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I can think of only one female “friend” I’ve ever known who has cheated on her partner. This isn’t common with the people I associate with at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 10:11 AM
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A relationship with easy sex is not going to cure porn addiction. I’ve read so many horrific stories from women on the porn addiction and dead bedroom subreddits about men who somehow manage to land relationships with these ladies, and then just don’t even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 12:35 PM
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This much common sense on /r/ppd? getouttahere!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 07:47 AM
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Yep. Incels, TRP, etc etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 06:32 AM
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settling for 6’s made my skin crawl. What an objectifying perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 08:02 PM
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the whole accusation about my face being fat is crazy. I’m incredibly lean What is your body fat percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:58 PM
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Your problem is relying on OLD as a gauge of your actual SMV/RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:56 PM
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The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 06:41 PM
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And I'm not going to lie it pretty much has to do with how attractive the girl is as horrible as that sounds, not because I care, but because friends, family, and society care. Yep, exactly. I've heard so many anecdotes of men dumping their girlfriends due to criticism from other male friends over her looks. So in short I agree with what you say mostly, interesting read, but I just wouldn't portray men as inherently malicious or anything like that. That's the thing. They're not inherently malici…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 10:30 AM
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"pinkpill" is a female-oriented ideology perhaps either adjacent to, and also opposing "redpill" ideology in some regards. in its etomology it's a contrast to "redpill" - implying "enlightment" from acknowledging truths. But pink because women lol. Pretty much any femcel, WGTOW etc is going to be "pinkpilled" because their experiences lead them to understandings outside of the mainstream or norm, contrasted to "bluepill" normies. essentially, it acknowledges the shortcomings of our society that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 06:26 AM
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Someone else said it - this is pretty solid, lol. I'd read if you had stories to write. Very apt. This is a very earnest self-reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:39 AM
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That’s... somehow even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:55 AM
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I don’t have high standards in any way except comparatively - I wouldn’t just happily fuck any dude who comes my way if given the opportunity. Preferences and standards different. Womens high standards are the #1 reason and source for your constant body insecurities. Yes it’s porn, advertisement, the patriarchy but they all build off and only work because of your obsession with getting and being the best of the best. Good job i guess. This is absolutely bullshit, and you’re insane and ignorant. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 11:40 PM
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Truer words never spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:07 AM
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"Hi I am a man who likes different things, you are wrong!" "oh btw AWALT lol" ​ However woman all seem to want the same thing tall , broad shouldered , square jawed As a woman who does not fit this trope, I will happily argue against this based on my own personal biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:03 AM
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the way women see their fat bodies as "healthy," even though it's unsightly, and unhealthy. They embrace it, then stay with their fat for a long time The way those types of people perceive themselves isn't relevant. Nobody is ever looking at their own selves unobjectively. And what you're actually referring to seems to be regarding body-positive and HAES-type communities - which are extreme movements catching on as a counter-culture to the stifling insecurity that many women face. They used to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:01 AM
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Wow, you're such a hero. Not like these shallow femoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:46 AM
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Succint and well-said. Couldn't have put it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:45 AM
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The difference is women can actually be picky so it seems like they're "more shallow" but that's not true. If the roles reversed and men became the gatekeepers of sex/relationships they would be absolutely ruthless and shamelessly shallow, way more than women are now. Exactly. 100%. I feel like this is so obvious but it's rarely shared here because "AWALT" cognitive dissonance is too prevalent and stifles any real conversation. "men are desperate". dudes on here really love to hold themselves up…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:43 AM
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Exactly. Thank you! So often cels on here who literally apparently don't get any social interaction with real women read the statistics from dating site surveys and extrapolate - but this is all it is. We know this is how it works because we actually see it, but a lot of the users on here would rather ignore that and cherry-pick their points to push agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 06:36 AM
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It just ruins the vibe. Because she then knows that I feel more even tho I shouldn't. And that sucks. Yes, exactly. it sucks for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:10 AM
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Uff wouldn't really see it as rejection tbh. I mean you haven't asked out. You just put yourself closer to a person and hoping that they ask you out. It's not like that I'm disinterested I'm just thinking twice about it to not mess it up. What happens if she just wants us to be friends? Ain't messing that up with asking something potentially unreasonable. ioi's are not just "putting yourself closer to a person and hoping". they are obvious body language, genuine enthusiasm for your company, flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:20 AM
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what would you say to women who are giving off blatant IOIs and being ignored by giys like yourself? you complain about not wanting to take the risk and put yourself out there but blatant interest being returned with ignorance or disinterest is a rejection - do you see your hypocrisy?. “Oh, no, woe is me, women are so vague and I hate pain of rejection. but also they can all go fuck themselves i guess!”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:01 AM
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Guys who “tend to ignore IOIs” are surely just indicating disinterest? lmao. I always assumed this context just highlights an unspoken rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:53 AM
