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Dude what do you think? you're probably right
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:54 AM
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came to say "nothing who gives a shit." but i like yours better
/r/askTRP04/06/19 01:33 AM
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I had a buddy in college, absolutely great looking guy, teeny ween tho. Girl i was banging had banged him once before, said he had the smallest dick she'd ever seen. Maybe 4 inches from what she said. Dude fucked more girls than anyone i knew in school, frankly, but again his face was probably second to none so.
/r/askTRP25/05/19 02:40 AM
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lol toxic positivity, i like that
/r/askTRP25/05/19 02:34 AM
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Nice. This subcommunicates at least one important thing, that you're emotions, whatever they are, are stable and that you have a positive outlook. Provided you're being honest, its attractive. Anything beyond that just helps her get hooks into you. That said, this puts the burden of your own emotional state upon you. You cant say shit to her with the hope that she'll help you fix your problems. This is co-dependency provided she is also talking about her issues and you're helping. Could also be …
/r/askTRP24/05/19 04:41 AM
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Yes sir i will
/r/askTRP24/05/19 03:35 AM
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Think back to grade school. Teacher asks a question, you raise your hand and answer. What does she say.. "Correct.. blah bla.. " A peer says, "I agree."
/r/askTRP24/05/19 01:09 AM
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lol "correct" always find it annoying when someone starts off their piece with that.. like are you some type of authority? should i give a shit? the answer lies in everything else you say
/r/askTRP23/05/19 01:33 AM
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Being a physics and engineering major at a research university, i completely agree. First off there are next to no women in math, physics, or engineering, and there are no sympathies for anyone who doesnt toe their line. God some of the shit i read in here is absolutely absurd. Now if i dont caveat what i'm saying with "a lot of RP shit is very much important and necessary to understand if you want to navigate the world effectively," i'll get downvoted like you did. Where's the nuance guys?
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:41 PM
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i doubt it edit: lol of course negged
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:28 PM
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Autism is most definitely not bullshit, but its become synonymous with "lacks social skills" by the many unqualified people ready to make a diagnosis or label someone as permanently incompetent. Autism cannot really be overcome through practice, whereas underdeveloped social skills in an otherwise typical individual can. I have twin cousins, one of whom is autistic. The one who is autistic is, academically speaking, perfectly functional, she gets better grades than her two siblings. Socially spe…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:17 PM
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nah
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:10 AM
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Not disagreeing
/r/askTRP09/05/19 08:58 PM
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"How do I handle if guys hit on her as I obviously can not flirt with other girls?" You handle it by getting hit on by other girls. You feel me bro?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:15 PM
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Winner
/r/askTRP09/05/19 06:08 PM
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Its not. I'm 6'1, 205, 11% BF. Still not really what i'd call big. In order to crush the whole 'alpha male by physical prowess' look you need to be pretty seriously big. I deadlift and squat over 400#, bench over 300. Not crazy numbers but better than the great majority of guys in the gym. I dont look THAT crazy. I look good, people can agree, but in order to attain that top look, IMO, you need a little bit of gear. Not a ton, but a little bit for sure. At my height, 215# at 9% BF would be reall…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:27 PM
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I'm a big tell the truth guy. Now doing so will put serious strain on your relationship and probably never really go away, may break the relationship altogether. With that said, the awfulness of the experience will likely prompt you to not make such an error again, i.e. not getting plastered drunk to the point of making such bad decisions.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 05:14 PM
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How fucking annoying is this shit. I have a buddy of mine, frankly complete chad, just not super tall, 6'0. Super strong and athletic in school, had an easy time fucking some truly hot girls (so did i, hence our being buddies), but he tells me he hasnt gotten laid in 3-4 years. Then i know a guy, about 5'7" and average looking as could be. Dating tons of girls that i would GLADLY fuck. Both guys are basically the same socioeconomic class.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:51 PM
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I think you should try to cut masturbating out altogether.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:40 PM
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agreed^ Another way to put it: Arrogance is an inflated sense of one's own competence or value in a given setting. A lot of people are just generally arrogant when they're young, because when you're in your late teens/early twenties, quite a lot of people still lack the discernment necessary to figure out whether you're confident/able or just arrogant/inable. Its easier in the short term to just artificially inflate self-worth and reap the rewards of high value men, but in the long term i think …
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:17 PM
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I know you posted, thats how i know what you look like. You look big, you look broad. I'm your height, about 95kg myself, pretty lean, different look tho i'm german/EE. Your bro getting approached and shit isnt as meaningful as you make it imo. Keep approaching, keep working on your inner man.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 02:36 AM
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Just saw your pic lol you're a complete chad. You're much more physically intimidating than your boy though, could be why girls feel comfortable going for him. People get the idea that girls all go goo goo for chad but the reality is that chad is intimidating as fuck in a lot of ways. It takes pursuit and finesse to actually close as chad, the difference is in the sex later.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:59 PM
