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35

Eh, JLaw comes across as the ultimate pick me. “Looks guys, I’m so quirky and weird and just like one of the guys! Teehee!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:30 PM
40

Same here! I’m 6’ so if a man tries to pretend he’s 6’ but I can see clear over his head that’s the first and the last date we’re having. It’s nothing to do with his height, it’s to do with him being an insecure liar. I don’t date insecure liars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:03 PM
8

My NV ex boyfriend was a ridiculously picky eater (literally ate six or seven things) but did eat Indian food. However I had no joy in cooking for him and I refused to for the last couple years of the relationship for that among other reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:23 AM
77

That plus “hatfishing” Which is used when they have a hat on in every pic to hide their receding hairline. Also the pics from 2/3 years ago where they weren’t as fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:40 PM
3

My ex did the same damn thing! They ran every test imaginable and they never found a damn thing cuz there wasn’t anything to be found. He has a bad pill addiction. My ex whined constantly about everything and anything and has severe anger problems. He is a genuine nightmare of a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:07 PM
42

He got mad at me several times for not taking off of work to take him to doctor appointments, when he did not ask me when I could take him to dr appointments. Or he’d wait until literally ten mins before I was leaving to sit for an exam before telling me he needed to go to the er when I came back to try and throw me off of my game and distract me from my test. He is a terrible, selfish, addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:14 PM
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100%. My abusive ex played the “chronic pain” card too. Which really was just a pathetic excuse for him to 1) abuse pain pills and street drugs 2) never do anything around the house or for the relationship 3) fuck up or interfere with any success or ambition of mine I do not and will never ever date a man with “chronic pain” issues ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:50 PM
1

I went home and blocked. Hard pass on cheap men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:32 PM
54

I stopped seeing a guy b/c he (on the first date) “jokingly” (or so I thought) said I could pay the bill on our second date. He asked ME on the second date! Why ask me to go pay for you? That’s cheap boy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:13 PM
60

Tries to immediately present himself as the ultimate family man, in spite of having multiple children with multiple women. This is a sign that what he says doesn’t match reality, that he crafts his own reality, that he doesn’t put forth the effort to maintain a family because he’s a pathetic, pitiful male. The first movie he watches in your apartment is a seriously fucked up film, such as Requiem for a Dream. This is a big sign that he’s very fucked up. He brings his own medical paperwork, unask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:22 PM
15

I appreciate you saying that 💖 my confidence honestly took a big hit but through therapy it’s getting better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:13 PM
113

I guarantee you 100% it was that. My ex who was 25 when he met 17 year old me talked me into getting pregnant at 19 and giving up my dreams of going into the Navy. My body was WRECKED by my child. Stretch marks from just under my rib cage all the way down to my pelvis and all down the tops of my thighs. I’ll never wear a bikini again, and being a FT mom means I can’t take the chance of something going wrong during an elective surgery to fix my stomach. It was nothing more than a territorial “cla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:52 PM
16

Men are not allowed to have my Snap. If they ask if I have one, I say no. If they ask me to get one, I block. There is nothing they need to send me on Snap that they can’t send in a text message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:01 AM
15

I agree. I dated a guy who exhibited traits of BPD (and later found out he was diagnosed as BPD as well, which was deliberately hidden from me as it would obviously cause me to make choices not in his best interest, but in mine. BPD is very real, and it is extremely destructive. I think a lot of women diagnosed as BPD really have CPTSD or have experienced too many asshole men in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:02 PM
15

Same here. I am much, much more healthy since leaving my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:52 PM
30

I agree wholeheartedly with this. I am a single mother, and a homeowner. The security of having my own home is priceless. Also it naturally makes me way more careful about vetting since there’s no easy way for me to pack up and move, so a man will not know my address unless I’m 100% that he isn’t some psycho, loser, or mooch. Btw- pro tip for the ladies here- DO NOT tell a man you own your own home. That’s the quickest and easiest way to attract gold digging, N/LVM. Always say you rent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:22 AM
5

Cut and run. The first lie you find out about isn’t the first lie he’s told. Read the hand book, and never settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:30 PM
5

Agreed entirely. I’ve yet to meet one man who games and isn’t a boring, single faceted man boy. I’ll never date a gamer again. I want a real man, who has real man hobbies like building stuff stuff around the house, fixing cars, hobbies of value. Games add no value to anyone’s life. It can be good as a way to unwind, but I’ve yet to meet a single “man” who games who can balance gaming and household/parenting responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:27 PM
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Or another variant: my boyfriend wants me to sell my house and use the profits to buy one for both of us. WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? That’s your money, your down payment. Jesus every time I see a post like that I die inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 12:54 PM
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No matter what you do, he’ll make you out to be the villain. May as well be the best one 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:20 AM
26