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YES. Thank you. Was about to type a response to this post but you gave such a detailed response that I don’t really need to. If he was even interested in you or finds you attractive to begin with. With the current market, men are more likely to say yes to ANY option, whether they are interested or not, until they come to an option they actually like. If they are struggling to find a job because most employers are only looking for "top 10% of candidates", they are going to take any job that comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 08:17 AM
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I think a lot of the users on here are mentally ill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:02 AM
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Yes, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:01 AM
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My dude, you are literally describing a black and white situation. So now he's at a cross roads, either be vulnerable and take a serious risk of her losing interest, because he's personally witnessed it in the past before with his own two eyes, or hide that vulnerability indefinitely, and keep his otherwise happy relationship and just deal with his problems completely on his own and away from his s/o. The amount to which you show emotional vulnerability is not a binary - you aren't either "stoic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 06:00 AM
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At least somebody said it lmao I’m so sick of this debate. I was with my ex for a long time and he was emotionally vulnerable with me - I loved and adored him so much in those moments because it made me feel closer to him. And it felt good because I was very emotionally vulnerable with him too so it felt fair that way. The issue is when your own problems become suffocating in the relationship because you won’t deal with them and your partner essentially becomes your therapist. There is nothing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 01:33 AM
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Thank you for saying this! Redpillers are always complaining about this topic here (“AWALT”) but what you said should be a given. That’s so much more empowering and grounded in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:45 PM
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A babysitter doesn’t cook, clean, or manage household errands. She(or he, not gonna be sexist here) looks after children for a few hours. I know “SAHM is a full time job!!” Is a bit of a meme, but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:57 AM
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I think you are over estimating how guys are. Even of the same or lower league, guys are not exactly known for maintaining interpersonal connections, and that is mostly the woman's job in a relationship. Guys do not do it with other guys, they do not do it for their mothers, and over the span of months/years, they no longer do it for their gf/wives. It's the male version of the bait and switch, in the early days he texts you "good morning" every day, and after 3 being married for 3 years he will…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 01:31 AM
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Women don't reward honesty. They use your good character traits against you. Like cops. >AWALT! Lemme guess, you're a divorcee?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:47 AM
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This is still true - inb4 some 3/10 dude complains about not getting dates on Tinder - for average people who have average experiences, because women aren’t the ones that get to hold off on proposing marriage last I checked. Oh shit, somebody said it! Kudos for acknowledging the false equivalency in your post. Cels on here are bitter and like using Chad strawmen because it's easier than acknowledging that people and interpersonal relationships are complex. Instead they all echo, "hurr durr I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:46 AM
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But, unfortunately, many men are content to have sex with and even wife (for the desperate men) women they actively dislike, and may not even be especially charmed or driven mad by. How often does this happen, do you think? I had another user essentially imply the same thing to me the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 12:39 PM
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Your comment reeks of butthurt. 80/20 isn't real, buddy, women just don't actually chase men in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 01:18 AM
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What we currently have now, which sucks ass unless you're a woman, rich, or Chad. Oh, no, the horror! All these young 20-something STEM grads aren't getting laid when they could, instead, be forcing women into lives of subservience as an expectation born of cultural norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 01:12 AM
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Sexuality is over-normalised in Western culture and regularly manipulates innocent people into behaving in a way they seem the "norm" - couple that with low self esteem in people who consider themselves social rejects and you have a recipe for disaster in people who think that sex is the answer because "it is what everyone else is doing! Sex is fine!" You get incels who are resentful because of a deep, internalised sense of "missing out" along with being high libido - this makes for a recipe for…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 05:37 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I'll perhaps keep those in mind myself because I have been contemplating exclusively dating women in future lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 11:03 AM
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Codependence/emotional over-dependence is definitely something I think he would struggle with, as a lot of people do - myself included. My last relationship was probably unhealthily codependent. I agree with your point. I will try my best to be a supportive friend! But I don't know how much I will be able to do for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:16 AM
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Dude, that's actually so fucked up. i'm so sorry. and man how much that hurt, even though it shouldn't but it just does Nope, it definitely would hurt. that's a normal response. Don't feel guilty for having human emotions. What do you think were the main things these women had in common? I don't know/am not close with a lot of other women in real life but I can't fathom how common these kinds of behaviours seem to be, going off of all the anecdotes on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:10 AM
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Being cheated on sounds like the worst kind of hell. I’m so sorry for your pain, OP. That’s absolutely awful that it happened to you twice. I know you said you turned your post-breakup reflections inwards - but, perhaps, were there any other red flags you found in either of these women? I think it’s interesting that you acknowledged that the the common denominator was you. I think some people tend to attract very particular types - I’m reminded very much of a good friend of mine, a really lovely…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:24 AM
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Men are just status objects to show off to your friends. Wow, someone's bitter. Which degenerate thot hurt you? Maybe stop chasing those types, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:42 AM
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Yep, because every woman is chasing Chad. thanks for reminding me of this unarguable truth. Maybe men should stop being so butthurt about not getting to bang Stacey? Male sexuality is just over-prevalent and all-encompassing because of the capitalist society we live in monopolising on sex. Men settle for less only out of desperation but if we flipped the tables and men could be choosy about mate selection, sexual-specific contexts or otherwise, I doubt men would be hitting up every woman they co…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 01:29 AM
