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Zurich without doubt from your list
/r/seduction13/07/26 11:01 PM
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Veteran PUA here. It's all in your mind. You can talk to women easily - but fear rejection. Approach without the goal of asking a woman out, but her opinion on something. Start off smaller. Have some questions ready so you're not wondering what to say. Practice until you're not scared any longer.
/r/seduction08/07/26 07:03 PM
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Having women including hot women in my social circle. It's a cheat code
/r/seduction06/07/26 07:36 PM
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Beautiful women have way more options and attention. Exceptionally hot women get trips, instagram invites onto yacht parties, men willing to take them shopping and pay for their rent etc - just to see them. One of my female friends has a guy buy and deliver her groceries - she told him he is will always be a friend and has no chance, but he still persists. Average women get hit on more - perhaps, but it's because men have formulated in their mind that they are more likely to say yes to a date. M…
/r/seduction15/06/26 08:13 PM
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7 looks. My clothing and social skills though are closer to 10.
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:48 PM
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I found Gothenburg extremely easy. I remember an area by a McDonalds close to the entrance in the mall in the city that was prime. It was between the McDonalds and the train station. I simply didnt have enough time to respond to all of the numbers I got. Night game was even easier.
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:51 PM
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Incredible - but a slower process. Lots of targets, but I preferred texting them once I got the contact info - rather than going for an instant date. Instagram helps
/r/seduction06/04/26 12:14 AM
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Lived there for a while and have visited on multiple occasions. Make friends with Koreans and get invited to parties & events. Street pickup is doable, but I had more success in areas outside of Itaewon where there are fewer foreigners. Be respectful. Seoul has beautiful women - but they definitely don't put up with a "player" vibe. Extremely jealous of you talking to any other women. Also, upgrade your fashion - both men and women in general dress well compared to American/UK standards. Also, i…
/r/seduction01/04/26 04:40 PM
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I’ve been with multiple very hot women. I sincerely hope you get to date the women that others desire - you’ll know and appreciate the feeling I am talking about. Maybe I didn’t articulate it well- but anyone can date average women. It takes skill to date and keep the 9s and 10s
/r/seduction29/03/26 10:31 PM
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You'd have to ask them. I can only say that i worked a lot on myself and I really put work into my social circle, make an effort to look good, and travel. Travel alone demonstrates so much value and experience. Plus it makes for some great stories. I've been on this sub for years touting the benefits of maintaining friendships with both men and women. So many guys here want a 9 or 10, but can't even make male friends or call a few women over to have dinner with.
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:28 PM
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Awesome. Same feeling as driving an exotic car. You'll also get more looks from other women. Received a lot of special treatment from service staff and restaurants. While I trusted the women I dated - there were guys constantly hitting on them. You will find out that most hot women don't have the best personalities or have a warped sense of entitlement because they have coasted on their looks. I remember one conversation among some friends where a woman was having a hard time finding a job. My e…
/r/seduction29/03/26 07:49 PM
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I would de-escalate the making out as it seems you are ramping up towards sex. Make her work for it a little as she has sensed you are wanting to isolate and fuck. Make wanting to sleep with you her idea. If this doesnt work for you, just ask to use her bathroom after a date. It will get you in the door.
/r/seduction26/03/26 05:53 PM
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5 days of actually trying and falling off a bike vs Reading about how to ride a bike for 5 years Just do it. Go get rejected. Get back on that bike.
/r/seduction16/03/26 07:44 PM
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I worked on making female friends, instead of trying to fuck every female that would reply to my texts. I suggest many on here do the same. I would put the best PUA wings up against my female friends anytime. Being the solo male in a group of women or having females talk you up in group situations is a game changer.