I would never ever tell a man how much I am worth financially. It doesn’t concern him. It only concerns my son since my son is inheriting everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:37 PM
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Conveniently missing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:35 PM
31

It was actually overwhelmingly NTA. I was so surprised by that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:35 PM
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We’ve all heard way too many stories of men killing their partners. Statistically, we’re more likely to be killed by a man we know. This is a giant red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:27 PM
40

Or “have you tried just being happy?” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:37 PM
15

Exactly. He’s going to bet on her not willing to “throw away” 20 years, he’s not going to step up. When men have to be told to step up 1) they don’t WANT to! They’ve already shown you you aren’t important 2) they’ll only do it for a limited time and then slide right back to being a bum ass dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:19 PM
45

My ex is that way. One of many reasons we broke up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:22 PM
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Yessss!! Also want to add: 1) don’t make choices based on a relationship. Men can (and will!) leave whenever a “better” option comes along. Don’t forgo your education, career opportunities, going into the Navy/whatever for any damn dude. He will NEVER make the same choice for you! 2) never ever buy into the “starving artist” type. They’re not “artistic”, they’re fucking lazy leeches who will suck every drop of blood and money you have and then move on to another victim. 3) Focus on school, money…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:38 AM
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I had a guy who insisted “dinner dates aren’t good first dates” and suggested going for a walk as a first date. Fuck that. I’m not interested in broke, lazy, cheap men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:57 PM
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During a rally I think. I can’t believe he said that. I feel so bad for their kids. I don’t feel bad for Kim though. There is no way she didn’t know what she was getting into with that loon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:03 PM
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I also would love to read the Miranda rampage. I loved her character so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:18 PM
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I have up signing up for the Navy for my LVM boyfriend, later husband. Shortly after he convinced me to have a child way before I was ready and later admitted to thinking it would “keep me”. I do not regret my son. I love him. I love being his mom. But I wish I would’ve have had him later in life when I would’ve been set up better to provide for him and myself. The regret is fucking brutal. Men will NEVER turn down an opportunity for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:55 AM
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Like it is redeeming or something. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 09:35 PM
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Like he just brushed on by it and hasn’t addressed yet that I’ve seen whether or not his wife knew. And he complained about how stressed out he is. It’s like winning loser bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 03:37 AM
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Honestly I can’t even count how many posts I’ve seen where the dude is shocked his wife or girlfriend got the std he gave her. What the actual disgusting fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:02 PM
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Appearing in family photos LOL is this in reference to that post from a new boyfriend who threw a complete tantrum over not being in the Christmas photos a while back? Classic entitled male behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:22 PM
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Because for LVM/NVM any and everything is always a woman’s fault. These dumbass loser men are incapable of taking accountability for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:07 PM
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I am both, in equal measure, saddened and relieved to know I am not the only one to experience this mistreatment by a “man”. My ex is an extremely passive aggressive, insecure, loser. I am someone who feels connected via physical touch. Not just sex but also cuddling, hugs, etc. He was EXTREMELY controlling over our sex life and weird about it. There’s certain aspects of that part of the abuse I experienced that I’m not yet comfortable talking about because they were so mortally wounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:47 AM
16

Agree!! At this point I’m only interested in myself. Not raising another balding, pot bellied 40 year old miser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 12:09 AM
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I was done with my own pick me bullshit at about 31 lol. I agree, that’s when women really learn their own power and strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:44 PM
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By “something wrong with her” what they mean is she didn’t bow down to the nearest Scrote and beg for his pathetic attentions. That’s why they perpetuate these stereotypes of women over 25 being “used up” and “too old”. Because they know women over 25 have too much common sense and usually too much self respect to settle for garbage treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:12 PM
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It’s really not at all but it’s nice to see some typical male bullshit as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:04 AM
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Lol wow. So you’re clearly not open to anything other than “men right, women wrong”. You’re a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:54 PM
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No, it’s accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:47 PM
2

That wasn’t at all what I was “bitching” about lol. Way to miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:41 PM
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Or, perhaps women didn’t want to live or die by a marriage and instead wanted to be financially free to make their own choices rather than only having one career option as “homemaker”. You seem to be very confused as to what the reality is for an average woman. Best of luck with your limited perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 05:07 PM
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I disagree. Women are blamed for how men behave constantly. Men are viewed as bumbling fools. Look at commercials and television. Women are supposed to balance everything, figure out everything, while the men just throw their hands up in confusion. Men get to act like helpless babies while women have to constantly take on the bulk of the household and emotional labor even while working the same amount of hours or more. Even online, women are blamed for men raping and stalking and killing them. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 12:39 PM
3

