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that's like saying you don't understand a movie any better from watching versus getting a 10 second plot summary from a friend. Yes, reading - ie., focussing on a topic for 20 hours - will educate you far better are far more deeply than reading the cliff notes.
/r/seduction21/07/14 04:24 AM
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yeah - I like this definition. I think a big part of what makes a girl uncomfortable is when they don't really understand the guy's behavior and actions. So if you go up to your sister or a friend - somone you know - and do a bunch of shit to make her uncomfortable just to fuck with her, she won't view it as creepy. She's uncomfortable but she understands why, she understands and trusts you. When a random guy is talking to a girl in a way that she just doesn't understand, or his actions, intenti…
/r/seduction19/07/14 06:55 PM
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2 things. I usually just offer up a day and a time to get a drink 1., I would stop "offering", as you put it. Be more firm, like you already know she'll move mountains to spend time with you. So, like, "hey, Wednesday at 8 I'll meet you at <some place>". Not, "how does your Wednesday night look?". And 2., if she's flaking you haven't established much attraction and/or repoire with her yet. If it was Brad Pitt asking girls out nobody would flake. If the chick is flaking she's not sure about you. …
/r/seduction16/07/14 11:37 PM
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started doing freelance software development. Now I run a tiny boutique consultancy.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:41 AM
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got dumped by a girl that could not possibly dump me. This was a girl who was pining over me for years and I finally went out with her. We dated for maybe 7-8 weeks and she dumped me. I woke up; how had I gotten to such a low. I'm a good looking dude, was once a collegiate athlete, I run my own business now and make a solid income. But I could never get the girl. I was a nice guy. I was afraid of sex. I was a lot of unattractive things looking back on myself. I was physically very attractive but…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:58 AM
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I think the shit tests are more subtle, ie: not as aggressive, as you're suggesting. Shit tests are her forcing you to react or make a decision. She's subconsciously figuring out how you view yourself. Consider Brad Pitt. Let's say he picks up some 22 year old nobody at a coffee shop. They fuck for a few weeks, she's enthralled of course. One night she says, "I want to go <do some boring as shit with my friends> and you should come <be a pussy and have a terrible time following us around>". What…
/r/seduction14/07/14 04:58 AM
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I've had this discussion a few times with friends. You have the right to feel however you feel. You can set boundaries of any type at any time with anyone. Your leverage is how close you're willing to be with her. She is welcome to keep being flirty but then you won't date her, or you won't hang out with her, or you'll cut her completely out of your life. That's your leverage. If you were Brad Pitt and met and asked out this chick. Then she was a bit too flirty. And you, Brad Pitt, asked her to …
/r/seduction12/07/14 03:00 PM
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ah, man. this stuff just enrages me. I need to go drink some wine and relax. bye.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 02:50 AM
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it's like calling you spoiled because you have clean water to drink. typically women don't have to learn to get rejected so they're pretty afraid of situations where they might get rejected. How many times have you heard a girl say, "i know he likes me but he won't ask me out" and then she's told to ask him out and she's like, "no way. that's too scary". it's just the way it is. They never get rejected so if you give them your number they'll be too scared to call it.
/r/seduction15/06/14 05:18 PM
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it's like $15k that can be gifted per year before you have to pay taxes. And if you sell someone something for less than its value they still have to be taxes on the appraised value of course, not on the purchase price. So if OP's dad has a net worth of $15k and wants to protect his $7.5k from his wife... well, I doubt either will hire an attorney so this strategy would probably work.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 12:40 PM
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If he pays taxes twice on his estate he'll end up paying $50%+ to the IRS. And I'm pretty sure it wouldn't work anyway. You can't just divert funds to avoid legal obligations. That's illegal. I get the frustration on this subreddit but it feels like 18 year olds playing armchair quarterback sometimes; the actual advice given around here for anything of a more mature nature is typically abysmal. The advice offered here is to knowingly break the law and donate 60% of his estate to the IRS, with th…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:46 AM
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OP will have to pay taxes on it all, right? And then OP's dad will pay taxes when it gets transferred back. Also, if OP's mom can prove to the court that this is why OP's dad did it then I'm pretty sure she can get her cut anyway.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:05 AM
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nice job man. It was a breakthrough for me when I realized women were more attracted to me when I just do whatever the fuck I want and tell them to come / lead them along side. Mexican food, a bottle of wine, and sex? Fuck yes. All those guys awkwardly wining and dining chicks at restaurants they don't understand or like and then awkwardly doing whatever they think they're supposed to do next are tragedies and I'm glad to never be one of them again.
