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4	What is wrong with reddit? I'll post food recommendations there but avoid it for nearly all other topics. The backlash in there is astounding. It's very interesting how vocal liberals are there. I'm in a Tulsa suburb so I see a much different demographic in my day to day. I know Tulsa is the most blue part of the state, but I still think it's a reddit thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/25 01:03 PM
2	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this I understand the gut feeling of multiple years. I also understand not like your MIL taste! My personal advice would be to think of a better way to handle it than telling her on her birthday. If she has bad intentions, she might cause even more of a rift if something is said. I think I understand that you don't want to do stuff you don't like to please others, but I suggest weighing the importance of wearing the ring to her party. Not wearing it and she has bad intentions, what could this lead to…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 09:08 PM
4	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this I think you should consider kindness, gratitude, and a feeling of welcome instead of being speculative of motives. You don't find it normal that she would make something to save money when she lives a lifestyle of saving money? It reminds me of a coworker of mine who makes fun of our millionaire boss for using coupons at Burger King... he made more money by saving and investing, not splurging. Maybe she didn't mention it because she was so excited to hear how you felt about it. She probably thou…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 06:00 AM
13	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this I'm not sure telling her on her birthday is the best idea. Let her enjoy her day with the gift she put thought into for you present. Discuss with your fiance (congrats btw!), about having the piece made into something you like more. Then yall can go shopping for a wedding band together and just wear that if you're still not a fan of the heirloom. Save it for your daughter (fingers crossed!). Or maybe even an engagement ring for your son to give or a gift to your future DIL after marriage or as a…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 03:41 AM
4	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this When you showed them, how did you present it? Did you act like you were appreciative and loved it? Or did you present it with shame? People will match your vibes. Or maybe they were making faces about how worrisome it is by how upset you were with it. I wasn't there so not trying to presume, just spitballing possibilities Edit: first you edit to add that you got laughs and "so sorry" looks when you showed it to colleagues at work, now you edit to remove that tidbit. Just an update for others to …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 03:20 AM
6	MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle this It's a family heirloom! She must think highly of you to give you such a precious gift	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/25 03:17 AM
10	I am obsessed with my husband but he no longer is with me. Punishing his actions with your negativity will only make things worse. Stop the cycle and be the warmth he can turn to when he is ready. Eta: you can stop the cycle by being grateful instead of spiteful. Look for the good and say your thanks. Try it endlessly one afternoon and see how it affects your mood. Use it when you're tempted to nag or feel bad for yourself.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/23 02:34 PM
2	Has this sub become more feminist over time? I believe you are correct but also in softer ways. I was reading a post last night full of advice for self care and reexamining the desire to maintain the relationship when the lady has found herself annoyed with her man lately. This focusing on self and considering splitting based on her own self-proclaimed attitude problems is a slippery slope to the new wave.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/23 11:01 PM