/r/seduction09/03/26 05:15 PM
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I'd like to ask, how many "cool" male friends did you make there? How about female friends? Did you go to any great events or get invited to parties? I find guys with a poor network or social skills at home, only do slightly better in Japan. I befriended some great industry professionals, that I still keep in touch with today. Language skills are a barrier for me, however having local friends is my secret sauce to success. While most amateurs would use locals to get laid, I became genuine friend…
/r/seduction20/02/26 04:40 PM
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I don't use dating apps. You're just competing with all of the other tourists and local gaijin.
/r/seduction20/02/26 04:31 PM
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Bogota, Cali, and Cartegena (my fave). I left medeillin after 48 hours - I couldn't stand the foreign guys and money obsessed women there - It's Colombia's equivalent of Pattaya
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:49 PM
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sorry i snapped man. Valid point
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:41 PM
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The amount of wealth and disposable income by young elites especially in Finance have made it an expensive place to date women. Think Miami/Dubai like arrogance and wealth but with better looking guys. I wouldn't want a bro from this group to try and compete there when so many better places are a short flight away. I have a good group of friends from grad school in Switzerland - women there expect very expensive dinner dates. A coffee and a walk for example is laughed at. Hotels, dates, taxis, a…
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:34 PM
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I never said that loser and Ive been with women you could only dream of. A Belgian pilates instructor from Basel that travelled with me to Antibes would agree.
/r/seduction07/02/26 06:50 PM
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This. More casual attitudes towards sex and I put effort into my social circle there and fashion. I’m not white, but my white friends do very well there. I’m surprised at how sloppy a lot of foreigners dress there and how out of shape many are.
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:58 AM
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Locals. No apps needed either. I am not white.
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:56 AM
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My experience with more attractive women 8s and above Easiest : DR, Philippines, Thailand, Colombia, Japan Hardest : South Korea, Switzerland, Denmark, Croatia
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:58 AM
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Tinder in Bangkok and Manila is as easy as using UberEats - they just show up at your hotel lobby.
/r/seduction14/12/25 11:09 PM
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Long, wavy, ombre style color
/r/seduction06/12/25 02:53 AM
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Cruise Ship Bingo
/r/seduction02/12/25 11:41 PM
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Total disagree here. Traveling on a cruise while single is costly as some have an extra single supplement to pay for the room. You're stuck on the boat if the talent sucks. Most women are heavier, if they're even single at all. Kids running around everywhere. Mostly couples and I would say at least half the passengers are seniors. 1000X better to hit a port city that has the influx of cruise passengers and try the local hotels where people stay before or after their cruise. I'd suggest Miami, Ja…
/r/seduction25/11/25 04:57 AM
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This. Also seems to be the same hotels that out of town flight attendants stay at.
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:46 AM
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Las Vegas - I mean the ladies that live and work in Las Vegas. I have been everywhere, and in the US, is my number 1 spot. Lots of hot, successful, hard working, and intelligent women flock there. Give the stripper/escort mindset a break which they also have, but for sheer numbers of gorgeous single women, no contest.
/r/seduction20/10/25 01:35 AM
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Hungary has the hottest girls - but I sensed more attitude there. Once I was hanging with 9s, picking up other women was easy, including the reception girl at my hotel that saw me bringing back chicks. Best for pickup is Romania as it is the least visited and has beautiful women. Public approach worked amazing for me here. Albania has a lot of tourists due to its cheaper costs and many local women are wary of travellers there for some reason. All women knew I was on the move, but the Albanians I…
/r/seduction19/08/25 05:29 PM
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Yep. Post Covid - people became all weird in public. I'm not pushy, but very successful. Why mess with a winning formula? To the victor go the spoils
/r/seduction21/06/25 12:26 AM
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Club De Nuit EDP Intense Man I have tried everything. Trust me this works.
/r/seduction16/06/25 07:49 PM
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PM me. I know a gem and also a place full of hot Asian tourists and flight attendants. Almost banged as many Korean girls there as I did in Seoul.
