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Give them less time and affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:12 PM
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They understand it all right. They just dont care about their partner. That's the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:01 AM
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Because they are selfish and want more out of the relationship than they are willling to give to you. They are selfish entitled assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 06:00 AM
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My soon to be ex husband hated eating pussy ans told me that No MAN likes it and only faggots eat pussy so they can prove to the workd that they are not gay. What kind of mindfuckery is this?!! Jokes on him. Man Im with right now cant get enough of eating my pussy. AND he likes all kind of physical affection, not just sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:58 AM
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Girl, not even 3 minutes! Thank god im divorcong his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:50 AM
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"Claustrophobic bangmaid" lol that was me during my second marriage. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:01 PM
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Or they are a full blown psychopath and enjoy playing with you like a cat does to a mouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:39 AM
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That's too harsh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 10:34 PM
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Yes, who is Declan?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:14 PM
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I'm currently trying to learn how to be like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:21 PM
4

What an awful woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:19 PM
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No, it's because they purposefully try to put us in a state of anxiety by not contacting us regularly and consistently ( intermittent reinforcement). When we are anxious, we are more easily easily manipulated, We are pliable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:30 PM
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Men themselves are a pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:30 PM
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What is this comic strip from? What's it called?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:29 PM
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That used to be me. Now I'm like that guy that sends back just a simple sentence or not even a sentence back to whoevers texting me. You honestly have to act aloof (like guys do!) It's the only thing that works on men, when you create distance and use the same dating tactics that they use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:28 PM
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Not only did I kick him out, but I got a restraining order as well. Finally free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:32 AM
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Never trust a man if he's gone for too long or spends weekends away from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:31 AM
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I had withdrawals from Zoloft for over a month. It was brutal. Also lost my sex drive. I used to joke That Zoloft should be advertised as birth control because I had absolutely no desire to have sex whatsoever when I was on it. I couldn't even come properly when I masturbated while I was on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:30 AM
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"The best way you can change a person is by removing your attention or your entire self until they are able to meet your expectations. Nothing else will do" Best quote ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:26 AM
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Exactly. Fuck his blue balls. What about my blue clit? So they ever worry about that? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:01 PM
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Yes fuck volunteering for their wars; however, when women must fight, they fight bravely and courageously. Just look at the amazing number of Russian snipers that were women during World War II. These were courageous women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 02:34 PM
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This is exactly how my male roommate is - always super helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:35 AM
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Dropping off toilet paper, laundry soap, offering to buy me groceries, moving furniture, giving me money for bills, etc. This is not just one man, though, unfortunately. This is why ladies need to date multiple men at same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:54 AM
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"Domestic terrorist " Is exactly how I would describe my second husband. It would be bad enough if he was just lazy, but he went out of his way to make messes and sabotage me in life at every turn. If I wouldn't have read the book Psychopath Free, I would have never realized the extent of his malicious actions towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:22 AM
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Their mothers were pushover and door mats, and by doing this, they inadvertently taught their sons how to mistreat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:17 PM
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This is an awful truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:05 PM
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I would've told him "hell yeah I'm sexist." That would've shut him up because he can't make you feel bad about something you admit to freely. It's just like when I wouldn't let my abusive husbands parasite of a brother use my car and he got upset and said that I pick favorites when it comes to my friends. I said "yes I do pick favorites, and You're Not it." That shut him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:53 PM
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This happened to me in my marriage. It was awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:47 PM
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Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:05 AM
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Yes! When a good friend of mine (hvm) asked me why I reconciled with my abusive husband and asked me "what is he even good for? What does he do for you?" It was a good wake up call for me to get rid of my physically abusive, stoner, unemployed and without a car or phone parasite that I used to think of as my husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:02 AM
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Pretend for a year? Some of them don't let the mask drop until 4-5 years down the road!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:57 PM
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Thats downright evil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:55 PM
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Oops. Did that today :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:24 AM
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He erroded her confidence systematically bit by bit. Fucking aashole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:48 AM
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Truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:11 AM
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"Panic shame " thats exactly it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:38 PM
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35 is the best age! I have never felt so confident as I do now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:34 PM
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I am also guilty of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:39 PM
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This was the tactic my narcissistic husband and his brother used to get out of chores and basic responsibilities. What made it harder was that these men purposefully went out of their way to create messes in the apartment and sabotage me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 06:09 AM
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Yes, one asshole told me we would have a sushi dinner. I met him for drinks at a classy bar in a resort. We had one drink each and then he took me to a piano bar because he said he wasn't hungry. So he lied about a dinner date and even though the piano bar was awesome, I was upset still that he lied so blatantly. I proceeded to order food still at the piano bar and when it came I didn't eat it, said I was sick, and left his ass and went to a club where my friends were at. Sorry if this seems har…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:50 AM
