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| 2 | Why I don’t date career oriented womenAgreed. There are plenty of hard working feminine women out there. My fiance is a therapist and a lot of her friends are feminine, educated, and hard working. A few of them are dating right now and they either get dick bag business/finance guys that think therapy is a hoax (one guy made a scene during a date because she let her dog sleep on her own couch) or guys with crippling anxiety when talking to them. | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 03:56 AM |
| 15 | Why are girls blocking me after number close?😂 "conversation" is being nice. He blew up this person's phone with a million pointless messages. At three am unprompted none the less. You didn't ask her a single question about herself nor ask her on date. You just talked at her with banalities. Following up with a greeting, being interested in her (ask her questions to get to know her better), then follow with a date with an actual time and place. This should happen under 10 texts unless they are really into texting and seem like they need th… | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Dating 20s vs 30sShe said she'd think about it. Apparently talked to her parents. Her parents said, "Is this the part of life you want to be in?" Didn't really talk about it much after that. Our relationship went on unchanged. I am very active though. I work out, play sports, have a bunch of hobbies, travel a lot, go to festivals and dance amongst other things. I think there are a lot of biases against "old" people but if you take care of yourself and are an interested person. Your life stays young and interesti… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Dating 20s vs 30sThe fwb was an online date, but we both only wanted fwb. When it started turning into something real I told her my age. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Dating 20s vs 30s😂 not sure why that matters, not really a conversation either of us have ever cared to have. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 06:55 AM |
| 2 | Dating 20s vs 30sMy friends gave me a lot of crap as well. People seem to blow it out of proportion. It's no different then lying about your job, hobbies, virginity or w.e else people like to embellish or lie about on dates. As long as you aren't doing it for illegal purposes. I would have come clean to begin with if we were seriously dating. We were strictly fwb to start. I never planned on saying anything because we'd just go our way. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Dating 20s vs 30sI agree, sharing professions and hobbies aren't super important. That being said they can be decent indicators. IE: is fitness, a career, food, music, video games, the out doors, climate, politics? Figure out a list of things that make you really happy, discussing, participating in etc. Then find groups to participate in. Ideally, you find these groups fun, that fun shows and you are able to bond with people and share that experience. For me, I played ultimate frisbee and dated a few people who … | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 11:02 PM |
| 53 | Dating 20s vs 30sAlright this is tough. I was a serial dater from 24-30. I would go on dates with 2-3 different women a week. Eventually I'd find one that worked. Date a few months then break it off. I sourced primarily through dating apps since I worked a lot and I'm mostly antisocial. I dated about 150 people in that time and never really fell in love or felt compelled enough to want to be with them. I dated multiple women through social circles and they tended to be more attractive, accomplished and smarter t… | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 10:33 PM |
| 7 | Do compliments work?Pretty women still want validation too. It depends on the type of person. Some women place a lot of value in it. Maybe they were ugly or struggled when they were younger. It really depends. | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 04:39 PM |
| 62 | Advice for hookups during Spring BreakIn my opinion, you will do your best if you break away from your group. It's easier to work girls in pairs or small groups. Ideally if you can get girls in your group to wingman you. Be fun, outgoing and flirt. You'll quickly figure out who's down. Make sure to have a plan or place to hookup that is private. It will be much more difficult to hook up if your game plan is take them back to the lair with your competition. You could also start working girls in your group. Either as people to hook up… | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you text a girl after getting her number?Nudes | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 10:48 AM |
| 2 | What do you text a girl after getting her number?😆 | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Do you want to go back to my place?What people are falling to understand is that once women see his infusion collection they will have to help themselves to some cock as well. Tale as old as time. Come for the infusion and get the fusion. Tldr: Stop being juvenile. Women aren't tricked or eased into coming to your place by an infusion collection. Be a man and say what you want/mean. If you are ashamed of smashing they should pass on you anyway. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 08:01 PM |