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:33 AM
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have a great trip
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:30 AM
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Croatia, Serbia, Romania, and Albania are like being a celeb for 2 weeks. Also depending on your budget, the smaller towns of the French Riviera are fun. Lots of horny milfs in Marbella but the Brits have almost taken over there and Portugal. Avoid Greece (insane prices in touristy areas), Poland, Switzerland, Germany, Spain and of course Monaco - expensive and tougher. Paris and Rome present a lot of opportunities as they attract women from all over but both are heading into the toilet. Crime a…
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:30 AM
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Confident, selective, worldly vibe. Same day or usually close next meet. If I flew in on a Sunday night, meet her midweek and could close deal by Saturday. Lots of text and some brief calls.
/r/seduction07/06/25 03:19 AM
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I've lost that thrill - it's like playing a video game to completion once you've finished it a whole bunch of times.
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:35 PM
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It doesnt really matter. Everyone is different. If I told you 5 times, you would think that I am a natural and am blessed with good looks, money, charm, or all 3. If i told you 100, would you be willing to take that much pain? My question is, how does my number impact your ability to get laid? It's going to be tough, but power through. Believe me, if you give up, there will be guys that will take your place. You won't be missed. The only thing you will miss out on is your true potential. I mean …
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:33 PM
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Far too many to count. I was fortunate enough to have a job that sent me on business trips when I was deeply into PUA stuff and learning. Often in evenings and weekends I would approach and get blown out - but i turned it into a game. I had told myself no one in these towns either knew me or would remember me. I was relentless. After a while the confidence helped me and I became addicted. Once you turn an approach into a lay a bunch of times - it becomes like a drug. Its a thrill. So go out. Get…
/r/seduction06/06/25 03:07 AM
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its annoying tbh, but after living there, you can pick them out quickly. They hang out at slots machines and casino lounge/bars.
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:31 PM
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I mean off the strip, there is a thriving community of singles that live and work there. I wasn't referring to the escorts & strippers which are plentiful.
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:15 PM
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Another Vegas opinion I'm sorry you're not as successful as I was in Las Vegas. I still keep in close contact with many female friends in Las Vegas. Maybe try living somewhere else in the world and get some life experience and perspective.
/r/seduction31/05/25 05:23 PM
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Absolutely. Women looking for relationships want someone local. There is a misconception that Vegas is all about the Strip. Once you get into a few social circles, it's so easy. I met many dudes punching way above their weight class when it comes to hot women. Beautiful women go to LA to pursue their dreams and go to Vegas to make money. I know bottle service girls at pool parties making in excess of $100k per year. They don't need a man to take care of them, just looking for great guys. I also …
/r/seduction30/05/25 12:33 AM
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Vegas. Tourists aside, the sheer number of beautiful girls working in the bar, restaurant, promo type events are staggering. Cheap place to live. Nearly everyone there is from somewhere else, so easy to meet women.
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:11 PM
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Big Gulps, huh?
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:56 AM
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Holy shit. I know we all have approach anxiety, but there are ways to overcome without needing Lithium Orotate. Scenario : you're out and you see your dream woman. Do you not approach because you have to take your pill or wait for it to kick in?
/r/seduction17/05/25 06:52 PM
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First off, I believe any major city in Europe will be good, especially in the summer time. There are some easier than others. I did mainly street approach and have my special spots that really work for me. By having an airbnb, inviting women over for dinner/dessert/movie was much easier. Staying in a hotel does throw up some red flags in women thinking that they are just a "holiday" score. Sure there are some that don't mind but get an Airbnb with a kitchen. In Spain, i had a system that worked …
/r/seduction13/05/25 05:47 PM
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Difficult Level 9. Delusional men flocked here thinking it would be easy to pick up a hot blonde that wants to leave Ukraine. These women are simply the best - intelligent, kind, super caring, and looking for long term. They won't leave families unless guys are serious, successful, and attractive. And FYI, they know they are beautiful. Just look at your average Ukrainian or Polish dude. These guys are attractive and masculine. If you're out of shape or not successful, you're in for a tough time.…
/r/seduction12/05/25 05:18 PM
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Tinder in Norway I'd like to add, I met quite a few guys living in Dubai (mainly Europeans and some Middle Eastern) that "summer" in Stockholm, Oslo, and Copenhagen, as Dubai is much too hot in the summer. Many have the income and looks to go elsewhere in Europe (eg. Spain, France, Italy), but have figured out Scandinavia offers a wealth of opportunities for single males. Beautiful and down to earth women, low costs, even lower competition, fewer "idiots' (eg. Drunk brits that like to headbutt a…
/r/seduction12/05/25 05:04 PM
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Oslo Norway. Chill city with a lot of influx from Ukraine, beautiful local girls, relatively safe, clean, awesome wifi, and affordable rents. I was planning on using it as my base and travel to other hot cities for partying clubbing and picking up -- I ultimately didnt need to. Also Scandinavian women often fuck on first date, insist on splitting the bill, and don't play games or seem to be as golddigger"ish" as I found in Eastern Europe & Dubai.
