rbhfd Archive

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2	Almost First F-Close I've had the same problem before, and occasionally still do with someone new (especially if alcohol is involved). In my experience, there's several things you can do. For example, don't do foreplay for too long. When you're both good to go, put a condom on and go. Then, if you go flat anyway, don't let it phaze you, assure her it's not her fault and maybe go down on her. If she's staying the night, you'll be a lot more relaxed after you've just woken up so you can give it another try in the morn…	/r/seduction	06/07/17 02:49 PM
1	Started tinder and bumble accounts 2 days ago, 100s of right swipes, no matches. Bad profile or do I have to wait for it to become more visible? At least for Tinder, new accounts actually get pushed to get more views. It all depends on how big the city is you're swiping in, but if you have no matches in 2 days, your profile probably isn't on point. Try posting in the profile review thread on r/tinder. Most like, it's your pictures.	/r/seduction	27/04/17 11:08 PM
–	Carl Sagan gives great advice. He's not saying to quote this to women. Just that in the grand scheme of things, what you do doesn't really matter. The universe doesn't care if you go talk to her and make a fool oit of yourself. If that helps someone beat AA, this post has been good help	/r/seduction	25/12/16 02:09 AM
–	Carl Sagan gives great advice. Being in awe about the size of the universe does not make you a neckbeard. Being an asshole does make you an asshole though	/r/seduction	25/12/16 01:57 AM
8	Carl Sagan gives great advice. Want to see my pale blue dot?	/r/seduction	24/12/16 05:12 PM
1	My neighbour(woman) asked me for help Where did I say this sub is for woman haters? Note that I'm not the guy you originally commented on. I made sure I didn't do that, since it wouldn't lead to a good discussion. You would have made it very easy though with your post. What i have problem with is the fact that the moment someone like the OP shows around and says 'i don't think from my point of view it was worth helping that person' someone like you shows up and tells him 'well you are a horrible human being' Again, where did I say t…	/r/MGTOW	07/12/16 09:20 AM
4	My neighbour(woman) asked me for help Hey buddy we don't care Good for you! I didn't expect you to. This dude does not care about men I do. I care about people, as I illustrated. has no concept of brotherhood In what sense? I just explained that I help my friends, neighbors and family when possible. And they will help me. How is that not brotherhood? frequents in subs centered around mocking, shaming You could call me a recovering niceguyTM . I have definitely thought "Why is this asshole getting all the girls why I'm still single" …	/r/MGTOW	07/12/16 09:09 AM
11	My neighbour(woman) asked me for help I have helped my male friends move. I have helped my female friends move. I usually get a couple of beers for my trouble from both. In the mean time, they have helped me move as well. Although it was mostly the guys doing the heavy lifting. The women did help with other stuff. My female friends have taken me shopping, since I value their tips. The only thing they got back from me was the joy from taking me shopping. Same for general advice on women. Maybe you're hanging around the wrong people i…	/r/MGTOW	06/12/16 10:06 PM
1	How to not over text? Also, be mindful of her replies. Don't consider "yes" or "ok" as a sign to text more. It means she doesn't want to sent you a lot of messages (at the moment).	/r/seduction	03/09/16 05:28 PM
1	Approach anxiety or approach excitement? Anxiety and excitement aren't the same thing, but they can come hand in hand. The reason you want to approach women is excitement: there's a certain thrill about talking to someone you don't know, especially if you're attracted to them. But before you can achieve, you have to actually start talking to them, which is where anxiety comes in. You started thinking whatever might go wrong (how irrational it may be, since nothing bad will actually happen). It's very similar to when you go e.g. bungee …	/r/seduction	30/08/16 04:37 PM
1	Some approaching/conversation tips by Woujo Third, doing what you want is fine, just don't do it to "impress" the girl. Girls can see what you are doing when you do that, and it doesn't look good. I was mostly joking, but this was kind of my point. Now it seems like the advice tells you to act manly, why your point is that you shouldn't do anything you normally wouldn't do just to impress them. Second, where are you going where they still play Backstreet Boys. I can remember at least 2 parties in the past year. If the audience is mostly p…	/r/seduction	03/05/16 03:17 PM
1	Some approaching/conversation tips by Woujo If these guys are around a girl, they start acting and talking like a girl and doing feminine shit like booty dances. But what if I genuinely enjoy to sing along to Taylor Swift or the Backstreet Boys when I'm out? Girls around or not	/r/seduction	03/05/16 10:32 AM
1	Long term relationships and holding your frame From what I read, you seem to be doing fine. Not everyone has to be all feely feely and huggy huggy all the time when in public, and I'm pretty sure a lot of people appreciate you not being like that. Also, remember that when people make comments like that, it usually comes from insecurities of their own. They're not as touchy feely as we are. Maybe somethings wrong with us. I rather choose to think something is wrong with them. And in come the remarks. And don't know who it's like where you liv…	/r/seduction	09/03/16 12:36 PM
2	Tinder and you: a brief guide to success Have good quality photos This can't be stressed enough. When I started with tinder, I didn't have many good pictures of myself (had lost a lot of weight shortly before so only very recent pictures were an option, our friend group doesn't take that many photos and I generally am very critical of myself in pictures). This summer, I had an amazing trip, with lots of great pictures of me doing cool stuff. I now easily get 5 times (if not more) more matches than before. I could still be more efficien…	/r/seduction	22/02/16 12:07 PM
9	Second text after no reply? please reply lol Don't send this	/r/seduction	27/01/16 01:51 PM
4	Where to get many honest opinions from many guys of how hot a girl really is? My brother is about to make the biggest mistake of his life 4chan No, why should anyone care how ugly she is, if he thinks she's gorgeous. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that crap. If she really is a horrible person, that is something to possibly be worried about. But talk to him about it, not random internet strangers.	/r/seduction	19/11/15 11:26 AM
11	How do I get over my ex. Probably a unique situation. But girls can jump right into something, almost as soon as they want. But they never have to fix their issues because guys don't care.... This is so true for me and my ex-girlfriend (we still see each other regularly and are good friends). We broke up about 1.5 years ago and she had someone new in about 2 months. She's still suffering with the same issues as when we ended things. Me on the other hand, invested in myself. Started running and loosing weight like mad, with which came an increase in…	/r/seduction	17/11/15 01:53 PM
6	Is this how Eye Contact Feels Every Time? Pam knows	/r/seduction	16/04/15 08:34 AM