| 14 | The 6 habits of highly attractive men.Normally posts on this sub reddit are terrible. These are some great characteristics to try to strive for. This is going to be a lot more difficult than the seduction "hacks" people are posting but this will fulfill your life in a way you can't imagine. I used to be a depressed gamer boy who lucked into two girlfriends by the age 22. Now I'm 34, own a successful side business, I'm at the top of my career and found an amazing partner who is starting her own business. I went through about 150-200 … | /r/seduction | 05/05/23 05:45 PM |
| 8 | Easily bored by everyone I meetThat's not really the point, nor is it a legitimate reason to act like a fool. There will always be things other people have better or easier than you. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:07 PM |
| 198 | Easily bored by everyone I meetI snooped on your profile. 33 y/o virgin following red and purple pill ideologies. Based on your posts you're jaded that women have an easier time getting laid than you and seem to be taking it out on them. Honestly it's no surprise you are having a difficult time and I can't offer you any advice besides seek therapy. The way you perceive the world and interact with it is your problem, not the women. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 09:17 PM |
| 8 | When someone says there is "lack of connection" what exactly is that?This is the most accurate response, in my opinion. The biggest mistakes I made on dates was not being provocative enough. Be physically close, compliment her physically/emotionally, engage in a way that invokes positive feelings. It seems like a fine date to bond over your love for Rick and Morty or food but man is that forgettable and dull. Most often leading to not feeling it. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 23 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)"Takes no time" - "Goes out 2-3 nights a week and sometimes on the weekends".. lol that's at least three evenings a week. Almost 50% of your free time during a week. When I dated super aggressively the online matches were bleh at best and took far too much time. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 6 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Creative writing? "I show up on a date. Say cool stuff. Bring the energy. Grab her ass. Then she goes back to my place. All in 20 minutes" Idiotic writing. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 05:28 AM |
| 14 | PSA : you DON'T have to go for a kiss on the first date (this is how I fumbled 2 hotties)Strongly disagree. Don't follow this guy's advice. Women want a confident man. Not romantically escalating or not attempting to kiss them is a sign that you lack confidence. I've been on a lot of dates (150+). Generally "the hot ones" were the ones I played it cool with. Didn't press boundaries. Didn't want to "mess it up". We had a great time. Set up another date before leaving. All of them said they weren't feeling it, come date time. Literally all of them. After this happened three times in a… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 08:59 PM |
| 36 | How do I meet girls and make friends as a loner?This is the main problem. You aren't matching with women because they aren't wasting their time on dudes more than 15 minutes away. Even if you were successful at a pub or club how would you convince them to go to your place an hour away. Looks like time for a life style change. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLI've spent a lot of time on dating apps. 150-200 dates from online. Most of the women weren't as attractive as I'd like and/or had mental issues. However, I did have a lot of success with career driven women who just moved to the area or college women looking for hookups/fwbs. Med students and PhD candidates were pretty common. I also had a lot of luck tailoring my profile for a demographic. I'm into bdsm and got some insane pulls from unsuspecting candidates. I'm an amateur athlete (above avera… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?"A lot of posts on this subreddit are pretty bad and I was very pleasantly surprised by your comment. Im not well educated on pick up or seduction. I crafted my approach by dating a lot and found it's what worked best for me targeting more serious/educated women. I think you are 100% right that a more over the top response would definitely work for a fun goofy vibe. Great response. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 22 | What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?"Instead of posing "just to be sure you're not going to steal my kidneys?" as a question, I prefer to infer it outright. For example, "Let's meet at "bills bar", it has a relaxed atmosphere and they know me there incase you try any funny business". It asserts more confidence, public acceptance and safety. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Aproaching guys during college"i" picked up a girl at a coffee shop once. I commented on her clothes (jersey from a small local team I'm in the community of). She was sweet, enthusiastic, intelligent and hinted at "needing someone to throw with cause she's new". I got her number and set up a date. I felt so great afterwards my day game was able to pick her up until I got in my car and realized she definitely picked me up in the most smooth womanly way. Find some common ground between guys you may be interested in. If you wan… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:13 PM |