That’s a really good idea! I’ll have to see if I can order stuff online through Joann’s!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:11 PM
12

Wow that’s some audacity on his part. Unreal how entitled these LVM behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:00 PM
34

Same here, which turned into a four year horribly abusive relationship. Never again. I will never allow myself to be in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 12:54 PM
16

Oh, shit. I love this. WWDPD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:17 PM
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Agree. I hate this. It’s nice to want to be known but I’m not interested in being some dudes escape from his reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:37 PM
3

I agree. My ex, who fits the diagnostic criteria for BPD with some very heavy covert narcissistic traits was very interested in keeping tabs on me once I wanted to leave. I blocked him on everything. He left many voicemails in his patented “I’m being a reasonable person, so you should be reasonable and respond to me and agree because I’m so logical and reasonable” asking to talk to me but after four years of abuse, physical, sexual, psychological and emotional I could hear the boiling rage under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:21 AM
11

Oh my god, my ex did that shit and had the audacity to be mad that I’d call him out on his shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:46 PM
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Oh he definitely got blocked. So much yuck in his one message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:14 PM
3

Yes! 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:57 PM
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I agree fully. There was something off about the conversation prior to that, but I was thinking maybe I was too jaded. Lol. I’m not. Dude is weird and creepy and wrong. He definitely seems to be Boundary Pushing Master. Not for me. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:24 PM
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I’ve learned so much from being here that I’m genuinely honored to have helped another woman learn. Settling isn’t what we’re doing in 2020! My standards are as high as the list of stuff I bring to the “table”- after the last dating disaster it’s going to take some real talent for a guy to get me to agree to a relationship and I’m going to be on the look out for fuckboi Shit the entire time. My ex was an abusive circus. I’m not putting myself through that again. I hate to sound so jaded, but unt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:21 PM
14

Absolutely. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:38 PM
43

It’s really unsexy though. If my only value to him is free labor, I’m not interested. Also, his timing was off putting too. “A few successful dates” doesn’t even imply relationship status. The more I think about it, the more I’m convinced this dude isn’t so much a clown as he is the entire circus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:22 PM
54

Honestly the assumption that he was entitled to my labor pissed me off way more than the “wet dream” bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:51 PM
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We hadn’t even met yet. We were texting for maybe two hours. I have no idea what he could have possibly been thinking. Unless there’s a ring on my finger, what’s his isn’t mine and therefor isn’t my business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:48 PM
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Exactly. All of those roles involve someone else GETTING something from us. The second list involves us GIVING something to ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:36 PM
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Me too! I’m definitely eager to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:24 PM
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Oh, darn 🤡🤡🤡😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:33 PM
5

Jesus, is that all it took? What a sad, spineless sack of a “man”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:23 PM
5

Agreed. I’m a strong woman. I get shit done myself. Usually I’m punished for it because men are threatened by actually strong women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:47 PM
8

Aw, poor little angry men. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:47 PM
14

Honestly I don’t blame you one bit. Single fathers are looking for a mother, not a partner so they can dump the parenting work on them and avoid doing anything themselves. I’m not overly opposed to dating a single father (I’m a single mother), but I am NOT being a replacement parent and I’m not going to be rushed into moving in together and taking on the role of a replacement parent. I’d only consider dating a single dad if he actually actively parented his own child/ren and wasn’t looking for a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:40 PM
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Because it implies that they will not get to be lazy losers with us. And that threatens their fragile little egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:27 AM
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LOL all sorts of LVM Shit. “Well it’s a Great way to get to know if your compatible with someone! You’re judgmental!!$;&” “Your profile is so negative. Maybe you wouldn’t be single if you were more open minded” Open minded doesn’t mean open legs, NEXT! “You seem like your high maintenance” Good, I am. Goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:25 AM
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Gross. God they can’t even manage basic reading skills. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:19 AM
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Men sent me so many hateful messages because I specified that I do not do “FWB” or one night stands. They really out here thinking they deserve all the women to be just drooling over their mediocre selves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:16 AM
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Plus you’re teaching them how to trick other women. I’m too pro women to teach lazy LVM how to fool one of my sisters. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:56 PM
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This was such a helpful and insightful post for me. My abusive ex LIVED to withhold sex from me. It’s was absolutely a tool in his abusive toolkit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:49 PM
5