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Often, the types of people who lurk on the dark corners of the internet don't exactly get outside enough to observe real human interaction in real, social contexts and without those foundational understandings - which are a matter, really, of social connectedness and learned understanding and intuition, than anything - they are able to form hypothesises from their limited and bias sample sizes. Which are usually limited to only the insides of their own minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 01:24 AM
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its not our faults women dont value sex as much since it is the pure basis for any romantic relationship while anything else is just a friendship Ah, so you're an incel, then. Considering your blatant misunderstanding of romantic and interpersonal relationships, it is obvious. You're still in the "sex is everything" phase. No, the distinguishing constituent between romantic and platonic relationships is not only sex. Despicable. It's romantic, and emotional, intimacy. Physical intimacy is also a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 01:20 AM
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Consider this: "A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient, according to a study that examined the role gender played in so-called "partner abandonment."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 01:10 AM
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Seriously? Screw you. Moids only want Stacey. I would argue that romantic rejection is comparatively worse to sexual rejection. Love and romance is a deep level of emotional intimacy. And women experience that level of rejection all the time - and worse yet, they still have to question whether or not they're being overtly gullible, on the chance a man does accept them, because they have to worry about whether they might just be a bottom-of-the-barrel convenient option for him to do so as he plea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 12:49 AM
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being accepted for the sake of convenience/out of desperation is not the same as being accepted because they actually care about you/like you. Perhaps try reading my comment again until you grasp this statement properly? Men are incapable of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 12:40 AM
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Why am I unsurprised that one of the founding fathers of modern day red-pill-leaning PUA bullshit built his core principles on a massively incorrect interpretation of something actually based in fact and science?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:32 PM
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\Checks bingo card** Damn, i'm a square short!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 06:30 PM
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I've been down that road. I just don't care anymore. I still feel somewhat "vain" - for lack of a better term - in that i'm deeply insecure about my weight and appearance, though considering my history and personal baggage, that would take years of CBT to properly undo. But i'm trying to focus on more important things. I still catch myself thinking thoughts like "I need to look good for me to be a real human woman interacting in society/living life!" or "I need to be conventionally attractive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:36 PM
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Unfortunately this is a common thought among incels, lmfao. They genuinely believe all of their problems will be solved by sex. Yet also admit that if they really could, they'd take it where they can get it, simply out of sheer desperation. Why do they think that being a bottom-of-the-barrel choice to some figurative, and literal, jerk-off would be flattering?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 05:30 PM
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Not denying that dating is bias in women's favour - it's true - but being accepted for the sake of convenience/out of desperation is not the same as being accepted because they actually care about you/like you. I never see that acknowledged here. I guess for a lot of guys it's just unfathomable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 04:06 PM
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Yep. and users here constantly have a tendency to erase experiences mentioned by the opposite sex. My favourite example of this is, "oh, you're a woman? Well I am a man and I am incel and I cannot get sex, therefore my life sucks way more than yours possibly could in any conceivable way!!! You don't know what it's like to be rejected!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/21 03:10 PM
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I thought the usual standard was “jacked, broad-shouldered, a jawline that can cut glass, clean shaven, abs, 6 foot 2 plus”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:27 AM
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Not really sure how to describe it, but some crushes I’ve had on “celebrities” in the past include Michael Emerson as Ben Linus from Lost and John Oliver in Community. Usually, I will “notice” a guy if I can judge from his outward appearance that we might have things in common (ie if he looks like a nerd). Physical attributes I find attractive include having glasses, nice wool sweaters. I think I tend towards thinner looking men. Being taller than me certainly adds points but it’s not a requirem…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:35 PM
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I’ll share a personal anecdote - as a woman myself, I can count on 1 hand (I think maybe 2, to be specific?) the number of real life women I’ve actually interacted with who have actually expressed interest in this male ideal. This might be because of bias, as the kinds of people I interact with aren’t typically altogether too “normie” - but it honestly blew my mind the first time I met a woman (an acquaintance from an extended circle) who proceeded to swipe through Tinder gushing about jawlines …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:45 AM
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Again, men are assuming that women’s sexuality works the same way as their own, alongside the idea that Reddit reflects the norm. What, never seen a tv commercial for a men’s cologne or something? I’ve seen this conversation before. I’m pretty sure the majority of users on those particular subs are closeted gay guys. As a (mostly?) straight woman, I don’t go out of my way to look at pictures of conventionally attractive men. Contrary to popular belief, most women are not jilling it to the posts …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:56 PM
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Maybe you weren’t as funny as you thought you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:06 AM
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Sort of like how.. the feminine attractiveness ideals portrayed in the media are equally as consistent in representing a very particular and narrow kind of standard, as well? ”Women say that, but there's no really behavior to support it. If you look at women's preference in any platform; in dating sites, Reddit, movies, porn, etc., there are 1-2 bodytypes that are deemeed desirable. I'm not trying to moralize, it's just how it is.” It literally goes both ways. Don’t you see the irony of your com…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 05:03 AM