| 8 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.You should play to your strengths and if you don't do well in loud environments with groups, you should avoid it. Your concern for them judging you or getting jealous shows your insecurities. Bring your lads and have a good time. If they are judgemental jerks fuck em'. If you are confident in your group/party game going out with them like this is easy to get laid. It is also good setup for repeat business and party connections. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 08:04 AM |
| 29 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.I know this is late but you should do it. It will be easier to hook up tonight and she may flake on you if she senses you aren't confident enough to go out with her and her friends. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:20 AM |
| 10 | How To Fuck Up a Date"I called her a stupid spoiled brat and told her to fuck off but the vibes between us were great". Get a grip... | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:34 PM |
| 10 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Most women are in clubs that overlap some skill and socializing which men less often participate in. Running clubs, pottery/art, soccer, tennis, climbing, volleyball, paddle boarding, yoga. There are definitely more but as most people pointed out socializing often is much higher on their list of priorities. My partner and I play volleyball and ultimate frisbee together. She says she wants to get better but will plan something social every possible free day so I'm often in the gym alone. She does… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedNot an alpha male, but a person too busy to play games over text. I'm a straight forward and to the point kind of guy. You don't need to play games if you are desirable. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:04 AM |
| 3 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedOp said he's a highschooler so it makes sense. Most women in college wouldn't even respond to this. Hell, sometimes people say work message me saying "I have a question". If I respond it's nothing more than a ? Lol. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 19 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedYou: "Can I ask you a question" Her: "Classic beta male can't even ask a question without asking permission... Next" | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?You messed up. She knew you weren't a confident man. You were way too invested in a girl you never met. (Secure attachment). You made a joke about sexual experience, THEN said you've only had sex with one person. Being sexually inexperienced isn't attractive, nor is being timid about fucking. Next time set up a date early and own up to your sexuality. If you are a bi dude that likes strap-ons? You a playboy that fucks everyday? Stop being ashamed you like to fuck hot women. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Girl ignores texts but still sits next to me in classPeople are being really dramatic. Honestly if some girl from class was sending me chit chatting texts I wouldn't respond. I'm 33 and very very rarely respond to texts. Just ask her out next time she sits next to you. If you get denied, who cares if she sits next to you? Is she harassing you in class? Be an adult and conduct yourself like one. No need to play musical chairs and demonstrate you are a child. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 6 | [FIELD REPORT] [29M] Approaching on college campuses Jan-MarThis is some of the best field report work I've seen. The one thing I'd recommend is drop the marketing and game tactics. Find an excuse to talk to people and take interest in their life. Based on your report you are getting their attention but seem to over do it after a while. This often happens trying to force high energy meetups. Force jokes. You taking too much or something along those lines. I found that I was 70% more successful when they did the majority of the taking. Most women will not… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 06:46 AM |
| 9 | I messed up and took the condom off, what would you do now?I'm so confused. You invite a chick over. You bang for some period of time Neither of you finish? Then she leaves? I feel like I'm missing something. This whole situation sounds terrible. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Should you tell a girl you're a virgin before losing it?I mean, i didn't care either way. If she wanted to bring it up, it was just a poor time to do it lol. My question, is what are you trying to accomplish by telling her? Sympathy for being bad? Alleviate your own anxiety? All things that can really turn someone off. Have sex, if it goes poorly, tell her your inexperienced and would really like to work with her to pleasure her. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Should you tell a girl you're a virgin before losing it?No don't bring it up. I was in the middle of sex with a soon to doctor (29f). She leans in and was like I'm a virgin. O.o I was like uhh... Should I continue? (We did) But literally contemplated my life up to that point for the next 5 hours. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against youIt was a great example of women not being on the same page of one another's promiscuity. My friends girlfriend felt compelled to "save her friend" who in no way needed saving. I'm guessing this guys group felt similarly. It's not inherently bad and will most likely stop being an issue if he treats the girl well regardless if it works out. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 39 | How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against youI have a small friend group. Mostly men. Most in longer term relationships. I was chatting with a friend at work, asked him what he's doing that evening, he responds with "going to some hippie party tonight". I'm like oh cool, I'm going to something similar with a woman I'm seeing. I'm at the party talking to the woman I'm seeing and I hear my friends girlfriend scream "ahhh hippie chick!!!!" Runs past me and gives her a hug. Then she turns and sees me. Literally screams. Like she is about to be… | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry?Wait for her to become a woman first 😎 | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Last minute date cancelLol, I wish I was dating during COVID. Free and easy exit out of any date. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 7 | I can’t seem to get past the first or second dateHaving sexual chemistry with someone is very important and has nothing to do whether you want a relationship or not. You are bonding with these women on a platonic friend level which they are not going on dates to achieve. You need to bond with them emotionally, sexually and intellectually. Most dating in the first few months is a game of who is the least clingy. When you start giving off "I love you vibes" you better have them wrapped around your finger otherwise they will ejecto seato right ou… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 5 | So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then?One of the few dates I got with a woman working, though I wasn't even searching, went like this: Hey, I noticed your shirt, do you play ultimate frisbee? (she was wearing a jersey). No, but my brother is a professional player! A little back and forth, she was very obviously into me at this point, asked her for her number and suggested we throw sometime. The whole coffee shop watched this interaction and we had held up the line a bit but she was totally digging it. This was easier than normal as … | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after sleeping at her placeWhen you cancel a date, it is your responsibility for rescheduling and making it up. If a women cancels on me and doesn't reschedule the date, I've already moved on. She probably has a bunch of men vying for her attention and doesn't have time chasing boys unwilling to be forward and take charge. I've bailed on 6 second dates (I legitimately wanted to continue seeing) due to being sick. 5/6 women dropped me after that. Even though I tried to reschedule. I've showed up to 3 second dates sick as h… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 08:16 PM |
| 122 | drunk texted a lot of women, what now?Seems like Op needs to work on his game during meetups as well. The fact only one woman replied with a very strong blowoff says to me that most of the women barely know who he is and never even considered him as a possible date. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Men in their 30s, how often have you hooked up with women older than you?I had the same experience. Dated a lot in my early thirties. I went through all of the matches in a 3-4 year range of myself. A lot of the dates felt like interviews for marriage. Changed my strategy to looking for casual relationships with 23-27 year olds and focus on my business. Found someone pretty quickly and within 6 months we moved in together. We now plan on spending our lives together. I was living a rather alternative lifestyle trying to expand my business and she was very flexible and… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I've been with an amazing woman 10 years younger than me for 3 years. 33 v 23. You have to remain the confident one. The leader. The rock of the relationship. The person driving your future and enabling fun. She is most likely a lot cooler, a lot more spontaneous, and fun. But she is going to be more insecure and unsure. You are there to support her in becoming the most confident, fun and uninhibited person she can be. She will love you for being there to support her and grow with her. If you gr… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?"I stalked this girl on Instagram I met once in public, why didn't she respond" - clueless dude | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Your odds aren't good that's for sure. However there is a chance. I've been on a date where the woman who was very enthusiastic and seemed happy, ended up jetting 45 minutes into it. Waved and was like I had fun!!! She texted me later in the week at like 11pm "hey want to go for a drive". I went and picked her up. Drove around the local arboretum chatting, very little warmth in her posture, I finally just pulled over and calmly initiated. We ended up back at her place where she proceeds to tell … | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 09:42 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Some people are very weary of strangers making moves on them too early. May also have intimacy issues. Normally I would have laughed it off and said I'll have to get that hug on our next date and planned something right then. If you haven't planned other dates/she isn't very responsive you are probably sol and misread the situation. If this is the case, I'd ask for feedback just to help calibrate yourself better l. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]I feel like you are being a little dense. She talks about threesome's. Invites you to hang with her friend. Doesn't want a relationship. She fucks you. Bro... I mean seriously? Stop being a "fun" guy. Stop being the "cool guy to chill with". Start being the guy that fucks her stupid, makes her cum 5 times and eats pizza afterward. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 08:39 PM |
