| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | How to assume attraction | Inner Game | real_mort | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:45 AM |
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| 1 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timeWell i can agree with mentally and financially for obv reasons but physically? Thats more of an exception than the rule tbh | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 01:03 PM |
| -3 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timesince when? lol | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 08:31 AM |
| 5 | How do you pick up on physical cuesYou can't differentiate whether she's flirting or just being nice. Only way to find out is to make a move. And even if she's flirting, doesn't have to mean a thing. Some just do it for fun. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 07:03 AM |
| 24 | tips for approaching on public transport?I don't approach on public transport when the girl has no chance of getting away from you physically | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Nothing happened without having this believe either. Only difference is now I know where I have to put most of my time and effort into to finally see results | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:50 PM |
| 15 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Maybe true for some but not for everyone | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Read "Male/Female’s Stated Interest Compared to Actual Influence on Decision" not just the introduction | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How can we get lots of casual sex?https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating/report | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:48 PM |
| 7 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Game is only a factor if you get past the initial looks test. Otherwise you can have the best game ever and it won't matter | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Embrace the way you were born, that’s actually what is most attractive. 🤣🤣🤣 gave me a good laugh | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:48 PM |
| 54 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Men: be good looking Women: Exist | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Attraction insightMen overestimate their appearance I'm truly fucked then 🤣 | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Attraction insightLooks get your foot in the door to even get the chance to show off your personality. If you don't have the looks but an awesome personality you don't even get the chance the show her. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm not really sure how to get started.Are shrooms actually a cure? Or is it more hiding and repressing the anxiety? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?After reading all those other responses I'll lie about it now 😅 | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Oh trust me dude -- they know when a guy is experieneced/inexperienced in bed. How would they? If you already had sex doesn't mean you're good at it. If you haven't had sex doesn't mean you're bad at it | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:54 PM |
| -2 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?Personally I think honesty is important. I would only tell her if she asks about it. And I'd give her an explanation why I don't have any experience at my age. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Significant social anxiety around women, is there a professional that can help me take smaller steps to get to the point of approach?Gradual exposure | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 10:26 AM |
| 3 | Wearing a blazer will instantly improve your gameHow old are you? I feel like for younger guys wearing a blazer would be a little too much 😅 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How to assume attractionTrust me man, not wearing glasses is probably the worst thing I can do. Esp bc my nose is crooked so the frame hides that to an extent | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to assume attractionI don't think loosing the glasses will do me any favors, but I'll go for a thinner frame and lighter color. Getting ripped is on my list. For the hairstyle I was thinking shorter (James Bond/Daniel Craig like). Already changed up my clothing but in the wrong way it seems. Oh well still learning. I'll adjust it better. Thx for the advice :) | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:14 PM |
| 5 | How to assume attractionWithin the last year I already went through a kind of makeover. I'm certainly not afraid of change and bettering myself. Really not a dork/nerd and 1000% not going for that style. I just took fashion advice from YT to wear more neutral colors and no extra printings on them. Clothing: Went for more form fitting and neutral color clothes. Before my clothes were kinda falling apart and very loose and dirty. Hair: I considered getting a hairstyle like Daniel Craig/James Bond, so much shorter. What d… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:43 AM |
| 5 | How to assume attractionBrutal honesty. Always. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | IOI?Should be one up now :) | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you stop putting hot girls on a pedestal?Comes with practice :) | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | What red flags do you look for?Don't think immaturity would be one | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:56 AM |
| 1 | IOI?Damn sux to be me then | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | No more replies after cool convo?You are worried bc she didn't reply for over a day?! You serious? It usually takes me a few days to reply 😂 I'm sure she'll come back around | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityand still using an 8inch dildo...yea size doesn't matter 😑 | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityTrue but why risk the devastating humiliation? We now what the vast majority of women like/don't like when it comes to dick size. I'm not gonna try and find the 1 in a million woman who would put up with my size and get psychologically beat up along the way | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:22 AM |
