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Silent treatment is a gift.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 05:52 PM
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On paper, I should have a good life Are we reading the same paper? lmao
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 05:00 PM
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Could be, depending on your reasoning. If you're thinking that because you provide for the family, she should decide on her own that it's her job to stay home with the kid... that's a covert contract. It's an agreement you came up with that only exists in your head.
/r/askMRP19/01/24 05:08 AM
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There isn't a spreadsheet for calculating this?!?
/r/askMRP06/11/23 09:01 PM
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never truly understood frame Frame is just doing what's in your best interest and not allowing other things to get you to act against that (no longer in your own frame). Some things that can cause this: Fear of judgement "nice guy" conditioning from your upbringing Manipulation What society tells you is right/wrong So the way to find your frame is to learn how to stand up to and disregard those things. Once you're able to do that, you will consistently act in your own best interest. Then you'll …
/r/askMRP23/08/23 04:40 PM
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But how do I handle these times of disrespect If you're asking how you can get her to change her behavior, you can't. Only she can change her behavior if she decides that's what she wants to do. You have no control over that. What you CAN control is whether or not you continue doing what you gotta do and whether or not you get all emotional about how she acts. If she wants to act like a psychotic bitch in front of everyone... there's nothing you can do about that, but you do get to decide how yo…
/r/askMRP18/07/21 10:55 PM
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how are these types of behavior going to improve You're trying to change your wife when your need to change yourself. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful "Oblivious" meaning that she is unable to figure out what you want without you having to tell her. This is you having the expectation that she can read your mind. When she can't, you get angry and decide that it's disrespect. This behavior is yours. I let her sleep in. I get up early anyway to get more shit done. This is you setti…
/r/askMRP18/07/21 06:00 PM
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The when doesn't matter either... it's your mindset. Wife-centric.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 05:36 PM
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Let me rephrase this... Your entire focus is on what she thinks of your actions. You are still in her frame, not yours. That's why the whole section explaining your rationale is based on what you think she'll think of you. I can't tell her my friend told me about this place because I'm afraid that she'll think I don't know any cool places I can't tell her any details about the restaurant because I'm afraid that if they don't line up, she'll have a negative opinion of me Even when you're talking …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 11:35 PM
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Your entire post is about what your wife thinks of your actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 09:58 PM
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Imagine switching restaurants being such an emotional roller coaster. Can't even eat dinner without it turning into some scheme to get your wife to like you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 09:49 PM
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are these reason from her side It could be anything. But her motives are also not important. That's the wrong thing to focus on. There are only two things you need to ask yourself... "What do I want?" and "Is she that?" should I take a breakup from redpill If anything, you need to read more until you understand what this is all about. Your two main takeaways from TRP should be: Thinking for yourself/making your own decisions and the understanding that YOU are the only thing that's important, not…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:18 PM
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Why do I act like this? Fear. You're afraid of conflict. Afraid to assert yourself. Probably afraid of a lot of other things. What can I do? The same thing you would do to get over any other fear.... confront it. Over and over again until you realize that this fear is unfounded and you are no longer controlled by it.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:12 PM
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AWALT. Also, who gives a fuck? Focus on yourself instead of worrying about what women are thinking.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:09 PM
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Nothing dries up pussy like neediness.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 12:01 AM
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Nah man, this was calculated. He was taking his shot at an anchor baby. Got some bad news for ya OP... she would have aborted anyway.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:01 PM
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Lots of problems with this post... though I can't do a whole lot with gyms still closed Excuses. Weightloss is mostly about diet you stupid fat fuck. I can't help but feel like a massive beta Allowing others to judge you. Not being your own judge. she's the hottest girl i've ever seen. The fact that she's with me is a blessing Oneitis. Scarcity. I KNOW it’s wrong to see it that way but it is what it is Because you have blinders on you fucking idiot. You've pedestalized her... you're DELUDING you…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 12:46 PM
