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You are right. I may not have the mettle.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 11:11 AM
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OYS #11 40s 6'4" 214 lb (-2) BF 23% (Navy) [5/22/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Current Lifts: SL5x5 SQ 215#x5, DL 225#x5 Bench 180#x5 Press 115#x5 Row 160#5 Pull-ups 15#X5 Shit to Own: Last week I put 3 things on my list shit to own: I missed a lifting session, I returned to using porn, and I was not present. I did not fix these three things. I used porn once. I missed two lifting sessions. I had trouble controlling my emotions and reverted to being an avoidant robot. There is mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 11:54 PM
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"I have been choosing to feel depressed and butthurt. I have been taking mrp as gospel. I get better results when I back off, have more fun, don't take it so seriously, and add in things here and there. When I try too hard, I become a robot and don't enjoy my life whatsoever, I become hyperfocused on being a "failure" because I am basing success on sexual success. I have been putting negative pressure on myself due to having been in this over a year and not feeling like I've made enough progress…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 10:16 PM
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Thanks for answer. I don't have any suggestions with regards to game. I think being able to game with OI. Perhaps experiment and make a few notes on what works and what falls flat. Rules of Game post is something I will look into further. Bang and Day Bang are already on my list, too.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 09:05 PM
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I was just curious. Meditation is part of my MAP. As someone who sometimes get stuck in my mind or stuck in my feelings and can "dissociate"/"spectator" (both mentally and physically), I was very interested in meditation as a way to practice becoming more present. I forget who it was on here, but an older guy in his OYS, really took to the ideas presented in the book Power of Now. I read that, started using Headspace. From there I started reading about TMI and down a combo of guided and unguided…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 03:58 PM
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What is your meditation practice? Have you found that it has helped your mindset?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 11:29 PM
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You mention that you are working on game/PUA. What are you doing in this realm?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 09:56 PM
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Good for you. I saw only incremental improvement after a month and a half. I know it's the main part of the solution, but changing mindset, rewiring response, and more time spent fucking will help.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 07:50 PM
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Thank you for the support. Yes, it sucks. I have pills that help. I don't want to have to use them, but will use them as needed until I can rewire myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 07:46 PM
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Thank you for the suggestions. I have looked at it through the functional/literal lense of conditioning. I have conditioned myself with porn and masturbating, which has lead to dysfunction with how I should be aroused by and physically respond to sex. I didn't think so much about the shame around it. I don't have any moral or religious objections to porn, I think just fucked myself up with it. You are right about the shame, I think. It is centered around failing to be the person I envision mysel…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 07:45 PM
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OYS #11 40s 6'4" 216lb (-2) BF 23% (Navy) [5/22/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Current Lifts: SL5x5 SQ 235#x5, DL 225#x5 Bench 180#x5 Press 110#x5 Row 160#5 Pull-ups 15#X5 Shit To Own: Missed a lifting session. 2 lifting sessions this week rather than 3. Adjustment: Week is planned out. Porn. After 48 days and multiple failed initiations, I went back to porn and masturbating. Abstaining from porn is key as I have both ED and delayed ejaculation, to the point where I haven't orgasm…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 10:57 AM
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You are right. I probably talk too much and think too much. Deload weeks. It works for both physical and mental chronic load accumulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 02:37 PM
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OYS #10 40s 6'4" 218lb(-2) BF 23% (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Current Lifts: SL5x5 SQ 230#x5, DL 225#x5 Bench 175#x5 Press 105#x8 Row: 155#7 Pull-ups 10#X5 Physical: “My 2 goals right now are to continue the exercise regimen and make changes to diet, primarily decreasing caloric intake while maintaining protein intake.” Finished week 3 of SL 5x5. I have been adding finishing AMRAP sets, daily pushups, kettlebell swings, pull-ups, and planks, 3x-a-week low-intensity…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 11:14 AM
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OYS #9 40s 6'4" 220lb(+1) BF 23% (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Current Lifts: SQ 215#x5, DL 215#x5 Bench 165#x5 Press 100#x6 Row: 145#x7 Pull-ups 5#x5 Read: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars, RM PM, The Courage to be Disliked, Physical: I have completed 2 weeks of SL 5X5 three times a week. I have made 2 modifications: adding pullups super-setted with the squats and last set is AMRAP. I have also completed 3x cardio per week - Two “zone 2” intensity and 1x…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 08:05 PM
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I remember reading your post. It's a great point about your ego shit testing yourself and how one needs to recognize and pass those tests first. I like the associated comment about that being the first step, with the second step being fulfilling promises/follow-through to yourself. I can already feel the inner resistance (ie. excuses) to a trial irrationally confident Razor.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/22 09:23 AM
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OYS #8 40s 6'4" 219lb(+1) BF 23% (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Current Lifts: SQ 210#x10, DL 215#x8 Bench 175#x8 Press 100#x10 Row: 155#x8 Pull-ups BWx8 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars Excerpt from a reply to last week's OYS from u/Along-The-Reeds: "You even wrote how you feel about your feelings. How can these feelings really help you? What the fuck you gonna actually do about it, big boy? Write about that next week." Okay. Feelings…the feeling…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 01:45 AM