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If most women are attractive to men, then no women are really “attractive”. Honestly I’m of the belief that men are just desperate which is why the rare male attention I do get doesn’t mean a whole lot to me - when I do receive it, either way, it’s always when I’ve made the first “move”, like trying to initiate a friendship with a man. I am not inundated with male attention and actually don’t receive any, unless I actually seem enthusiastic about interacting with them. For these reasons, I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:35 AM
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Wow, how flattering
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:21 AM
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IME when I hear accounts similar to yours around these circles, it almost always seems to end in the guy secretly being a porn addict behind the closed bathroom door when his wife isn't around. Was this not the case with your ex? Just, no libido whatsoever?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:50 AM
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You're forgetting that ugly or unattractive women who are sluts also exist. Men love the idea of a female sexuality that is convenient to them - I mean, porn is popular for a reason - but as much as guys on here would probably not be too opposed to a fat girl slobbering on their junk solely for the novelty and the easy orgasm, an ugly girl's sexuality doesn't hold much power. And there are plenty of those. Men aren't jacking off thinking about some mediocre 5/10 playing porn star for them, they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:42 AM
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Yep. Men on here don't actually care about rape - "Most men do care about rape, I bet you that men are less lenient towards violent offenders than women are." Because these men make a joke out of real rape experiences because they think it's always going to be violent. So any woman who has the experience of a freeze response, panics because she doesn't think it would have happened to her, is with a man she willingly met with and knows, isn't taken seriously because it's not the token "dark alley…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:44 AM
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Personally I get pretty turned on eating pizza. Shit’s delicious, yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:21 PM
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I think you’re on the wrong sub for that one, buddy. Women as people instead of cash investments/personal fuck dolls? Get outta here!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:21 AM
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Women who go out of their way to fix things by reaching out for support and advice are likely not the same women who are toppling over their marriages like rows of dominos. Sample bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:25 AM
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Holy shit dude, you made a jump. I think that says a lot more about how men like you view women than how everyone else does. Random /r/funny post and you have to bring in her appearance - that's not relevant at all to the post. Here I was expecting this to have been on a rateme sub or something but that's idiocy to the extreme. Are you autistic, or just so "redpilled" that you're incapable of having an interaction with the opposite sex without it leading to yet another bizarre argument for your …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:59 AM
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What was the context? Was this a subreddit for rating women’s armpits? Or did you just take a random photo of some random woman and decide you didn’t like it and had to make sure everyone knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:04 AM
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Is this kind of banter not normal among friends, regardless of gender? Sounds like she was just flirting..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:18 AM
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Yep. But incels on here act like it is just because they’re butthurt that the opposite isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 06:35 AM
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Definitely not. Married man is off limits. I wouldn’t want to be a home wrecker and I wouldn’t be able to help myself in being overly empathetic towards the wife - I wouldn’t want to be in the same position myself, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:55 AM
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Probably because he has no field experience with being part of a social group of his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:55 AM
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This is disgusting. I wish I could just have male friends without it being a whole thing. Maybe I want people to chat about video games and movies with? But, nope, because I have a vagina men will never value me as a human being, just a potential childbearer. Thanks for ruining that for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 06:53 AM
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Guys who ascend to top tier and can make it there will probably prefer their 18 yr old virgin supermodels to just about any Becky on the street, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:45 AM
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Because to a man, getting puss puss does make him special
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:02 PM
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Hello i am a woman who has never posted pictures of flowers on my social media Are you autistic? What kind of reasoning leads from “example of 1 person engaging in 1 activity” to “all people of this group enjoy engaging in this one activity”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 12:48 AM
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Sometimes you don’t learn the guy lives with his mother until after you get back to his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:59 AM
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All these guys keep preaching this shit "hurr durr top 20%" "hurr durr 5/10 roasties going for chads" and I think it's just an excuse because they still don't understand that in today's world women don't usually chase, and want to make excuses as to why to feel better about themselves because their persecution complexes and crippling insecurity make them think most other guys are getting thirsted over except them. I've never been into the typical "Chad" look, and I literally only know of one wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 04:20 AM
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What are you doing on the Internet? So much seems to be going over your head in this thread, are you an idiot or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:55 PM
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Your cognitive dissonance is amazing. All women are whores, wow, ok. Granddaddy had an affair? How dare that vixen seduce him and tarnish his reputation! Grandmommy is a psycho bitch for hating him for this, he’s a ViCtIm here!!! Not to mention all the men going along with this degeneracy. Having a threeway with a divorcee woman who just gives it to you - But she’s the whore, not you. Woman cheats on your friend, and then again, but with you?and you just let it happen. Well, the whore is there, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:54 PM
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Your “joke” didn’t even sound like one. I got the sense you were just being obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:45 AM
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All you have to do is read back your own comment to see the part that would confuse anyone - the part that looks like it’s a reference to, I don’t know, baseball or something? Went over my head too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:24 AM