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I had a job working at Starbucks in an upscale neighborhood. Lot of milfs, attractive young girls.. Really a whole variety of people, but when i first started i could really feel the nerves. Working window or orders is very difficult to fuck up, so it wasnt the issue of competence, it was the sheer exposure to all different sorts of people, even if for only a minute, in a position of relative inferiority. After enough time however it became easy to do and i started being the one to really hold t…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:41 PM
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https://imgur.com/gallery/SETOi
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:25 PM
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Thats an easy one bro, you dump her. Block her number, recognize that she's gonna be fucking this other dude while you get your life back in order and remember, women always have something lined up. They are always the ones to jump ship first in an LTR, and they will cheat if they find a guy they like more than you whose alpha enough to know better than enter an LTR.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:15 AM
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I doubt it, found the dudes profile and copied it to the letter.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:54 AM
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too hard, not man enough
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:54 AM
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Spent a week with tinder and now i'm a tinder scientist lol
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:53 AM
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The things that makes a beta a beta is that he follows and doesnt think for himself. He thinks you've done the thinking for him and have gone somewhere else, so he should go there too. You have to tell them not too, or they'll come along.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:48 AM
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Nothing wrong with it, i'll get there one day. Thats kind of what i'm noticing. I put up some body pics, i mean i look good i'm proportionate and relatively massive compared to most guys at my size.. I got a few super likes and they just never went anywhere. Another girl doesnt want to cheat on her bf, buts wants a sexting buddy.. What else do you do with your profile? Mostly selfies or you being out and about ? Seems looks and style are about 90% of it, plenty of guys doing well without taking …
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:07 PM
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And theres a 90% chance youre a dumb little twat yourself
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:01 PM
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Lol how does what you're saying follow from what he said.. Picture quality, if were using the proper terminology here, means using a focal length of around 85mm for portrait shots as opposed to a 25mm equivalent focal length that you'd get with an iphone.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:39 AM
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We're assuming good picture quality in all cases here
/r/askTRP05/04/19 05:25 AM
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Maybe not.. I'm 6'1 with over a 1200# powerlifting total and i work with mostly women. I've had ONS with 9's before so cant be an all out faggot alright, but in my first months at the job they were ALWAYS biting at me, so was the gay guy. Fortunately i made a good male aquantance that allowed me to climb the dominance heirarchy there and establish myself as someone who didnt care what kind of shit you throwing his way. I've outframed people in a lot of instances by this point, people literally m…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:55 AM
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nice
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:15 AM
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Congrats
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:13 AM
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"weirdo" isnt the right word, but its clear you're more invested than a high value male would be.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:20 AM
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Frankly, women are guilty until proven innocent in today's world. Guilty thots will be treated, at most, as a plate. If innocence can be proven by some point, meaning she knows how to treat an alpha properly, and an alpha status is attained by the male, then commitment can be considered. If at any point her values and behaviors (same thing) present as being incongruent with the ideal, you drop her to a plate. No questions asked. Theres no sympathy here, these are her problems and theyre for her …
/r/askTRP27/03/19 05:34 PM
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Bad idea but hey
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:58 PM
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Online dating imo is about getting built, lean, having at least decent face, and then fucking down a little bit for minimal effort lays. Not for generating a relationship. It can happen, i mean some girls say thats what they're looking for, but then chad swipes right and the temptations and hamstering begin so.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:30 PM
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I would do push/pull in a day and then take a day off. Rinse repeat such that your working out 3-4 times a week. Start the day with a a few work sets of 5 reps on either bench or OHP, then do some heavy worksets of rows or pull ups. You can alternate this such that you start with the pull movement and follow up with the press. Then do some bro stuff. Dips, curls, lateral raises, that kind of thing for higher reps, between 8-12. Mainly i would be hitting both push and pull same day, and allow for…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:21 PM
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My experience, had a female friend in college. Wound up having sex with 3 of her housemates. Would share a bed with her and she would sleep over sometimes. She had a pretty face, average body. Friends were maybe hotter. I dont know. Her freinds all ragged on her cause she would sound really horny when she would say my name, but i tried closing and she rebuffed me every time. Wound up falling out of contact at some point. In some cases it can work. I have a buddy of mine, great looking guy, high …
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:46 AM
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One of the things about TRP is that you lose several points of inherent trust you had for women prior to unplugging. So i had a girl i was dating about 5 years ago, she never cheated as far as i know, but i remember reading a text one time of hers (sent to her friend) that she was just gonna head to boonton. This was after a fight, and boonton is a town about half an hour away from where we lived. I had no idea who could live there, and i tried to figure it out but to no avail. So i have no idea…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:15 AM
