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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	The ''nice guy'' status. You're confusing being a nice guy with being a pushover and a follower. Most people, women especially, want someone with their own interests and opinions, not someone that immediately adopts the interests and opinions of whomever they are trying to date. It isn't about making yourself unavailable, it's about only saying yes when you genuinely want to. Say yes when they invite you to something that interests you and invite them to the things you do on your own. If you are unavailable it should be…	/r/seduction	10/11/15 11:57 PM
2	How do I send a good first message on online dating? That is nice in theory, but in practice the response rate from women even on well crafted messages that reference something specific in their profile is pretty low. It just takes too much time to read and craft a message to 50 women, only to have 5 respond, and maybe one or two of those lead to a date. The only real strategy for men if you don't want to spend hours online is to have a good stock message, send it to everyone with a picture you like, and only read the profiles of those that respon…	/r/seduction	11/08/15 09:12 PM
2	The manipulative jealousy shit test. Society has told women that men always want more and if you hesitate the only reason must be that you aren't attracted to them. Doing this is her way of saying "fuck you for not wanting me, see this guy wants me." Just don't hesitate.	/r/seduction	31/07/15 05:08 PM
3	I tried to pick up a girl in high school and, and this is what happened. What should I do?? Please help! Don't worry. You're young and you will have plenty of much more akward and embarrassing moments than this in your life. Such is life. You clearly give way too much of a fuck, though. Start by giving fewer fucks. Try /r/howtonotgiveafuck	/r/seduction	31/07/15 05:07 AM
7	[online] Great success with direct messaging Something that has worked for me in the past is a game I call rapid fire. Just open by asking 3-5 either or questions in rapid succession without waiting for an answer. Flats or heels? Bumping night club or quiet bar? Bluegrass or EDM? Aftwr she answers, either she will follow up with questions for you or you can just say something along the lines of "I like your answers. Got to know I'm compatible with someone before I take them out. Want to grab a drink?" It immediately demonstrates value by s…	/r/seduction	03/06/15 06:27 PM
1	I've had to tell 6 girls to go get tested for STDs in the past three weeks, four so far are positive. Always wear a condom from the beginning of sex, you big sluts. Didn't say it was. It is, however, an std that doesn't always present symptoms, like herpes, and my reply is thus relevant to the previous poster's comment regardless.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 12:33 AM
0	I've had to tell 6 girls to go get tested for STDs in the past three weeks, four so far are positive. Always wear a condom from the beginning of sex, you big sluts. Let's be clear, women have the same likely hood as the "bottom" gay man has of contracting HIV from sex. Men are siginificantly less likely to contact it through conventional sex or gay sex where they are only top, but they still can and do. HIV is transmitted through bodily fluid, mostly blood and semen, and the receiver of that fluid is the most likely to contract it.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 12:26 AM
1	I've had to tell 6 girls to go get tested for STDs in the past three weeks, four so far are positive. Always wear a condom from the beginning of sex, you big sluts. When I got my std test I asked the doc about HPV and he told me they didn't test me for it because it doesn't have any symptoms or negative effects in men. Well I still want to know if I have it so I don't pass it on! Wasn't going to pay for more lab work, though.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 12:17 AM
2	Is this a legit hobby? Wood working, playing an instrument, working out. Anything where you can proudly tell someone "check this out" about the results of.	/r/seduction	16/03/15 10:23 PM
2	Is this a legit hobby? It's a hobbie, but not what I would consider a good one for self-improvement. A good hobbie for self-improvement has tangible results that others can obviously see. You generally want a hobbie where you are producing something, a hobbie that has clear results.	/r/seduction	16/03/15 08:04 PM
2	I got rejected 3 times tonight .. but that's the game right you win some you lose some..My question is what is your go to phrase after saying hello Hi, let me ask you, [insert contextual question here]?	/r/seduction	22/01/15 07:40 PM
65	Making out with people at parties You thought: He's only attracted to me when he's drunk. Probable reality: He only has the confidence to act on his attraction to you when he's drunk and is having the same thoughts you are right now. Suggested action: You make the first move sober, since he probably is too afraid to.	/r/seduction	21/12/14 06:02 AM
