realsapist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Feeling like I've hit a wall	Inner Game	realsapist	/r/seduction	04/09/22 11:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Feeling like I've hit a wall Huh? I get their IG when I meet them at a bar or on say tinder. I’m not just DMing randos	/r/seduction	05/09/22 09:40 AM
1	Feeling like I've hit a wall Ignoring an instagram DM is no easier or harder then ignoring a text. Tbh, I don’t understand this subs’ mentality about instagram bad. It’s all the same - either the girl is interested or she isn’t. They’re all on their phones 24/7 anyway. Ignoring is a conscious decision what kind of girl are you hoping to find Honestly, I want to find a cool girl that’s relationship material	/r/seduction	05/09/22 08:32 AM
1	Feeling like I've hit a wall naw, it's not bad. besides i dont think it was a problem before	/r/seduction	05/09/22 12:53 AM
1	Feeling like I've hit a wall I'm telling you ever since I moved to this country it feels like I've come to a different planet. I don't get to the "no" point. They don't really ask any questions or make any statements beyond chitchat. most are boring as hell to text and the ones that aren't can't be bothered to actually meet up. I don't really get it. I'm not putting them on a pedestal i think	/r/seduction	05/09/22 12:23 AM
5	Feeling like I've hit a wall Every comment of yours is a youtube link. Do you actually have something to say or are you just repeating someone else?	/r/seduction	04/09/22 11:50 PM
2	Feeling like I've hit a wall I mean, yeah they're all in their 20s so they all use IG. and I'd say it's the primary method of communication here, either that or facebook. I'm not in the US Is this me not being more aggressive at closing the deal faster? Maybe the dudes here are much more direct and faster then I'm used to edit: besides, any girl who's attractive will be "oversaturated". Any time they go out they meet people. The question is, why am I getting this total lack of interest from them? What am I doing wrong?	/r/seduction	04/09/22 11:49 PM
2	it really isn't difficult. fkn tell me about it. I just moved to a new country, don't know anyone, and haven't started work. Man, it's lonely. I have little advice to give on the 'make friends' end, cause if I had any bright ideas I'd try them myself. I'm planning on starting yoga and joining a boxing club but I'm not expecting to meet anyone through this. Good luck to us I guess. On the other hand, if you live somewhere with good nature, maybe you can find a crew to go mountain biking with or something.	/r/seduction	18/08/22 04:26 PM
8	How do I sexualize a conversation? Ideally it just comes naturally just as you talk. but you can also be up front about stuff when the opportunity arises. You'll get a better understanding of this, and of timing, as you get older.. it can be hard to get with friends.. but you can use them to your advantage by going out with them and then hitting on other girls It's important not to force anything... girls, if they are into you, often do things to show that. So not being needy or pushy is really important. we all learn this eventu…	/r/seduction	18/08/22 11:19 AM
4	it really isn't difficult. Yeah I think a lot of us are used to trying to make something work on tinder but the truth is putting yourself in fun situations and meeting girls is easier then many of us think. You just have to bring good energy. On tinder you have a lot more going against you. As I say, you can be the most attractive dude at a party but if you don't/can't talk to girls then you're not going to do much.	/r/seduction	18/08/22 11:11 AM
6	I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it No need to find reasons to not believe what this guy has to say. Honestly a lot of his points are better to follow then the try hard bullshit on this sub.	/r/seduction	06/05/20 02:17 AM
11	The hard, cold truth of cold approaching. This subreddit kinda sounds like a bunch of snake oil salesmen / sketchy motivational speakers sometimes. I genuinely think that if someone wants to better themselves, they should do it on their own terms. To anyone reading this, if are struggling with how to go about improving your social skills - or finding answers to small life questions you can’t ask your friends or fam - go see a counselor. Find an independent third party that will help you figure life out. It helped me so much. This whole …	/r/seduction	03/03/20 11:44 PM