/r/seduction11/05/25 11:54 PM
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Convention center and hotel lounges/bars were the best. Also brunch and wine tasting meetups.
/r/seduction09/05/25 05:07 AM
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Older women put up with less bullshit. Be upfront, bold, and honest with your intentions.
/r/seduction09/05/25 03:02 AM
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Conventions - especially in Las Vegas. Just hit any hotel bar or lounge
/r/seduction05/03/25 02:09 AM
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its an easier place to get laid for an Indian man, but still difficult compared to a good looking or charismatic white guy. It requires patience and persisence.
/r/seduction21/12/24 12:50 AM
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Stop being a bitch and approach. No one will do it for you. If you're expecting the girl to make the first move you're going to miss out on so many wonderful opportunities. Seize the day! The worst that can happen? You might get rejected and your fragile ego might take a bruising. The upside? You may be an approach away from the love of your life. Now stop fucking making excuses and approach.
/r/seduction19/12/24 02:57 AM
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Let's say you're wanting to get a six pack or lift really heavy. Do you go into the gym and lift the heaviest possible weight or expect a six pack after a single one hour session? It takes practice and progress. Start with just chat, maybe a dance, buy her a drink or try and make her buy you a drink. Develop the fundamentals of being able to comfortably speak and get to know women. Make female friends. Have your social circle include women. Progress and escalate from here once you are comfortabl…
/r/seduction14/12/24 07:34 PM
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Buddy of mine was fooling around with a married woman. Her hubby used also was in JiuJitSu. Knocked on my friends door and broke his jaw. My friend hasnt looked the same and has that puffy Kanye jaw look now. Make sure its worth it - I am guaranteeing you he will find out.
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:54 PM
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I did have a lot of friends in the nightclub scene .... it gets very tiring after a while. Especially with all of the birthday dinners that were followed by a club. I also worked some weekends which made it tough. Nightclubs in Vegas in my opinion are very easy to pick up in. Everyone seems to be on holidays and from out of town - lots of women looking for action (some were married). I had fun, but I was really trying to be financially responsible as well and buy a place.
/r/seduction06/06/24 07:12 AM
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More Women than eligible men
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:12 AM
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So I'm in real estate in my home town and I met a successful Realtor in Vegas. She owns her own brokerage. She also owns a couple of mailbox/UPS places that were making her an extra $25k-50k per month. I ended up investing in one of those and bought my home in Summerlin in 2019 before covid. It's been rented steady as an executive rental since and almost paid off. Whenever I'm in vegas, I will stay at a hotel or with friends. I had a few bartender friends, a restauranteur, one owned a gym, and a…
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:06 AM
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Locals wise - lots of hot women competing for lucrative service/bar/restaurant/nightclub work. I'm not referring to escorts nor strippers, which are also plentiful. Cheap cost of living and no state income taxes. Easy to meet these women given the smaller social circles I found there - it seems all of the locals have recently moved there. If you want to hunt for tourists, you have that option as well. My friend does well in real estate in Vegas, often renting out rooms and condos to newcomers to…
/r/seduction05/06/24 11:33 PM
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Not talking about just the strip and tourists. Lots of lovely women working in the Casinos and surrounding businesses - vying for positions with large tips. Once I got into that circle of friends, it was easy.