/r/seduction24/04/14 03:26 PM
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if you texted her and she didn't respond at all it means you didn't create enough attraction when you were with her. She will likely flake. Go ahead and try to set up a date though.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:48 AM
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hi <her name>. We never talk. What's up? don't overthink it
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:40 AM
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thanks. I downvoted myself. That guy is stupid.
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:57 PM
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Coachella already happened
/r/seduction17/04/14 01:19 PM
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What would you have done differently if you just wanted to be friends? Probably nothing. That is your problem. It is better to try and build attraction and act like you want to get her naked than to just sit around pretending like you want to be her friend. She'll either go along for the ride (all the way to pound town) or reject you at some point. Either is better than slowly wading into the friend zone.
/r/seduction17/04/14 05:36 AM
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You should never play hard to get. You should not be needy. Treat her like you like her but you've got a couple models calling you everyday trying to come over and fuck your brains out. Do you like this chick? Sure. Are you going to pursue her? Yes. Do you really give a shit? Nah, not really.
/r/seduction16/04/14 03:29 AM
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I think he said she came to his place for lunch and he slept with her. I imagine it's partly to be discreet since they're both somewhat cheating on their SO. Late night dates are harder to hide from others.
/r/seduction15/04/14 11:20 PM
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I think the trick is to not BE needy. An example: Imagine for a second that you're Brad Pitt. You're a super handsome multi-millionaire actor. OK, got it? So you go out and you start chatting with a super cute chick in a coffee shop. You can tell she's into you - of course she is, you're fucking Brad Pitt. Now you can pursue her or you can not pursue her. But in that pursuit if she's bitchy or stand-offish or doesn't seem very into you, are you going to pout and cry and chase after her and tell …
/r/seduction06/04/14 08:18 AM
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it's not common. it's just a thing I've seen a few times. Outliers for sure but I just don't understand it especially through the lens of Red Pill. Just curious if others have noticed something similar and had a better understanding. It's basically 22-25 year olds who seem to have the goal in life of "meeting mr right", falling in love, and getting married. They want it so bad that any guy becomes Mr Right and so they're quickly attached to the first guy who likes them and then they're quickly m…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 12:36 AM
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It feels like they watched too many Disney movies and then when they reach some predetermined age they feel it's time to fall in love and get married. That's what it feels like. The guys are always goobers. Like very unattractive, socially awkward, have little motivation, bad jobs, live with their parents, etc. It seems what they have to offer is the willingness to be in love instantly and that's all these girls need.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:14 PM
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yeah. all of the relationships are very young. I think the longest lasting so far is they've been married about 18 months and just had their first kid. I've lost contact with all of the girls so I'm not sure if they're happy or not. I was curious if or how - assuming the girls stay attractive - those relationships would last.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 05:48 PM
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It's not a problem I've really ever dealt with but I always saw it as unsolvable and you just blew my mind. Cheers.
/r/seduction07/03/14 06:32 PM
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if you don't feel comfortable keeping it going you should talk to more strangers. Talk to everyone you come in contact with - just a hello to start. you'll find it's pretty easy to carry a conversation once you're standing there, having a conversation and feeling comfortable with it. The anxiety is what fucks everything up but it also prevents you from trying and realizing how easy it is. so talk to strangers. baristas, waiters, old dude on park bunch - all of them. in like a week you'll be here…
/r/seduction02/03/14 04:30 PM
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I'm new here. Do people think men and women are attracted to the same qualities? Even the most cursory observation would suggest that is nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 03:15 PM
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I've been going through something similar and feel the same way. I'm not super into all the tactics but the self-analysis and self-improvement stuff is touching on some painful stuff for me but I can feel myself starting to improve and mature. I'm really grateful for reddit and this sub.
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:47 PM
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I wrote out some long winded response to this and then deleted it, I'm not sure if you saw that. We're kindred spirits though. When I first saw your post on my phone I got confused and thought it was something I had written but I couldn't remember writing it. I've had my head down and been working my ass off for years at every area of my life but relationships. They're such a painful point. I am a very confident and secure person in the workplace or in the gym or wherever, but when it comes to b…
/r/seduction18/02/14 02:13 PM
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thanks man. I think this is the nail on the head. On paper I'm actually pretty accomplished but while I'm successful at so many areas of my life I seem to always fail with relationships and I seem to also define myself by how desirable I think I am to women and thus a women choosing another guy over me is devastating to my self-esteem. I guess that a women's actions have such a grip on my self-esteem is the crux of the problem and ultimately a symptom of low self-esteem. thank you.
/r/seduction17/02/14 07:36 PM
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