rawkthisfistred Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
59	"All guys want is sex" shit test I understand how you feel, but it's not good for you to dwell on these negative thoughts.	/r/seduction	26/02/15 04:03 PM
2	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong This is the point I'm trying to make but people are missing the point. I'm assuming it's the Bro Circle. You need to feel better inside before you can feel better outside. Lifting is an aesthetic and you should never draw confidence from an aesthetic. Be happy with who you are and lift if you like to lift, not the other way around.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 09:49 PM
2	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong You're missing the point, obviously.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 09:46 PM
4	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong I didn't single anything out. What I said was (and maybe this point was misconstrued, but it seemed pretty clear to me) that you need to change the way you think, above all else. You don't need to lift to feel better. Honestly we should be promoting acceptance as a community, because that's what combats insecurity. Think about it from a fundamental perspective. You lift to feel better about yourself. What happens if you get injured? You lose your gains and start to feel worse about yourself. So …	/r/seduction	23/02/15 06:22 PM
1	Cant stand up for myself, I just ignore when people treat me wrong Or they need an excuse. Which is exactly what this sounds like. Happiness, confidence, any trait of self-actualization only works and sticks when there isn't a reason attached to it. What happens when you stop lifting and your gains go away? So does your confidence. And we're back at square one. Change your mind, change your life.	/r/seduction	23/02/15 04:44 PM
4	In a wheelchair, and rich enough that I don't have to work. I don't know what to say when girls ask what I do... The commitment!	/r/seduction	02/09/14 06:33 PM
-1	How I feel when im aware and blocking shit tests Yeah, man. He's just explaining a feeling that can be interpreted a bit easier from a GIF than a long-winded self-post... I don't really see the harm. People still provide quality posts, there are FR's, all kinds of goodies. I don't see it harming the quality of the sub at all.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 09:38 PM
1	How I feel when im aware and blocking shit tests This guy gets it.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 09:37 PM
2	How I feel when im aware and blocking shit tests Because I can't link to this enough, apparently. If I had a dollar every time someone said a sub "went to shit" because people asked questions.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 09:37 PM
2	How I feel when im aware and blocking shit tests Instructions unclear. Dick stuck in door.	/r/seduction	11/08/14 09:36 PM
3	To those who do well on Tinder: Please share your pictures with us. You clearly haven't tried. Programmers run the world bro.	/r/seduction	07/08/14 03:34 PM
1	Getting girls invested in you? What do you mean? For me it's simple. I don't pedestalize anyone. I know my worth and what I'm willing to accept and I encourage the women around me to embrace their own worth as well. I refuse to believe that women should just invest themselves in me without wanting similar investment, just as I wouldn't invest myself in someone else without getting a return on that investment. Relationships are business at the end of the day and you have to push everyone involved to operate with integrity, unl…	/r/seduction	06/08/14 06:36 PM
2	Getting girls invested in you? I invest in them. Works for me. :) EDIT: To expound upon this idea, I bond with women. I talk about things that actually mean something to them, appealing to their want to be desired as well as their need to feel connected. I really use this in every facet of my life and I've experienced such amazing friendships and relationships because of it. You have to step out of your comfort zone, without losing sight of the fact that as many others have said, you're a buyer and not a seller. The girl I'm …	/r/seduction	05/08/14 09:34 PM
133	Online game f-close on second date field report She wanted the D, not the T.	/r/seduction	23/07/14 03:28 PM
11	so, i performed an experiment, with some unexpected results.. Yeah man. Fuckin' A.	/r/seduction	30/05/14 04:38 AM
1	Girls who don't know how to flirt ? Yeah, this definitely gave me a good laugh.	/r/seduction	27/05/14 11:49 AM
1	[FR] - K, #, F Close in One Weekend (r/thathappened) It's just irking me that this is one of the best detailed FR I've read in recent memory and you're comments are sitting at 0 karma, seems like hate to me. But thanks for the great write up. :)	/r/seduction	19/05/14 08:54 PM
4	[FR] - K, #, F Close in One Weekend (r/thathappened) Seems like there's a lot of outcome dependent haters though, judging by the upvotes. Pfft.	/r/seduction	19/05/14 06:47 PM
31	How and where do you pick up MILFs as a young guy? This.	/r/seduction	16/05/14 05:07 PM
40	How and where do you pick up MILFs as a young guy? Motherlover. FTFY.	/r/seduction	16/05/14 05:06 PM
1	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." No problem. We have to share that positive energy more, this world's getting cold, you know? :)	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:10 AM
2	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." I can completely understand that. Damn, you just blew my mind. This sincerely makes me reconsider everything... :) Thank you.	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:09 AM
1	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." In Buddhist thinking this idea of non-clinging doesn’t just apply to material possessions — we’re so materialistic that that’s the first thing we think of — but to everything, including the idea of having a self. I think the ideal is the same. The authenticity of the quote doesn't matter as much to me. shrug	/r/seduction	11/05/14 04:04 AM
3	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Honestly I never gave it much thought. I found out one day that happiness is a choice and when I found Buddhism it just kind of clicked. When you are finally able to objectify suffering and identify it as a thing, and also identify yourself (and your ego) it just kind of makes you realize life is a beautiful joke. We're all creatures just playing a game. So why not just be nice about it? What's the drawback? :) Happiness is too fucking awesome. And everyone wants to be around you when you're the…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 11:54 PM
8	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." No, it's not all strictly Buddhist philosophy, but it does interrelate with a lot of teachings in Buddhism. That feeling I kind of more so took away from meditation, it was an aha moment where I finally realized that nothing ever matters besides this moment. In this moment you choose to be the person you are. And the consecutive commitment to those moments are what build you. Did a lot of shit? Yeah, that sucks, but you still have this moment. And you'll always have this moment. It never ends. B…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 11:46 PM
0	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." What do you mean?	/r/seduction	09/05/14 11:40 PM
5	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Funny thing is, now I don't even care if I ever see her again. I learned and grew.	/r/seduction	09/05/14 11:39 PM
9	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." If you use Buddhism and other such teachings (non-dualism, 'power of now', etc.) to become more attractive to women or to pick up women, then you do not understand these teachings. It's quite possible you took my comment out of context. I'm actually advocating for the exact opposite. I personally used the teachings of Buddha to realize why my 'game' was off in the first place, because I wasn't happy with the person I was. That is what ultimately shifted my focus away from 'having game' to 'being…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:38 PM
1	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Haha, that's actually a coined phrase in this sub... Study, young padawan. :-P	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:28 PM
8	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." "We only lose what we cling to." There's your advice. (Plus, women hate clingers, so basically control your emotions.) You probably get a crush because you're hoping or expecting things to go a certain way. The only real solution to that is to not expect anything and just let things happen.	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:25 PM
14	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Pedalphelia?	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:24 PM
3	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." I'm torn, because I would like to know what your suffering is, but I don't want to downplay your personal struggle. I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but life is tough for everyone, especially in this climate. But being down on yourself isn't going to help anything. Consider this: Everyone suffers, but we suffer because we cling to ideals. We all think we should be somewhere in life, but who has defined those earmarks? Societal norms. It isn't your job to adhere to the benchmarks of s…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:19 PM
2	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." No one will ever live the life you live, experience what you have and make the choices you will make. Appreciate everything you have done in life; it is the only formula that makes you unique. Even with negative experiences, you've learned from them and grown. Everything helps make you a better person. Having said that, why do you hate social interaction? I find one of the most fascinating parts of life is discovering the likes and interests of others. What makes you feel adverse towards it? Sid…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:14 PM
3	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." "I'd rather live a life of mistakes than spend a life doing nothing."	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:05 PM
4	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." But that's why I'm such an ardent supporter of Buddhism. Naturally, it's difficult for most people to embrace Buddhism and keep that same "getting laid" mindset, when you realize that your intentions are not in line with the eightfold path. That's what helped me permanently change my mindset. I was finally able to foster positive relationships with people because I was actually able to stop my expectations; I finally became outcome independent, but for all of the right reasons. I think that's wh…	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:05 PM
28	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." YES! This too. This captures exactly what I was trying to say. For the longest I was wondering why I was never satisfied with anything I've achieved, but this is the exact perspective that changed all of that, for me. Life is a game. Tomorrow never comes, the past is always gone, so all you ever have is the moment.	/r/seduction	09/05/14 08:00 PM
4	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Dude I'll be Buddha Bros with anyone. It's all about spreading positive energy for the betterment of others, in my opinion. I want to share everything I've learned to help others. :)	/r/seduction	09/05/14 07:59 PM
