TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

rcotton96 Archive

View 1 posts and 14 comments by rcotton96 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
144

LEVEL UPrcotton96/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:33 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Yes!!! This is why I always had an easy time dating around- the stakes of each date felt so low to me. I was always thinking is this person worth my time? Do I like them??? I never had any doubts that they wouldn’t like me (and don’t really care either way at that point in getting to know someone). It wasn’t until my first date w my current HV partner that I had a moment of “oh shit this is what it feels like to want someone to like me”. 2 years later and he just passed the bar to be a lawyer, h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:30 PM
2

100p was a regular thing for me. Anytime we had a convo about how things could improve it wound up me comforting him because he “felt like a failure” or any other form of self deprecation. I had to lay off my totally valid concerns to keep him from fucking imploding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:38 AM
6

OMFG I FEEL THIS IN MY CORE. The worst part is.... I would always wind up comforting him after when he was butthurt or angry at himself for being incompetent!!! When really I was thinking, “how damn hard is it to think through things for 2 minutes??” and dealing w my own disappointment in him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:00 AM
3

Awww so sweet thank you. Really wish I had a romantic story but the honest answer is good old Bumble...... I went to undergrad where he did his law school & we share similar sports team preferences so we just started chatting about those things and that led us away. I do remember asking him my favorite ice breaker question which is: Top 5 celebrities you would want to hang out with? Key being: not meet, get a quick photo with, get to brag about. BUT actually spend time chilling with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:48 PM
2

Awww! How sweet thank you. I feel very lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:05 AM
11

Just a sister if you swing that way ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:04 AM
3

Very sweet of you. Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:55 AM
2

:)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:55 AM
2

Thank you friend!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:55 AM
6

I feel the same way. I really am in disbelief myself. I appreciate your support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:54 AM
4

Appreciate the kind words :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:53 AM
14

Lol we really have all been there! Thank you friend :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:53 AM
9

Ugh. So sorry. Yes there are of course, many more stories of him getting way too drunk and me taking care of him. One time after he passed out drunk in my bed (and I was drunk, but not THAT drunk) I wrote myself a note in my phone essentially saying, why do I always need to take care of him + myself. I could never be so careless and drink that much because I would be a target of violence/assault! I never ever could let my guard down or count on him to look after me when we went out. He was so bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 10:02 PM
4

Fully agree and support this!! Confidence and respect in both yourself and the person you’re pursuing are invaluable in building a relationship. Don’t define yourself in one category, you are so much more than just a chick who plays video games. That’s great of course (I also fall into this category) but you need to present yourself with all the things you value about yourself up front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 06:39 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter