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/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:36 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:20 AM
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Bra get checked and treated for narcissism dude. That shit really is the biggest threat to Pickup Artists. Especially into old age when the looks start to fade. As this craft tends to attract a lot of men with deep seated childhood issues which manifest itself as narcissism. Get ahead of that shit now so that you dont get reduced to nothing but a divorced blubbering drunk by it. Trust me. I know what im talking about. I have a lot of friends in this scene, some of them mentored me, and I've seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:19 AM
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Back pedal for a minute dogg. Why did you think I was talking about you? <image> I was talking about the hoards of dudes who are invisible to men. I only directed this toward you when you got butthurt because you thought I was talking about you. I would have never suspected you to be a fake PUA/seducer at all had you not assumed I was talking about you with that original comment that I clipped just now in the first place. Like seriously bra, you overreacted over nothing. You had me gaslight for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:49 AM
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My initial reply wasnt even directed towards you. But you immediately took it personal as if I was attacking you directly. Want to know why? Because PUA seduction is your identity. Its the only identity you have. And its built on a weak frame that is easily collapsible with the flick of a finger. It aint about helping out newbs or really anyone. All of this is a way to stroke a fragile ego. And as a result, you definitely arent credible to me now. "If anyone wants proof, just dm me and ill send …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:24 AM
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"I have 1200+ women on bumble app queue alone wanting dates with me right now as we speak. Is thar imaginary too?" Sounds like it. Wow you made that all about you rather quickly, didnt you? Why? 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:59 AM
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This is true for both men and women and while I would say it isnt a bad thing, most men arent not commiting by choice. They couldnt get a relationship to commit to if they tried. So yeah it is a bad thing, for them. "When you combine the two, you get a subset of men with abundant options and a much higher awareness of the risks of poor decision-making." Maybe if these men lie to themselves hard enough, yeah maybe one day those imaginary abundant options will seem true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:25 AM
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You use the word "some" a few times in your post. But the air of your post really seems like you want to not use the words some at all. Look so you say you are No Pill. But I think you are really Blue Pill. And I think that you have actually experienced a relationship or 2. Your advice is good. But with for many of the men here (that have never gotten laid or had a relationship), its going to go in one ear and out the other. Why? It sounds like survivor bias. I.e., you are projecting. You tell t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:24 AM
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I definitely relate to the whole enjoying other men's failures thing. Although for me its more in the context of I just like to humiliating other men. During my clubbing and bar hopping days I used to love to steal other mens dates and would even have a go at stealing other mens girlfriends. The success rate was low, like 25%. And most of the women I "stole" I think looking back now were itching to cheat on their boyfriends for whatever reason. So I dont know how much of that was really my skill…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:11 AM
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oh wow, I havent even fucked you and I feel like i need a shower after reading this. so what would be the opposite of "scaring the hoes"? "scaring the blokes?" i definitely think you scared away the blokes with this one. (most dudes cant handle the raw truth about female sexuality. it turns them onto helpless boys. myself included. and i've seen and heard a lot. but this was...something. but hey at least im man enough to say it) im intrigued too. most of my casuals have been with women who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 11:09 PM
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cool story op. you should be a fiction writer...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:51 PM
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no. meanie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 10:38 PM
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Thats not an absolute. Dad did all that shit only to disengage and became deadbeat once I started going to kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:38 PM
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"Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than women" Probably. I certainly am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:36 PM
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Not sure. I was insecure back then. But even so just kinda went with things without complaining for fear of missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:31 PM
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Im balding and approaching middle age and short. Im used to accepting shit I cant control. A chick jump my bones because she was already horny without me being a contributing factor? I can live with that​
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:12 PM
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Nope load of fucking horse shit. Stats? Yeah you got none because you pulled this observation out of your ass. "The reason most high functioning autistic men are lonely is bc they were coddled too much" There you say *most* "Some (especially early diagnosed) high functioning autistic men are babied too much as kids/into adulthood, they get used to experiencing" There you say *some*. I was not coddled. I was treated as an annoyance and fended for myself. By parents who themselves later turned out…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:06 PM
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Feels like you are preaching to qhior, OP. The 1 to 10 scale, most people use it as a faster way to describe peoples overall quality. Its just faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:54 PM
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Yessir! Thats why PUA is king. Instead of asking, "how can we force women to notice xyz demographic of men?" We ask, "What am I doing or not doing to cause myself to be invisible to women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:37 PM
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"I really believe it will get REALLY bad." Hey, if it is an industry which can make stupid money? Yes it will be rampid. Can't argue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:20 PM
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You are realizing this fairly recently, and projecting that because you only barely figured it out, that everyone else in the world also didnt know this. Need to read the room a little better. Additionally, and I will second this even as someone who is PUA and not pilled in the least: the biggest reason as to why many men are having issues with finding women is because there are less and less places available in society for both men and women who dont know each other at all, to be able to meet a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:36 AM
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Socializing mixed in with a healthy amount of flirting and light-hearted teasing to make the conversation fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:14 PM
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Did you mean to reply to me? Confused how in any part of my comment did I even mention one itis like at all? Because I didnt. And arent we pulling the cart before the horse? The men we are talking about in my comment have to actually approach a female and it go somewhere (even if it is just into the friend zone)​ before one-itis even becomes a factor. Likes seriously dude what are you on about?​
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:13 PM
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"When I speak on self improvement I don’t say it in the essence of “do this and you’ll have a swarm of women around you”. The people you speak of are looking for excuses." Dogg it doesnt matter your intentions or how you heard it in your head. Inexperienced men (whom tend to be horribly socially inept, or neurodivergent, or on the autism spectrum [which is not a person looking for excuses, its a person with a cognitive disorder that they didnt ask for, thank you please]) are going to take that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:00 PM
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Sounds like your fundamentals were solid and you probably didnt need it then (hope you dont mind me saying the words "were" or "was" here regarding your skills with women. Most men do tend to get rusty with it once they enter a long term. relationship. Yes i am aware there are exceptions who remain quite a catch to women well into marriage. In PUA we call them Alpha Providers) Many men do though and shouldn't let this discourage them from learning PUA/seduction. Not to discount the club, hobby, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:38 PM
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Careful with that. It isnt binary or black and white. A young man isnt guaranteed a woman just because he self improves. You will then say: "no shit". But here's why this is so true. Most of this advice is going to be geared toward socially inept men who are terrible with attracting women and even worse with socializing. What do inexperienced men like this tend to do with this advice: they take it without considering the "nuance". Many many men out there think that money and muscles alone are en…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:27 PM
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"Did you learn and use certain strategies for dating?" Yes. "Have you ever used a strategy to get sex from a woman and if so, which one?" Yes. I've got wicked talk game. "How did it make you feel?" Nothing "Did you get the results you wanted?" Don't like that wording. Seems strawmanish. As if you are trying to say that all men across the board who use strategy to get women, by default are liars and manipulators. ​ "Its almost like a guide to follow and how to behave to achieve the desired outcom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:12 PM
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"Is it possible for a man to move from being viewed as “long term” to “short term fun” or vice versa?" Sure but it requires a complete 180 in a man's worldview I both instances. A complete rewiring of the brain if you will. Most men won't put in the effort to do that. Which is a big reason as to why PUA advice, true PUA that is, gets tried very briefly but then quickly rejected by many men who then move in favor of redpill and or just giving up alltogether. (Like MgTOW or one of the incel catego…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:03 PM
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But his (and yours too obviously) audience doesnt hold this minority held view that most women are lesbains, which in itself is a cope that the most delusional of incels have come up with, to explain why they cant get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:46 AM
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Who the fuck is ya'll? We dont claim this clueless, crack pot shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:44 AM
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Damn dude you really need to touch grass man. Even if it just leads to nothing but rejections. Because you at the very least need to gain first hand experience at something in life. Even if its just experience in touching grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:42 AM
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"It starts of with saying ‘most men are primarily raised by women’ then goes into how women basically do nothing at all and just want stuff and things. Pick and choose." You are also strawmaning the OP right there. OP never said that women do nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:23 AM
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Should have kept pressing her dude. That answer she gave aint shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:16 AM
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maybe she is a troll...🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 11:11 AM
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American woman!!! Please dont stay away from MEEEEEEEEEEE, HEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:24 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:23 AM
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"This is a genuine question." Could have fooled me. Im getting bad faith vibes like crazy (specifically, a logic trap).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:23 AM
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Its been 5 hours. Have you gotten a shit ton of dms from thirsty men yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:18 AM
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whatever hopefully one day you'll grow up so that you can stop limiting your dating pool, to none.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:16 AM
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I mean, do you have enough experience in relationships to chose a chick who will embody that ideal (i.e. a chick that isnt going to surprise you with some trait or behaviour that you cant stand)?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:54 PM
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Just, stop expecting me to change. I can be faithful i will do my half of house duties and raising children. But when I want to disappear for a week and be in my head and not have to hear anything or think about anything, respect that without badgering me about it and saying shit like "what if I did that, what if I just disappeared like that without telling you where I went." Im the best boyfriend/potential husband. Except for that. Let me do that one thing, so i can continue to be the best boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:50 PM
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You dont think it will stay up? Or you hope it doesnt stay up?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:44 PM
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Something else, the game is to be sold, not told. Its like fightclub, dont talk about it. If you are studying and working towards being a seducer/PUA, dont put announce it via your flair. Be lowkey. You'll save yourself hours of futile debates between women who will fight you tooth and nail on what you have learned, and with blue ​pill men who pretty much used the exact tactics that you learned in order to get a long term relationship or wife, only to then become an anti recruiter for PUA and pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:58 AM
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We are getting lost in the sauce. The person on trial isnt HoeMath. Its you. Your flair states that you are HoeMath Pill. A person wouldnt put something that on display if they werent equal to HoeMaths expertise, or close to it. Great? Great. Moving on So im reading your reply to the post gender woman about how you dont approach if you dont see clear signs of interest. Thats a great answer. That is the right answer. That is the answer of an intermediate to expert seducer​​. You probably should h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:51 AM
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See that ladies? Do you really want to leave me hanging like that, with a high risk of prostate cancer and all? DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HURRRRRRRTTTTT MEEEEE!!!!?????
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:15 AM
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k. not sure what any of that you are going on about, is about. I just made the comment above to say: Im willing to bet money that your comment gets you at least 10 thirsty dms. is all. I dont speak around bushes or say something when I really mean something else (unless Im trolling someone). Which Im not trolling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:23 AM
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Im willing to bet money that your comment gets you at least 10 thirsty dms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:27 AM
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Bra. This sounds really believable and I want to believe it. But, stats please?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:14 AM
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Ok so can I just admit that I unironically agree with this meme, without being persecuted and made fun of. If not, no big deal. I just wanted to be honest about how I feel here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 02:12 AM
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Attracting women!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:29 PM
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I thought you were the expert though? HoeMath indicates "expertise".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:10 PM
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So I have a question: If I change my flair to "man - dead pill", will people here, specifically the ladies, assume that I am lowkey saying that I have ED or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:07 PM
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I have seven funny...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:02 PM
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Rip Polls & Surveys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:08 PM
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"/ not all men" (*she totally means all men, ye'all. i can smell it 👃in her sentence structure*)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:34 PM
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Yahoo Answers Gender Studies section all over again, sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:30 PM
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Touche. "But this is something YOU do personally, how does this prove the claim that "most" men do this." You got me. In a double standard no less. Oojps. 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:56 AM
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Well thats not true. I exist outside of the red pill and the blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:48 AM
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"Lastly, it's important to me that a guy I date has the ability to see women in more than a familial or romantic light." Dont hold your breath. Men who are like that are rare to non-existant. Regardless of if 1 or 2 blue pill men come in here in the comment section and project that "because they are like this all men are like this". Something else to consider u/Ilovebooks189956, even men who do have platonic female friends are doing it for an endgoal that most arent saying. I have female friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:34 AM
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Thank you for that explanation. But i'll be frank here. I guarantee that once you are in charge or on top (which is what I feel like your ultimate goal is here, to be in power so that you will no longer feel power-less), you'll be just like the people you are trying to fight. Maybe even worse. Want a secret? That feeling of powerless doesnt go away once you are "on top" or "have made it" in life. It just gets stronger and eats at you more. Pivot and save yourself from hell, dude. Is u/Maleficent…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 11:33 PM
