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Yeah exactly, even if OP got kicked out he still had numbers to work with.
/r/seduction07/04/19 09:04 PM
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Is it just me or am I the only one who thinks this is such as fucking unnatural way to find a date? What happened to meeting people in person? I guess I'm too old school, I haven't tried tinder but semi intrigued until I see these kinds of posts.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:25 PM
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This subject has the variable of women. Looks matter, but they only matter to certain types of women that want them to matter. My sister always thought height was a huge deal and wouldn't date anyone shorter than her, but for the most part it's only little specific things like that matter, if at all. You just need to look decent. I look like McLovin and I wouldn't say it has hindered me.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:12 PM
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Bars are much easier to take in, so maybe start with that. People sit solo at bars all the time. It's easy to meet these people, then maybe later on you can meet their friends and whatnot.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:06 PM
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Being high can help with anxiety, but I personally find myself sluggish and not as sharp when I've tried it high. I usually try to stick with just a couple beers.
/r/seduction07/04/19 03:05 PM
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Make a creative story about how you go into your job, preferably from a young age. Mehow the PUA was a film producer and always would describe how he drew pictures on his arm when he was a kid (age 10) and would go ask his mom if it was a good movie and of course she would say yes. This is all comfort building shit though, so make sure you have attraction first. Approaching and building attraction is one thing, having the attraction and building comfort is another set of conversations to have. M…
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:57 PM
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It doesn't matter bro, chances are you weren't going to get laid because you made out with too many girls and they all found out about it.
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:51 PM
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While I appreciate your point that there is a difference between canned lines and inner game, being natural is someone who doesn't have to learn anything. You're not a natural because you still had to learn something. Being a natural is exactly as it sounds, naturally being good at getting woman without learning anything and just having "it." Mark Manson used to be a dating coach so I would be interested in reading that book. If it does approach honesty I'm not sure how it would work for me (not…
/r/seduction07/04/19 02:34 PM
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Working the bar is great, especially if you happen to be by the spot where bystanders come to get a drink you can easily open people over and over if desired. If you peacock lots of times you don't even have to say anything.
/r/seduction07/04/19 01:09 AM
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I can tell you game. Logistics can quickly fuck a night up. Some girls seem to go out and know each other are going to fuck, but it seems as if most girls do not want their friends knowing they fuck. Rarely you find a group that is down with it. If girls showed up alone more often it would be easier.
/r/seduction07/04/19 01:05 AM
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Where you basically say you want to learn how to seduce and escalate in bold, this method teaches the art of opening, building attraction, building comfort, and escalating. It also teaches how to use kino and get physical from the very beginning of the approach, which can be done with basic high fives. All of these things together could be called seduction.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:39 AM
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Develop routines. Develop a unique style with fuschia and lime green colors. Have interesting stories and funny shit to say when certain things happen. If people ask you your name or age, don't simply tell them, make them guess. High fives and spins are great when first meeting women. Shit like that.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:21 AM
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This is definitely a question you should be asking at the local level as there will be more specific insights. Your obvious spots are bars, clubs, grocery stores, parks, shit like that.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:16 AM
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I'm basically in the same boat as you. I'm 31 and single after after a 5 year marriage. I used game to find my wife, and when it ended I almost didn't want to get back out there and start again - but I have. I suggest the Mystery Method, it's been a staple in the PUA community for years and I can't say it didn't work. Edit: just saw you want natural game, not sure if this really fits you unfortunately. Natural usually means you're a natural and don't need canned material. Fact of the matter is i…
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:12 AM
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If I were you I would look up the Mystery Method, it's fairly straight forward and you basically describe it in your post. Come up with a few openers and routines and you'll be gaming in no time.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:08 AM
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A 1 night stand is definitely more appealing than a string of dates to maybe get laid, to me, so yes I agree for the most part.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:02 AM
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Wank it in the morning
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:52 PM
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The beauty of an approach a lot of the times is knowing you can just roll off to something else if the going gets tough, and I think that's important when starting out as it helps with the anxiety. I think Tyler Durden is flat out wrong when he says there is nothing you can do to make a perfect approach, when you can. Look at Mehow Get The Girl videos, the guy legitately does the same approach and routines over and over to take girls home.
