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| 9 | Peacocking - Hats | reallytricky | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 04:31 AM |
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| 3 | I want to bring attention to some red flags I've encountered while datingWell to begin with these are anecdotal experiences with probably a far too small control group to make any standing conclusions. Belief in supernatural doesnt mean you believe in ghosts, it means you believe in supernatural events/actions/whatever, but its not limited to ghost. Sounds like you are generalizing that belief in supernatural strictly means belief in ghosts. One may believe that supernatural events are taking place yet not believe in ghosts. The term supernatural includes a lot of th… | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 09:31 PM |
| 2 | The problem with sex as a goal in and of itselfEvery time you take a step and act above your fear that fear becomes smaller and smaller until one day it no longer exists. Just wanted to add this here. | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Which has the higher success rate bringing her home or going to her place?Like others already said if you go to your own place you have total control over the environment. I think it varies by girl and situation. I think mostly Ill go to their place so I can bounce whenever I want and if I choose to I don't have to deal with the morning stuff. If I have weed at my place then Ill probably take her to my place. In either case you will want to escalate pretty fast, especially if you go to her place. So I'd say its situation dependent, but also depends on your level of ga… | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have advice about going out solo?My advice just go solo. I generally dont go out with a wingman, usually if that does happen then Im the wingman opening a group to a friend or something like that. I at least feel more comfortable and more in control when im going solo. Ill go out with a group of friends, but once I start sarging I leave the group and go solo. Anything you can do with a wingman you can do solo. Sometimes it can work against you as having 3 guys approach is sometimes worse than just approaching alone. Main advice… | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Mini [FR] Not giving a fuck on the dance floor in a High School Mixer with Mixed Results.Some years back although I was confident already then, dancing at clubs was something I'd avoid. In any other area I was fine and I didn't really care, but man dancing I thought I was gonna make an ass out of myself. Until I started going out more regularly and one night I didnt give a fuck. I felt awesome and the chicks from my friend group came to drag me to the dance floor so I just hit it and I hit it hard. That night I realized I was actually pretty good at it and I enjoyed it so much. So n… | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How Seddit has given me the confidence to approach!ah alright | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 05:06 PM |
| 8 | How Seddit has given me the confidence to approach!Attractiveness isn't that important of an factor when compared to acting/being Alpha. No matter how attractive you are, but if you don't handle the basics you won't get laid. Attractive looks don't mean alpha. Alpha is what you want, but obviously work on your looks theres a lot of useful links on the sidebar. Start hitting the gym if you already don't and check your wardrobe. Get yourself some skinny jeans, chinos, and other nice pants and couple them with some fitted shirts. Get a stylish hair… | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 03:54 PM |
| 20 | How Seddit has given me the confidence to approach!Okay the way you number close is pretty simple. You just express that you enjoyed the conversation and her company, and you'd like to continue it sometime. E.g. chat for a while and then when you are about to leave just say something along the lines of "hey I really enjoyed this conversation we should continue it sometime" and hand her your phone or wait for her response and continue with "alright throw me your number and ill give you a call later". These are probably the simplest and easiest wa… | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 03:42 PM |
| 2 | mini-[FR]: daygame #-closed in 2 minutes, got asked by email to delete the # :)I'm sorry to say this, but you waited too long. You should have called her a day or two (+18h) later asking to meet up on a date. Waiting two weeks without meeting each other and still continuing with non-physical contact is a bad move. She is clearly taking distance from you, first switching from txt to email, and 2nd asking you to delete her number. You did good in the beginning though! This is at least how I feel from what u've written. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 07:21 PM |
| 10 | How do you qualify women if you don't have any non-looks based standards?And there is your answer to your question:). Someone with similar interests to yours as you would most likely enjoy hanging out with someone like minded (just add the sex). | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:38 PM |