| 3 | I feel like I’m boringThe majority of working class people are boring. Students can also be boring. Parents... Incredibly boring. As you get more and more responsibilities in your life, it becomes harder to challenge yourself and be motivated to do interesting things and be interested in things outside yourself. Yes she was boring, but also she was trying to find a common ground between you too and it seems like you didn't take the opportunity to open up.. Movies, TV, and music are conversation topics for people who … | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 11:12 PM |
| 33 | Is it wrong to ask a girl for her permission before I go for a kiss?If you are self aware enough and paying attention she will tell you non verbally or verbally when it's time (most of the time). If she says no, respect the boundaries and don't be a jerk. On the third date with a girl. She was at my place we were making out for while. I took her pants and shirt off. I went to take her bra off and she said no. We continued touching over the underwear. I tried rubbing her pussy over the underwear and she swats my hand away. I slowly deescalate. Send her on the way… | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 40 | girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attractedShe was out to have some drinks and fun conversation. When she says this, she's being polite and telling you to not waste your time if your looking to hook up. "Shit test guy" below is living in a world where all women are basic creatures that follow ape mentality. Some people do live with ape mentality "see guy below". If a woman is truly interested, the test (if they are the type) will be in the form of whether you make a move or a social test with friend groups. Most educated people don't pla… | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | I just went on 10 dates in 10 consecutive days. Here's what I learned.The most interesting thing to me is the lack of F closes when they went back to your place. In my experience 90% of girls I got back to my place I closed. I think the difference for me is I aim for sex date two. I escalate date one and leave them wanting more. Then close date two. There are exceptions where I know I can close the first night but those situations are more rare. I'm not sure how you are playing the kino game, but I'd probably give them a taste and have them chase you bit. Still ge… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 61 | 10 year age gap. Free to proceed?I (30) l met my girlfriend (21) of 3 years on tinder. Both of us were looking for a fuck buddy. A couple months of pillow talk and she asked me on a date. We plan on getting married and are happy as can be. The difference in life skills can be tricky. We share the responsibilities and if she needs help or has a question I assist otherwise our involvement in managing our home is equal. I worked with her to setup a 401k, buy and sell her first car, get credit cards, etc. Her career is as important… | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 03:07 AM |
| 4 | How do I approach an older women at work?The top part I agree with, the bottom section is mostly one person's experience which went poorly. People aren't all gossips, calling woman out directly is very sexist, people don't care who your banging, "reputation" at a grocery store job (who cares?). I've had the exact opposite experiences. Once people see and hear how you treat someone well and with respect. They tend to be more open and attracted to you. IMO give it a shot and have fun. Hopefully she can teach you some things. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 05:59 AM |
| 9 | “Do women like muscles?”This sub reddit is very entertaining. I like reading all the tricks people try to get women. In reality all you have to do is be your best self everyday. Improve your hobbies, improve yourself, relentlessly put yourself out there and be vulnerable. I finally found the woman of my dreams and it started as a casual hookup. It took a long time and a lot of relationships but I'm finally happy and hope people realize they don't need muscles to be happy. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 06:04 AM |