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:48 PM
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I remember when I first got into PUA my anxiety was not the conversation, but the actual act of fucking up and not gaining attraction. I memorized 3 routines, went out and I instantly went from shy to social because I was so excited to talk about what I knew I was going to talk about. It shouldn't be relied on long term, but great training wheels to get started and a confidence boost.
/r/seduction29/12/18 02:04 AM
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Hey man if you do it please let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:06 AM
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Talk to groups of people.
/r/seduction26/12/18 02:26 AM
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You should be fine. I have to do this often when I have no one to go with. It's better than staying in, especially if you can only get out so often. Ideally you want to open sets and even talk to guys as it will up your value and improve your game off the dancefloor, and help you on the dancefloor.
/r/seduction26/12/18 12:12 AM
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Hey how did you record yourself? What kind of camera?
/r/seduction24/12/18 03:07 PM
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Curious to know how it goes. What age range are your targets?
/r/seduction23/12/18 02:35 PM
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I wouldn't just say that, but it's a start and a good reason to go over there. You need a longer gameplan though and knowing what you're going to do gives you more confidence, plus knowing is half the battle. After she gives you sugar, high five her but hold her hand for longer than would seem normal, and see if she let's you or pulls away. If she allows it, then you know she probably wants a taste of you as well. If she doesn't, she's most likely not interested at this point yet.
/r/seduction23/12/18 08:25 AM
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This is really interesting to me actually. I won't be able to go to nightclubs to game anymore because of real life obligations, but still have evenings. I thought about going to Wal-Mart or a local grocery store since I don't have many busy coffee shops near me, but you just reminded me how hot the girls are at Target. Where else do you go? With the second set, maybe it would have been better if you number closed instead of going straight for the date? I realize she had a BF, would have been in…
/r/seduction23/12/18 08:11 AM
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Sounds like she's giving you IOIs. Knock on her door and ask for a cup of sugar
/r/seduction23/12/18 08:02 AM
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Shit, I wish but I'm in OKC. Crush it though
/r/seduction23/12/18 05:30 AM
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Hey bro my favorite opener is the "is kissing cheating" routine. You should be able to find it with a Google search. Let me know if you have trouble.
/r/seduction23/12/18 04:46 AM
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2 things: I wouldn't sit alone, it lowers your value. You're better off opening up some guy sets and at least talk to someone instead of doing basically nothing. The best opener for me personally is the "Is kissing cheating" routine where you ask for a quick opinion/girl's perspective on cheating. Look up PUA is kissing cheating and you should find it. PM me if you can't.
/r/seduction23/12/18 04:40 AM
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The spin is money bro, never fails. It's more flirtatious than a handshake, and in more advanced game it can even lead to a quick make out if you already have enough attraction/value.
/r/seduction23/12/18 03:57 AM
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I'm down, where you located?
/r/seduction23/12/18 01:42 AM
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Chances are if you don't want to miss the good sets, they won't either. I would actually plan on escalating things closer to the end time and be really flirtatious but not overly. Keep her interest and use push-pull until late as possible to get her wanting you more. By the end of the night is when the intense escalation should happen, and then use that momentum to Uber back to your crib.
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:07 PM
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Raver with game here. What kind of rave? Indoors, outdoors? Is it local to you? How big of a rave? Any camping? Hotels nearby? You have to make sure everything is logistically possible otherwise you'll waste precious time.
/r/seduction22/12/18 08:35 PM
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Once you have a gameplan and know what you're going to say gave me the confidence to do it. Use routines that you know you can just back out/roll off so once you go up, you know how to exit if need be. Rolling off really improved my inner game, because I know I can always just roll off if the set isn't giving you good emotions.
/r/seduction22/12/18 07:43 PM
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I learned game, particularly the mystery method. I worked on my inner game, learned everything about body language. I came up with openers, routines and canned stuff that gave me a game plan when talking to new girls. I started dressing in more of a peacock way and got into good social circles. Looks help, but I weight 110 and am like 5'8 and was able to attract girls that I originally thought would be out of my league. The fact of the matter is game and personality can trump looks. You ARE righ…
/r/seduction22/12/18 06:58 PM
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To me this guy is dead on. He's just teaching kino escalation and compliance test. If you aren't using kino, you are moving at half speed.
