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| 2 | Woman really don't like most men sexuallyIf society at large encouraged men to fake make out or whatever then more lads would be getting off to gay porn. One would assume that because women are not only allowed more sexual freedom in this sense, but it’s also actively encouraged by some men, it fudges the notion a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 06:50 PM |
| 9 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Well first I would say that in the same way that not all red pillers are teenage incels boys desperate for attention not all blue pillers are Destiny. It seems quite the reach to take one example and inflate that to something like a universal generalisation. Secondly I would say that most relationships aren’t in the public sphere in the same way this example is and that we have no real understanding of what actually transpired between the two individuals concerned. Lastly I would point out that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Yes women can find relationships at any age , but their choices over 30 start becoming crappyThat’s not as exhaustive a list as it seems. For example, both people could have chosen to focus on their careers instead of pursuing a relationship until they were in their 30’s. That isn’t necessarily a red flag. What about someone who was never married but in a long term relationship that didn’t work out? What about someone whose partner died? What about someone who has been through a rough patch but is over the worst of it and whose life is back on track? You can’t boil all these situations … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:23 PM |
| – | One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women ageBreaking news: After using a dating app where people post pictures of themselves to get a date, man concludes all women everywhere get less physically attractive as they age. All jokes aside though, you realise how deranged that sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Masculine and feminine in a relationshipStop watching that kind of content. No one is obliged to do anything for someone else, and it literally doesn’t matter what they ‘bring to the table’ or how much they can provide for the other person. What does matter is creating an equal playing field so that both of you can benefit from the relationship. Some times it will lean more towards you, other times towards them. If you really care about someone it doesn’t matter if they are a millionaire or a penniless street bum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is there a shame in expressing your masculinity?Context matters so much here. You can’t say that at all times men aren’t allowed to do this or that because that’s stupid and really unhealthy. If I’m talking to my partner about what turns me on, it’s to my benefit to talk about my kinks. If I’m talking with a friend I’ve had for years I can use whatever humour I want as she knows what I find funny and what she finds funny. Men’s desires do matter and they are important. It’s about how these desires are communicated rather than what they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 08:21 AM |
| 4 | If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after himOnce upon a time I ended up getting coffee with a girl who was a friend of a friend. That coffee turned into us spending most of the day together. At the end of evening she pretty much forced her number on me and text me before I’d even made it back home. She took the initiative and that resulted in me knowing she was interested in something more. Today, that girl is my wife. It’s not always about who makes the first move. The only reason our relationship is so strong is more to do with both of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think people find you boring?I think it depends on who you are talking to. I have little interest in sports for example, and I’d much rather discuss things like politics or pop culture. To some people, politics is boring, as is pop culture, so they probably would find me boring. However, there are a lot of people I know who aren’t overly interested in sports either and are interested in the same kind of things as me. They don’t tend to find me boring. The thing is, you can’t appeal to everyone. Every person has their own in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Is it that bad for a virgin to have to practice?I mean, when I lost my virginity it was with someone I’d been in a relationship with for a while. She was a virgin too and we spoke about it a lot before we committed to it. At the time I wasn’t thinking about getting ‘practice’ in, I was thinking about wanting to take the next step in my relationship. Sadly that relationship didn’t work out (we were teenagers, and wanted to take different paths in life) but I never have looked back her or our relationship as anything other than a good relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do men let their gfs push them around?Sorry is your complaint that your male friends hang out with their girlfriends when they’re asked to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Quick thought, men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them!Are you trying to say that men can’t buy reasonably nice clothes that fit properly, go to the barbers for a decent haircut, do some basic level hygiene and take a little bit of time to put themselves together before heading out the door? Because if so that makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Q4A: Male loneliness, what is it to you?I think that men should be able to turn to male friends for emotional support and not just actionable solutions. The suggestion from the women you speak of is a good one, but only because friendships between women are different than they are between men. Women tend to allow themselves to be vulnerable around each other. They can express themselves and feel heard without fear of being ridiculed. Men, on the other hand, have a harder time expressing themselves and being vulnerable around each othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:41 AM |
| – | People who complain about toxic masculinity are jealous of it.Whilst there might be an aspect of jealousy involved a lot of the time people react angrily to men behaving in ways that don’t deem to be masculine. For example, Piers Morgan called out Daniel Craig for wearing a papoose. It’s not like Piers Morgan doesn’t have money, height, etc. he just reacted against something that didn’t conform to his version of what masculine means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:04 AM |
