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What a great response! Hotels are a great option too. :D
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 12:50 PM
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where he leads I will follow I will have to look up the song! I think this is great. I totally believe the saying, "home is where your husband is." You can never be sure what life will throw at you, so it's important to have a good, strong team. May I ask why you love the can opener? :3
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 12:46 PM
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I use to play The Sims 3 (lowest resolution) on an old laptop and I mentioned wanting to play SimCity 2000, but my computer was too old and kinda dying, so my husband bought me a whole new desktop PC with a nice graphics card (he bought the game, too) just so I could play the one game. :] Then I had a baby and stopped playing all together :( But now it's the "family" computer and it holds the two million pictures I've taken of our son and family just fine. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 06:03 PM
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I'd love a tea set as well. A couple of my friends and I would go to a local victorian tea house for special occasions (like my baby shower) until they closed. Now, I wish I could have a tea set of my own and maybe get my friends back... or maybe get new friends who are married, with kids, and also like tea. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 05:49 PM
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so I could do all the mundane shit myself. It made me feel normal Yes! I wish I had known how to express this thought when DS was younger. DH was amazing in offering to do the dishes, so I could "spend time with the baby," but all I could think was: "You don't understand! I want to do the dishes! I need a few minutes away from the baby." DH would have freaked if I said that out-loud though.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 05:36 PM
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Moms need diapers. This is one of the truest things I've ever read. DS used about 1/4 of the clothes (mainly just plain onesies) and was uninterested in about 95% of the toys from the baby shower, but we blew through the few small packs of diapers like tissue paper. If I can remember correctly, it was about 10 to 12 diapers in a day 24hr period (there is no such thing as "day" and "night" with newborns)! Also, cooking and cleaning were huge for me, but what I appreciated most was being able to s…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 05:27 PM
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That's the book I bought! :D I was just flipping through it yesterday. So much stuff! I also have an older garage sale book, from 1962, "The Art of Housemaking" by Daryl Hoole. It's a really interesting read, if you get the chance.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 03:29 PM
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lol That's awesome. I'm that way with books. DH will say stuff like, "Most women want expensive shoes or clothes and my wife wants used books." Heck, yeah! Since becoming a SAHM though, I've been getting more interesting in cleaning supplies, tools, and methods. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/16 01:06 PM
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Naw... You are a hub of wisdom! Also, ladies, I'll vouch for the hand vacuum as a must-have in the kitchen if you have small children. My DH thought I was nuts when I told him I wanted a hand-vac for my birthday (he just picked one up from the drugstore later that day), but I used it everyday until it broke, so then he got me an upgraded version from the hardware store! Very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 11:50 PM
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Poorsay, have I ever told you that you are my hero? :) I recently bought a housekeeping book, but I'm not sure I need it anymore! Thank you for putting this post together for us. Well done! :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 09:35 PM
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Or a website! :) Or maybe just post topics?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 10:01 PM
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Marketing is the worst! This is a class everyone should take. I also definetly need this Cycle and Moods class :D
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 09:56 PM
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Newbies! If you only "have time" to read one thing, I highly recommend the F.A.Q. Get quick answers to common questions/misconceptions, like: "Who is this sub for?" Answer: Self-aware women that work to identify their weaknesses, stifle their inner Bitch, and increase their female sexual value as much as possible in order to attract (or keep) a good masculine man. "Do I have to be a SAHM to be a RPW?" Answer: [No.] We emphasize femininity (knowing how to cook, dress well, be pleasant) in combina…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 09:47 PM
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I can't watch them now, but I will definitely save them for later! I love watching the old videos. I've watched a couple on "smart grocery shopping" and "Suzie sews her own clothes" -- stuff like that. I love that you found a whole collection!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:38 PM
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Yay! This is the most requested class! :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 02:35 PM
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It worked once I signed in online. :) My server was wrong. It needed to be quakenet, or something like that
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 02:33 PM
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Appearance is 3/4th of a First Impression. Very important! This class will be held in the same building as 'Get Your Grace: Grace in Style, Manners, and Way of Speaking' and 'How to Cut Carrots and Paint Nails, the RPW way!'
