readingonthebus Archive

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53	Truth I once told a group of guy friends that each and everyone of them have had sex with women who didn't want to have sex but just did it to get it over with and to stop them from negotiating. In those situations, it's not a clear and enthusiastic consent. They were not happy with me for months.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/20 03:48 PM
11	There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time. Me too! I was noticing this year that I tend to over explain the simplest things at work and I couldn't figure out why. It's making sense now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 08:45 PM
16	There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time. I'd probably limit any and all substantive contact to written communication. This way, you don't feel the need to respond immediately, if at all, and there's a record for you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 08:44 PM
3	never ceases to amaze what men will demand 4 months after I got married, we moved provinces. The process to change IDs, transfer professional accreditations, etc was such a pain that it really reinforced my position on not legally changing my last name or even hyphenating it. I don't care if people call me Mrs. [husband's last name] but I'm not dealing with the paperwork to change my last name.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 09:15 PM