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Never pay no matter what!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:32 AM
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Yes. Bern there too and although I went on some fabulous expensive dates he never helped me pay my bills or gave me shopping money. So guess who didn't get laid and got ghosted twice? Men are purposeful morons sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:31 AM
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Being 15 minutes or more late for every date. He is testing your boundaries and wants you in a state of anxiety, then he comes over and us charming and "saves the day."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:22 AM
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Digging for gold in trash - love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:03 PM
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No it means they're lazy and worthless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:58 PM
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I knew I had to dump a guy when he pitched a fit when I was listening to Yelawolf and he said it "triggered" him because of past issues, blah blah blah It was just a control tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:38 PM
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It's like they purposefully want to break your boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:36 PM
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No he's not a dumbass, he's a user and now that you have more things and resources and things he can take away from you, he magically wants you back Men like this are absolute scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:52 PM
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My mother in law NEVER PROTECTED ME and instead colluded with her son and the rest of the family to have me arrested for domestic violence instead of him. NEVER trust your mother in law. Please ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 12:49 AM
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Yes, gaslighting and cognitive dissonance will make any person seem crazy. Men have no shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 11:15 PM
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I am doing the same thing and it feels so FREEING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:18 PM
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Please Do! I'll also contribute to this discussion. Narcissistic psychopathic men NEED TO BE EXPOSED. I will never stop exposing these fucking assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:58 PM
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"Manufactured Desperation " Now I finally have a term for what this asshole did to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:52 PM
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I am still recovering from my narcissistic psychopath husband. I didn't know people like him existed before this. People whose sole purpose is to destroy your soul and beauty and then everybody against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:38 PM
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You just described my second husband. I went from a confident beautiful woman with money and friends yo having several nervous breakdown and being isolated from everybody It was hell Please, ladies, don't let these psychopathic misogynistic men ruin your lives and gleefully get off on it. It is pure evil what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:33 PM
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Gross. I am always amazed at how depraved men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:28 AM
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That happened to me. I felt like I was dying a slow death for 4 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:27 AM
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He has her hooked on drugs. And that is just the least of her problems. He is truly an evil malevolent man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:24 AM
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No she didn't call cops and says she doesn't want me to. I don't know where she is staying at with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:42 AM
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Yes! Men are awful sometimes. My friends sbitty boyfriend poured paint thinner on her and lit it on fire. She has burns all over her body now! This just happened last week and I can't stop thinking about it. She won't let me rescue her and won't tell me the location where she is at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:22 AM
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My "christian" SDA mother in law stood by for years KNOWING her son was beating me. Her main concern was for me not to reveal to everybody what he was doing and for him not to get in trouble. After his sexual assault on me she didn't help me one bit. Fuck her! I can't believe women can be so evil. At least i got the balls to file a police report and get a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:15 AM
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Yes, these messages are just like the emails that my Psychopathic husband would send me to try to get me back to so he could physically assault me ans then dump me and then recycle the whole thing again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:07 PM
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These messages all read like the same kind of emails that my manipulative and psychopathic Husband would send me. Some of the sentences in these messages are almost word-for-word for what he would write see me to try to manipulate me. Please don't go back. Trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:06 PM
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So they can hurt you again and get a "high" from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:26 PM
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That was my second husband's excuse as well for why he couldn't pay bills on time, clean anything, and actually leave messages for me almost like he was doing it on purpose to clean it up. Fuck his ADHD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:53 PM
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What about the ones that withhold love and affection and sex, ON TOP of being lazy entitled pieces of shit? That was my second ex husband. Had the gall to be physically violent with me as well so a nice restraining order took care of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:52 PM
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Yes, now that my abusive ex is back to living with his mother, she can once again continue to do his laundry, cook for him, clean up after all the messes he makes in the house, pay his rent and other bills since he has been unemployed for 4 months, give him extra money for his beer and marijuana habit, drive e him around everywhere since his car broke down and he has made no efforts to get it fixed, and all for no appreciation at all! That's what I had to endure for six years with him and she ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:22 PM
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This is what I do too! Seeing my relationship on paper (the pros and cons) helps me be more objective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:39 PM
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I lost everything in my first marriage, and he was the one that cheated on me and kicked me out of our house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:27 PM
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I am so sorry you had to go through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:21 PM
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"Entitled couch creature!" I am laughing so hard at this, love this term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:19 PM
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Good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:25 AM
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Yes! We all have value, despite what we think our insecurities or shortcomings in life are. It is men that make us feel insecure whether we have all of our shit together or not. So whether your life is fabulous or not, ladies don't take crap from men. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:55 PM
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Yes. Sleep paralysis every few months where he would look like the devil and his eyes would turn red and demonic. Absolutely terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:34 AM
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I look at pictures of myself when I was single and I look so happy. Then I look at pictures of myself for years into a relationship and I don't even recognize the person that I see. It took me a year-and-a-half to finally start looking like the old me again and I'm still not there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 06:44 PM
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