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5’11 and 140 pounds A lot of guys would still think that’s big for a woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:21 AM
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But, I feel like that’s a given. Of course pleasing your partner is important. That’s barely relevant to the discussion on how porn’s ideals threaten men’s standards, comparatively, to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:43 AM
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He’s probably one of those guys who’ll ask to make his relationship “open” or “poly” when he gets bored of fucking his girlfriend, and then threaten to leave when she doesn’t “meet his needs”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:11 AM
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Glad to be reminded that I’m ugly to the vast majority of male porn viewers because my body isn’t toned with DD-cup tits, too much makeup and a fake ass. If women lived up to the standards suggested in porn the plastic surgery industry would be booming and all women would be cake-faced 900% of the time. Realistically in a relationship i’m not always going to be wearing full makeup and suggestive clothing when my partner and I have sex and we certainly don’t have studio lighting in the bedroom, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:09 AM
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Or, I don’t know, the threat of what might happen if they leave (ie he could hunt her down and kill her) keeping them at bay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 01:50 AM
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Considering how many women are supposedly raging thots riding the CC these days, I have no doubts there are plenty of women seeing this and assuming it’s what they’re “supposed” to do, because everyone else is - before later growing up and realising that it didn’t make them happy like it was supposed to. Then comes the shame and regret from being a used up roastie pumped and dumped by moids who never gave a shit about her. And now she realises she wants a connection with someone, she doesn’t wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:30 AM
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You sound like you don’t understand the topic at all. Sufferers of EDs and BDD aren’t greedy instagram thots. They’re suffering. To chalk both of these mental illnesses up to nothing more than a need for perfection, a need for attention seeking, is trivialising them both. Eating disorders are often highly comorbid with anxiety and OCD because they aren’t simply an obsession with losing weight or exercising - they’re compulsive, destructive behaviours born out of anxiety. Many people with EDs are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 09:37 PM
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Better treatment from strangers at lower weights is something I’ve heard about. I frequent some particular ED forums and I’ve noticed plenty of anecdotes regarding this - one thread in particular stood out to me where users all mentioned how differently they were treated at different weights, and most of them agreed that they noticed the best treatment from strangers at borderline underweight to underweight BMIs. That one really stuck with me. Also relevant to mention is I vaguely recall a study…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 09:49 AM
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Where are you finding these girls? Be upfront from the start if you want hook ups, that will weed out the ones who aren’t interested. Are you trying places like Tinder, or are these just girl friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:15 AM
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Woah, thank you for this wonderful revelation! I didn’t realise that I, a woman, after all this time have actually only been chasing Chad’s dick instead of my looksmatches! now I understand! All this time, my preferences for lanky, nerdy guys who play MOBAs and strategy games have only been obscuring the truth - I only chase Chads! Here I was thinking I was interested in my looksmatches, and that Chads were supposed to be popular, ripped dudebros, a type I’ve never considered one I was into. Gue…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:01 PM
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”I don’t look like Riley Reid” ”I don’t somehow come 5 times in a row from penetrative sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:52 PM
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Try rereading my comment above instead of misinterpreting it, this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:42 PM
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I am an inadequate woman and my partner is a man who likes porn. Good try, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:39 PM
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That doesn’t mean men are going to find them attractive, lmao. What are you, stupid? Because some guy can use a warm fuckhole to get his dick wet and doesn’t care how much he has to lower his standards, she’s still valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:38 PM
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I think it’s the part where I don’t look like Riley Reid, I don’t somehow cum 5 times in a row from penetrative sex and also that I don’t let my partner see me without all my clothes off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:04 PM
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Exactly, girls who aren’t hot are just as invisible to men as a beta bucks sub 5 would be to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:47 AM
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Being done from behind just so he doesn’t have to look at your face and then being kicked out of his place is flattering to nobody. A moid wouldn’t do that to Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:13 AM
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I was actually kind of in a relationship like that. It was an open relationship (guy was in a committed LTR with another open/poly person he’d known long before me). And I was allowed, and actively encouraged to sleep with other people. He had very little interest in sex, and even though I encouraged him to do the same he wouldn’t. I wonder if perhaps part of the open relationship thing was to accommodate me as he didn’t hold much importance in sex. I was way too young for such a complicated rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:42 AM
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”Women don’t have to worry whether or not they’re desirable. Dressing up for her is like putting sprinkles on a bar of gold.” hahaha what the fuck? Are you a man or just a woman with an inflated ego? Considering the kinds of anecdotes i’ve seen from other women on here I guess I must be a special case, but getting dressed up just makes me slightly less sub-par in the looks department. Though, this point being relevant to the conversation, I may also add that it does make me feel a little bit bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 08:46 AM
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Dude, I don’t know what planet you’re on. Women’s preferences are all over the board. I’ve heard heaps of anecdotes from women about having preferences for particularly chubby, heavyset guys, or really thin and lanky ones. Neither type is exactly what the guys on here consider the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 07:02 AM
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What kind of expression is supposed to read “I like cocks a lot”? Any expression a young woman wears?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:09 AM
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Attention-seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:49 AM