| 10 | “Do women like muscles?”Muscles only matter if your dating pool targets that demographic. I've dated 100s of women with my body ranging from marathon bod, lifting six days a week, to soccer bod (slim but some muscle). Only once did a woman say something. She was a competitive lifter and was surprised how weak I was lol. We still hooked up for a while and it was great. I only dated women with college degrees or were attending college. To them it was more important I was tall, fit, had money and was well spoken. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Having difficulty making female friends?It takes time and is going to be difficult with the pandemic. Most friendships I have from work are with men and were built up slowly over a year or so. We also only became friends because we shared niche interests. In order to bridge the female co-worker to friendship gap you would have to really share something in common and not be perceived as a threat, needy or desperate. This repore is usually done through work gatherings. Again since those don't exist it's going to be tough. People are her… | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life?There are women that are good enough in bed to have sex with forever. It's okay to value sex highly in a relationship but it is going to take continual hard work to keep that spark alive. My partner and I have been together for two years. The sex over that time has always been kinky, but we constantly mix it up and change the role/dynamic. Her libido is much stronger then mine. She could go 10+ times a week. I definitely can't. I try my best to make her happy. Don't force the relationships, but … | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | How do girls typically react if they find out there's an age gap between the two of you?Dating app filters don't care how great of a person you are. Normally I'd agree you shouldn't lie, but sometimes you have to 48 inches tall to ride the ride. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How do girls typically react if they find out there's an age gap between the two of you?I 32m found my current partner 22f by lieing on a dating app. I claimed I was 25 shaving 6 years off at the time. I had just gotten out of a relationship and went on too many dates with women my age questioning me about my timeline for marriage and kids. My current GF was looking for casual sex on tinder. Started talking about kinks. Tied her up and photographed her the first night looking all sexy and defenseless. A month in, after we started becoming more serious, I broke the news. Explained h… | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 08:39 AM |
| 3 | What are the best ways to capture and enter into a mans heart?It really depends on the type of person you are trying to seduce. For the purpose of this post, I'll talk about seducing a partner you plan to stay with. Be confident - In your actions, while you speak, and in your body language. (On a first date a women straightened my sweater and zipped it up. Very slowly, very confidently. She put her hand on my chest and looked me in the eyes. It was a warm gesture that made me feel comforted, cared for and connected). Be passionate - Talk about things your … | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | For those who say to ask out 300 women...The point is to talk to a lot of women. Develop your skills interacting with women. I am terrible at cold approaching. Far out of University and work a lot. I personally used online dating. All platforms. Went on about 150 first dates over 2-3 years. I was often dating 2-3 girls a week. If you are a good lay they will stay around. If you are getting laid consistently, the dates can be more easily about connecting and less about getting lucky. | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Dont chase girls they will comeI see a lot of comments regarding money or owning your own business. These things will not get you laid out right. I have a very successful Amazon business and engineering career. I play competitive mixed club ultimate. In most regards I'm very successful. MOST WOMEN DON'T CARE. I check off some nice boxes, but ultimately none of them are ever interested in the things that I spend 90% of my time doing. They would rather me draw them pictures, cook together, read books together etc. Women value m… | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | I Deleted Tinder and Bumble.I think it is a good to find ways to motivate yourself to get out there and find good matches. Maybe app game isn't your thing. It is highly effective if you are attractive, can quickly create interest or are good at portraying value. I don't go out super often since I work two jobs so apps tend to be the most convenient for me. Within two weeks of firing up apps I usually have 3-4 dates a week and close with 75% percent. Within a month, I've locked down a good FWB (sometimes multiples) and/or f… | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Stealing girls from other guysThis is part of bullet point (4) of the main post. I was reinforcing the point that women are people not easily manipulated objects with some emotional weakness. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Stealing girls from other guys"Most girls work on split second emotions" - This is condescending and strictly wrong. People are autonomous beings and make there own decisions. I have missed opportunities with women I've deeply admired because they were in relationships and I didn't give off the vibes that I was interested sexually. They later went to more alpha dudes. You can interact with married people or people in relationships in respectful ways however life is a journey until it isn't and both people have to live with t… | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 08:58 PM |
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