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:43 PM
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Don't ask for the name, don't shake the hand, don't compliment. Instead of shaking the hand do a high 5 and spin the girl. You really need to learn some attraction basics though, it will go a long way.
/r/seduction22/12/18 05:14 PM
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I forgot to mention a good way to see if a girl wants to kiss. You simply ask "Do you want to kiss me?" and if she says no just say "I didn't say you could"....if she says yes then you should have a relatively easy make out. Makeouts don't always get you laid due to buyer's remorse though. If you ask me it's best to save kissing for pure isolation when you get back to your place because you can escalate all the way if done right.
/r/seduction22/12/18 06:12 AM
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You need more isolation bro. Most girls won't make out with strangers in public especially by their friend because it will make them look slutty. If you isolate to a quiet place, it's much more comfortable for her IF she's into you. You can test this with compliance test and kino to see what you can get away with. I suggest learning the cube and a basic palm read routine. Those are great isolation routines and comfort building routines that can easily lead to makeouts.
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:54 AM
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This is a cool post but you're right, the world is just superficial now. Facebook has really hindered our society, but there's many other things besides that. Most woman are groupies in some way, shape, or form. The only way to counter that is to play along and start playing rockstar. This still goes back to basic psychology and being a leader of men, which does attract women. I wouldn't count on anything changing next year. The only thing that worked for me was changing myself.
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:49 AM
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I highly suggest practicing canned routines if you don't know what to say. It will give you experience being confident when talking to people. It's not like the routines/conversations have to be fake, you can come up with them on your own, practice, and then go perform them. All it takes is a little writing and memorization.
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:40 AM
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I think it's possible if you're a natural, but most guys aren't including me. PUA can help you transform into a natural if you engrain it in your brain, but that's not realistic. The problem with PUA is it can help you get the girl, but it can't maintain a LTR. Look at where Style and Mystery are now. For me, it was really hard to keep attraction without PUA. After I used everything I read and performed every trick I had in the book, I simply became less attractive and wasn't the same person she…
/r/seduction20/12/18 09:16 PM
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Mental health
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:25 PM
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I see what you're putting down. If that's the case, here's what I would do: You need reasoning to go over there, to do that you can use the "need a girl's perspective" reasoning. There's a lot of ways you could take the conversation, an example is the link I post after this. But basically you go over there and start that conversation based on a girl's perspective rather than the example says quick opinion, and depending on how it goes you can keep going or you can just roll off. The example/link…
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:51 PM
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If you're serious about this one, and don't have any experience talking to women I highly suggest practicing on girls you don't care about first. Then when you go to approach the one in the gym, you'll less likely fuck it up.
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:30 PM
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I actually got married through PUA and recently got separated from a 5 year marriage. It taught me a lot, and it taught me how I feel about marriage which is it's not for me. Party girls are not what you want, it'll cause issues down the road. Homebody and kids are good for the soul and will make you a better person, even if it ends up bad. Really this question seems like "do I want the good girl or the bad girl" and for LTR purposes it's the good girl. For short term it's the bad girl. With my …
/r/seduction20/12/18 02:17 PM
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You could argue this is a sport for some people. Of course the higher the number, the better the score. You've fallen for someone it won't work with, and the best thing to do is run away fast.
/r/seduction20/12/18 02:07 PM
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Limbo the game. Have you ever played? Originally it's played with just a bar, and people line up and go under it as you keep lowering it and make it more challenging. Can easily be played with a tie on the dance floor if you have a wing and it instantly makes you the life of the party.
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:34 PM
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I'm new to this sub and enjoyed this video. I started PUA back in 2009, and it ultimately led me into a LTR and was married for 5 years, but recently divorced because I couldn't keep the party going that long. Only feedback I have is your story about your missions/becoming the VIP table didn't quite make sense. Did you actually MOVE tables to a VIP table, or turn the VIP table into one? If the later, how did you describe accomplishing that to your group? Bonus tip from me on bringing people into…
/r/seduction19/12/18 09:34 PM
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