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:39 PM
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Class begins after the Professor has finished announcing everyone who has entered the room.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:32 PM
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What! But your curriculum and syllabus is due tomorrow! Get on it! Just kidding. Its all for fun..... for now.... :P
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:29 PM
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Nice class list! Moving from theory to practical application; these are definetly important classes. I like how they all support/balance each other. :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:26 PM
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O.O Let's mark this one down as an elective....and put u/Kelly_C on "the list" ;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:14 AM
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Me too! I just "signed her up" to teach a class about this. lol
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:09 AM
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Introduction to The Ultimate Career: Becoming the Chief Operations Officer of your Home with u/poorsay Whether you're still a Junior Officer or you've got the papers signed and the ring to prove your promotion, this class will give you an overview of the work expected from you as COO of YourHome, Inc. Students will need to bring a binder, tabs, and other items listed in this post to create your Household Management Binder. Some electronic versions allowed Students will be introduced to a variety…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 05:03 AM
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Hamster Management Gonna need this class... scribbles in the margin
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:32 AM
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'RP Dynamics' sound like it should be a foundation course! web based, like coding or graphics. I know a lot of SAHM could use those skills to make extra cash. Omgosh, yes! Brilliant! 'Recognizing a Good Captain' That is a tough class. Even experts in RPW-ology have a tough time with it. Sounds like an upper-level course to me! Good luck! :P
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:28 AM
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I love the title. This would be a tough class for anyone! But very important! Is the next level-up class: You are Not a Unique Snowflake -? :P
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:18 AM
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I'm right there with you!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:13 AM
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A mandatory class, indeed!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:09 AM
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Very well thought out! Great job. This sounds like a tough class! How to remain feminine minded and get the promotion/raise you want. But much-needed! STFU by /u/CoochQuarantine Oh, yes! This must be a mandatory class! :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 04:03 AM
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8-9: Tone it Down: Being Friendly and Fun without Being Weird lol! 9-10: Get Your Grace: Grace in Style, Manners, and Way of Speaking Sign me up for this class! Actually, your whole day sounds great :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 03:57 AM
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Laura's posts are pretty cool, but the few I read have a "marketing" feel to them, i.e. "the thing you need to know is... click here to keep reading" or "to get the rest of the information.... click here to order my webinar" -- stuff like that, but I do like her mindset. I also like your blog. :) It was real and I could relate to it. I will come back to it again later to see what's new :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 03:51 AM
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lol This needs to be saved and presented when it's clear the OP doesn't want to hear anything negative about thier behavior
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:13 AM
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Seconded.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 06:25 PM
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I think there should be a warning somewhere... "This sub is about you and your self-improvement in regards to seeking and maintaining a quality man. When asking for help, realize that Endorsed Contributors will be examining your history, your actions/reactions, and your attitude -- not your SOs', not your moms', and not your friends' -- yours. Be prepared."
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 06:15 PM
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I've been reading the Art of Manliness for about two years, on and off. Not so much recently, as they seems to have moved more towards podcasts and guest/sponsored posts, but occasionally something interesting will come up and the "From The Archives" selection usually has good stuff. I was looking for a new blog to start following and that's how I found RPW. I don't remember the exact blog, but it was a man raging about women. He had a flowchart about how women choose a sexual partner and he gav…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/16 05:53 PM
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I didn't initially uphold the values. I was uncomfortable doing the things I did, but I thought it was normal so it shrugged it off. It wasn't until I met someone who told me it was okay to "be old-fashion" that I started being more and more comfortable in my role. Then, one year later, I married that someone and three years after that, I found this sub. Where would that put me? :P
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 11:07 PM
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Do you mean knowingly RPW or just how long they upheld the ideals of RPW without actually knowing anything about them?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 10:23 PM
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Some possible ideas: Maybe, for demographics, are you married/in a LTR/dating? What RPW advice would you like to see more of? Is the introduction helpful? Are the rules clear? What's your Dominance Level/Threshold? (HL, LH, etc) What are some of your favorite subreddits, outside of PRW? :) What self-improving hobbies do you enjoy, or would like to know more about? Just throwing out some ideas
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 10:10 PM
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I feel like this belongs in the sidebar or wiki somewhere!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 10:54 PM
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Unfortunately, that mindset took decades (60s, 70s, 80s) to be formed. :/ I don't know how long it would take to reverse...but I think being a part of the RPW mindest helps.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 10:45 PM
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Slightly off-topic: After reading "egalitarian" four or five times, now I'm reading it as "eagle-tarian." My brain is weird :P
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 10:19 PM
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Believing that women are humans isn't a concept that feminism owns the rights to exclusively. They seem to think so. Whenever you disagree with them, they act as though you've just stated women should be slaves and have no rights.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 10:02 PM
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I like to think there is a difference between believing in Women's Rights (the right to choose: reproduction, marriage, education, career, to drive, healthcare, not to be abused, etc) and Feminism (man and woman are the same, can do the same, feel the same, want the same, deserve the same etc.) One is about uplifting your sex, the other is about bringing the other sex down.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 09:46 PM
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but if it is Trump vs. Hillary then we are voting for Trump Same. Part of me still wonders if he really will go all the way, even though the polls indicate that he will
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 07:42 PM
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I must admit, I knew nothing about Rand Paul until his AMA a few days ago.... Then I had to go look up where he was in the polls. Why is he so low in the polls??