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It’s certainly obnoxious if a man equates all sorts of menial, average activities or things with oh-so-scary femininity that could potentially threaten their masculinity. Quick edit: sorry, didn’t quite understand your comment as I skimmed through it quickly! I just went back and read it. Yeah, in my personal opinion, men seeing anything labelled “feminine” in their personal view as harmful to their ego (or, their masculinity) is pretty “toxic”. I think toxic masculinity relates to the sort of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:07 PM
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Sounds as if, though, that from the OP’s account, it was a case of ego more than anything. Having care in your appearance being equated with femininity is a good example of obnoxious masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:01 PM
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High/low SMV;- mid/average SMV, probably. Not much to say here though as we were both still in high school. Tall, lanky, dorky haircut. Very cute. I personally found him very attractive at the time. Popular/unpopular;- Probably more unpopular, on the hierarchy, than not, but not overly so. Not necessarily an outcast, and had a close group of friends. Just an average guy. Jock/skater/musician/weed dealer/math genius/chess club/Lvl 65 Paladin;- Geeky, DnD-playing gamer. We had lots of common inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:48 AM
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”Whereas the women are often nothing special, and can often be quite fat/ugly.” What kind of world are you living in? I haven’t seen an ugly, fat woman in popular porn, with maybe one exception, outside of niche. Every woman in mainstream is hot, or at least young, cute and thin. To answer your question, porn is becoming a billion-dollar industry. This isn’t because more women are watching, I mean, that’s bullshit. Sure, some women watch it but the vast majority of viewers are men and now porn i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 12:08 AM
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Because all of the anecdotes from actual women, who are the ones you’re inserting into your hypothetical, must be wrong, as you’re a big, strong, smart man who knows only the truth of our malicious, lying ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:28 PM
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So I’m sure no other men want blonde Stacies either, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 05:56 AM
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Explain to me why so many women I talk to find the conventionally attractive “standard” for men so plain, then. Why is Leo DiCaprio more attractive than Brad Pitt even though Brad Pitt closer to the standard? Why do I want to bang Michael Emerson so badly? Yet every guy is going to agree the blonde, fit porn star Stacies they jack it to are the ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:33 AM
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attractiveness to a man is way more variable than attractiveness to a woman Bullshit. There’s a reason men can rate women with numbers while women’s ratings are never consistent and always confusing. The way a guy dresses can also make him more attractive to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:17 AM
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I feel like I’m having the same issue myself. I hear about the kinds of “whores” my boyfriend would happily degrade, but he doesn’t want to do that to me. I wonder if he’s not attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:58 PM
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Not how it works. Women don’t just get spontaneous orgasms because they’re fucking Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 11:55 PM
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Finally, a man honest about his preferences. Wish other guys could admit they find 70-80% of women unattractive and only settle most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 05:46 AM
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I don’t see any complaints about beta bux sex, more often than not on PPD I just see incels complaining because they can’t get laid, with no sympathy to the sub-6 chick who can complain about being treated like shit by an average-looking chump treating her like a pump n dump. I didn’t think men here cared about that, women get the same kinds of beta bux sex from men if she’s not Stacey. Just a fact of life that people are treated like shit if they’re less attractive, but guys on here just think …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:28 AM
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If you’re here to rationalise everyone’s behaviour using your red pill theory rather than actually listen to them, maybe you should just go back to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:14 AM
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I mean, you are catfishing. Maybe the photos you’re using on your catfish accounts are just inherently better quality, more flattering etc than your real accounts’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:56 PM
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Yeah, that’s a good point. I’m not at all going to deny that. I suppose I just haven’t interacted much in male circles where that kind of self-destructive behaviour is commonplace. I figure you must have seen a lot of it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 11:44 AM
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I do wish disordered behaviours and body dysmorphia was taken more seriously in men. I wonder sometimes if men with these issues don’t come forward because there’s a stigma around it, or if it’s just a matter of statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:19 AM
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Anecdotal experience here so take it with a grain of salt, but - My boyfriend is very insecure. He’s constantly asking for reassurance on his appearance, criticising his body, or feeling guilty about eating “bad” food. However, no matter what he seems to be completely incapable of truly fathoming my own self loathing. I see him sit around in just his underpants in the most casual manner, meanwhile I won’t ever let him see me undressed. It honestly blew my mind how comfortable he was with his bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 07:16 AM
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”We don't have sex OR relationships. Neither bread nor cake. We're starving over here. How do you expect a starving man to show empathy for those people saying "Oh, I'm not starving. But I'm sick to death of the all bread diet. Where is my cake. Won't anyone show empathy for us poor cakeless people!". That’s the vast majority of the responses I get from moids when I complain about being pumped and dumped, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:32 AM
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I grew up always thinking this, lol. I don't know where I got the idea from but in high school I was utterly convinced everyone else was constantly going at it except me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 03:33 AM
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That's a bizarre connection. ​ OP, I really, really think you're truly incapable of empathy here if you seriously can't properly understand how your porn addiction might make your partners uncomfortable to the point where, in some weird attempt to empathise, you decide it must be the same mild discomfort you get seeing your girlfriend fascinated by the morbid details of true crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:13 AM
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I just wonder if OP is trying to draw a comparison between his porn addiction and any other normal person’s enthusiastic consumption of regular media to feel better about his obsession with Riley Reid’s ass lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:15 AM