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Singing is good. Start singing in the car. You'll suck at first but you'll get better over time, then you'll be able to access that greater range when your in conversation.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:27 AM
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Honestly i did not do much at all in high school and did better than anyone else in my class. I was semi-goodlooking, but i went to the gym a lot (still wasnt big lol), went to clubs i could get into, and threw parties. Your priority is to focus on yourself, because they will come once they see that you've invested into yourself and made gains. Really, just workout, get a good look going for yourself, gain a rep as someone who likes to party, and shoot the shit with people. Dont discriminate too…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:23 AM
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Read the post after that, dude literally can't do math but is giving a talk on "volume" when his all time peak numbers roughly match OP's
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:01 PM
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I read sex god method in high school years before i found TRP, its been the recommended sex book on pick up forums for the past decade. I also suggest reading it. As for application and whatnot, the ideal process is something where you come blank slate, no traumas or anything, and just go out and talk to girls you'd like to date/have sex with. You read a little bit to see how your feedback is matching up with the other stuff you see here, which gives you ideas for further intentions. Eventually …
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:10 AM
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I'll downvote me too
/r/askTRP03/06/18 02:12 AM
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dude she mogged you so hard lmao
/r/askTRP02/06/18 11:42 PM
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could you recommend an effective built in filter?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:07 PM
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This is an hard next right? This is a hard next OP
/r/askTRP30/05/18 10:12 PM
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A few things OP, hopefully this helps. You do not have a top tier body, not even close imho. In actuality, women do not prefer that super refined look, they prefer big and strong. At 6', you shouldn't expect your body to boost your success with women unless you've maxed out your natural potential, which is closer to 210 lbs at 10% bf. So theres a great deal of weight for you to gain, my honest recommendation would be to start eating 4000 cals a day and run mark rippettoes practical programming. …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 03:04 AM
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Heterosexual Male Therapist OP, someone you can establish a real relationship with.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:26 PM
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Dude if you're gonna go over to have "a talk," thats a straight up act of aggression, and imo you were right to do it, but you need to be on your shit if you're going to. Scrawny friend "sucker punches" you? how? you should be ready to kill these dudes, can't be getting "sucker punched" if you're ready to fight, thats just getting punched and then getting your ass beat. Either lift and train to fight so that you can fuck dudes like this up beyond any reasonable doubt, or do what everyone else sa…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 08:01 PM
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A decision for you take make, based on your own research!
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:59 AM
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Yea the fact that some people DO have successful marriages kind of flies in the face of the quote.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:05 AM
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I dont think its all that obvious that you should, certainly other people are comparing you to them, so why shouldnt you? Then again, I play music, i'm pretty good at it, but that doesnt mean much at the bar when i'm grabbing drinks and the guy next to me stands at 6'4" jacked and chisled. I'm not some tiny guy either, even if i feel like it at 6' 180 lbs, but we can bet he's gonna pull attention away from me despite the fact that i work hard to achieve things that arent readily apparent. I thin…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:37 PM
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Yea hes probably NOT a chump.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:29 PM
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Stop jerking off
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:24 AM
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But at the same time ! not always. Had an ex gf who had a fairly low count for her age, 9 guys at 21 y/o. She had a few different friends, all with seriously different approaches to sex and intimacy. I talked to her recently and she said this girl who was on a major dry spell was still on it, so two years by now. Another friend of hers just broke 20+ guys, and i saw another one pull an absolute random back from the bar to get fucked for all of two minutes before the dude left. The last one i can…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:18 AM
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good rules
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:13 AM
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Its about not giving yourself away to things which dont give the right returns. Thats why you feel better, because you're not making this idiotic sacrifice anymore. Whats more is that it will take a lot of pain for people to come out of their ignorance. Once you realize that you say, "get on with it then." Theres often a preference for some ignorance, until it hits.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:13 AM
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>bullshit pseudointellectual credentials You ever read Nietzche? Otherwise i agree, having lived a whores life would indicate that its very much in her nature to be one. Coupled with the fact she cant help but brag about those exploits? She might rest the validity of her whole ego on them. That said, see how it plays out OP. My guess is that she got Nietzche and Cicero from other guys in previous relationships and that shes basically just integrated them into her game. What it all boils down to …
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:53 AM
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Agreed, the community is weird, but let me add some more incentive here. I was dating this girl for about a year, pretty, juicy butt, submissive, seemingly top quality sex. Then i find yourbrainonporn and start trying that out. After about a 3 week streak, i gave my girl an orgasm that lasted over a minute. First time that had ever happened. Then, like clockwork, if i was on a streak she'd have really intense orgasms that she could just stay in. If i was not on streak, it would be kind of medioc…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 01:00 PM
