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rawrdoublurawr/r/seduction18/08/15 01:38 AM
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When you say things like "I just can't" you are not giving yourself the chance. Why can't you? There's a saying by I forget who but its "whether you believe you can or you can't, you're right." I just posted about this kind of stuff so look at my most recent post on here. DM me if you have any questions. And if you haven't already, read Models by Mark Manson. This will give you the mindset you need. Until then just talk to girls for no reason other than to talk. Talk to them like you would anyon…
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:29 AM
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Agree with others that you shouldn't have told her you were talking to her because of a dare. Oh well. The worst part of failure is realizing where you failed. It sucks because you play the situation over and over in your head trying to find what you "should have" said. In reality though it's over, nothing you can do about it now. Be accountable. If you learned from it, it's a win. If you make the same mistake again, you're not being accountable. Most pretty girls are going to have boyfriends. S…
/r/seduction07/10/15 02:35 AM
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That's the mindset that I used to have and it didn't work. I've had sex with plenty of girls, but it was usually very shallow experiences. The numbers game can boost your inflated ego, but it can't fulfill your emotional needs as a person. You need real relationships for that. I mentioned this in my original post so you must have missed it or you are not yet ready to understand what that means.
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:40 PM
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Just decide that today is the day that you make steps towards a better life. This reminds me of a question like, "I'm going to the beach in 3 weeks, how do I get a six-pack in this time?" It misses the point. Your social skills and romantic life with women are a process. Just like proper nutrition is a process and there really is no one fad diet that will fix your eating habits. If you decide to go out and talk to at least one random person per day, that is a win. If you set the goal of approach…
/r/seduction18/08/15 05:03 PM
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Haha yeah thanks, I can be a pussy some times. It's part of who I am. I have a lot of conviction in my heart and sometimes that makes me act like a little bitch. It hurts me at times, but overall it is something that I often use to my advantage.
/r/seduction18/08/15 04:43 PM
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My exact reason for posting this. I'm glad my experience has had a positive effect on your situation.
/r/seduction18/08/15 04:30 PM
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There you go, perfect example. I didn't start my transformation until one morning while laying in my ex-girlfriends bed, mad at the fact that she would let me still come over and have sex with her but wouldn't allow a relationship anymore. I thought to myself, "why do I keep doing this? Is it worth it? Show yourself some respect and quit bringing this unnecessary emotional stress into your life." From then on it was time to focus on myself and I have truly made strides since then. Glad you have …
/r/seduction18/08/15 04:25 PM
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I appreciate it. Yeah, not trying to come off as arrogant, but you can't deny that having good looks gives you an advantage even if you don't deserve it. That actually is the reason it can become a problem, too. You didn't do anything to deserve it, it's just the way things are. You often read that the most successful people have had to REALLY struggle and work for things in life. When good things come to you without really having to work at it, it can place you in a level of security that you c…
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:07 PM
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Very good perspective. I think what I was really trying to say was that dating high quality women is difficult and you should expect to receive this type of pain in your dating life. It's easy to say, "well it's cool, I'm still me and she can't change that. I'll be alright and there will absolutely be more in the future." But I'm also not trying to suppress this feeling because even though it hurts, it shows me something about myself that I deeply care about. It gives me motivation to get back u…
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:17 PM
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Thanks for the kind words, man. The difference between want and need is a very good point. And you're right, I am doing well for myself. I mean, the situation hurts just like it always does, but the difference between me 7 years ago and me today is that a day later I'm back on my feet, smiling and enjoying life, whereas before this would cripple me for quite some time.
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:57 PM
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Great observation. You're not wrong. Appreciate your perspective.
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:38 PM
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Damn, man! That video was awesome, exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks for that. It's cool that we can relate on this, but we've got nothing to lose and everything to learn now. Good luck on your journey my dude.
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:36 PM
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Das what I'm sayin' homie. I'll be alright. I just wanted to produce something out of this feeling while it's there because it happens often in our journey through life.
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:00 AM
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Not long. The pain is mostly due to the quality of the girl, especially relative to how far I've come in this particular area of my life.
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:56 AM
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