46	Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again. This works because it forces her to make a decision and creates fear of missing out. If she says no and your friendship doesn't continue, she has missed out on you as a potential partner. As long as you stay in the friendship she can always keep you on the back burner in case her alternative doesn't work out. The friendzone is advantageous to her, it keeps her options open. You need to force the issue so that she has to make a decision where if she says no, she will forever miss out on a good po…	/r/seduction	23/10/14 03:17 PM
4	How A Natural Handled A Shit Test You sound like a blast at parties.	/r/seduction	05/09/14 11:54 AM
2	In general, is there a way to be with a woman you're already in love with? I'm a little bit confused if you are finding people you think you could fall in love with and are ending in their pants with no relationship, or you haven't found anyone in all your hookups you think of as a potential long term partner and are looking for how to find that person. In terms of finding someone you are actually interested in a relationship with, you might have to change your pickup locations. Bars are great for hookups, but going to something that interests you and finding someone t…	/r/seduction	29/07/14 03:05 PM
2	I'm tired of being quiet, what can I do? Practice using your voice. Call a friend or family member earlier in the day before you go out and have a nice chat. Read a book out loud. While driving or doing the dishes, try just saying random words and sentences, just to exercise your voice. This also helps a lot for people who mumble.	/r/seduction	21/07/14 06:12 PM
-2	I asked a girl to pay for herself on a first date. I didn't feel good about it, but felt I had to stand my ground. If the principle of the thing is what bugs you then that just makes me think you are a douche that feels he is entitled to a woman's attention and sex. If the money is the issue that makes me think you're poor. Either way, you don't come out ahead.	/r/seduction	04/06/14 07:46 PM
2	Start viewing Seduction as a BUSINESS MODEL. I mean I get it is just an analogy, but I am afraid of people taking it a little too literally. One of the biggest mistakes I see men make is trying too hard. Especially at a bar when they chat a girl up for an hour straight trying to go home with them and end up just annoying them. Give her a compliment, say a few words, make a comment or a joke, and go back to your friends. Basically get your foot in the door, then go back a little later and offer her a drink or ask if she wants to join you. N…	/r/seduction	27/02/14 02:43 AM
1	Start viewing Seduction as a BUSINESS MODEL. Improving the product and marketing it are good ideas, but I don't like the last two bits of advice much. Constantly selling yourself can quickly start to sound like bragging, and unless you have a huge list of amazing accomplishments, you end up looking like a desperate salesman. You are right, women want high quality men, but the first and most obvious sign of a high quality man is that he doesn't need to sell himself. High value men know they are high value, they don't need to prove it to any…	/r/seduction	27/02/14 02:29 AM
6	18 Years old, recent single, can't seem to be interesting around ladies. Don't tell facts, tell stories. How did you decided to volunteer at the lab and why? At what point did you decide endurance sports were for you? Even if she knows nothing about these things, she can sympathize with your thought processes, which can be interesting in itself. Same thing with asking questions of her. Don't just ask her major, ask why she chose it. Make her tell you stories instead of just facts. Facts are boring, the stories behind those facts aren't. Also, you shouldn't be trying …	/r/seduction	12/02/14 02:41 PM
1	What are good activities to meet girls when you cannot drink and have high-functioning autism? Volunteering or taking continuing education classes (like a photography or pottery class) are your best bet.	/r/seduction	16/12/13 03:04 AM
1	How can I logistically go out 7 nights a week? What is that like financially? I would like to point out that you are in college. If you even need to go to bars you aren't making the most of your classes and house / dorm parties.	/r/seduction	15/11/13 07:07 PM
1	How can I logistically go out 7 nights a week? What is that like financially? You don't need to be an expert to get a girlfriend you like. You can usually at least get two or three months of great frequent sex out of one girl. Only really need to have a good enough game to pickup a decent girl every couple months.	/r/seduction	15/11/13 07:03 PM
1	How can I logistically go out 7 nights a week? What is that like financially? I just drink before hand and sneak a little of my own booze into the club to drink discretely. Then I buy one drink, unless some girl wants to drink with me. Save your money for when you have a chance to buy two drinks. Don't bother with places with covers, they exist to keep out poor folks and most of the women there are usually looking for people that can afford expensive nights out. Unless there is a live band. Bands are worth the cover.	/r/seduction	15/11/13 06:56 PM