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I think this guy’s a bit butthurt because some girlfriend probably left him for his crippling porn addiction and now he’s desperately trying to make some comparison between a compulsion to jack off to porn and people who enthusiastically consume regular media in an attempt to say “see I’m not that bad! Other people have media consumption problems too!”. There’s really no other conclusion I can reach for here considering how outrageous this weird comparison is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 03:14 AM
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What kind of porn are you watching?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 03:10 AM
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I already feel bad for this hypothetical gender-bent version of myself. Being subpar even as a woman, he’ll probably have it a little worse. I imagine he’d have the same kind of life I did as a horny but unfuckable teenage girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:54 AM
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Go looksmaxx instead of complaining on the internet then. If you shouldn’t be obligated to give ugly women the time of day, hot women shouldn’t be obligated to give anything to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:19 AM
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Nope :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 12:18 AM
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I kind of like the idea of a PPD meetup. I doubt there’d be anyone in my area, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:26 AM
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Not all women are privileged like that. Stop ignoring the ones that don’t get your peepee hard, that’s what everybody else is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:17 AM
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No it isn't. You come out of it feeling worse than you did before - instead of having the thought of "I am unwanted and worthless" echoing around your own head, someone just goes and proves it for you by treating you like shit. You think, "hey, if a man has sex with me, it means he wants me and is attracted to me and i'm not ugly and i'm worth something, right?" and then the next thing you know you've just been degraded in such a way no man would ever do to a girl he actually wanted. Getting pen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 08:05 AM
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Even guys just hooking up with girls treat ugly and fat ones way worse than they'd treat the hot ones. The hot ones having a pleasant mutual experience don't just get treated like a wet hole, men go out of their way to please them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:04 AM
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lmao, I keep seeing that too and it kills me. I don't get attention from men at all. I'd honestly kill to be treated like these regular Beckies and Stacies apparently are whenever they go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 03:02 AM
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Nope, don't bother arguing. I don't think MGTOWKapow can fathom such a concept because no woman has ever shown him how much she'd love to suck his peepee.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 03:13 AM
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Someone gets it!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:53 AM
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Men already don't seem to like me. I'm sure a little flattery if they found me attractive wouldn't hurt. That kind of attention would be very validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:53 AM
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So to sum it all up guys who say YES approach me are most likely guys who don't have any options who would be extremely excited that a girl showed interest in them because it would be the only girl showing interest in them. This has been my experience with men. The few who've ever acted like they're interested in me only are for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:44 AM
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Some of this actually hits the nail on the head with most of my experiences as a woman asking men out. ​ First, I started off insecure and wondering why men didn't approach me or pursue me. Then I hear people preaching that "men are nervous and if guys aren't asking you out it's probably because they're afraid of rejection, yada yada yada." Well, okay then. I started taking some initiative and flirting with men I thought were cute, asking guys out etc. And i'll also note that these were men I fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:37 AM
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Because there’s always so much more riding on how attractive the opposite sex finds her than there ever could be for men. It’s just a painful reminder that everything she is as a human being can be reduced to a single number that translates only to “not good enough”. Especially when so many of us put in so much effort to ride higher than 5/10 yet we’ll still never be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:46 AM
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Can confirm. Men will happily treat a fat/ugly woman like shit and stick his dick in her to get off. Doesn't mean shit when he'd betabuxx to hell and back to please a Stacey if he gets the chance to lock her down doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:32 AM
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Seems like the OP is a redpiller with an extreme “AWALT” mindset. Not hard to tell considering the underlying message of “all women are harpies” all through his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:37 AM
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I suppose you could say i'm going through the "anger phase" too. I feel like I can pinpoint it to one event which i'm still dwelling on even years later - I think it took me a bit of realisation for that to turn into the "anger phase", but it's crushing me at the moment. It doesn't feel like much of a phase. It feels like it's been slowly building up for years, and now i'm *furious*. Putting it lightly I realised that despite the constant rhetoric echoed here by incels and RPs, halfway decent-lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 09:07 AM
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Women are capable of orgasming, and the clitoris actually has twice as many nerve endings as the head of the penis. While men typically have higher sex drives women can definitely still want and enjoy sex for the dopamine release and for the physical stimulation (ie, nerve endings in the genitals). I don't see any men willing to buy me shoes just to stick their penises in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:23 AM
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Sex is pretty gross too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:20 AM
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Except attractiveness is subjective and women are more likely to have differing preferences in physical appearance than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:19 AM
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I don't recall accusing you of that...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:01 AM
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Thank you! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:32 AM
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What does some thirsty jerks swiping right on any girl’s profile to maximise matches have anything to do with men actually giving me real, engaged attention like they would a Stacey?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:29 AM
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Respect. That’s really what a lot of people on here don’t realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:26 AM