3	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Yeah? Then make yourself better. If you know your value is sub-par, then take actions to change it. Don't ever accept anything about yourself that you don't like. You are in complete control of who you are, no matter how bleak it may appear.	/r/seduction	09/05/14 07:58 PM
150	"If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you." Can confirm. Lost my fiancee 8 months ago because of 5 years of this. IT DOESN'T WORK. AND I'M SO GLAD I lost her to teach me this. I've been having the time of my LIFE over the last 4 months. DO NOT TREAT ANYONE like they're better than you. We're ALL equal with our own individual strengths and weaknesses. APPRECIATE your own self worth and you'll attract the women you want. EDIT: Sidebar, Buddhism taught me that you can only lose what you cling to, so keep that in mind, as well. If you're not …	/r/seduction	09/05/14 04:55 PM
4	Can we stop posting about Tinder; it does nothing to contribute to self development. Exactly, people fall back on Tinder because they're too nube to go to a bar, work on their inner game and create the right kinds of attraction. It's a total cop out, but that's what some people want. Easy Street. I don't think those people come to Seddit with the right mindset anyway.	/r/seduction	02/05/14 03:33 PM
2	Does cocky-funny even work on millennials? And with this approach, cocky funny always works. 100% of the time. That's the cool guy, the guy who can tell it to you straight and you can a) laugh at yourself and b) appreciate his sincerity. I have both male and female friends like this and they're damn near my BFFLs because it's so hard to find people who have the confidence to live life this way. EDIT: Even HappyJerk's name is cocky funny, haha.	/r/seduction	22/04/14 05:23 PM
0	I'm successful with attractive women I don't actually "like". I'm unsuccessful with the ones I'd actually like a relationship with. Help? Seems legit.	/r/seduction	16/04/14 06:07 PM
1	Would you guys be interested in video/audio of the learning process? Long lens shooter should be able to handle it. Where are you located? Near NY at all?	/r/seduction	27/03/14 08:48 PM
-13	Friendly reminder for young and older Casanovas But it's not really worth a post in the sub...	/r/seduction	24/03/14 08:20 PM
1	Comprehensive Conversation Guide I second this, after reading I'm concerned about your brother. OP plz clarify.	/r/seduction	17/03/14 03:17 PM
3	My experience approaching a true 10 If you like jager bombs, drink jager bombs... Do not listen to people who try to objectify your swagger. That's why it's yours. Do not listen to people who use pre-conceived notions of what is "popular". This is not alpha. -_-	/r/seduction	12/03/14 02:25 PM
1	My experience approaching a true 10 I see a whole lot of hating and not enough congratulations. Nobody knows if this kid is telling the truth, but in a sub where we're supposed to inspire hope for each other... why are we busy picking apart the validity of this story? LET IT BE A BASTION OF HOPE FOR ALL YOU SEXLESS PRICKS. The reason why you're sexless is because you spend so much time questioning shit like this and not learning what you can from a story, whether it's true or not! Gah.	/r/seduction	12/03/14 02:23 PM
13	Just approached a girl. . Step one...	/r/seduction	11/03/14 04:29 PM
2	[Hot or Not] Date/Breakdown Can I get in on this action? I never get any traction on any dating sites and it's killing me. Glad to see a brother post a FR, gives me hope!	/r/seduction	06/03/14 09:03 PM
-7	The Relationship Ladder. I guess I just never cared to appease those people. What's the saying again? Haters gon hate? Yeah.	/r/seduction	05/03/14 07:42 PM
-4	The Relationship Ladder. Uhmm... Not understanding all this negative backlash. All I've ever seen on seddit are mostly principles on how to be a confident male in hopes of attracting quality women, which isn't something that should be taboo to talk about, or am I missing something here?	/r/seduction	05/03/14 06:37 PM
1	How do you break out of small talk? You're the only one placing labels. I welcome all forms of knowledge and arguments, but I, like everyone, have a bias. But I can be swayed with a compelling argument, which it simply appears you don't have.	/r/seduction	21/02/14 03:12 AM
0	How do you break out of small talk? Ahem... You're forgetting to cite your sources, Mr. "Science".	/r/seduction	20/02/14 09:21 PM
-1	How do you break out of small talk? Sorry but its true. Women and men are the same. They have the same needs. It is "societal norms" that tell us they are different. FTFY.	/r/seduction	20/02/14 08:02 PM
38	"Quick, let's make out so that guy doesn't notice us" Don't be so serious all the time! Marriage, maybe even twice.	/r/seduction	18/02/14 06:47 PM
10	How to tell if she's giving you "the look"? ◕ ◡ ◕	/r/seduction	09/02/14 08:16 PM
2	Why I was a "nice" guy, why you may be one, and why you need to stop right now. Sloth, you are my twin brother, or at least we're going through the same shit. Nice write-up, man. Very inspiring.	/r/seduction	15/01/14 03:09 PM
-11	Finally all pieces have come together - I discovered living in the present. Maybe this might help you if you struggle. This.	/r/seduction	31/12/13 05:48 AM
1	How can I stay the nice guy? Yes. Yes. Yes. I've been doing that, forever. It's fucking hilarious.	/r/seduction	27/12/13 07:17 PM
1	[FR]-ish Need help to kino with reserved girl Oh yeah, I've felt that sting.	/r/seduction	27/12/13 03:36 PM
2	How can I stay the nice guy? But a nice guy sounds like he subconsciously (or consciously, even) does things with the intention of getting laid, where as a good guy doesn't obligate sex on anyone? Source: Me, nice guy trying to become a good guy.	/r/seduction	27/12/13 03:01 PM
1	You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them? I agree completely.	/r/seduction	27/05/13 02:58 PM
3	You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them? You are the man.	/r/seduction	25/05/13 01:57 PM