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:41 PM
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I have been asked in both cities if i would cover rent and "expenses" for women. I simply laughed. Online dating in Miami will make you shake your head. Yes there are successful self made women in Florida, but there is also another demographic of women working real estate/retail/bottle girl that expects their rent and car lease taken care of - because if you don't do it, some rich old Russian or Persian dude will. A $350,000 income at under 30 is a remarkable achievement. Don't fall prey to the …
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:00 PM
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Miami and Dubai are amongst the hardest major cities to pick up in. The reason very simply is the number of rich guys out there -- I mean truly rich. The women have been spoiled. I'm not suggesting that every woman is a gold digger -- but things that would be seen as luxuries or once in a while type of expenses (like buying expensive handbags/shoes, nightclub tables, and yacht parties) are seen as regular activities and are almost expected by women. Even average women in Miami expect men to driv…
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:49 AM
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This works 100% of the time: Be extremely attractive, tall, in excellent physical health, ripped, fashionable, well-groomed, intelligent, wealthy, be somewhat famous or have famous friends, have great hair, smell good, flash a dazzling smile and walk into the bar with a few hot female friends.
/r/seduction24/05/24 07:41 PM
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Make sure your dick doesnt go soft. Know how to put a condom on. Shower before your date and make sure youre extra clean. Trim your man bush.
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:57 AM
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I started game in my late20s and became proficient in my 30s. Being young and in school, without having to worry about bills and other responsibilities is an ideal time and environment to be brave and start gaming women. The earlier you start the better it's just like investing in your retirement funds. You're still young. Stop being a pussy and just start approaching women - learn what works and what doesn't and repeat.
/r/seduction12/04/24 11:39 PM
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Post a pic. You've mentioned basically nothing here that the community could help you work on. How are your teeth? Your hairstyle? are you balding? Are you obese? Do you have bad skin? How about general hygiene? What type of clothing and shoes do you wear? Are they clean, ironed, and fit well? What are your hobbies? Do you have an accent?
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:53 AM
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Which is easier for you to do? Hang out with a group of beautiful women or hang out with a bunch of dudes? Women will notice a man with a bunch of women and wonder why he is hanging around them. These female friends of your provide social proof and also will help you wing.
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:38 PM
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Get comfortable talking to women. Meaning talk to 3s and treat them like you would a hotter woman and treat hot women as normal. You come off more like a brother or easy going person instead of a shallow fuckboy. Women won't see you as a threat or someone that wants to fuck everyone and when you do meet your dream girl, you won't be nervous or give off needy vibes. It's much better to be in the company of 4-6 women at dinner or a club than 6 dudes. Work on yourself. Gym. Income. Side Income. Tra…
/r/seduction02/03/24 04:16 AM
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Get a sales job that is commission based and where you need to hustle to make sales. That will basically remove your rejection anxiety - I assume this because it's easier to read (15-20) books than go out and approach.
/r/seduction01/03/24 02:25 AM
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I have had the pleasure of hanging around some of the most famous Dj's in the world. The quantity and quality of ladies these guys had their pick from on a nightly basis, was eye-opening.
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:28 PM
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What's something about picking up women that you wish you had discovered earlier? Ever see yourself settling down in the future?
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:08 AM
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Your fave opener for a group of girls in a bar?
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:59 AM
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Fave opener on a set of HB10s? Any routines that you find stack well? Lastly, I prefer to go alone to clubs... what do you recommend once I get to a venue? I find being myself and not using a script feels more natural, but also have found the more "material" I learn, the more adept at picking up I get. I'm off to Vegas tmw so I'll be looking forward to your reply.
/r/seduction24/08/11 01:58 AM
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