM
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Sounds perfect to me
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 12:54 PM
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You aren't actually schooling anyone right now. I understand redpill definitions of Alpha and beta. I'm not saying there is actually a switching of places going on in the real world. There's been some talk about greater betas here recently and from a woman's perspective it seems I would rather have the greater beta than the traditional Alpha which sort of makes the greater beta my personal Alpha. I think the problem most guys have is that they don't see alpha/beta as a sliding scale. You are eit…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 10:19 PM
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I don't. I'm just distilling the sentiment of the post. If the betas are providing, protecting, contributing, showing resilience and adapting then it would lead me to believe they, in the long run, will come out on top. Seems pretty Alpha to me. I don't have a dog in this race, just going along with the post.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 08:05 PM
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I think she's asking how to say "no thanks" without deflating the guy's ego.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 02:59 PM
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Beta is the new Alpha
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 02:56 PM
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You know what? You sound amazing! I think you should hedge your bets and impregnate every woman possible. Shoot for 15 kids that way one of them​ will be at least a 10/10! Infact, I'll pm you my address and you can just mail me a few gallons of sperm. I know some hot bitches who just can't find anyone but are itching to have a baby. You deserve the best my friend! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/17 03:56 PM
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Agreed. TRP has just become PUA
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 01:26 PM
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He uses insulting reductionist clichés to school women to basically "be hot and young or you're nothing" kind of garbage
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 01:25 PM
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It's funny, I really like older men but don't like men who like younger women (I see them as self-indulgent?) so I tend to date around my age.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 05:41 AM
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Agreed. "U/The-captain" can shove it if I'm being completely honest.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 05:31 AM
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Exactly. This article changes nothing. It's hard to believe anyone is out there actively promoting themselves as a RPW or RPM for a stranger to get self-righteous about anyway. Just be the change, don't discuss it (cheesy cliche but true).
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 10:52 AM
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Reeeeally?! Hmm, what a good source for more info?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 05:32 PM
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Oh, yeah. I have one of those. But what does HGH stand for?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 11:48 PM
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What's HGH?
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 11:41 PM
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Sue for Defamation maybe. But probably only the guy who's site is dedicated to shaming people. I wouldn't worry.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 12:39 PM
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I. Have no idea what you are like at 19 but I know none of my girlfriends or I knew what we wanted in an LTR at 19. I think dating him is fine. But if you haven't dated many guys, I think you should get out there. This doesn't mean sex! This is just casual coffee dates. This post is interesting. I don't think your mom is promoting promiscuity.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 08:58 PM
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Yeah, captains don't plate girls. That's just oxymoronic. Pay little attention to him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 12:56 PM
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My mom's friend is in her mid 50's. She never wanted kids so she doesn't have any. She's not classically beautiful: She has a large Mediterranean nose, short hair, narrow hips, BUT she gets great guys anyway. She has a heart of gold, a great laugh, fun personality and she's a mean cook. I read somewhere else on this subreddit that just because you are a rpw doesn't mean you're looking for a rpm. Don't read TRP, it will just bring you down. Most of the guys on there are still in some angry faze. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 12:52 PM
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Not that lesbians can't be ladies. Foot in mouth
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 08:04 PM
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Oh, interesting. So just don't hold doors for lesbians. Once you're outside of your lesbian neighborhood I'm sure holding a door open for a lady would be met with polite gratitude ( maybe even playful eye contact! ) as should be normal.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 08:03 PM
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What is a highly feminist area?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 06:13 PM
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Why?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 06:06 PM
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You're totally right. I hate being on the defensive all the time. And well-intentioned men don't deserve that either. It's just a knee jerk reaction I have to train myself out of. It's social anxiety really.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 06:00 PM
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Sometimes I feel if a guy makes too strong of a bid that means he's a player so I put the defenses up. :(
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 04:30 AM
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And women aren't attracted to lazy men. I believe that is the point of this post.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 03:34 PM
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I partly agree, but people who don't really want children and are pressured into having them by society, parents or spouse become incredibly resentful and are terrible parents. Those kids know deep down they weren't wanted and that's a pretty bad mind fuck. Better to make it acceptable to not have children so only those willing to be the best parents possible will raise kids. Who wants another generation of plate spinners with no sense of duty?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 04:19 PM
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Bingo
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/16 02:06 PM
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Some chicks did a guy with an ugly face (weird, but think about all the rapper/thugs that make girls melt) but he's got to have the body to make up for it. Just build as much as possible, which guys should be doing anyway. Unless you're literally missing limbs there's no excuse. Given, the guy in the vid has a nice face and sympathy on his side.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 11:20 PM
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A true alpha who wants to protect and provide a super feminine and supportive woman? I think so. I see them all the time
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 08:30 PM
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Or he should have been shredded already. He's going to be a weak balding blob for his wife and he-man for the new model? Lame
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:26 PM
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Amen! He's a guy who doesn't know what he wants and therefore isn't getting it.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:24 PM
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Nah, men have to have solid shoulders. Shoulders on a man are like hips on a woman. It's weird when you don't have them.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:21 PM
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I think you got things mixed up a bit. SHE is leaving HIM for not being masculine enough physically.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 08:15 PM
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I'm just gonna guess here, but maybe she was being sarcastic
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 09:09 PM
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"Taken in hand" needs to be revived.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 03:01 AM
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Check out r/strongcurves
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 04:34 PM
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Don't count out waist trainers (aka girdles/corsets)
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 05:26 PM
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This is a good article on a different aspect of game--after you got the girl and want to keep her: http://www.primalmanhq.com/the-emperors-knot-3-ways-to-keep-a-woman-interested-in-you-for-good/
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 09:08 PM
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Sorry dude
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 02:24 AM
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Join an all woman's gym ( I'm assuming you're female looking for female friends). You end up supporting each other like friends would and usually people who exercise are positive people just trying to improve their lives. Good vibes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/15 03:07 PM
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The fact that you are even asking shows that you are acting out of a place of love. Any action or decision made with love is usually the right one: So, i don't believe that it's possible to "overspoil" when your intentions are pure. I think a good way to reassure him that you have no ulterior motives is to be honest about what your motives are. Do people really do anything without having their reasons? No. I know that when I support my man or concede to him in an argument I make it very clear th…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 05:15 AM
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