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Niche is cool. Dont let his writing get too in your head though. You'll go batshit crazy like me (no good).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:05 PM
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" Wtf? Your initial post was sassy so i thought you’d have a sassy followup" I find jargon annoying it hurts me head. I just assumed it was more jargon. One thing I've always hated about the "pills" regardless of red blue black or void, is the jargon. So dumb sounding. But the fish thing makes sense. I give props🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 10:00 PM
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Yes understandably.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:54 PM
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Ok that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:53 PM
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What the fuck is this even? Fisherman/fish? What does it mean? Explain it me. Yes I realize I could look it up but I want to see what commenters have to say about this personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:49 PM
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Question OP. Your persona (at least here on reddit, probably only here on reddit because most people irl are very tame and agreeable and play along to get along) indicates that you enjoy "owning" and humiliating patriarch men, yes? Explain to me how that behaviour in itself isnt patriarchal? Now if you arent against patriarchy at all this is fine. But the tone in which you flair is written, indicates that you are doing this for some grand moral reason. Thats kind of hypocritical dont you think? …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:39 PM
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Hey everybody! Im u/pleddyd and I made it in the world! So fuck everyone else on the bottom! *Here let me just yank up that ladder🪜* There we go. All mine! All alone up here at the top! Dang dude did you get your pills mixed up this morning when you were chosing your flair? Because this is more callous than some of the worse shit I've seen red pills on here say. Or are you one of those blue pills of weak ass moral character who shit on men who suck with women to boost yourself up so you can get …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 07:19 AM
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"Related-bonus-question (because I'm not at 300 characters yet): When we decide to not participate with women, it's usually out of concern for ourselves, and maybe just not liking the woman, or just plain not having the energy. Yet, women continually try to convince us that it is because we are intimidated by them - as if that is actually correct, and that saying this out loud will somehow "fix" it - as if this requires action on our part We are not. Do you not believe us here either?" As a form…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 12:12 AM
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ah ok color me incorrect then. you want to know something screwed up? so im at a point in my life where when I listen to Diary Of A CEO or Drk I just get kinda sad. I have to turn it off. But Asmongold, who i considered blackpilled to the point of Nihilism, I actually get comfort from his clips. ​ Im sure the lot of it is the whole unhealthy echo chamber thing. But I just relate to the whole angry at the world thing while at the same time seeing the meaninglessness of it all. Its actually why I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:49 PM
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just so we are clear i was referrinf to Diary Of A CEO not Drk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:25 PM
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dude not even Tate nor Fresh and Fit are black. pun intended. They are pure red pill. So Aba and Preach are definitely not red pilled. Idk it still think Aba and Preach are between red and blue pull. Closer to blue. And I have not seen a single influencer - Destiny's to Aba and Preach nor Tate Brothers to Fresh and Fit - who are Blackpilled or Nihilistic. I think maybe Asmongold and Hasan come the closest to the true hopelessness of blackpill/nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:56 AM
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Thats him that is an example of a Blue Pill influencer who is what you describe in your post. Aba And Preach as well. Although I think they'd be more purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 04:05 AM
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What about Destiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:28 AM
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Maybe Destiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:27 AM
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I think they are trying to out him as a blue pilled incel though, arent they?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:26 AM
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You meant to preface that with; "In your dead ass wrong opinion". Correct? Because all that is is your opinion. The dating advice website Girlschase is doing better than ever and has more traffic than it did in 2014 when PUA was allegedly bigger. We havent died. We just trimmed the fat (i.e. Red Pill).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:09 AM
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"It’s a trend I’ve noticed being in this “red pill” space for quite a long time. I’ve met enough people in this space to observe general trends and also men who are less red pilled. The red pill dudes simply don’t do better with women. The ones who “seem like” they do on social media do so because other MEN want them to do well. These dudes worship these men (which is a feminine trait btw), boost their money, boost their social status, and then inevitably when they make more connections, they ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 02:12 AM
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"Inexpensive dates are fine. No one wants to resentful and cheap men who count beans from day 1. It's the attitude, not the money." Oh ok. My mistake. It just seemed earlier from the way you are talking that it was about the money, is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 11:04 PM
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Ok. Have a nice, day, and keep on buying sex workers and dating ugly chicks and calling it "game"!! On the real, if you need a consultation I can help you get out of this addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:55 PM
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It just seems as if you are trying to paint it as if all men think all women are evil on the level of Ghislaine Maxwell and Casey Anthony.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:53 PM
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I reread it thoroughly. And I have determined: Is there a reason that you are lumping women who are hated because they are across the board despicable (Ghislaine Maxwell, Casey Anthony), with women who are disliked because they are of an opposing political party to the person who dislikes them? It just seems as if you are trying to paint it as if all men think all women are evil on the level of Ghislaine Maxwell and Casey Anthony. That basically Kamila Harris and Ghislain Maxwell are on the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:42 PM
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Im not really hindered in dating though. Im hindered, by me, in turning short term relationships into long term relationships. Outside of sex. I find women to be too much. They need too much validation. The require too much investment (and I dont mean with money, money isnt an issue. thats what the newbs here in this sub dont realize) in the sense of time. Im not coded to love a woman 24/7. My style is to dote on a chick and love her hard for one week, and then disappear and focus on myself for …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:33 PM
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"If you want to address some nuance about what Epstein did, go ahead." The conversation isnt about Epstein. You didnt mention Epstein when you made that blanket statement about "people who are putting their insecurities before morality" being evil. Moral Relativism - any theory holding that criteria of judgment are relative, varying with individuals and their environments. - Bob Marley on "Buffalo Soldier" (1983)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:23 PM
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You forgot Thatcher. BTW, is there a reason that you are lumping women who are hated because they are across the board despicable (Ghislaine Maxwell, Casey Anthony), with women who are disliked because they are of an opposing political party to the person who dislikes them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:19 PM
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Sounds to me like you do expect expensive dates then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 05:01 PM
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Im glad for you hon. Being murdered is wack. What does that have to do with my comment above though? That only older men murder? ​Thats...well not accurate. Younger men murder too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:18 PM
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Well madam. If I am dabbling in moral relativism, you are dabbling in moral absolutism​. Which I will also attempt to combat because frankly I dont think that people who hold that view on morals should serve in any position of power. Or fuck, any position of science too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:14 PM
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I mean Defending that claim. Not defending evil. "Im not. Just because this sub is filled with people who will justify being evil, doesn’t mean I’m tolerating it" Your definition of evil though is extreme. Most people arent evil because they are more concerned about their insecurities than morality. Which most are. I mean come on. That reasoning is severely black and white in its reasoning with no middle ground. And im way more frightened of that shit than I am of people who put their insecuriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:50 PM
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"A person who worries about their own insecurities over morality are also bad people." Dude dont put yourself in a bind where you have to defend that. You know damn well that probably 80% of the world worry about their insecurities over morality. By your reasoning, that would make 80% of the world bad and thats just not accurate. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:21 PM
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The point is you heard it from some other dude on the internet who himself is basing it on conjecture (i.e., not hands on experience).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:34 AM
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And you know this from dating? Or you know this from other men on the internet who themselves dont really know what they are talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:33 AM
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Of course. If you truly didnt care what I do. But you are down there in another thread saying that "it isnt normal" for men to date younger women and that you are glad that Gen Z has such an aversion to age gap relationships. Im sorry you got burned by an older guy. And I know that I can be brash on here and that I come off impulsive and that I for the most part, lack a filter to much of what I say. But I dont want to or enjoy seeing women get hurt. And not every single man who dates younger wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 05:04 AM
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"I don't worry myself with what you do. I think it's weird when someone my age wants to date someone under 35." If that was true you wouldnt have called men like me manipulative for dating women younger than me. Clearly you are worried with what I do. Otherwise you wouldnt have defaulted to saying the worse about me dating younger women that you could. I mean, you even said it above that you think some men who date younger women, do it to get under the skin of older women. But replace that "some…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:37 AM
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Dude stop it. I am trying to humanize us men who date younger women to these hateful older women who are trashing us, and I feel like Im making headway. And you are just fucking sending us back like 10 steps with saying shit like that... 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:24 AM
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It just seems like women who say these type of things say it out of butthurt is all. Which is weird because their flair badge says they are married. A man can be comfortable with his choices of younger women, and still call out when older women are knocking them pretty hard unecessarily about it. EDIT: Like seriously mam, talking in character and not passive-aggressively in the third person. You are married. You made it. You have literally no reason to worry yourself with what I as a 38 year old…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:16 AM
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What about the ones who have never been in that situation but still have really shitty ass things to say about men who do that? Whats their justification for being so shitty to men who do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 04:07 AM
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Dont worry dog Im not knocking your style. Its...how do I say this. Real recongizes real. Your style is kinda like mine. Im giving you props is what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:45 AM
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If you truly dont care. If it is truly to each his own when a man does this. Then why must you default to the most negative, most snarky reason, as to why men do this? Just seems to me like you and other women who say those things about men who do this, are slinging mud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:40 AM
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u/icyburbie: mam, you really should consider this gentleman's offer. He sounds dashing if I do say so myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:35 AM
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You are right. Many women have some really mean shit to say about men who do this. And it just seems like its coming from a place of butthurt. You know ladies, just because something you say is true doesnt mean that it isnt also snarky of you to say it. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:32 AM
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I mean, it is fun to anger women my age. It is fun to anger anyone really. I am a troll/raigbaiter, darling, mind you. But ultimately I just like younger women is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:30 AM
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cook brother. fuck the detractors.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:27 AM
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My bad my mind was in the gutter. The way you said it was kind of titilating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:42 AM
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Hopefully fun things 😈😈😈
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:19 AM
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Your one to speak. Especially after making that sparky statement, meanie...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:17 AM
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Well, Missy, I respect your opinion, but you are still going to have to hold a gun to my 38 year old head to get me to ever even consider settling down with a female over the age of 28...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:14 AM
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And this is from personal experience? You have been married? Or are we operating from conjecture like most other dudes who try to give advice in this sub do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 06:02 PM
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"I'm not blaming you" Yeah you are. This is all true. But your still delivering it with an air of, "Im basically better than you because "I made it and you havent when it comes to success with women". If its even true that you have "made it". As so many men lie on here. This post reads as a self puff piece to me. "So before taking advices about women, maybe watch how they are behaving around attractive men." In order for that to happen, most of these guys would need to actually leave the house t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:57 PM
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those calculations are weird as shit. I dont peg a chick as 10 times likely to cheat until I start seeing numbers that are like her age + 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 04:51 AM
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A blanket generalization. But none the less a great insult 😁😁😁
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:18 PM
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Male 38. "I gazed into the abyss and then fell in" - pilled. ​ I frankly dont care about n count. If a female gives me the ick (I usually know even before I sleep with a female if this is the case) I won't sleep with her and will ghost. If I sleep with a woman and then she gives me ick, I won't sleep with her again. Simple. For me, at this point, how many men a woman had slept with is just mental masturbation. Its pointless. Worrying about it ks about as futile as believing in conspiracy theorie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:17 PM
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No offense man but I dont think you need the entire body of that post in order to describe the title question. So respectfully, im just going to address the title quesrion: "Men and women will never agree, on who should approach first." Thats not true. I have seen plenty of women on questions about women approaching first, agree that women should approach first. Heres the thing. #1. We have already established that women will agree to certain things that benefit men when they are on the internet…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 10:04 PM
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ok im gonna go in harder on you now since its the energy you are bringing. I know guys like you irl. The whole "might as well get a sex worker because you pay for it either way" - type. Or maybe to a lesser extent, you are the (may as well go for less attractive chicks [and prostitutes] because less work is involved). Uh, yeah dog that is an iss-you. Not an iss-me. And you have not discovered the secret to unlocking jack shit. You are still paying (i.e. working for it because you are paying in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:57 PM
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Red Pill split off of PUA long ago and they have even rejected the original teachings of PUA. We, do, not, claim, them. Stop it. Stop lumping them in with us. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:08 AM
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This comparison is so dumb and infantile. So first off, a neg is a sad attempt by a poorly schooled PUA (or PUA larper) to humiliate a chick who he wants to sleep with. The idea being that with the chicks ego having been "shattered" (Jesus H Christ some of the red pills are so cringe), her guard is now down and she is easier to sleep with/convince to go out with you. Like I said above it is a childish tactic. It doesnt work at all except to scorch the earth completely after you as a guy have alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:30 AM