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It's not the "nice things" that you're doing that makes you unattractive... It's your neediness. You really need to think about WHY you're doing these things when you're about to do them. While your intent may not be obvious to you... it's clear as day to them.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:25 PM
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I made a joke at one point about how she should just hit up her rotation when I'm out traveling (something like that) and she said she really isn't talking to other guys. So you gave her a shit test... like a woman? LOL AND You've never directly said anything about exclusivity, even though you actually want her to only see you. You're using indirect communication, like a woman, and now you're confused and upset because things didn't go how you wanted. Think about that shit for a minute. The only…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:26 PM
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lmao... if you're that fragile, you're better off going your own way.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 04:21 AM
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LOL.. Imagine caring this much about what a woman has done.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:27 AM
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Main flaw here is that you're doing this out of fear. Fear that you won't be able to set and enforce boundaries with women from the US. Fear that you're running out of time to have kids. And you're posting here out of fear that you're going to make the wrong decision. Letting fear dictate your decisions is a recipe for disaster... Do things because you want to, not because you're afraid of the alternative.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:53 PM
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Friends are like plates in the sense that... If you have enough, things like this are a non-issue.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:45 PM
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He exploited your personal life for his tiktok. Then, when confronted, he tried to convince you that it was good for you... lol.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 03:10 AM
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Sounds like she just made this up as an excuse to drop you. I wouldn't read too much into it.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 02:03 AM
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How to stop worrying Develop some abundance. A man with options isn't going to worry about shit like this... ...He's too busy working on his own life to concern himself with what she is doing.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:25 PM
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Help them gain self-awareness and teach/model accountability. Model a practical approach to relationships and "love" and try to keep the Disney fairytale true love bullshit out of their heads. To me, it's important that my daughters have a realistic view of themselves and the world. Too many women live in fantasy land and lack any kind of accountability... I find that most of the problematic behaviors come from delusional beliefs.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:20 PM
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What to do? Learn to not give a fuck about the opinions of others. That is the only solution. This is a problem because you don't know how to determine your own self worth. If you did, it wouldn't matter what came out of anyone's mouth. I mean just look at your post history... full of validation seeking shit. i mentioned how i couldnt see her This is weak as fuck. You're so butthurt by what she says that you decide to ACT LIKE HER to get back at her. LOL. You're more than just a little insecure.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 07:03 PM
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Anyone else experienced something like this? You must be new. They're heavily invested in this girl for their self worth and probably don't have much else going on. Scarcity. Oneitis. Well adjusted people with interesting lives don't do this...
/r/askTRP25/04/21 03:48 PM
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If it isn't there, the only way is to create it in your mind. Use your imagination. Pretend. Get her to join in and role play. It's a fantasy after all.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 11:09 PM
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The issue is that you're in their heads and you're focusing on what you think they want, instead of doing whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:27 PM
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scammers Yes... if you get scammed and then you keep going back to the scammer to repeatedly get scammed, that is absolutely your fault. Based on your comparison, I'm not sure that you're clear on what an orbiter is. So, lemme put it this way... Let's say you show interest in a girl and you actively pursue her. She doesn't reciprocate. That's called being rejected. You pick yourself up and move on to the next one. You're just a dude who took a shot. You're not an orbiter. You become an orbiter w…
/r/seduction24/04/21 08:08 PM
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It's a covert contract. "If I choose you, ugly, then you will make me happy." You make yourself happy. Depending on others to make you happy is just setting yourself up for disappointment. AWALT. Gonna be a rude awakening when you find out your ugly wife who is several levels below you is fucking around behind your back. "B-b-but I'm so much more attractive than you!! This isn't how it's supposed to go!"
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:03 PM
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Hey man, if you want to continue believing that men are just puppets who can't think for themselves and therefore aren't accountable for their own shitty situations, go right ahead. Good luck with that mentality. delusional Delusional is chasing a girl who never puts out, but continuing to believe that she will some day put out. Whether or not she's leading you on doesn't matter. What matters is that you are the one who decides to continue following.