1	How do you actually improve your personality? OP, I'm somewhat a people person, but I found that when I would get too deep in playing some video games, I would lean towards being a recluse. All I would do is work, sleep, and play video games in my free time. When I would meet people or get in social situations - I would notice myself being a lot more quiet and awkward than normal, cause I was so used to being in my own world on counter-strike. going out for groceries, or even meeting people, would seem like more and more of a daunting task.…	/r/seduction	17/12/19 09:57 PM
13	Rejection Isn’t Even that Bad I took my grocery bags and left haha. It was busy and her coworker was helping her. I’ll be back	/r/seduction	09/11/19 12:15 AM
46	Rejection Isn’t Even that Bad It's really not that bad. It sucks when girls lead you on and show interest and then leave you hanging. I think the more you approach, the easier it might be to realize that hey, not everyone's out to get boned the next second. Not everyone's into you, just like you're not into everyone. We're all living our own lives. If you get good at approaching or flirting with girls - you can really change their day and make them feel great without coming off as thirsty or creepy. The other day I was groce…	/r/seduction	08/11/19 09:26 PM
2	How do i get ONS on clubs fast? What reason does a girl have want to go home with you? If she just wants to bang she could prob hit up any of her booty calls. If you can get making out with her in a club, you’re probably in good shape. But plenty of girls just wanna makeout and have fun and not leave their friends to sleep with a stranger. If you do like 25 approaches in peak club hours, you might get lucky. But if you’re also so hell bent on getting laid ASAP, they would probably smell that.	/r/seduction	04/10/19 04:07 AM
3	Depressed because I have 1 year of uni left and didnt approach alot. they're not fuckups man. missing out on having sex with a couple girls.. take a step back and think about how little that effects you. life is a marathon. unless you cop out and go into a LTR, youve got 10 solid years of gaming women easy my 30 yo friends party harder than most of my 20 yo friends...	/r/seduction	06/09/19 08:52 PM
2	Should I just accept that sometimes logic does not apply? tinder is literally your problem. it just happened to me too, she was super keen when we were texting, then flaked a couple hours before the date. accept that, as a tinder date, you are the absolute lowest priority for her	/r/seduction	06/09/19 08:03 PM
3	Three ‘Cheat Codes’ For Pulling Girls From Clubs honestly, not really. There are lots of places to pick up girls during the day. grocery/liquor stores, yoga, the library, a coffee shop, on the street, in some local bars, etc. I'd do a lot of day game and hit some local bars before solo clubbing.	/r/seduction	28/07/19 10:11 AM
14	How do hookups, fwbs and one night stands even happen? How does it work? there's a few things you can do to keep it strictly FWB Tell her either on the first or second date that you're not looking to date, you can make up whatever reason like you're going abroad over the summer or looking to transfer your job internationally or smth you should be up front about your intentions don't respond to texts like, "how was your day" etc.. you need to throw out the vibe that you don't give a shit about her, you're just looking to fuck if you've gone on a couple dates and you h…	/r/seduction	28/06/19 03:40 AM
0	Why I'm going to force myself to learn cold approach Ugh	/r/seduction	26/06/19 06:59 AM
-2	Why I'm going to force myself to learn cold approach It’s more of a respect thing. If you go often, and she does too, I’m sure you can find each other on IG at some point and message her there.	/r/seduction	26/06/19 06:49 AM
5	Why I'm going to force myself to learn cold approach I might be in the minority for saying this, but I really don’t think people should be hitting on girls at the gym	/r/seduction	26/06/19 06:35 AM
1	How To PASS ANY Shit Test (The Triple A Trick) I think it would be better to understand where you’re coming from. How, and where, are you approaching girls? Are you going out solo to college bars? Are you cold approaching? Are you on Tinder? You’re making it seem like every girl you interact with is giving you legit shit tests. If that’s the case, then it’s probably something you’re doing wrong. Cause, same as the other commenter, I’ve gotten laid enough to know there’s actually a lot of nice, cool girls out there who enjoy meeting similarly…	/r/seduction	21/06/19 08:50 AM