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Im not showing my cards until you show yours. And you seem awfully hesitant to tell me what you know about the subject matter of this thread while attempting to have me to divulge all my reasoning behind why I think women pressure men to give up all hobbies and most of their friends (leading to the man being miserable in the marriage). I just find it hard to believe that you have no clue what I am talking about or that you havent at least seen it yourself in marriages that your female friends ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:03 AM
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Jesus H Christ the level of self unawareness here. Look the only conclusions I can come to for the fact that you dont see that women can be as controlling as men, is that you are just blissfully unaware of human nature. Or that you yourself are a controlling woman and feel the need to gaslight everyone on this thread. And you know Im leaning towards the ladder of the 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:41 AM
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"I never said a single thing about women never being bad, or men always being worse." 😲😲😲😲 YOU JUST FUCKING DID IN YOUR REPLY TO MY COMMENT!!!!! Like wtf!? "Zero possibility that women are as controlling of their male partners as men are of their female partners. Zero." Im sorry but there is no way that this level of bad faith isnt out of malice, much less not intentional!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:37 AM
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Who knows females better here? You or me? Given the fact that you are one. Why would, a wife pressure to do so?​
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:27 AM
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Pressure from the wife to do this, obviously. Why are you asking me to explain something you already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:23 AM
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"Absolutely zero possibility women do this anywhere near as much as men. Like that’s incredibly laughable." Your fuckin joking right? Sources: uh idk, refer to many fucking marriages like all over the world!? 🤣🤣🤣 Controlling, is still controlling, regardless of how veiled or reasonable the tone it is delivered in (LADIES!)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:22 AM
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nope not even close
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:17 AM
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Look im one of the more level headed and we'll rounded dudes here. Unless someone (male user or female user) tries to argue with me with anything less than good faith. Then im onery. Look i am in no way exceptional ad a dude. Im short, slightly under morbidly obese, and balding. I typically have to talk my way into things. But even so, I do notice indications of desire when I am out and about. And I bring enough energy through out all parts of the courtship that I dont deal with a lot of obstacl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:17 AM
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not necessarily. many men are miserable in marriage but dont realize that they are miserable because they are married. settling (giving up cool hobbies or hanging out with friends) can be down right demoralizing. worse yet, you as a man are sitting there having to bottle that fact in because if you divulge this to your wife, she automatically assumes that you dont love her as opposed to it being just, you dont love giving up 90% of your hobbies and nearly all of your former friends when settling…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:00 AM
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Fabulous!!!! Sources? (Got your ass, didnt I? 🤣🤣🤣🤣)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:35 AM
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It really is every man for himself. More so, once a typical man have made it, it is not only customary for them to pull up the ladder, but to even go further than that and punch downward on the unfortunates who were in his former down bad position, so that he can make himself look even better. Yes. The main reason the dating scene is fucked for men is mostly because other (powerful) men made it this way. Women are not entirely or even mostly to blame. But all the same, I dont see women "the gent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:34 PM
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Let me tell you a ting about "Bros Before Hoes" That only applies to other men who are in ones friend group. And even then, with many mfs who are your "friend" will try and take your girl or fuck you over in a business venture ass soon as you are vulnerable and or not paying attention. Real male nature is every man for himself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:22 AM
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When you love the game, you never pay for sex a day in your life. Or at least it doesnt feel like it. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 11:26 PM
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Ok. Whats the debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:54 PM
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yes. won't link to it though as reddit are notorious of accusing people who post links to dating advice websites for men, as "self promotion". I suspect though that if your intentions are truly good and you arent biased like you make yourself out to be not biased, you'll find some sources that teach seduction to men, which are balanced and not some tainted Andrew Tate-assed bullshit...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:30 PM
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^This!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:09 AM
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Weird question. Why would that be wrong? "Thats what PUA and people in TRP spaces aim to do, essentially exchange notes on how to become more attractive to women, and put that into practice." Bra dont ever use PUA and TRP in the same sentence as if TRP is anything like Red Pill. Red Pill has fallen from grace long ago, and not only do they not maintain the core values of PUA, but have reversed many of them. PUA dont hate women. And we dont have malice against women. Never did. Feminists/WomenAga…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:09 AM
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That pill is turning quite red for you my dude. Just saying. This doesnt have to be work. You can look at it as fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:06 AM
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Well to be fair, I imagine that desperate dudes/incels/redpills would be moderated on site, or at the very least warned harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:02 AM
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Pay for it dude simple solution. Or learn to love the game that you have to play to get it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:00 AM
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"There are a few dark corners of the internet where you can get away with telling the truth about these things." True. But whats the point of saying this if its going to be said in a sausage fest echo chamber, right? Things like this need to be said in corners of the internet where women dwell. Not saying that I agree with any of those points because I dont. Im not redpill and never was, even at my most extreme. But I dont believe in silencing people. Not matter how hateful. Oh and dealing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:41 PM
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"“I like to take things slow” usually means she’s not that into you" Here's the thing. Just once if you run into that. It isnt a red flag or a conspiracy for the girl to try to make you wait longer than she did the last time. But if you are meeting female after female and keep running into this, and you are somewhat self aware to know that you arent the type of guy who women want to readily go to bed with without some insane amount of time investment from yourself? Then yes, it means she's not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:37 PM
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Erm...Youtube? The internetz. Most of these dudes get these nonrealistic ideas from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:24 AM
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I've slept with fat women as a fat man to help deal with a bad dry spell. but date? nah dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:44 PM
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no not in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:43 PM
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of course. I know i as a fat man do!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:43 PM
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Question to OP: why is the flair "question for women" but the post uses to men as examples? this does seem like a gotcha style question. which doesnt seem productive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:41 PM
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person A. why? pretty much me except for the inherited house.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:39 PM
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I would add r/Ooer to that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:38 PM
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😋
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:37 PM
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majority on tick tick?​
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:37 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 08:22 PM