| 0 | Overcoming sexual insecurityYoure too inexperienced for your rendered opinion to carry much weight. Again nowadays you just have to look at studies to get a good view about the matter. Personal experience is not necessary | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityThere's a difference in saying you're small if you're not and actually being small | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityOk sounds weird to me 🤔 | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityI thought we weren't allowed to call women "females"? This is the first time I hear this 😂 What's the argument they make? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecuritySo I can't render an opinion in this? I can look at data and draw the conclusions from it. Its obvious to me | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurity....while having an 8inch dildo. Yea size doesn't matter right 😑 You still want the penetration to feel good to her. If she doesn't feel it what's the point? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityNo bc they have immense social status, money and fame" exactly its nothing to do with there dick! Doesn't mean the sex is good, which is what I'm concerned with. Studies? what studies? what? Studies that say women prefer for both ONS and LTR a penis with 6 inches. But the average worldwide penis size is only at 5.1 inches. OMG so you're just imaging how bad it could be! It's not imagination. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityThere's no objective view of reality, its subjective! Studies show you a pretty objective view of reality. Ofc not 100% but damn near close if those things have happened to u To be fair, they haven't but they're things you hear from smaller guys all the time. I'm 23 and still a virgin bc of a medical condition I recently got fixed Do u think brad pitt or george clooney would have the same problem with the same size dick! No bc they have immense social status, money and fame | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityThing is you won't know what it's like living with a small penis if you don't have one yourself. Women suddenly getting a headache and having to leave as soon as you take your clothes off, women always gossiping about their last sexual partners dick sizes laughing if it was small, drooling if it was big. It's just being realistic. No need to fool yourself just to feel better. It doesn't change the reality of the situation. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityThe average size is 5 inches not 6. Ao obviously women don't want average sized men. I’ve had sex with bigger men and the 7in and above isn’t very pleasant it’s quite painful actually. Comparing a 4 inch guys with a 6 inch guy. Assume their oral game and foreplay is equally great. You also feel emotionally connected to both of them equally. Which guy would you prefer? Probably the guy with 6 inches bc he feels better inside, even though the sex with both of them was "enjoyable". As simple as tha… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityWomen always say size doesn't matter to make smaller men feel better and yet there are studies showing that women's ideal size is 6 inches which is above average. Enjoying sex with smaller guys doesn't say anything. I'm certain you also enjoyed sex with bigger guys and for the most part guys with bigger dicks were more enjoyable for you too. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:54 AM |
| 7 | Overcoming sexual insecurityAgain there is nothing stopping a bigger guy from mastering oral as well. But he can also make the penetration feel better with a bigger size which is nothing I can ever do | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:45 AM |
| 4 | Overcoming sexual insecurityThere is nothing stopping a bigger dude from making her finish as well. But my genes are stopping me from having a bigger dick. So I can't make it feel as good as someone bigger when inside her. I'd guess your husband is on the bigger side as well sooo...makes my point | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Overcoming sexual insecurityWhat's your size? Worldwide average is 5.1 inches, maybe that eases your insecurity about size. You're good if you have 6 inches or more | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityTrue but you still want the penetration part to feel good to her too. If all you can do is pleasure her orally you won't make the cut | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 09:49 AM |
| 6 | Overcoming sexual insecurityI just accepted that my dick is too small to pleasure a girl, so I've just given up on sex altogether | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 09:35 AM |
| 2 | What do you say to girls that just want to hook up? I also just want to hook up...I use "ons" and "f+" but yeah works either way I guess ^ | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | What do you say to girls that just want to hook up? I also just want to hook up...You say you matched with her so I'm assuming you're using some kind of dating app. It helps to write those things into your bio, that you just want to hook up. Has the added benefit that you know every girl you match with looks for the same thing ;) | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 06:26 AM |
| 2 | How to break things off after 3 dates no sexThey didn't treat you that way. You're just assuming they will | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | How to break things off after 3 dates no sexHow do you waste time? It takes 10 seconds max to text her that 🤣 Just bc she would do it too doesn't make it the right thing to do | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:09 AM |