| 8 | How do you qualify women if you don't have any non-looks based standards?Let me ask you this, what qualities do you want in a friend? What qualities do you want in people you spend time with? | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with haters(especially close friends)Haters are an inevitable problem of change. People are not used to change and especially don't like anything that sparks out of their spectrum for "normal". Especially once you start to show traits of an alpha male and your progress starts taking you deeper into it. To your friends suddenly everyone loves you, girls want to be with you, you meet new people daily, you look amazing, and you are awesome to hang out with. Except they didn't change, they were stuck in their boring daily routines they… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Share with the beginners: What trick do you use to show dominance but at the same time show that you are sweet and a gentlement?Using a variation of neutral and breaking rapport for one. Talking slower with a clear voice. Leading the conversation, deciding and changing the topics and so forth. Also using strong body language (use your hands) while applying vocal techniques. Using rhetoric techniques is also something you could look into. If you check some theory and then look at some of the famous speeches done by politicians and other important figures you will immediately notice that they are filled with different rhet… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 02:13 PM |
| 12 | Share with the beginners: What trick do you use to show dominance but at the same time show that you are sweet and a gentlement?Its all about being alpha. YOU are the one who decides where you guys go, YOU are the one who decides the topics you talk about, YOU are the one who decides that the group should get another round and bounce. Small things where you can start are making yourself more alpha with your body language. When you sit open your legs to take up space, spread your arms and dont squish them to your sides. When talking with a group or a girl lead the conversation, decide and change the topic talked about and… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 02:06 PM |
| 8 | Something that completely changed my game.Yes I highly recommend meditating for everyone and not just due to game, but generally for life. Clearing your mind is a very good step into tackling any sort of problem. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 01:47 PM |
| 2 | I've just started my journey of self-improvement, and now I'm worried that I might regress. Sedditors, please lend me a hand here.Game always applies. You have to remember that its basically what you should be naturally doing, except you are reading about the theory and then practicing it. Eventually to make it your natural response. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Question about eye contact?Dont wait for girls to look at you. Look at every single one you find attractive. One locks eyes with you for 3 seconds, dont hesitate, but just go and approach them. Go talk with them. You may get rejected, but if you dont approach them then you will for sure get "rejected". Not approaching is most of the time a lose/lose situation (rarely, but sometimes the chick might approach you, it does happen) if you approach its a win/lose situation. You get the chance to win, but with option one you can… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Progressing from opening to kissing, help!One word: KINO! Throughout your encounter from meeting to fucking kino is an essential part. You need it to make her physically comfortable around you and to lubricate your way to kissing and then to sex. I think theres a link on the sidebar to the kino escalation ladder and basically follow that. So basically when you initiate the conversation or you meet a new person, get physical with them. Shake their hand or place your hand on their shoulder for a brief moment while introducing yourself or … | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 11:10 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Best thing you could do is what puaCurveBall said, if you can't find her, then call her, if not that then ask through facebook to meet up. F2F is always better imo, you get the personal contact and body language all up in dis. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Peacocking - HatsYeah that's due to most of game being at clubs and bars as I'm a college student. My day game is generally pregame for the nights. I actually wasn't thinking of peacocking when I bought it, just bought it coz it looked nice and I like the brand, but ended up realizing that it works as a form of peacocking. Also its cold here so I needed a hat :D. Clothing wise I generally wear shirts, chinos or skinny jeans, and I dress well/fashionably. When I go out I tend to put on some brighter colored chino… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How do deal with groups?For me it really depends on how big of a group it is, and what environment. If we are talking about a smaller group of lets say 3 girls then I will not focus on the one I want to fuck, but rather I mostly just neg her while I chat up her friends. After a while ill pull off some stuff like "hey ive been ignoring your friend here for a while, im gonna steal her from you girls for a while" grab her and walk out. I don't have a before set line that I use, but just something to isolate her from her f… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How did you start out?I'm not sure if I ever had it since I'm naturally a confident person, but I did a lot of public speaking (I did have some stage fright though) in my younger years and I think that has also affected it. Ive held speeches from small groups to a couple of thousand people. I guess you could count my public speaking into my development and progress. I dated a lot of very hot chicks in high school, but ended up not getting laid that much. Obviously I wanted to change that, and so I did. Before discove… | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I was a social retardDon't just study theory, but practice hard and long. Go out and go talk to chicks once youve read some theory. | /r/seduction | 04/02/13 04:39 AM |
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