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Yep, thanks! :) it’s always nice when people associate themselves with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 12:25 AM
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Men literally don't go out of their way to talk to me, I think you're confused about your identity if you think you know what it is to be a woman. Was your sister functioning enough to come on to these people or was she so irresistible that they were just fucking her anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:41 AM
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Bullshit. What about ugly/average women? where's all this attention i'm supposed to be getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:20 AM
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I can't talk to dudes. When attractive men, or, hell, even perfectly average men give me the time of day (talking to me as if they're engaged in the conversation, smiling at me, maintaining eye contact etc) I get incredibly flustered. I have to try really hard to maintain any semblance of normalcy. I'm probably pretty average in appearance, but contrary to the other responses in this thread i'm not inundated with solicitations regularly. In fact, men barely pay attention to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 10:20 AM
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Have you ever talked to a woman at all, ever? Explain the lack of diversity in women's body types in porn - sure, there are niches like BBW and whatever, and sure, some guy might be able to settle for a flabby, ordinary, 5/10 girl, but at the end of the day 9/10 guys are going to prefer some chick who looks like Riley Reid than someone like me. Hell, I can't find it for the life of me but I recently found an interesting study where participants of all age ranges and either sex rated images of pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 06:53 AM
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MBTI is a crock of shit and I wouldn’t bet on it at all. I don’t think this user knows what she’s talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:21 AM
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a different time it was with a girl who had accused (socially but not legally) several other guys of getting her drunk and raping her. That's disgusting. She sounds like a sociopath and a terrible person. I'm sorry that happened to you and for your sake i'm glad it didn't escalate/you managed to shut it down (?).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 04:25 AM
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I don't spend time with many women at all, or people in general, but I feel like i'm constantly in competition with them. I'm so subpar in my appearance that every time I see another woman i'm comparing myself to them, trying to figure out how to appear more attractive. Though I suppose "competing" isn't the right word. I'm not at their level so i'm not competing, merely comparing myself to them passively. I wouldn't say it effects any friendships - I don't spend much time with friends and most …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:02 AM
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Redpill guys are delusional if they’re so convinced every woman is some manipulative harpy hellbent on throwing random “tests” at them to have them prove their masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 04:59 AM
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No man has ever outright pursued me before. Any man I’ve had a relationship or encounter with, I initiated. And about 70% of the time I’ve tried to initiate something I’ve faced rejection. If this were the norm nothing would change for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 04:49 AM
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No, I’m dating a guy that I’m actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 01:36 AM
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I would never fuck a male stripper, they all look greasy and boring and I don’t want to fuck a guy who isn’t attracted to me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 10:58 PM
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Good bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:25 AM
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I would absolutely kill myself over how Riley Reid looks. No man would wanna jerk it to my disgustingly subpar body when women like that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:06 AM
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Let me counter that, irregardless of the plethora of downvotes I’ll inevitably receive. Sure, a guy might find an average, slim-looking girl or one with a little stomach pudge fuckable to some degree. But that doesn’t mean if some toned 9/10 porn star with a body from years of toning up, working out and eating right came on to him he wouldn’t drop everything for her. You really can’t claim that the ideal female physique in a man’s eyes is that easy to obtain. The men on here act like women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:03 AM
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Idk, I have very symmetrical, probably typically decent looking facial features and I’m not odd looking in the slightest. Objectively I’m probably like a 5/10, maybe 6/10 when I make an effort. I’ve been described as charismatic every so often. Yet every guy I’ve ever been with, I’ve been the one to initiate things with. For me it’s probably a 40/60 success rate (the former being the success factor). I plan to get an objective rating at some point but I know I’m not outright hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:34 PM
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Not true, am not overweight and guys don’t even look at me lmao. I’ve been rejected a whole bunch of times and a guy has never made the first move on me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 08:50 AM
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Look, no Stacey is going to be ignored by men regardless of what she’s like. The point I was making is that any woman less than a Stacey really has to stand out for men to be interested in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 03:07 AM
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Geez, I love the responses claiming that she's not attracted to him anymore because she felt "entitled to his masculinity" and he failed to provide. Holy shit, where is the sympathy? It sounds like this was a traumatic event for the both of them. She's likely experiencing some post-traumatic stress, which, surely, would effect her libido and attraction to her husband - and outside of that she likely feels betrayed by his actions. In her mind I doubt it was so much a case of "he failed to be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 05:35 AM
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Are you kidding me? Unless a shy woman is a 10/10, all she’s ever going to get is ignored by other men. How attractive she is is going to increase her pull but without charisma, if she’s less than say a 9-10/10, nobody wants to hear from her. No moids are going to bother. Sure, maybe if she’s lucky she’ll find some beta orbiter who is convinced she’s the best he can do for now, but aside from that she’s going to be at best, ignored by others, and at worst, ridiculed and bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 06:32 AM
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I’m very sexual. I always wanted to do disgusting things to that man. I really don’t think you can speak for me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 11:42 PM
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That’s how I felt about Michael Emerson. I don’t know why he’s so attractive to me but I’ll never get over how obsessed I was with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 07:36 PM
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