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| 2 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.Focus on what you want. Get clear on what you want and need. Check in with yourself to see if you are getting your needs met. Communicate with the other person as to what your needs and wants are. Be direct. Be clear. They will either make an effort to meet them/meet you halfway or move on. You matter too. If they aren't meeting your needs and meeting you halfway, move on. Be direct. Be clear. Give them a chance. Don't assume. Maybe they don't realize they aren't meeting them or even what they a… | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.No! Authenticity is sexy as hell! It comes across as confident and assured. Everyone is insecure in one way or another. I obviously can't speak for all women, but as long as someone is being respectful, there is no need for shame or contempt. Awkward and quirky stick out in a sea of beige. Everytime. Bonus points if we both laugh at a faux pas. Based on this sub, its appears to be men doing the shaming. Any woman shaming a man who is approaching them respectfully isn't worth the time anyway. We … | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 3 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.Re: turning men down There have been men that have expectations and standards regarding time and attention that just simply aren't/weren't compatible at that time (possibly ever). IE: a great man who wants to spend time, commit to something serious with a different timeline then mine There have been men that are looking for a wife, ie: someone to manage the home and have a family with - career wise at the moment, I don't have that type of capacity and would prefer to hire a housekeeper etc There… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 7 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.You're definitely not under any obligation to entertain or reciprocate any communication from anyone, at any point. You don't owe anyone anything. That aside (even ghosting) someone could have died etc., impossible to know thus if there IS any interest on your part, ask what the intent is and feel free to let them know the impact of their lack of direct communication. If no interest, there is no obligation. Things happen. "Interesting to hear from you and unexpected after not hearing back from y… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 02:12 PM |
| -2 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.Likely, the same men that give up and shut down at the first sign of conflict in relationships as well. Smart women can tell whether men are in it for the long haul or only there based on self interest. So many generalizations and accusations in this thread. Self awareness and communication are key. If you are being rejected repeatedly, perhaps time to look in the mirror and reflect as to how you come across. Otherwise, rejection is a part of life in all aspects. I expect to be rejected from tim… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 01:37 PM |
| 29 | She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored.Did she specifically say you weren't good enough and that you weren't her first choice? A lot of communication is based on personal perception and assumption without actually clarifying. I've turned men down simply because I wasn't in a place to give the best of myself and didn't want to hurt or lead them on. I'm this case its doubtful that a deeper conversation is warranted after only one date. There are many factors as to why people are turned down that doesn't warrant a glaring red label of p… | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 01:10 PM |
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