I agree we need a balance between stigma and gross men thinking it’s okay to give someone herpes or HPV because it’s no big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:43 AM
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I’m really tired of people trying to normalize STDs. Honestly the last thing I’m trying to catch is fucking herpes or any other disease. Throwing statistics at me doesn’t make me any more eager to get any STD/STI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:01 PM
6

Yep, that’s exactly it lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:55 AM
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I dropped a guy for expecting/making me pay on the 2nd date, while pushing to come “meet my cats” for the third date. Fuck LVM as an entire subspecies of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:13 PM
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Or the ones that do have major damage issues. Sorry but most healthy 20 year olds want someone their age, not a daddy figure who will undoubtedly benefit from the power imbalance in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:20 PM
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Correct. You are the side piece, if even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:59 AM
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Holy shit. A treatment resistant Borderline is nothing to fuck around with. My horrifically abusive ex was one of those. Bad news, all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:56 AM
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I can't count how many dudes in their 40's wanted to "eventually" start a family. Dude, you're practically a goddamn dusty mummy....what are you waiting for? No one wants your ugly old sperm. Oh, the wild, wild world of online dating. The more I spend time on FDS the less I ever see myself settling for some sad sack of a dude. I clean, I cook, I invest my time in myself and my child. I don't need a grown ass manbaby who, at 40 is thinking about "eventually" settling down and having a kid, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:31 PM
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My ex once lied to me about watching porn while it was on the TV and he was staring right at it. And argued with me that I couldn’t prove he was paying attention. The lengths LVM go to is insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:57 PM
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Or C) he likes seafood and didn’t give a shit that she was allergic. I don’t gamble, but I’d put some money on C
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:37 PM
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I’ve always loved this movie! Maybe we should make a listing of FDS approved movies? I know we’ve discussed a few horrible Pickmeisha movies, but having motivation of how to be rather than how not to be could be cool!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:48 PM
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The type of men who send hate mail are the same types of low value men we're trying to avoid. They know they bring nothing but the audacity to the table and are fearful of women realizing it. Self-esteem only threatens someone if they stand to benefit from its absence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:15 PM
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Fucking amen. Do not waste your time doing wife shit for a boyfriend. Until there is a ring on my finger, he can stuff his expectations up his ass. Would like to point out that this entitled attitude men have is due largely to Pickmeishas. Those LVW will bend over backwards doing all kinds of wife level shit for a long term boyfriend, and worry about "pressuring him to marry me". This is the kind of bullshit I will forever protest against- since when is having standards pressuring someone? I'm n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:14 PM
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Oof- your last paragraph - that’s what makes me feel bad for the next person my abusive ex dates. He’s probably going to learn from all my tricks that I used to get away and that’s going to make it that much harder for someone else to escape from him. I’m so fucking tired of being told by men and Pickmeishas “oh porn is nOrMaL and you should accept it otherwise you’re controlling!” Fuck that. If some dude would rather save his sexual energy for porn than he sure as fuck doesn’t need me in his li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:32 PM
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Amen, sister!! I do less work now than when I lived with a partner since I don’t have to clean up after a full grown ass man child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:13 AM
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It allows them to put forth the least amount of effort while insisting that the women should put forth the most amount of effort, which is usually how the relationship goes. Women put in 99% of the effort and energy in a relationship as it is anyway, and these leech-y low value losers now want to leverage "female empowerment" to convince low value Pick me Pattys to do the most amount of energy in the beginning just so they can absorb the ego boost of feeling wanted and desired for the next to no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:17 PM
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I will never date or bother with a broke dude. First off, if he can't provide for himself then he's not going to be a good partner for me. I'm not asking for the dude to be a millionaire but if he isn't financially savvy, like I am, I'm not interested. I want an EQUAL not an anchor and broke ass dudes love leeching off of high-earning women. ​ My abusive and terrible ex made good money, but would whine and complain and cry about being broke when we needed to buy something for the house. Guess wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:09 PM
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Who was the lowest LVM I’ve seen represented in film since fucking Aladin 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:02 PM
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IIRC, wasn’t Aidan a good guy? It’s been a really long time since I watched it but I remember wondering why Carrie was with him because he’s nothing like the usual douchbags she goes for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:04 PM
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God, I freaking hated Carrie. SaTC was a very problematic show for how Pickmeisha the cast was. Even Samantha! She had that one guy she was very Pickmeisha for. Carrie and Big was the worst example I saw of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:44 PM
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I always threaten to send it to the cops. Makes them suddenly realize they’re doing something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:22 PM
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Someone on this sub gave me a brilliant response to say to this “I don’t judge people based on a checklist, rather I look for what each individual brings to the table” or some variation of that. Worked brilliantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:21 PM
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Same here. When I did the trash heap that was OLD, I’d instantly unmatch a guy after he would “casually” bring up wanting my phone number more than once. I’d give a standard answer of “I’d rather chat here more first before giving out my information” and then within the next couple of messages they’d predictably bring it up again. Instant unmatch. I’m convinced many of these duds want girl’s numbers as a means of pumping up their sad self esteem even if they don’t text/talk to/meet them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 10:17 PM
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Seriously Gina is kind of goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:43 PM
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Oh my god. That’s disgusting. We stayed because we didn’t know better then. We know better now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:47 AM
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He had a lot of problems. However he’s not my problem anymore ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:41 PM
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My ex (a low value man if there ever was one) talked about sex WITH HIS EXS after sex with me. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:35 PM
8

Oh amen lol. I forgot how often I see that as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:27 PM
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Gross men do that. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:14 PM
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God won’t send you anyone else’s husband, dumbass (not at OP, but at the other women)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:13 PM
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Oh my god, did you date my ex? Lol. He’d get SO PISSED when I’d bring up stuff from the past. If it’s happening now, it ain’t the past a-hole! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:12 PM
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The silver lining I’m taking away from it is I’m still young (32) and I own my own home and have people who love me. He has no friends. No support system. His own family didn’t even want him around (oh, the red flags we miss when we have those rose colored glasses on!).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:28 PM
14

I get honestly super pissed when I think about the time I wasted on a super LVM. All the shit I did for that dude. Efforts made and never returned. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:20 PM
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I remember seeing a very popular post on a group on Facebook where it was discovered that more than one LVM pees in the sink for reasons no one will ever understand or be able to rationalize. I honestly think every one of those dudes looks like the pic on the right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:16 PM
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He’s not the best father either. He would’ve planned his day better to be there for a longer period of time. Men really don’t need to be praised nor do they deserve it for doing literally the bare minimum, least amount of effort Shit. This is why LVM think they’re all God’s gift to women- because their low effort gets highly praised. A good man, a HVM, a GREAT father would’ve been there when the book fair when it started. You know, like a mother would have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:42 PM
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I’m 100% that my ex will tell everyone I was crazy. I wasn’t crazy. I was abused. Repeatedly. I wasn’t crazy. I was gaslit. I wasn’t crazy. I was repeatedly lied to by someone who knew the truth would cause me to make choices that didn’t benefit him and only him. I wasn’t crazy, except for staying with the sorry, limp dicked, lame ass, unsupportive, sorry fucking excuse of a man for four years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:50 PM
6

They complain about that but get mad when we point out they want to use us as a living flesh light. The fucking hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:43 PM
14

This is exactly the reason why I share this stuff on my Facebook. Project men NEVER appreciate the women who work on them. They dump her Pickmeisha self and work on getting a HVW. I share this as a reminder that there is never a good reason for getting with a Project Patrick dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:12 PM
19

Agreed. She didn’t set him free. No woman I know is lining up to adopt a grown ass man. He left her and she’s trying to feel better about him using her to level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:30 PM
90

She did all of that for him to marry some other woman. This is why I’m such a hardcore believe in FDS. I’m not spending that effort just to be tossed aside, and that’s what men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:29 PM
23

I think it’s less about him, and more about her. She’s carrying herself how she wants to, regardless of his shitty behavior. She’s respecting her desires, beliefs, and staying true to herself. Does that make Date Dude less creepy? No! It doesn’t change the grossness of the interaction at all. It lets her hold her head high, as she should, that she’s above behaving like an animal. I say often that it isn’t the best of times that reveal who a person truly is, but rather the worse. In the best of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:36 AM
7

One of many good reasons I got divorced. I do less work now than when I was married or in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:24 PM
10

I spend at least an hour to two hours per day. That’s not including cooking. Just general cleaning. I have four cats and one child, and between them all I’m pretty busy. Plus my house only has wood floors, so unless I stay on top of it it’s fur central.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:50 PM
5

Same here! It’s tough as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:48 PM
8

Honestly I can do this (not bragging), but it is freaking exhausting. I’m a single mom. I have no back up. It’s just me. It’s a lot. I’m glad men are finally realizing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:48 PM
7

Thank you for this. My abusive ex got SO MUCH WORSE after counseling. I’m convinced they only taught him how to better hide what he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:37 AM
3

Greece?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:36 PM
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