| 4 | How to break things off after 3 dates no sexU mean it's easy and convenient for you, not better | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 4 | How to break things off after 3 dates no sexDisrespectful? U should be mature and just tell the person you're not feeling it instead of leaving them guessing | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Getting pussy requires hard work! How hard are you working??How is it hard? lol Just make a Tinder Account and lets go 😅 | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 04:40 PM |
| 15 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.Even tho I don't have a problem being friends with an ex, imo it just leads to unnecessary arguments and questions from your next gf. Best to just cut it off 100%. Less drama | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I determine what ‘love language’ someone has/responds to the best?Maybe just go according to statistics? Like which ones are the most common love languages? They should give you the highest chance of getting it right. Idk how you can find out for sure apart from asking | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | The sole reason why women should ask men outDepends on the woman. I wouldn't fuck a girl just bc she offers herself to me, if I don't think she's even remotely attractive. I have better things to do 😂 | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 02:38 PM |
| 3 | The sole reason why women should ask men outJust ask your girl friends. I'm sure they'll have hundreds of hilarious stories to tell 😂 It's always funny to hear how stupid some guys are | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:15 PM |
| 3 | The sole reason why women should ask men outDon't know why we're even talking about who should approach who. If you find someone attractive just talk to them. Doesn't matter if you're man or woman | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:06 PM |
| 8 | The sole reason why women should ask men outWomen have build up a self defense mechanism bc there are so many creepy ass dudes out there hitting on them | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:04 PM |
| 4 | a drug that is easily accessible or easily prescribed that can help me socialize?Ok your choice. Just saying you don't need to be on anything to learn how to socialize. Don't even know if it'd work. People drink alcohol and are more social, but that doesn't mean they then know to be more social without alcohol. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:38 AM |
| 3 | a drug that is easily accessible or easily prescribed that can help me socialize?Why do you want to be dependent on a substance to socialize?? | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:24 AM |
| 9 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?I'm just sleeping around rn. Not interested in anything serious so I don't mind :) | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 06:41 PM |
| 356 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?I just do it for ego validation. To proof to myself that I'm desirable. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:53 PM |
| 46 | Do you find high-pitch or deep husky voice sexier in women?Something in the middle. Too high gets annoying and too low I just don't like | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:20 AM |
| 7 | I ain’t gonna lie, I’m frustratedWhy do you match with them if you're not attracted to them? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | 22 and Shy.True. Goes for everyone and everything in life. Man and woman. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I Stop Being Nice To Women?Being nice and respectful towards women is not a bad thing. Don't bend over backwards for them. Have and assert your boundaries. Don't treat them like "just a friend". Make clear that you're talking man to woman | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I have no idea what league im in. What should I do?I understand but you don't want to settle either. Also looks matter more to men than they do to women. Even if you're less attractive than her, doesn't mean she won't find you attractive | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | I have no idea what league im in. What should I do?Talk to her if you find her attractive Why would you approach someone you don't find attractive just bc they're "in your league"? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 04:37 PM |
| -2 | Do short guys still have a chance in casual relationships (hooking ups or one night stands)?I don't think women have high standart regarding height. For the vast majority it's just important that you're either same height or taller than her. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 12:42 PM |
| 4 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?Reality is there are tons of hot women every day and on Tinder, if you're not a attractive guy, you have to lower your standards A LOT | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | 1 year of daily daygame results - This is my success ratio, what is yours?Tinder sucks if you're not a good looking dude and want to get women you find attractive | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 10:52 PM |
| 6 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?So what do you want to do? You can keep complaining or just accept it and do the approaching ;) up to you at the end of the day | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | [OPINION] Why do women never approach, and instead put themselves in your vicinity?A woman putting herself in your vicinity is kinda the female equivalent to a man approaching directly. It's just that society is raising man to be the more active part and the female the more receptive part. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 12:17 PM |
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