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"Always wanted to know - What do men mean exactly when they say "Women have the power to destroy society?"" Unpack that if you could. I've never heard it and dont know what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 07:46 PM
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"Do you have enough empathy to understand why and realise what I'm feeling?" Barely. But that isn't based on your gender. I am lacking in empathy to most everyone male or female. Only people I feel empathy towards is my parents, animals, and immediate family who were in my life from when I was young. "It's impossible to fight misandry without fighting misogyny, which often has FAR worse consequences than an innocent man being wrongly accused of sexism." Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:50 PM
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that is so true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:34 PM
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The escort thing is a given. Great to stopping dry spells. Which we all have occasionally. But lying about how laid one gets (or that they get laid) is easy too on the internet? I dont get the purpose. Commenter im replying to should be honest snd not cap. I dont get whats so difficult of that for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:21 PM
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But its also not hard to not lie on le​ internets tho, you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 04:08 PM
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​yeah man. dont mind me. I just think you are lying "about how laid you get" or at the very least playing it up to get cool points on reddit is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:45 PM
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"Meanwhile Im over here getting laid" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:24 PM
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I guess that women who have a big ass forehead due to a high hairline know how to manipulate too, because they cover the hairline with bangs. Or they highlight other traits to cover the flaws. Which is what i do. That is not manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 06:13 AM
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I like to push peoples buttons. Also I lack a filter with the things I say, both online and irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:49 AM
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I was going to say no on the socially awkward part, but thats not true. Given my trauma, yeah I kinda have been fighting real bad social anxiety with women after those 2 exes. It hasnt stopped me from talking to women and dating. But more often than not, im having to have help from things like edibles or cbd to relax me because otherwise I freeze and panic with talking to strangers in public. And yes with churlish and cruelty (never to animals or old people or children mind you) I have become mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:42 AM
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The occasional sex worker and the occasional fat girl to cure a dry spell, is likely the culprit. At least thats how my numbers have gotten up like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:37 AM
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"Idk what you mean by you getting slicker." ERm...Ive become more graceful with it I guess? Idk Not sure how to describe it. Instead of bad, I am now more mischevious. "No i wanted to know if there was a specific situation that made you realize. " I dated 2 women who were really toxic for me. I mean like Fatal Attraction/Hands That Rock The Cradle level toxic. That was all I could attract back then. And while it was no thing to be in a fwb with women like this (i never gave out my real phone # a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:33 AM
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"For some men, that line is more than 5. For some, it's more than 10. And for some, it's simply "more than me." But my hypothetical illustrates the process, not an exact scenario." Jesus christ its scary how true that is. My invisible line is about 20. To this day it still makes my skin crawl when I get vibes that a female under 28 (Im 38 male I only date females to about 28. between 21 and 28) has had 20 partners or more. But Im getting less this way. Maybe Im just becoming more sexually deprav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:28 AM
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It feels though that what you are really asking me is "what made me change?... I didnt. I just got slicker as I grew older.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 02:14 AM
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"Well, now we're running into a problem. She ends up sleeping with Trevor, but he also knows she slept with two men before him. And while sleeping with her was easy,🥳 it was also easy.😭 According to premise 3, she's more of a sketchy investment, which makes him more likely to leave as well." Why are you using an example that is so blatantly wrong? You know damn well that most men arent going to negatively judge a female for having only 2 partners before him, irregardless of how quick she slept w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:59 AM
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"I am around women more than the average guy is, but less signs of interest from women than the average guy, this is disproportionately low sex appeal." Honestly dude it, the signs of interest may be there, but you are more than likely missing them. "But they never see me sexually, ever. I am around women more than the average guy is, but less signs of interest from women than the average guy, this is disproportionately low sex appeal." Why? Because its obvious you are self aware enough to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:49 AM
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No. Its worse. This post attempts to promote the idea to men, of becoming Only Fans managers (OF Pimps) for profit. Similar to Jack Doherty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:32 PM
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the dude you replying to sounds looksmaxer-esque and like he would probably reply with something ridiculous like "by wearing jeans with a revealing crotch region" or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:31 PM
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pretty much the field of water treatment. we need people too. all the old heads are retiring out and cant replace them fast enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:29 PM
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Fantastic. So what are we debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:36 PM
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Male 38 here. I tend to be that guy who is an exception to rules or requirements that many women have or claim to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:34 PM
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You know it always blows my mind how a female can basically say to me with a bunch of words that she is impossible to satisfy. And then deny deny deny that she is impossible to satisfy when I point this out, based on what she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:33 PM
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"Also no, one "i love you" in the distant past isn't enough. Money also not enough." Try more than 1000 times. You are kinda proving my point. Most women cant be pleased. Its always going to be something else. Something new that the man is doing that isnt enough. Many women, including you, are Nietzsche's Abyss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:26 PM
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^This I would add that there are also degrees to the example you gave. I make $53,000 a year and am asleep at work for probably a good 40% of my shifts. Or playing Xbox. At the when all is said and done I may do 15 minutes of work in an 8 hour shift Meanwhile there are folks who make this much whose hair are falling out because they are buried in work and are being harassed constantly by supervisor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:17 PM
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I bring to the table by handling my half of the mortgage. I pay bills, I payed cash for your car completely so we wouldnt have to finance it, I clean up after myself and do dishes and what not, and do yard work and stuff. But you complain that "Im distant". That I dont show affection enough. But then when we first met, I finally proclaim that I love you. But me being in love with you and attracted to you isnt value. Do you see? Like for real, do you? The mixed fucking signals that women send.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:13 PM
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"Hybristophilia, the love and sexual attraction to violent criminals, is by and large a female phenomenon. Evidence in men is very rare and not well documented. Yes men and experience sexual attraction to criminal women, but that’s in spite of it. Women tend to feel attracted to the fact that the man has committed violent crimes rather than in spite of it." I feel like there is an equivalent though. Remember, psycopathy and sociopathy dont manifest themselves as hard in women as they do in men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:05 PM
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"A man who is cruel and churlish while also unattractive and socially awkward isn’t going to derive much benefit from his asshole behavior." It hurt to have to find this out first hand in my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:53 PM
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I mean, his mistress isnt a man. And some, well a lot, well too fucking many if Im saying what Im really thinking, women do love to take men to the cleaners in messy divorces. So yes the idea that the mistress could do this was implied too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 05:29 PM
