reallyhatesyou Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
76	When men pull away	DATING ADVICE	reallyhatesyou	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/20 03:49 AM
48	How to maintain high value and use feminine energy to attract a man...	DATING ADVICE	reallyhatesyou	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/19 11:27 PM
9	How to help him feel less stressed	ADVICE	reallyhatesyou	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/20 07:24 PM
5	Pull back	DATING ADVICE	reallyhatesyou	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/20 12:53 AM
3	How to create boundaries hack?	SELF IMPROVEMENT	reallyhatesyou	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/19 01:29 AM
0	What is the proper thing to do when someone ghosts you?		reallyhatesyou	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/20 04:26 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I use art to stop myself from craving male validation. You’re so talented!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/20 07:13 PM
3	Pay attention to how he treated you during this pandemic. Girl. You are GOALS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 09:10 PM
5	Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance.. In my experience, ugly guys have been just as bad as hot guys. Shit, last guy I dated wasn’t perfect but was the hottest/best to me out of all the guys I was dating at the time. Nothing worse than saying yes out of pity to go on a boring date with a non-cute guy and pay for yourself. Girl. Don’t do it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/20 03:13 AM
2	Men don't actually want or like when women are honest about their preferences. I think tone is VITAL for this. It’s all about tacts. There’s a difference between “why haven’t you called me in two weeks dickhead?” And “I feel ignored & frustrated & I just miss sleeping next to you.” Feel the difference? Both are brutally honest. One takes vulnerability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/20 02:07 AM
1	What is the proper thing to do when someone ghosts you? Yeah, I basically hate this. It doesn’t teach you conflict resolution. It is just completely avoidant. I always learn so much through dating, I despise when things end like this. I think I’ll text him in about a month thanking him & telling him I’m grateful to have met him. I don’t care if he ghosts that and I don’t want to date him anymore. But I will not let things just falter this way. Not that woman. People are so fucking quick to leave each other so fast. Your boyfriend liked his exes insta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/20 02:18 AM
1	What is the proper thing to do when someone ghosts you? I think that’s a deeply important problem-that feelings and being hurt doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t call ghosting nice, it’s a major turn off and it makes me sad that we’ve gotten to a point where we expect the worst out of someone. Just my opinion though! In a way, it does show me that the person is more avoidant than I like, and someone who ghosts me after months of dating and feelings developing just proves they aren’t someone I should be with. Regardless, it is good to let someone go so that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/20 05:55 AM
6	What is the proper thing to do when someone ghosts you? Honestly, this is foolproof. Everyone, we can go home now. This guy won reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/20 04:53 AM
3	What is the proper thing to do when someone ghosts you? Fair point! I guess it depends if he was still trying to date/talk. I would let him know I wasn’t interested. But with a few guys, we’ve both lost interest after the 2nd date and it’s like we both ghosted each other. Like organic mutual ghosting, I guess. My point is-it’s frustrating to ANYONE when you’ve been dating for months and the other person pulls some paranormal activity shit lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/20 04:52 AM
4	How to fix a “me” problem? I agree that usually if a guy is too feminine, I find myself feeling the same way. You sort of have to provoke his masculine from him, put him in a place to make decision. A guy who does WHATEVER I say is actually a turn off for me. Look into John wineland / David deida about this stuff.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/20 03:15 AM
1	When men pull away I will look into it! Thank you, this is the advice I was looking for.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/20 11:24 PM
1	When men pull away I agree. I’m just going to leave him alone. I wish I knew how to talk about what I want without being demanding smh	/r/RedPillWomen	14/03/20 01:31 AM
1	When men pull away Hey, fair point. I know I’m too sensitive and maybe it’s dumb to have gotten so hurt and frustrated. I think I didn’t explain myself clearly in my original post, he had been pulling away for about two weeks prior to not talking to me. Of course, now we have been chatting a little (he will reply once a day tho) and I just feel tired at this point. He will go like 16-20 hours before replying to me. I also failed to mention that he would consistently make plans to see me every week, which is someth…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/03/20 04:49 AM
0	When men pull away How do I do that?	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/20 11:55 AM
1	How to help him feel less stressed I know, I’m meaning to take on his stress or anything. I don’t mind him smoking and I’m not trying to change him. I accept him as he is lmao just wonder how I can use my famine energy to heal his stress I suppose	/r/RedPillWomen	05/02/20 09:10 PM
2	Pull back What do you mean by that	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/20 04:15 PM
2	Pull back That’s my idea. I’m not saying it because I think he will act a certain way or whatever, I just wanna say what I feel about the situation and then let go of it. I just don’t like the dating world and ghosting and bullshit. I wanna be real and be myself. I don’t think there’s a real justification for his behavior either. He’s pretty much off the table for me, just want to practice vulnerability and using my emotions more.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/01/20 03:43 AM