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FDS SUCCESS!realityruinedit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:00 AM
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Poosey had me rolling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:41 PM
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Block, delete, and send a burly man to his place with all his belongings and retrieve yours. Anything else from him and you ignore it. Block whatever new channels he finds if he does. If he doesn’t leave you alone file a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 12:56 AM
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And most of you are afraid of insects 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:41 AM
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The pro tip is always in the comments haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:06 PM
20

The wholesomeness of your comment warmed my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:41 PM
19

Has to? In her mind it’s “get to” blech thank the lord I found this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:39 PM
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Omg nail on the head. Like - He doesn’t even like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:36 PM
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I want to have your brain before you found out. Is there a brain eraser on the market yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:36 PM
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HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF ALL THE MEN WHO SHOWED UP TO A DATE WITH A WOMAN WHO WASNT SKINNY AND THEIR PROFILE SAID CURVY??? CATFISHING IS A C R I M E
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:48 PM
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Love how - “I don’t wanna date this kinda dude” = aggressive hate crime. Lmao - you’re just showing your entitlement to my body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:40 PM
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Pickme’s gonna Pickme!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:38 PM
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My pro tip is to only open the app once a day - like 6 pm or so. And never on a Friday or Saturday. It keeps my attachments in check and prioritized where it needs to be. Batched - like checking my personal email. Again, this is if you choose to be on the apps. Don’t feel pressured by Aunt Debbie who wants to know “have you tried online dating, dear?” Having a boyfriend is not an achievement. Getting engaged is not an achievement. And block at the first sign of disrespect - usually yeah it’s jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:59 PM
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Oh phew!! I’ve been subjected to far too many 2 am peen pics in my early days lol Men respond to behavior not cOmMuniCaTion - if he’s not putting in the effort to ask a thoughtful question it’s a big meh for me and I leave him on read. He’ll either get the message and ante up or …. Same with the endless chit chat. If it’s not fun and developing rapport, meh. Often a lack of response on my part prompts them to get my attention - asking for a dinner date etc - but that’s just a byproduct of being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:52 PM
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Clarification question - do you mean he’s texting your phone number or within the app
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:59 PM
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Sounds like the vetting worked! Happy Birthday, you said yes to you and bye to a thoughtless and emotionally stunted man baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:00 AM
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But he got the automatic car for it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:04 PM
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Aha! So THIS is why we block and delete (…and casually brush a hair tendril back, and focus on leveling up)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:43 AM
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ABUSE AMNESIA ⚰️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:16 AM
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Oh mannnnn I’ll put myself allll the way on blast Mind you, these were the entries before he acted like a total asshat on NYE — 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 - [ ] “But did you have fun” // he gave me a huge hickey on my neck and I was upset about it - that was his response// - [ ] I paid for 2’nd date // I was concerned I had COVID so didn’t want to go to a restaurant- he was a respiratory therapist so was ok with the exposure since he faced it every day - he didn’t know how DoorDash worked (he lived in the suburbs a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:13 AM
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Awesome!! The title of the note is… 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:11 PM
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Well said! I sent the last man I was vetting out the door at 11:38pm on New Years Eve - one thing that helped me was I kept a list of odd things he did/said on my notes app. After just 6 weeks his entire act dropped and, wouldn’t you know, those odd things were exactly how he actually is. I did give him too much benefit of the doubt though!! Why do I need a collection??? I don’t need to provide documentation to HR or anything 🤣 Leveling up to Ruthless!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:39 PM
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Your comment just opened up a huge realization for me, thank you for posting. I’m realizing my mom’s refusal to take responsibility for her finances (her husband handles it and they’re often in a big mess) is a huge symptom of pickme syndrome. Sigh. Break the cycle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:15 PM
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I’m totally adopting this phrase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:00 PM
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Thanks for these comments - I’m currently vetting a divorced dad (divorce finalized just before the pandemic and it seems I’m the first he’s dated in 20 years) He speaks well of his ex and casually mentioned how helpful therapy has been. But… eyes wide open lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:03 AM
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Are there any museums you can join the board/young professionals association of? Usually they have events and councils - a bit sparse for live events because…gestures around. If you’re in/near a city you can join University Clubs - lots of them don’t even require you be an alumni. Wine tastings, lecture series, fundraising committees, events etc. My next thing I might do is join a racquetball club near me - it’s a bit of a scene/has a members lounge and at least I’ll learn a new sport.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:57 AM
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Yes! Thinking back to those dates - I got my way but … def not worth a hair wash oop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:30 PM
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I’ve never been offered a walking date - but when asked to grab a drink I reply with “I prefer dinner” and either he offers dinner or … he clowns himself right out the door Approved methodology? (You both have boss lady flairs haha)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:45 PM
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To be fair I was once trapped in a Chilis restaurant booth when I thought I was on a friendly lunch with my ex pro football player personal trainer. Halfway through our meal he switched to my side of the booth and put his hand on my leg. It took an awkward 6 minutes of no, no I definitely thought we were just friends for the enormous slab of concrete of a man to go back to his own side. Still… no I’m going to pass on a walking date though!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:41 PM
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Yes absolutely! Eye opening - and you can use the strategies to level up your career while you’re at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:30 PM
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I’ve been reading The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene - holy moly I’m getting so many flashbacks of people making power plays and my former pick-me self falling for them. No more!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:26 PM
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2nd grade - wow it’s not just me thank you for posting, OP. I was sat between 2 of the miscreant boys every seat change. I was expected to idk manage them? On the plus side it made me adept at leading without authority and gave me access to the non-nerd side of society!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:36 AM
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TM is an emoji - I’m guessing that’s just in the flair label?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:18 PM
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These posts are a dime a dozen - have been for more than a decade. I remember loads of them when looking for sublets/shares when I was living in Manhattan on a teacher’s salary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:26 AM
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Yeah. Men have to be found guilty by a jury of their peers just to live in our world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:53 AM
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New anthem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:21 PM
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These recs are on point and you are NAHT alone OP! Not everyone is blessed with a family that’s supportive and nurturing. We gotta go create our tribes. Please take extreme self care!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:39 AM