| – | People who complain about toxic masculinity are jealous of it.Is it masculine to play barbie dolls with your daughter? Is it masculine to stay at home whilst your wife works? Is it masculine to wear certain types of clothes/colours? Is it masculine to get emotional over a film or a tv show? If you take issues with anything like this you are promoting a toxic version masculinity. A lot of the rhetoric comes from men calling out other men for not being ‘manly enough’ or some other variant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:52 AM |
| 1 | 45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in personThis links to a tweet. What is the original source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateMaybe, but she lived around Croydon. If we go by what you said, that’s even more reason for women like her, from the same area, to have their guard up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateDifference there is you can tell between a lion and a domestic house cat fairly easily. Men who might attack women and men who wouldn’t look more or less the same. For self preservation you can see why a woman might treat all men as potentially harmful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | What percent of women monetize sex?Because it’s an easy job for a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Does any gender as a whole have less accountability than another? If so which and can you provide realistic examples?I’d love to see what statistics you are using to justify your claim. You made a sweeping generalisation, I presented a case to counter your generalisation and now I’m dumb? I don’t think you get how this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:43 AM |
| 1 | What percent of women monetize sex?And yet we have male pornstars and onlyfans models… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:40 AM |
| – | CMV: People do not want to date easily available people. Average men can't easily get average women, but average women can easily get average men.I understand what you mean. But I’m discussions like this on internet forums I think the concept of ‘average’ is problematic as what is average to me as an British person is different from how a Japanese person might conceive of average, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:39 AM |
| 7 | Does any gender as a whole have less accountability than another? If so which and can you provide realistic examples?First, I’m a guy. Second, my dad walked out on his family, leaving my mum to raise two kids on her own. Tell me again how women have less accountability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have nothing to gain from dating men, but everything to loseThis take is hot trash. Not everyone is so materialistic. Women aren’t always looking to consume everything around them like that. What can a man bring to a relationship, even if they aren’t rich or whatever? Loads of things. They can be supportive, share the good and the bad times, have similar interests, just be likeable, or maybe they just compliment the woman in question in terms of their personalities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Do people even date anymore or is everything just casual until two casual partners decide not to be casual?Relationships can just happen sometimes. When I met my wife I had no idea that she was the girl I was going to end up dating, let alone marry. We just went out for coffee one day and things progressed from there. There isn’t a one size fits all answer to this kind of question. Every couple has a different origin story. Some of my friends who are together now met in class, some were the result of hookups, some were through dating sites. Most commonly though the relationships that tend to last are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 07:22 AM |
| 4 | Does any gender as a whole have less accountability than another? If so which and can you provide realistic examples?There are a million examples of men leaving their families for one reason or another though. That’s a really bad example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 07:15 AM |
| 12 | CMV: People do not want to date easily available people. Average men can't easily get average women, but average women can easily get average men.The issue I have with stuff like this is that the whole concept of ‘average’ is really hard to define. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 07:11 AM |
| 1 | What percent of women monetize sex?This is framed quite poorly. Technically men are monetising sex just as much as women are. They are the ones paying for it after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Why Should Men Get Married?Because they love the people they are marrying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.Even I grant you that premise, which I don’t think is entirely accurate as many people from poor backgrounds and with lower IQ scores reproduce all the time, that is a societal trend and not something that is being pushed on people by those in positions of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.Doesn’t read that way to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.Genetic load has nothing to do with evolution. Nor does people tending towards being in relationships with other people of their own race. That tendency is more because of cultural expectations and ability to understand each other than biology. Eugenics becomes racist when it says things like “only people with above X amount of IQ should be allowed to breed and then in the next breath claim that people in third world countries (aka non-white people) clearly have lower IQ’s. The implication being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:59 PM |
| 7 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.Evolution is about any given species adapting to its environment in order to survive. It doesn’t matter if a species is smart or good looking it matters whether it can survive in its environment. Eugenics however presupposes that there is a certain standard that must be met in order to allow for people to procreate. These standards are at best arbitrary and at worst racist. They are not the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:23 AM |
| 23 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.This sounds like one step away from a eugenics argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?Have you considered actually asking a woman what she finds attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?You can’t really believe this. You can’t just tarnish every single woman with the same brush. Some like tall and muscular men. Some like dad bods. Some even like shorter lads. Much in the same way that guys like all kinds of girls. Your entire argument is reductionist to a ridiculous degree. People like who they like. You are hyper fixated on initial attraction and not on how relationships work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do women invade male spaces and it is almost never the other way around?Name five sports that are more ‘masculine’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:09 AM |
