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Right. Should I make it a very long profile or should it be short and sweet so I don't spoil EVERYTHING about myself?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 02:44 AM
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Well, I'm 102 lbs and 5'2" and I've never been in a sexual relationship so I wouldn't be putting that down anyways. Is there anything I should mention that is RPW that will attract more guys/the right types of guys?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/15 02:40 AM
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Being vain. Nobody wants to see you kiss yourself in the mirror or hear about how good you looked the other day.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 08:43 PM
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Honestly, in this day and age, who has time for a hobby? Between going to work, exercising, socializing, shopping, etc, when do you have time to do other things? I guess you can pick up a new hobby while commuting to work like learning a new language on your smartphone or reading a book. Does healthy cooking/baking count as a hobby? I see it as more of a necessity to avoid gaining weight, and a lifestyle choice. What about sewing? Well, I want to save money so I'll sew that button on all by myse…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/15 10:22 PM
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You're 100% right about that. I will consider that further if I wish to date within my faith.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 12:41 AM
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Okay, so basically, a lot of the guys have an excuse to be lazy and they learn Talmud instead of getting a job. Thus, childcare, cooking, cleaning, AND being a provider are all on the woman. The man is learning Talmud all day to get the family into heaven. This is considered acceptable. If I marry a guy with a job, or a good job if I'm so lucky, he may want me to cover my hair after marriage. Men don't have to wear wedding rings or have have any sign that they are married men. That's why I feel …
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 12:17 AM
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By equal partnership I mean I take on my roles as a female like childcare, cooking, cleaning etc. And as a man he is a provider. We each pull our equal weight in a marriage and take on roles to make things work. Is that not what we believe here? I'm in no way, shape, or form, a feminist.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 12:08 AM
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So is that low self esteem and/or no confidence? Should i reach out to him and tell him he can do anything he puts his mind to? I'm so torn about that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 12:05 AM
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He said he's teaching in a private Jewish school at the moment and the pay is crap. Private Jewish schools will hire just about anybody to teach. He claims he will finish his BA next year...You need a master's degree for any level in public school. He said even with that he'd never be able to provide for a family. Is that a sign of low self esteem? Should I reach out to him and tell him he can do whatever he puts his mind to??
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/15 12:04 AM
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DO you think I should talk to him about his insecurity? If it's an insecurity issue he's facing, maybe a girl that he likes, aka me, can tell him he can achieve happiness by doing better than what he's doing now. He's in therapy and smokes pot so clearly teaching isn't making him happy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:31 PM
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I actually don't have any married friends. My close friends are also single and looking. They have no idea where to look. Like I said, online dating is a nightmare. I tell many people, who I feel can help me and introduce me to guys, that I'm looking to get married. I recently spent some of the holy days in Washington Heights, and I told a girl I became friendly with that I'm looking to get married. She said she knew somebody and he would come to me and date me. He calls me up and wants to meet …
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:25 PM
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I went to a couple of the local Conservative temples and spoke to the Rabbis. They said they have no young congregants.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:11 PM
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I'm very modern. I don't believe in sleeping with guys or being a "technical virgin", but I would kiss a guy on a date if I found him physically appealing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:10 PM
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Yeah but he's also not motivated at the same time. It's like who came first, the chicken or the egg?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:09 PM
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He's never gotten laid, but he said he's gotten things like BJs from girls.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:08 PM
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No, the boys tend to leave the community due to so many religious obligations they have such as prayer 3 times a day, daily Talmud study, no touching girls. It's difficult, and many community leaders such as Rabbis feel it's an all or nothing type of thing. Either you keep EVERYTHING or you leave.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:07 PM
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I think about doing that all of the time. I feel it's definitely an option if I'm older and I'm tired of dating lazy Jewish boys from the "modern" Orthodox community, or I happen to find the right guy now and he's not Jewish.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:06 PM
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I'm a recent college grad... I'm in the middle of searching for employment. I'm running around to job fairs, which only offer jobs for people with 5+ years experience or commission based pay only, and it's super frustrating. I'm probably going to take pre reqs for a master's degree next semester. I also work out daily.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:04 PM
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I was referring to another guy I dated who made good living but I just didn't care for him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 11:03 PM
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The problem I have with him is that he said straight out that the pay is garbage and he has no desire to do better. That's why he's not husband material. My choice of not being so religious can change if I meet the right person and all he wants me to do is wear skirts and cover my hair. I'm willing to do that for the right person. The matchmakers take things very personally. If I say I'm not looking for a guy that learns (stipend Talmud study), then they may get offended that their son learns al…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 09:46 PM
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No, this is not what I'm looking for. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 09:18 PM
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I wish. This is why I'm so upset. And my friends are upset. We have no idea where to meet people. The dating websites like YUconnects and Jdate attract these awful guys (this pot head teacher guy is from YUconnects). There are no social places to meet other Jewish people. The Rabbis deemed that as immodest. The modern sect of the religion is dwindling as it becomes polarized. You can either be less religious/leave the religion, or become radical like the Jews making headlines in the newspapers. …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 09:11 PM
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I can probably get a scholarship because my uncle runs the Master's program. Plus, my parents said they can pay in full and then I'll have to pay them back after I get a job.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:53 PM
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Yes exactly. I want to show I'm functional. But I want a master's degree for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:52 PM
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I can't do absolutely nothing until I meet somebody. Isn't that bad to have nothing to do and just sit at home and wait for dates? I need a job.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:33 PM
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Thank you for your advice. Yes, I eat right, I'm very fit, I'm probably going back for a Master's in Speech Pathology and work with kids. I just need to feel more confident with my decision with guys.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:28 PM
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No it won't be easy, which is why I got out after 2 dates. But I still feel that connection we had. It means something. I don't know where to channel it for the time being.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:24 PM
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"This screams orbiter behavior. You could use someone with more willpower and determination." Can you please elaborate on "Orbiter Behavior?" "If it helps, think through this angle: Who would be creating more value for the other if you were on a relationship? An ideal relationship is one where both sides give what the other side wants, do you think he can do that?" No, because his therapist is probably telling him that he should only do things that make HIM happy and nobody else. I'm sure he kno…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:18 PM
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No, we were never friends. I met him while he was on a date with my friend, and I was on a date with another guy. My friend didn't like him and we found each other attractive so we agreed to date each other and give it a try. I didn't think I'd get emotionally attached at all.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:17 PM
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I asked him if he had plans on maybe getting a PHD in education or becoming a principal, but he just no he just wants to be a teacher. I feel like I wouldn't be happy being married to a poor pothead who is in therapy for depression. Going on dates with him are fun, but eventually it would get sad that there's nothing more to him than fun dates with a guy with no future. The happiness would be temporary. I even dreaded going out with him because I knew he was a teacher and I only agreed to go bec…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:07 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 07:57 PM
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I desire him on an emotional and physical level. The fact that there's nothing else there financially is emotionally upsetting and disturbing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 07:57 PM
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"Next." Do you know that there is a marriage crisis in my community? 1 guy for every 2 girls. Next may not come for several weeks or months. Being a pretty girl is worth less than being an average guy, who has a mediocre job, 5'5", and not great looking. It's a nightmare. I want to leave my community if I don't find anybody appropriate. I'm only 22, but I have a strong need to connect with men and have a meaningful relationship and eventually get married to the right person, and be a wonderful m…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 07:39 PM
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I think he means that he has a special calling to be a teacher and he knows hat it won't provide enough for a family. And it sounds like you think it's touching that he wants to help the children, but it seems like an excuse for him to be lazy. Like I said, he's 24 without a BA and he's a pot head. So the lazy thing is in line with that as well. Yes, he's not a boring guy. He's exciting, which is what draws me to him, but he doesn't sound like he wants to be responsible. He's still hooked onto t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 07:32 PM
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Guess I hit a nerve with you! How am I into delusional pricks? I'm just not interested in a guy that is going to complain about his insecurities on a first date. It's a huge turn off. Since he did bring light to his insecurities, it makes him look weak, and that he has a hard time accepting his own flaws. A first date is not a pity party. If you went out with a fat chick, and she started making self depreciating jokes about her obesity, what would you think of her?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:30 AM
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I'd tell you, but since you can't have sex with it, it probably doesn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:03 AM
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This is so true. I went to an all girls high school, and there was a all boys high school as well. The all girls school I attended was basically a finishing school. We became proper ladies. The all boys school was basically camp. They became disgusting animals. Now comes dating time. My girl friends and myself are all professionals. The boys were too lazy and they became social workers, teachers, some are in their late 20s and still don't know what to do. They fail miserably at dating. They have…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 12:07 AM
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As an alpha female, this makes me sick and worried that the potential dating pool of men will be full of feminine freaks. It is already filled with babies who can't get the balls to ask a girl out and have to be "introduced" through an intermediary. If I had a son, I'd train him to be the manliest alpha male ever. If only I can find an equally manly man to raise such a man with. I'm sick of all of these feminized chubby guys who have DD breasts and double chins who can't act like men. I'm the on…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:49 PM
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Not sure if what I have to say is RPW related, but I see this type of conversation happen a lot too. Maybe men feel that since a woman is saying a girl is hot, they think it's okay to say if he finds a girl hot, as well. There may be nothing to it at all, except men trying to make meaningless conversation. A couple of other thoughts: We live in a pretty much male dominated society. It could be the media oversexualizing women for male attention, and women are so used to that, that they are just m…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/15 12:42 AM
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I thought curvy implied an hour glass shape? Fat folds don't count.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 03:36 PM
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Reminds me of Toot from Drawn Together. She's fat and still thinks she's hot even though she hasn't been hot since the 20s.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 12:05 AM
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When they'll be sweating under their fat folds. That's why this article is fake. Women today are waaay to fat to be bitching about the office being too cold. My ex boss, who's obeast, had the a/c up on the highest setting and her office was in her basement. It was absolutely FREEZING. I was shivering but couldn't say anything because she would have accused me of thin privilege.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:35 PM
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This is why women need to get out of the workforce. Nobody should take this shit seriously.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:30 PM
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If you feel confident and beautiful, doesn't that make other people perceive you in the very same way? That's just something I've been told about people. For example, Sarah Jessica Parker. She's ugly AF, but she has so much confidence and she's extremely chic and has been on the cover of Vogue magazine many times that people perceive her as beautiful. Is this from her confidence or the brainwashing of our society to perceive that anybody who appears confident is beautiful?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 04:52 PM
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Maybe because they've been stimulated and didn't finish. There's a difference between being horny and not doing anything about it and being stimulated and not cuming.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 01:34 AM
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They do want the same amount of sex, but they don't get blue balls if they don't do anything about it. A lot of them also deny sexual desire (religious purposes, social pressures-don't want to be called nymph or slut, etc).
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 03:17 AM
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Women don't get blue balls like men do. With that being said, men and women want the same amount of sex, but women don't need to do anything about their arousal and men usually do (or at least want to), and women use this to their advantage.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:35 AM
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I know betas think that being nice and agreeable to women is the best way to get laid, but it's more than that. You just described what those loser "nice guys" think!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:29 AM
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My impression is that Lesbianism is a side effect of the feminist movement, in that women can "do it all."
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:35 PM
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Women working full time and trying to have successful careers is not helping with this problem. My ex boss (who is a CPA working from her basement, working 10 hour days) is 4'11" and must be about 250 lbs but she said just has absolutely no strength after working to hit the gym. Women in the 1960s were mainly in the home and rarely had careers, maybe they were a secretary before marrying their boss, and had more time to take care of themselves. They weren't fit by any means, but they were just n…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 12:15 AM
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LMAO I just completed an Econometrics course with a female professor. She would use wage gap as an example of binary regression. She always showed us that predicted female wages are usually lower than men. She never actually proved it to us, though.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 08:07 PM
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This is the biggest load of garbage! I'm a 5'2", 107 lb female. All of the fat girls around me have boy friends and my thinner friends and me have nobody. I know so many guys that LOVE fat chicks because they have huge boobs and large asses. I thought men were looking for hour glass figures because it denotes fertility, but apparently they chase anything with tits the size of beach balls (along with a tire belly). Is it worth it to work out and make my own healthy meals to stay thin for men that…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:07 PM
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No, manipulating her is being an ass.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:52 AM
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You can only do this if you're extremely sexy and/or rich or else she will leave you for a decent guy that doesn't act like a complete ass to her.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:16 AM
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I'm a girl and I love my rifle. In fact, I won't date a guy if he's a pussy and is afraid of a gun. Shooting is a fun sport, as long as it doesn't involve hunting. But most girls I know do not share my opinion about guns.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 01:20 AM
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men can't fuck a college degree
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:10 PM
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yes, willingly having sex with a poor, ugly, fat, and short man is the equivalent of being raped by an average guy. apparently, rich guys dont really have the capacity to rape. only if they don't pay up or the girl wants to get famous, it's a rape.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:09 PM
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lol Kennedy and Clinton were only voted in because they had hair.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:03 PM
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i know of a woman who lied about being on the pill to her husband. not only did she get pregnant, but she had a baby that's mentally disabled. her husband now treats her like shit because he didn't want anymore kids.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:01 PM
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you made a good point, but some girls go through all of that and still look like shit even though they're trying really hard to look sexy. at least this offers hope to some girls. some girls do this and it looks crazy and they look fine beforehand but they're so insecure that they feel they need to look fake for someone to like them (which works). the problem is not the girls: it's the guys that go for these types of girls. they have a lot of advice online about how guys like girls that look mor…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:58 PM
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