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Thank you for sharing! She’s so awesome I want to see all her videos now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:46 AM
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Ugh and he always has to say THE most obnoxious low hanging throw-away comment. Also, love how he authoritatively says most porn actresses were abused, Maher says ...really?, and Joe rambles on saying yeah there was a study... rambles... but you know I guess it’s just anecdotal... I bet he thinks his farts are insightful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:39 AM
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Let’s play the sorting and folding game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:22 AM
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Yup yup. From here it sounds like your mom uses money and comfort as leverage to control you. If you don’t move out you’ll sleep walk into even less autonomy with a baby. Look up Gary Vaynerchuck vids on TikTok - he talks about this a lot. Reassess your priorities - you’ll have to give up cushy wealthy lifestyle to get your freedom. Moving out will mean a shitty apt and maybe roomies ... can you make that sacrifice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:38 PM
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Anyone else pick up on some scary anger microexpression flashes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:15 AM
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I’m audible-ing this book right now. Dang is it eye-opening. Anyone reading thus right now who’s been meaning to read it... do it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:16 AM
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Yaaaaaas stay alert! I’d submit that the most abusive men know how to pretend they’re HV with their manipulative games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:49 PM
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Every two to four days? FOUR? 4? Like... shower, stew in his own genital juice for 3 days, sleep for one more night, and then shower?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:38 PM
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Bop it! Twist it! Pull it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:31 PM
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No! Never a gun! dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:16 PM
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You’re not crazy!! He’s gaslighting you and you’re simply being perceptive and fighting your internal warning system. Honestly, let’s pretend he’s not cheating... the whole thing with the Facebook and the sister... Sounds like he’s got a whole circus you really don’t have to join. 6 mos is nothing - get out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:14 PM
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I lived with 2 male roommates in my 20s... I’m shuddering right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:39 AM
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Ha no it’s a bi joke. Lemon bars, can’t sit in chairs straight.... I think you’re caught up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:03 PM
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Ha! Thank you Lady Lurker!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:37 AM
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I was right now years old when I realized a college bf had me write papers for him. He asked for me to “proofread” omg I basically wrote the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:21 AM
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There by the grace of god go i
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:14 AM
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Lmao I would probably just nap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:06 AM
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Someone needs to come up with a”Block Everywhere” app. I shouldn’t have to think about all the social medias when I’m trying to take out the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:05 AM
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Put down that lemon bar!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:03 AM
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Wash off the scrote scum once a year for the occasion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:03 AM
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This is precious!! Like when you roll your button down shirt cuffs up over your sweater??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 05:02 AM
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The best math teachers struggled with math - we’re here because it didn’t come naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:59 AM
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Simply fascinating. He calls himself a tyrant. Always take what men say jokingly seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:57 AM
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It’s like we’re those collectible juice glasses and they just want to have us on the shelf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:55 PM
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Womps and prayers, scrotey scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:53 PM
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Yup. And in the rare instance you get the man to admit he’s guilty on a recorded line (at the police station) the Grand Jury can just decide to not indict. And since it’s no longer a case your restraining order is nullified. When I found out he died a few years ago I wasn’t sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:49 AM
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At least it’s a common name 🤡👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:39 AM
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Ok so I think it’s important to emphasize we don’t chase men because we have self respect, not because it makes peepee soft. That’s irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:22 PM
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Ok but think of his kids. Are they daughters?? This post for some reason made me think of my dad. He wanted all the praise and thanks for making spaghetti for dinner and wrapping my own teddy bear in tinfoil as a present for Christmas. No wonder I was such a pickme!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 03:40 AM
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Omg major Roz from Frasier vibes! She’s my fav!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:03 PM
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Yes! As we all learned from that unfortunate lizard cake yesterday, you really need to wait for the cake to cool before frosting it. If you’re still baking or fresh out of the oven? Just chill on that cooling rack until the time is right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:04 PM
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Yes all men. Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:01 PM
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Lol miss me with this “date”. Lemme get cozy on my own damn couch wtf. I can smell the mustiness from this scrote’s shower liner from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:52 PM
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lol for real. Some turd used an InMail credit to hit on me last week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:43 PM
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Yup! I’ve been in the tech sales world for 6 years or so. LinkedIn “Women in Sales Month” posts for October made me bristle. Eg “tag the best female salesperson you’ve worked with this year”. Excuse me... now we have to compete for your scrotey scrote LinkedIn nod???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:10 PM
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It was the self-debating for me. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:35 AM
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Ya it’s adorable... for like 12 dates in and you’re not feeling great and he wants to bring you some comfort food to make you smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:06 AM
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Am I the only one who is still mad about Pence’s “I know how it feels to never expect to be on this stage” comment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:04 AM
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Same! I identify with the mouse!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:15 AM
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Yellow is the dude - assuming the first message is the initial message because that’s how Bumble works. Not that it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:01 AM
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Not listing his job or height Not writing much None or 1 pics All pics he looks drunky pants Writing only about how he wants you to make him feel Being all snarky (eg. “My weekend was fine, not here for a million superficial messages back and forth”) Any mention/joke of alcoholism, bad credit, cheating, irresponsibility (obvs if he’s serious about AA that’s a whole diff thing for another post)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:03 PM
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Omggg so true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:09 AM
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Wishy washy and emotional. Confirmed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:17 PM
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What’s his normal response to your weekly yearbook historian report? I mean, it’s fucking adorable you do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:57 AM
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