| 7 | Why do women invade male spaces and it is almost never the other way around?Oh, well your problem is that you are treating women like another species and not as people. Why do you like hot air ballooning? What about that specifically makes it a male gendered thing? Why can’t a woman be interested in it for the same reasons as you are? It’s got nothing to do with the ‘glass ceiling’ or whatever other buzzwords you want to use, and a lot more to do with people participating in something they enjoy doing and are passionate about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:07 AM |
| – | CMV: Both men and women are forced into a perpetual state of political correctness and virtue signalling and despite the mutual understanding we choose to be in denial even when it comes to our potential partner.It’s not politically incorrect to tell someone you are attracted to them. It’s how you go about that and how you handle being potentially rejected that matters. Back when I was dating, before I met my wife, if I met someone I was attracted to I would usually be honest about it so that everything was clear and no one misread the situation. If they said ‘oh, thanks, but I’m not interested’ I would thank them for being honest, ask how they wanted to proceed and if they wanted to continue being frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:19 AM |
| 14 | Why do women invade male spaces and it is almost never the other way around?So you’re complaining that women are also interested in hot air ballooning and that you have to accommodate them? Wouldn’t it be better if more people were interested in it so you could meet more people who share your passion, or are you just here to whine about a girl in your Boys club? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?Being able to say to a partner something like ‘I’m struggling with this’ or ‘I feel this way about such and such’ is wildly different from being an over emotional wreck though. Different people express themselves differently and in turn respond to other people’s emotions differently. There isn’t one way of expressing yourself that is right. However it is also the case that having emotional breakdowns every five minutes isn’t exactly healthy either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:07 AM |
| – | What if boys were taught the truth about hypergamy and female nature from an early age?‘Female nature’ You know, because all women are the same… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?Gender is a social construct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 06:34 AM |
| 14 | Why do women really live in constant fear of men?Women are wary of men because they don’t want to sexually assaulted or raped . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?IQ tests have a horrible history of cultural bias, and are tests created by people. As such if you know the kind of strategies that are being tested for you can apply them to any given IQ test and pump up your score on them. They are not objective measures of some ethereal quality humans possess called ‘intelligence’. They are subjective to the creators who made them, the culture they are aimed at, as well as the person tallying the scores at the end and reading the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?I mean both the concept of IQ and the concept of Alpha’s are literal nonsense. A good partnership rests on both partners providing equal value to the partnership. What form that value takes is subject to change as all partnerships are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Would you give up video games for sex?Read that hyperlink again. ‘50% less likely to have casual sex’. That doesn’t mean they aren’t having sex at all. It just means they don’t tend to sleep around as much. Maybe they prefer the relationships they have with their gamer friends over trying to pick up random people? Maybe they have long term committed relationships so they can spend time playing games instead of pursuing other relationships? Maybe they play games with their partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Women want men who elicit in her the same behavior that they find so abhorrent and repulsive in men.Broadly speaking most people don’t like it when other people they aren’t romantically attracted to become obsessed with them. The problem with your argument here is that you are describing two very different situations. One where a woman is actively interested in pursuing a more intimate relationship with someone else and one where a woman is just going about with her life and is constantly faced with someone else’s feelings. I’m other words, when a man is pursuing a woman and the woman isn’t in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenPrejudice against what exactly? Aren’t you guilty of doing the same by labelling any woman you consider to be less attractive with certain personality traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 09:52 PM |
| – | CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe himI’m going to say this as bluntly as I can. If you’re invoked in human trafficking and rape allegations chances are your ‘technique’ doesn’t work. If it did you wouldn’t need to do either of these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenMaking sweeping statements like this is highly problematic. People don’t fit into the categories you want to put them into. A few anecdotal pieces of evidence are not enough to justify your claim here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Should men love their women more? Should it be the other way around? Or equal?It’s not a fixed scale though. It’s not like you have to give it 100% all the time. Same for your partner. They are moments when you are going through a rough patch at work something and your partner will help shoulder the burden. Conversely there are moments when the reverse also happens. Broadly speaking people in committed relationships tend to put as much into it as their partners do, but that doesn’t mean they are necessarily putting the same amount of love and energy into it all the time. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “Insecurity” and “Trust” are words increasingly being used to gaslight menAlternatively the two people in the relationship could actually talk about their feelings and if one or the other is feeling insecure then their partner could find a compromise that would help them feel more comfortable. You can make up any given scenario, but in reality relationships are built on communication. If both parties are of reasonable emotional intelligence then they can accept their partner feeling insecure about something without it blowing up out of proportion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeThat’s a false dichotomy if I’ve ever heard one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 08:32 AM |
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