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OYS #7 40s 6'4" 218lb BF 23% (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 210#x10, DL 215#x8 Bench 175#x8 Press 100#x10 Row: 155#x8 Pull-ups BWx8 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars Accountability: Current Goals Lifts - 3/3 No Porn - 7/7 (3 weeks) Lose 1# - 0 STFU - 5/7 Sleep average >7 hours: avg 6h 23m Right at this very moment, it’s hard to feel like I am making any progress. I am, though. I am making progress physically (eg. working out with consiste…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 08:02 PM
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OYS #6 40s 6'4" 218lb (+2) BF 23% (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 205#x10, DL 215#x8 Bench 160#x10 Press 100#x10 Row: 155#x8 Pull-ups BWx7 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars Accountability: Current Goals Lifts - 3/3 No Porn - 7/7 (2 weeks) Lose 1# - +2 STFU - 7/7 (10 days) Sleep average >7 hours: avg 7h 2m Current Missions Build myself (mentally, emotionally, and physically) to the point of taking care of myself and with whatever extra, giv…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 10:22 AM
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No problem, Chief.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 05:35 PM
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This is the pendulum swinging.. Like Hegel's dialectic. While it seems like the fire has been put out out (caused by my lack of emotional control), you are right that somewhere between here and there is what I am going to end up aiming for. I am also trying not to get caught in the trap of being afraid of pushing boundaries now that life is more comfortable. it's a trap
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/22 10:23 AM
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OYS #5 40s 6'4" 214lb (-2) BF 23% (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 205#x10, DL 205#x10, Bench 155#x10, Press 100#x10, Row 155#x8, Pull-ups x7 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars I didn’t post an OYS last week. Accountability: Weekly Goals •Lifts - 4/6 •No Porn - 13/14 •Lose 2# (2 weeks) - down 3# •STFU - 13/14 days •Sleep average >7 hours: avg 6h05m Physical: My 4 primary goals are to improve my body composition (<14%), improve strength (inte…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 02:09 PM
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OYS #3 40s 6'4" 218lb (+6) BF 23% (+2) (Navy) [3/21/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 195#x10, DL 195#x10 Bench: 180#x7 Press: 85#x10 Row: 135#x11 Pull-ups 7 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars Accountability: Current Goals •Lifts - 3/3 •No Porn - 6/7 •Lose 1# - gained 6.2 lb •STFU - 6/7 days •Sleep average >7 hours: avg 5h16m Physical: Lifted 3x days (Juggernaut), Cardio 2x days, and daily Pushups & Pull-ups. In terms of the exercise, I ticked the boxes o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 10:02 AM
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OYS #3- Fucking Up Harder! 40s 6’4” 211.8lb (-1.6) BF 21.5% (Navy) [1/1/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 195#x10, DL 180#x10 Bench: 180#x7 Press: 85#x10 Row: 135#x10 Pull-ups 7 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars Accountability: completed 2/5 goals •Lifts - 2x/3 •No Porn - 7/7 (16 days) ✓ •Lose 1#: - 1.6# ✓ •STFU - 3/7 •Sleep avg >7 hrs - 6:06 avg (getting better) Physical: Lifted 2x days (running Juggernaut),Cardio 2x, lost 1.6 pounds. I also added 6/7 o…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 01:36 PM
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OYS #2 - STFU 40s 6’4” 213.4lb (-1.6) BF 21.5% (Navy) [1/1/22] Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 195#x10, DL 180#x10 Bench: 180#x7 Press: 70#x15 Row: 105#x15 Pull-ups 7 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1, Six Pillars I appreciate the feedback from my last OYS. I outlined how I was making myself the victim and then blaming others for it. I also described how I am an emotional vampire, dancing for attention, and sacrificing my self-integrity for others' approval. I also out…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:57 AM
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Good examples. It's unattractive and actually repulsive across the board. I feel pity for the people you describe or want to avoid them. I may never have felt I fit in, hence the approval seeking. It was all a shitty lens I looked at the world. I am flawed, but am going to be okay no matter what. I can set my own agenda.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/22 03:24 AM
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What I really want in life? I am all over the place with what I want. I framed plenty of actions around what I thought would get me sex and approval [covert contracts]. I recognize I have some panic about "figuring it all out" before it is too late (this is a fallacy). It have a good thing going in terms of my career. Otherwise, I know that what I have is not what I want. Letting go of what I think what I think I deserve from my life (and my wife) is what I must do. I find it strange that the be…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/22 03:19 AM
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This is a good point. I have listened to it twice on Audible. It all makes sense. Slowing down and doing the exercises will be of way more value.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/22 03:00 AM
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Attack the low hanging fruit first. Lifts, porn, and not being fat. You have too many goals in your OYS to be anything but mediocre. That makes sense. Lifts. No Porn. Average under 2400 cals/day. Goal -1# /week Also. 4. STFU. Fail on any of those and you'll be right where you are now. Those are the stakes. I know that it'll take time to turn myself around. I am tired of wasting time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 09:47 PM
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OYS #1 - Escaping The Hell I Created & Letting Go 40s 6’4” 215 lb BF 21.5% (Navy) Married 13 years (together 20) 5 children Lifts: SQ 185#x10, DL 205#x6 Bench: 180#x7 Press: 80#x10 Row: 160#x6 Pull-ups 6 Reading: MMSL, NMMG, WISNIFG, Pook, RM 1 Introduction: The Hell I created for Myself Typical story: I am a “career betamax” who has been angry, frustrated and dissatisfied with my life due to a deep-seeded reliance on external validation for emotional support. Of course that works great in parts…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 11:32 AM
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