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"What I asked was if his mistress knows that he has an official wife and other kids in another state…" Strange. Because that is exactly what I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:52 PM
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Lots of men, on here [implying: mostly on here, not out there], are psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:07 PM
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"but there is no way to avoid interaction with them at all." Maybe not at all but definately most of the time. I live in an apartment complex near a major airport and despite there being at least 100 attractive single women who work as flight attendants, I hardly ever see any of them throughout the day except for the morning when its time to go to work (or evening if they are night shift) and the afternoon when they come home. And do you know what they do in both instances? They B Line to their …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:05 PM
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Lot of men on here are psycho. Are you new?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:46 PM
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Wow, you disagreed with none of that. How comforting /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:42 PM
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"The mistress knows that the wife and the other kids exists, right?" My gut feeling says that she suspects or at best, she knows about them on a "dont ask dont tell" or "out of sight out of mind" type basis. If she knew, if she truly knew, like seen first hand evidence. She might very well take him to the cleaners in a messy divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:46 AM
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I never understood the whole "wining and dining a second woman"-thing when you are in a serious relationships. Why put yourself through that? Like seriously dude if you are going to cheat cheat for sex and thats it. If the side chick wants to start throwing out ultimatems and demanding committment, why not drop her? 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:39 AM
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No shit. OP wont state what his real angle is but is trying to get commenters divulge their's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:30 AM
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"Sometimes you have to commit adultery. Maybe your wife is not interested in sex, maybe your husband is too much of a nice guy and can't let you feel your stupid emotions without trying to fix them." You dont truly believe any of that. You are just saying it to get people to feel more comfortable to divulge whatever answer it is you are looking for about adultry. "You should not inflict that trauma and just be honest from the get go." 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 So is there a debate? Because so far only the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:29 AM
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"however I'm not obese but overweight" More to love, babe. Thats how I see it...Gone and rock those short skirts, girl!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:09 AM
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"But they are growing in number due to the social media algorithms," AAAANNNNNDD because of difficulty (whether percieved or real) in the dating market, mmmmkaaaayyy... Lets not just chalk this up to social media alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:24 AM
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This. Eat Pray Love in particular is fucking psy-op garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:35 AM
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Nope. We arent going to do this: We arent going to ask me to explain shit that I have already explained, while making absolute statements your damn self without providing any explanation whatsoever. Im open for debate. But we are going to have to move away from the lopsided bad faith that I am gathering from you here on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 11:21 AM
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"Then it doesn't fix the gap." Cant make absolute statements with out expanding on them. Unpack. Thanks! And yes I realize the same statement could be leveled to me. But heres the thing: I already did, explain my reasoning. "Just find a way to make trades popular to men again. Many guys arent coded for the madness which is University learning. We want hands on. Not to just sit in a fuckin class all day doing abstract learning."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:58 AM
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And I provided an answer about fixing the college education gap. By finding ways to make trades popular to men again. university has nothing to do with that. "That's also not what semantics means." Ironic considering that you are still cherrypicking semantics to argue about. But whatever. Sperg away my spergy sperg friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:38 AM
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I never said that trades were taught at university. I said find a way to make trades popular to men again. university has nothing to do with that. if you want to debate, dont just come in here and cherry pick stupid inconsequential shit with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:33 AM
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Oh lord. Lets get ready for some arm-chair quarterbacking horseshit from someone who is too young to be giving advice and doesnt know jack shit about anything. Wow you didnt disappoint. The post reads like horseshit just like I thought it would. Lets discuss some points you brought up!: "top complaining about women. Stop complaining about dating. Stop caring about this stupid shit. BE APATHETIC." Agreed. Complaining without taking action doesnt really change shit. Be apathetic though? What if sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:37 AM
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"Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?" Nope. Interesting lense to look at this issue through. But you are blanket generalizing all red pill as being lower class men. Thats inaccurate. Red pill men come from all walks of life. The constant being that they either currently have a lack of options with women, or at some point did previously, to such a severity that it has left a lasting impression on them. I.e. a bad one. However you are correct in that …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:33 AM
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Many men dont want that job though. The fear of being falsely labeled "nonce" is very real for many men. I currently work for a City municipality. Have for 11 and a half years. The first department I ever worked at in this City was as a janitor at a community center. It was all fine and dandy when I was just doing Janitor shit. But when during my last 6 months in that department, my boss began making me the one to pick up the children from various schools for our after school program, I began a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:22 AM
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"Yes this is radical. Yes this is insane. I don't care." I dont know if I'd call Fence-sitting to be liked, "radical". "Third layer : immediate equity quotas : mandate that if universities want public funding, they should install a 50/50 gender quota and have adequate scholarship programs for boys. Likewise, if corporate businesses want tax cuts, they must have a 50/50 gender quota for hiring." Just find a way to make trades popular to men again. Many guys arent coded for the madness which is Un…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:16 AM
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Who the fuck is we? And what part of Dallas/Houston/Austin/SanAntonio/FortWorth do you live in where this fictional army of Chad-maxxers exist? Because from my point of view? The entire city of Grand Prairie looks like walking pre-existing conditions. Picture the "Walmart Crowd"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:07 AM
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Ok so what is the debate topic again?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 08:06 AM
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ok. thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:23 PM
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Hope I dont get zapped here for agreeing with you and not bring much to this debate. But you are right. It is a multitude of traits that attract women to men. Not just, wealthy, or looks, or heck even social skills isolated. Its common for men to think of self improvement with the goal of attracting women, in very black and white or polarizing ways. i.e.: If I just get this job in a laboratory or something and move up the management ladder to where I make half a million dollars a year and work o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:19 PM
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"Is it wrong to think sex with an escort who is stunning is more enjoyable compared to a girl who you have a one night stand with and is decent looking?" I dont know man. Is it? Its been 13 years since I used escorts and when I did I used one on 3 different occasions to break a 4 year long dry spell. The first 1 gave me the ick despite looking attractive as hell, I could barely perform. The 2nd one I enjoyed her so much I used her for a 2nd time. "Maybe because I was on vacation and was having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:49 AM
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Ah. True true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:42 AM