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:54 PM
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The point is that what other people do doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is what you do. You are the one who decides what you put up with and what you don't. You choose whether or not to be taken advantage of.... you're not a victim here. Becoming an orbiter is no ones fault except your own.
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:48 PM
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It's absurd to put yourself in a situation that you don't like and blame it on another person. YOU are responsible for YOUR choices. These men are literally choosing to orbit women who are not putting out while clinging to the possibility that she may someday change her mind.... which is a self-created delusion. None of that is about her.
/r/seduction24/04/21 03:22 PM
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You're focusing on the wrong thing here. Women aren't turning men into orbiters. Men are the ones turning themselves into orbiters.
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:36 PM
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Was just about everyone no longer in their life, particularly exes, “toxic”? Do they have a string of stories about how they were wronged by x y a individual? Red flag This really goes both ways. BPD and NPD tend to be complementary. If all of your ex's where "toxic" or had BPD... you might want to check yourself. Also... none of this really matters if you set boundaries. It's not like BPD, NPD, or any other personality disorder gives someone superpowers that allows them to circumvent boundaries…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 01:39 PM
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When do they finally "decide" to lower their standards This is completely dependent upon the individual. A lot of them never wake up. A woman acknowledging and accepting the wall is sort of like their equivalent of taking the red pill. Doesn't happen for everyone.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:51 AM
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women who have hit the wall don't act like it That's because they're in denial. Why do you think they're so unhappy... constantly complaining about the dating scene and how there are no good men? They haven't adjusted their expectations yet because they haven't realized that they need to.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:39 AM
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men innately dislike me LOL. This is clearly projection. How did you figure this out, guys come up to you and tell you that they "innately hate you?" No? If not, how did you determine that they hate you and how did you determine that it was innate. Sounds like you need to improve your mindset.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:04 PM
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If I said anything (I have been sarcastic telling her I'll say hi to him for her when she kept talking about him), it would be seen as insecure, jealous etc Being sarcastic is even more insecure because it shows you don't have the balls to be direct about it. What boundaries would that have been? You seem to think boundaries are about what you set for/tell other people. Boundaries are something that you set for YOU. Here's an example of how a boundary should play out for this situation. You set …
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:30 AM
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It's just a tactic used to try and get an admission from you. People do this all the time. An example is when cops are interrogating someone and they make shit up just to try to get them to admit to something. ("we already have evidence that shows you did this", "your friend told us everything you did", etc) You played right into it, well done.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 08:40 PM
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The guy is just focused on what people think of him. That's why he's seeing it as "creepy" and "weird"... because he views the world in terms of how people might judge him. You are taking a rational approach at meeting more women by opening more avenues. There's nothing wrong with introducing yourself to new people.
/r/seduction21/04/21 05:07 AM
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I don't think MRP ends at that I really like how Rian put it... he said something like, "MRP is just a bait-and-switch. We get you here with the promise of getting your wife to fuck you and we swap that out for self-actualization." I think the core of MRP is realizing that it's all you. You decide what you do. You decide how you react to things. You are the one responsible for your needs. Once guys learn to let all that external shit go, the focus shifts to the important stuff... working with wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 01:57 AM
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Here, let's go with your definition of HVM, and we'll call KS's definition "men who appear to be HVM" (but may or may not actually be HVM due to cheating and whatever other criteria you may have for your definition of HVM). The message is this: There is a higher rate of cheating amongst men who appear to be HVM due to having many, many more options than men who do not appear to be HVM. If you want to date in the pool of men who appear to be HVM (so that you may have a chance at finding an actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:30 AM
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He isn't saying that all HVM cheat. He's saying that the likelihood is higher due to the fact that real HVM have many, many more options/opportunities to cheat when compared to non-HVM. He's not condoning or condemning cheating. He's simply saying that women are unhappy with it because they don't accept the reality that cheating happens at a greater frequency among HVM. Instead, the women he intended the vid for are living in a fantasy land trying to date HVM while still expecting the lower chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 04:38 AM
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