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I'd say if theres one thing thats improved my frame more than anything its not ejaculating. Finding out you can go weeks or months without getting a nut, and still feel perfectly well, completely changes the dynamic of your relationship to women. "Dread game" becomes natural since you've established a complete freedom outside your sexuality. You do not need women. This isnt coming from some celibate either, i lift, do all sorts of chaddy shit with my boys, but if theres one thing i've gained out…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:26 AM
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I was kind of joking, but, at the same time, really the only way to know the limit is to test it. Is it worth the risk of knowing the limit? thats more the question i think
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:59 AM
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yea escalate anyway and report back
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:10 PM
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I've had gf's in the past and i've always been pretty well convinced they were faithful. I got a big dick, i'm kinda tall, somewhat built, somewhat lean, somewhat goodlooking and the sex was always prime with them, thats why we kept at it.. but i read shit like this and can't help but become incredulous. I left the first because i had cheated on her a bunch of times and it was getting to be too much, the second one i didnt cheat on, kind of as a proof to myself that i was capable of monogamy, bu…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 03:37 AM
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If you're just going for the chance at fucking a new girl, then you need to be more efficient. Spending time talking to people having interactions you don't give a shit about, just so that eventually you can talk to a girl whose interaction you do give a shit about.. Ballers don't do that. If its girls you want, really, then you need to just go for them. Some will be receptive others not, okay, work with what works.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:28 PM
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OP it is unfair to yourself to stay with this person when they've not contributed to you what you have to them.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:07 AM
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7% is generally considered a fairly safe rate of return provided you've set up a portfolio with a fiduciary whose worth his salt. Whats 4% of 3 million? 120k. the other 90k goes back into the bank (portfolio) so that the 7% return holds the same real value year after year.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:59 AM
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Pretty simple course of action here, if you've read any personal finance books you'll know to get a fiduciary and invest. You'll want to go fairly safe. An average annual return of 7% is enough to live off of with a few million in the bank. After inflation, you'll get to keep 4%, which is about 120k a year. very nice. Go travel, go read, explore the things you love, help people who need it.. the game hasn't ended just because you're now without the need to work in order to survive.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:11 PM
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Real grandiosity will help you get laid in the short term. Not much question about that imo. These people aren't "faking" anything, they are deeply deluded into actually believing they are more valuable than they are. So of course this works out in the short term, because no one yet knows that you are actually hiding a loser child deep down whose never grown up, but in the long term this eventually comes out. If the Narcissism which compensates for it persists, then the narcisissm remains an imp…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:41 PM
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Its all about test/estrogen ratio for this. A lot of guys on gear have this problem. My guess is that for whatever reason you have too much E floating around and not enough T. I would get bloods taken, maybe go on an AI if you find you're Estradiol levels are too high.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 06:16 PM
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"A hermit" lol, sounds like a normal girl who isn't addicted to the bullshit. You're overthinking it. try to let go a bit
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:29 AM
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Seriously too much theory stifles creativity. This is an art OP, just get on out there. After some experience you'll find that pretty much all the rules have their all too regular exceptions.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 12:22 AM
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Great insights, thanks for posting
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:08 PM
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no lol
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:35 PM
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Isaac newton prided himself in having spent his life celibate and yet he's inarguably one of the most accomplished men of all time. Elon Musk on the other hand says he can't stand to be without a woman at night, but again, pretty majorly accomplished dude. My thinking is that the issue is more complicated, as i know Elon had serious childhood trauma and newton was completely antisocial. It is interesting that he didn't bear any children, really a profound sacrifice to pride imo. In Newton's case…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 06:19 AM
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Is there anyway to counteract such behavior? Win fights.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:42 AM
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women are hypergamous Thats a scientific fact, as in, that is their role in the nature of humanity. You have twice as many female ancestors as male because of this fact. What to do about this is where TRP begins to posit solutions. This community would be absolute shit if it were based solely on assumption btw. Largely guys do distort things on here, like i actually think the attempt to generalize women to the extent its been done on trp is ridiculous, but as far as hypergamy goes they are corre…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:02 PM
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Honestly don't think about it so much. Do what you want. If that means fuck her, you fuck her, if it means study with her, you do that, if it means disengage, do that. Remember TRP is meaningless if it doesn't empower you to make the decisions necessary to improve your life. In this case, there are 3 tentative routes: fuckbuddy, study buddy, old friend you fell out of touch with. None of which are inherently negative, all of which have their own set of branching possibilities once their decision…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 01:52 AM
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