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"Also when a woman spots a man being turned down by another woman the entire group of women will be more likely to turn the same man down" yes, this. So true. So fuckin true. More so, women want to feel as if they have "invited" the man to approach, when he does approach. Its a big reason as to why dudes who are good at this type of thing prefer for the woman to notice him first. "👎 reverse is also true 👍" Nope. Not true. Most men (unless they are looking to build on another mans failed approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:29 AM
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"Especially since there seem to be a lot of anxiety from men surrounding the idea that women generally would have access to that kind of quantity, and there seems to be efforts to culturally police that access." How? Or where, I should say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:38 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:30 AM
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That does sound really hot, if Im being honest here, u/TeamAggravating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:17 AM
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"They insist most women are average at best." Thats actually a small subset of Red Pill, which themselves is a small subset of men, who believe that. And many dont even believe it at all. They just use it as a jab to cut women down. "If women are supposedly valued so easily, why is there so much effort spent trying to convince them that they’re not?" Call it the neg of all negs. The neg used against the entire female population. Which in itself is just a tactic to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:54 AM
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The individual in question was blocked because they were using their comment as a way to passively attack me for lying about my past history with women when the topic comes up. They: 1. First off start by using a bogus example of a question that most women would never ask a guy point blank in the first place: "have you ever fucked a hooker?" 2. Secondly they refer to sleeping around as a rakehell phase. Which when I looked it up, is a demonym for being a player. And a passive jab at me. 3. He al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:09 AM
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Wait im confused. When did I say that I was ever asked directly by a woman, "have you ever fucked a hooker"? When did I say that? Also, as you have experienced yourself Im sure, when women attempt to dig through my past at least, its almost never directly. "I'm sure they'd find me off-putting if I was a 35 year old man acting like a teenage boy." Unpack that passive jab, if you are comfortable to, please...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:24 AM
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"You lie about your past? Really?" Well yeah. I got a 4 year gap from age 21 to 25 where I had an incel phase. Which was broken by a 1 year phase from 25 to 26 where I used sex workers like 5 times. Most women would find that offputting. So when asked I typically leave that out. When one is extra inquisitive and pressing me I'll outright lie. Ive also had man-hoe phases between now (age 38) and age 26. Most women arent really down with that neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:23 AM
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I agree. And I want to believe that you wouldnt do this too, but nearly every single woman I have dated (including the ones with pasts they themselves they were trying to hide) have in all manner of ways tried to either ask me about my past or find out in other ways. Every single one. So, it feels like I as a man dont have a right to know your past, but you as a woman have a right to know mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:57 AM
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"Information about her past relationships and “body count” is entirely up to her whether she discloses it or not." Ok but with that arguement, you still have the right to know my past relationships as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:38 AM
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Well, I lie about my past so I am a bit reluctant to pass judgement here. Something I want to bring to your attention is this: Pay attention to where those street interviews are shot at and who those podcasts typically interview. Where are most street interviews shot at? Miami. Whats Miami known for? Partying. What kind of people, not women, but people in general, are attracted to Miami? People who party. And what do people who party like to do? Sleep around. So you are making a generalization o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:30 AM
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Uh...cool. We are kind of preaching to the qhior though here a bit, LillthOfBabylon. I mean, Im not going to side with a sexual/physical abuser just because Im a man. Im also not going to side with the victim because Im a good man. Its not binary. And Im not a good man. However, I still believe that sexual/physical abusers should be thrown in prison and way worse, in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:11 AM
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You want the truth that I think many men are thinking but arent saying? "Or you want to suppress anyone you meet and dominate to the point of another people losing their personalities?" Yes for most men. "Or you find the idea that you have to work to earn money atrocious?" Increasingly many men do find the notion of this atrocious, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:36 AM
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Yes. But only as payback for being cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:21 AM
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Because its...erm...let me see...effing wrong! But here is the twist. You will try to put an arguement in my mouth now that I am not even making. You will say: So, if its wrong to stereotype men as a whole? Why not women? For example: Making the generalization that all women want to be lead in a relationship. But thats the thing. I never said all women want to be lead in a relationship. I said some do. And then, I said, that the ones I have dated, do. If you are going to have a discussion with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:54 AM
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Yes, do keep gaslighting, SovereignFemmeFudge! Your really good at it!! But Im the one that is ego driven?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 11:41 AM
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But that doesnt change that you dont speak for most women though. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:01 AM
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thats amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 10:00 AM
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But, you dont like like like, speak for every other woman. You 🫵, dont want to be led by men. And thats ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:19 AM
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ok. thats like, your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:24 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:10 AM
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Good effing thing that I didnt say that anywhere in that comment you are replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:07 AM
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What if he decided to let you make all of the decisions because he doesnt want to though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:11 AM
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That wasnt my question though. My was question was if she wants a man who has her make every decision and who agrees with everything she says without posing challenge? And she answered it. So there we go. The rest is willy nilly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:11 AM
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Hope you work on that. Most women are going to want a man who will not necessary dominate in a relationship, but lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:40 AM
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Do you want a man who you have to make every decision for and who basically just agrees with everything you say without posing any challenge?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:34 AM
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Women dont want men who are doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:57 AM
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"Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?" Why are we hasty generalizing as if its all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 05:38 AM
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TLDR, man. Talking in circles. What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 12:34 AM
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"single moms are honestly great and have no problem getting a “good guy”" Awesome man and I totally agree. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:36 PM
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IIIIImmmmmm noooooottttt reeeeeeaaaaaddddddiiiiinnnnnnnnggg allllllll oooooffffff ttttthhhhhhaaaaaaatttt ssssshhhhhhiiiiiiiiittt. Whats the TLDR my man? You know for someone that is saying that "we cant know the truth about female attraction from conjecture", Im sure seeing a lot of fucking conjecture skimming through this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:29 PM
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But like where, where have you seen this? I have never heard any of those things from a woman in my life. Now mind you I dont text with a shit ton of emojis except for here on Reddit when Im rage baiting someone. And I dont order fruity drinks, mainly because they make me sick. And I dont run like a girl but because I run like a geriatric. So there would be no reason for me to hear those things. Still, where have you heard this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:21 PM
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