reallyred11 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them? You seem like an interesting guy from your profile. I would assume however, that you have a tendency to overthink in public? You seem very passionate about things but also possibly nervous?	/r/seduction	13/02/26 10:20 PM
1	What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them? How’s your hygiene & how much do you invest in appearance & experience? Not just money but energy. And also, there’s girls present there, I assume?	/r/seduction	13/02/26 10:12 PM
1	What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them? Hygiene. Appearance. Be interesting and be interested(in others). Friend group. Identify your hobbies. Your city likely has a niche—scene of events for these things. Whether athletic, or artistic, or whatever…. There’s a scene unless you live in the woods. Many people with similar hobbies will find themselves in the same events very often. Girls included. Seeing similar faces breeds tension to speak. Speak. Relax. Mingle. That cold approach stuff is weird to me so I don’t speak on it. I think th…	/r/seduction	13/02/26 09:11 PM
1	How are average looking men supposed to meet women? Literally just talk and go to social events where you run into people multiple times. Building a lasting connection with someone and a group is key for this. 9/10 the whole see somebody 1x and date them is unnecessarily hard. Find someone with similar interests multiple times. See them. Talk. Build up. Build on it.	/r/seduction	11/02/26 03:01 AM
1	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? It’s so many variables. Flirt. Harmless flirting. Innuendo. It’s a game of seduction. You want her to want it more than you do. You never ask a friend that. You make her want it. She’ll become more flirty, and touchy. Escalate it when you notice her desire.	/r/seduction	09/08/25 03:37 PM
3	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? That’s one of the worst things I’ve read on this topic. Why would you do that	/r/seduction	09/08/25 07:16 AM
3	Best country for flirting as a woman? Literally any of them because the ones women would get in trouble for doing it	/r/seduction	02/06/25 11:58 PM
1	Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake? No.	/r/seduction	23/05/25 04:47 PM
8	What do y’all do to make a woman comfortable? By me being comfortable. That’s first. When you operate from a genuine, relaxed, interested place: she’s comfortable.	/r/seduction	16/05/25 02:51 AM
1	Talking to women at the beach feels dirty “Hey nice shirt. Where’d you get it?”	/r/seduction	29/04/25 01:27 AM
18	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? I’m not trying to be a dick. But honestly, grow up. I kind of assume people in these subs to be at least old enough to drink, meaning 21+. If you’re 21 years or older, this is a stupid question to be asking everyone but the person you’re inviting. It’s impossible for strangers to know what a guy only you know personally, will expect. You know him on some level. We don’t. Assess what you know about him. Assess your conversations together. And… talk to him. If you’re old enough to be inviting a pe…	/r/seduction	28/04/25 12:46 AM
21	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. What I have found is that women who are extremely successful, or even fairly successful, lead with it in an overwhelming amount of circumstances. There’s an arrogance a lot of times that comes with the success. It’s like those memes about techbros and how annoying they are. They make their material successes their personality. They honestly just become unbearable. I think it’s extremely dismissive to men to make them so simple as to just shutdown because their woman makes more money than them. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 01:55 AM
3	good places where to find women that are dtf? That literally is the answer to the question. Go to the grocery store. Or a fucking bar. Or literally anywhere.	/r/seduction	04/03/25 06:01 PM
37	good places where to find women that are dtf? All women are DTF guys they want TF. Become someone women want TF and it’ll be easy pickings.	/r/seduction	04/03/25 02:22 PM
17	How do I know if a girl wants to fuck? Tell her she looks like she’s been working hard & you want to treat her to something. Can be “here” or somewhere else. Go from there	/r/seduction	13/07/24 04:33 PM
3	What is the main reason men are single 2023 It’s a huge cloud over the ‘approach. Women nowadays don’t send clear choosing signals as much. So you kind of are just going on a limb. Also, social media has made men so scared to approach out of fear of being called a creep or ‘harassing them. A lot of times the risk doesn’t outweigh the reward. Women are allowed to assault(verbally, physically) and embarrass men with no recourse. It’s hard to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 10:38 PM
13	First move suggestions? Backflip.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 04:28 AM
1	Should I keep cold approaching or give it up? You should become more attractive, yes. But more comfortable in your own skin. If your 5’10 245 and you aren’t happy with it, it probably shows in your approach. But I would recommend maxing out tour physical appearance. Hygiene, physique, hair, style.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 02:03 AM
0	Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy. Looks actually don’t matter for men. As in, you don’t have to be a super handsome man for women. It’s more so confidence and your spirit.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 10:59 PM
0	[deleted by user] Is this for ego boost/validation purposes?	/r/seduction	18/01/22 11:41 PM
1	Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction? W comment section.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 09:42 PM
1	Give me a game plan. You have to go into the city and meat people. And honestly, not even bars. Go to grocery stores. Target, Whole Foods, Publix, sports games, libraries, Barnes & Noble, the gym, restaurants & coffee shops. You have to be in places you’d meet women. And other people at all, for that matter.	/r/seduction	04/01/22 10:41 PM
3	How to flip the situation in a toxic relationship? By leaving.	/r/seduction	04/01/22 04:37 PM
2	Is it me or flirting with the same sex is easier than flirting with opposite sex and/or someone you’re attracted to? It’s because there’s no pressure. There’s not wait to it. You don’t have anything to lose because of your expectations. You’re wanting and expecting something when you’re attracted to the person, and not when you aren’t attracted.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 02:41 AM
1	Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. Rollercoaster Leave.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 09:15 PM
2	i am loser Work on yourself. Read. Better your diet. It’ll help your skin and your energy and looks. Start exercising and workout out. Make yourself look nice. Earn some money. Whatever that looks like for you, Make yourself comfortable. That will radiate. If you are uncomfortable you can’t expect women to be comfortable around you. Groom yourself, once again in whatever way you like. Be clean, smell good. AND SMILE. People love smiling, people love laughing, people love being around good energy. Trust me.	/r/seduction	28/12/21 07:41 PM
1	Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laid This was a great first step.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 11:01 PM
3	I(21M) have gone on dates with a girl(20F) for about a month. Is it weird if there’s been no physical affection? Maybe she’s shy. Just hug her. Side hug. And if she hugs you be, shift over to where it’s a hug(abdomen on abdomen) and hug her like you mean	/r/seduction	18/12/21 06:47 AM
1	How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy" Women want the opposite of what they say on public forums.	/r/seduction	18/12/21 06:08 AM
1	[deleted by user] So what was it about this dude in particular that made you insecure?	/r/seduction	15/12/21 02:27 PM
6	[deleted by user] 1) you didn’t “put up with the stripping”. you chose to date a stripper. 2) you can’t seriously date someone in that field if you haven’t addressed your insecurities. 3) bro…. you fell in love with a stripper, you have to know what comes with that.	/r/seduction	15/12/21 04:11 AM
2	If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you? Don’t turn it down if you want it. Just don’t bring it up.	/r/seduction	12/12/21 07:48 PM