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 07:41 PM
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I thought I'd try the chat, but when I signed up and logged in, it says "no channel mode" - do you know what that means? :/
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 07:21 PM
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Wow! That's awesome. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 02:27 PM
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I've been prepping meals and omg why didn't anyone tell me how fun and convenient it would be to have breakfast ready in less than ten minutes I hope you don't mind me asking, how do you prep for breakfast? :) I always make everything right before we eat and sometimes it takes a while.... I would love to know how others prep and plan for meals!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 02:07 PM
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We've all been there. I've had a similar interactions happen to me twice in college, but it was more like: Guy: "Is anyone sitting here?" Me (perking up): "Oh, no! Feel free..." Guy: "Great, thanks!" (takes chair to another table) However, there will always be more opportunities to meet someone. I hope it works out for you next time. :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 01:36 PM
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"wow, didn't realize how crowded it is!" Yep, that would have been a great segway after "Yes, for sure" instead of picking up the book again. If the table next to you opens up as you are speaking, purposefully ignore it and continue to move your stuff (your book, coffee, muffin, whatever) away from the offered chair, like you are making room for him (even if he already has plenty of room.) I believe this gives the clearest, "Yes, I still want you to join me" signal.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 04:51 AM
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Most people make fun of my maternal side and my quiet/thoughtful nature. Most people don't know what a gift that is! Seriously! Being nurturing and receptive in a relationship is HUGE. Just be sure to find a man that will protect and support you physically and mentally, so you can nourish and refresh him emotionally and spiritually. I generally don't feel comfortable initiating things. My ex was always a little confused by this. In my admittingly limited experience with men of the younger genera…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 04:33 AM
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I like the idea that each archetype has an immature version. If I had to assign each aspect an immature version (after also reading u/thekarateguy's comment): The mature Mother is responsible, selfless, and provides for others, so her immature version would be irresponsible, selfish, and depends on others. -> The Child The mature Warrior is self-sufficient, tough, and direct, so her immature versions would be needy, delicate, and manipulative. -> The Princess The mature Councelor is reflective, …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 08:39 PM
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Sometimes texture can be a problem. If you steam veggies until they get really soft, they'll be easier to chew and digest. Otherwise, like others have mentioned, you can mask the flavors in sauces. Sweet potato puree can be mixed with pretty much any tomato-based sauce. If you mix sweet potato puree with mashed peas, it turns brown and you can add it to any red meat (like meatloaf or meat balls), but you'll have to add a binding agent (like wheat germ or flour) to keep it from falling apart from…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 03:00 PM
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Insteresting! In the book Men and Marriage by George Gilder (originally written in 1973, but updated and expanded in 1992), Gilder predicts that male participation in education will decline as society moves to a more feminine way of doing thing. He states that boys would do better military or trade schools (just like the first two schools in the primarily-male list from your link!) because they combine things like strictly enforced rules, established hierarchies, controlled competition, hands-on…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 02:40 PM
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I've been reading AoM for about two years now and I always enjoy finding gems like that in the archives. Thank you for posting the link! I've only read the introduction, but from the discriptions my DH is most likely a Warrior-King. Before I had my son I would have put myself in the Councelor-Courtesan role, then I switched to Councelor-Mother (with mixed reactions from my DH). I got stuck in that phase for awhile, but I've been working on bringing back the Courtesan aspect. I agree that no one …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 01:25 PM
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the psychological sweatpants stage I like this phrase. :) My DH was much happier and relaxed when he discovered I'd much rather stay in and do something simple, like sit on the porch swing under the stars. Don't get me wrong; I enjoy being treated to a movie or theater show for a special time, but snuggling in my PJs and just talking about adult topics (philosophy, religion, politics, etc) is definetly a welcome and relaxing break after being alone with a toddler all day!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 12:53 PM
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I love these ideas! I think this is a common (unspoken) problem for most LTRs. Many couples forget how to "play" after the honeymoon phase is over. I was the third woman for much of the time after our son was born and I hated myself for it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 10:54 PM
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It seems to me that they are mis-directing their collective power. They shouldn't be upset about a documentary about men when there are still millions of women in the world who don't have access to basic education, or decent healthcare, or the ability to choose their fate, their spouse, whether or not they bear children...and many more luxuries American women now take for granted! So, are they really concerned about promoting women's rights... or just fixated on keeping men cowed into silence? B…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 05:46 PM
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I feel like I could have written this post myself (a few years ago). I completely relate to your current and past relationships! :D
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/16 11:14 PM
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Another HLH checking in! And I agree, this post was very informative. I'm looking forward to Part 2.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 02:36 PM
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Edit: I'd like to preface this with the knowledge that my husband does not equate make-up with femininity, but I know many people do. I'm going to be the oddball and advocate continuing with minimal make-up. :) I wore a lot of make-up in high school and my freshman year of college (while I was still living at home). However, by the time I met my husband, I was going through the "poor, starving college student" phase of my life and only wore eyeliner, masscara, and chapstick. He loved it. He thin…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 03:51 PM
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Saved. Thank you for putting this together!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 02:05 PM
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Hi! I'm a little late to the party, but I'm one of the people u/jade_cat mentioned. :) I use Evernote like a second brain. I have a notebook for contacts; each person has their own note, with the usual info like their name and address, but also their likes/dislikes, their family members, when/where I met them, etc. I also use Evernote as a "gift tracker" for gifts ideas/to-buy and gifts received. It really helps when it comes to writing Thank You letters. And I use it to write my comments for Re…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/16 01:58 PM
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