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C) you are still a bitch overly concerned with an unimportant comment.
/r/askMRP16/02/24 11:02 PM
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OYS 30 Age 36, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF 15% Married 6 years, together 12. Have 2 under 5 and a newborn. BP = 235 x 5, Squat = 295 x 5, DL = 340 x 6, OHP 150 x 5 Health: Continue to hit gym and maintain diet after now over a month with newborn. Feel very satisfied that I am keeping this up, but honestly I like doing it so it makes it easier. My numbers have essentially maintained even though I am getting 5-6 hrs of sleep split up into 2-3 chunks which I have been pleasantly surprised with. On…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/23 04:31 PM
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OYS 29 Age 36, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF 15% Married 6 years, together 12. Have 2 under 5 and a newborn. BP = 235 x 5, Squat = 295 x 5, DL = 340 x 6, OHP 150 x 5 Mission: To be unapologetically me with all my faults, successes, and desires. To assert what I want and not waiver in even the slightest of moments, however trivial they may be. Health: Got 15 lb away from 1000lb club before I had my newborn recently. Frustrated that I didn’t hit it but it is what it is. With a newborn now and the a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 07:38 PM
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Your whole post is about her. Did you do anything except think about how she feels or let her walk all over you? Quit reading the more advanced stuff and reread NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/23 06:15 PM
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OYS 28 Age 36, Height: 5’9, Weight: 176, BF 17% Married 6 years, together 12. Have 2 under 5 and a third on the way. (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 240 x 3, Squat = 315 x 2, DL = 355 x 4, OHP 155 x 4 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male Reading: Dati…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 07:50 PM
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What a sucker
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/23 07:01 PM
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OYS 28 Age 36, Height: 5’9, Weight: 174, BF 15-16% Married 6 years, together 12. Have 2 under 5 and a third on the way. (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 240 x 3, Squat = 315 x 2, DL = 355 x 3, OHP 155 x 4 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male Lifting: F…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/22 04:53 PM
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OYS 27 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, ~BF 14% Married 6 years, together 12. Have 2 under 5 and a third on the way. (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 240 x 3, Squat = 285 x 4, DL = 345 x 3, OHP 160 x 3 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male I’ve been de…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/22 07:08 PM
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I’m honestly not that concerned with finances, although may be naive here. We both make in mid hundreds and I make about 20% more than her so I don’t think it would be devastating and I don’t think I’m the type of person who would let money dictate a decision like this. My biggest concern is losing big time on seeing my kids or having guardianship over them. I get that shit might not go my way at any time in pursuing a divorce but this just seems like the worst time if I am focused on custody.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/22 09:58 PM
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I get what you are saying and you are probably right. It just feels like the deck will be stacked against me if I pursue divorce during pregnancy/breastfeeding which would have long term consequences.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/22 06:19 PM
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OYS 26 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 169, ~BF 14% Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters under 5. (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 240 x 3, Squat = 285 x 4, DL = 345 x 3, OHP 160 x 3 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male Fitness and discipline: O…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 02:53 PM
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If you can OHP 150, this is a problem you can solve unless you're married to a whale I don't want to worry about domestic violence charges. I'm not at all scared of my wife and know I can throw her aside. If I pick her up or anything she will escalate and fight back. ​ Seriously, just grab your keys and go for a walk. Is she gonna hold you the whole way? Yes, she will chase after me or get in the car with me. I truly try to leave, have made extra spare keys, etc. Doesn't matter. She doesn't back…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 08:00 PM
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Standard advice is STFU hard about divorce until you are ready to serve papers and pull the trigger, I think that applies in your situation. I know that its recommended to not start talking about divorce, especially early on. However, I find I'm at a loss of what else to do to assert boundaries when major ones are being crossed. Walking away never works as my wife chases me down and will block me in room or hold on to me. I cant really get physical. I asked for advice here a while ago but the th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 03:35 PM
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Pre-MRP I got very little respect. I get some now at least and it seems to be getting better overall as I keep improving myself. Not sure what you have read but I caught my wife sending texts to her old boyfriend about loving him or missing sex with him while she was 4 months pregnant with our first child (so like 4 years ago). I only vaguely remember the messages now and she grabbed the phone away so I didnt read much. I only stumbled on them by accident and had no clue otherwise. It definitely…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 04:06 AM
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OYS 25 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 171, ~BF 15% Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters under 5. (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 230 x 3, Squat = 245 x 4, DL = 285 x 5, OHP 150 x 3 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male Reading: Iron John, An As…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 03:55 AM
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OYS 24 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 174, BF 16% (bulking) (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 215 x 5, Squat = 275 x 5, DL = 315 x 3, OHP 145 x 4 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male Reading: Day Bang, How to Win Friends and Influence People Health: Bumpi…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 03:05 PM
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​ The other day I told a joke about jerking off to the lady selling Kombucha at the farmer's market. I really appreciate hearing this as I struggle with being uptight in social situations. Its a glimpse into how lax and absurd a conversation can be and where I need to practice and get to.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 03:59 AM
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OYS 23 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 174, BF 16% (bulking) (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 205 x 7, Squat = 275 x 5, DL = 305 x 5, OHP 145 x 2 Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk, The Rational Male Reading: Day Bang, How to Win Friends and Influence People Rereading: Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 02:47 AM
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OYS 21 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 172, BF 16% (bulking) (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 195 x 9, Squat = 255 x 6, DL = 285 x 7, OHP 130 x 8 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk Reading: The Rational Male (aud…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 04:14 PM
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Fair point
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 02:41 PM
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OYS 20 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 172, BF 16% (bulking) (Doing GCZLP, weight/reps are T1 AMRAP) BP = 190 x 8, Squat = 245 x 8, DL = 275 x 8, OHP 130 x 8 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk Reading: The Rational Male Exte…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 04:09 AM
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OYS 19 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF 15% BP = 175 x 8, Squat = 235 x 8, DL = 285 x 8, OHP 120 x 9 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk Reading: Man’s Search for Meaning Health: Upping daily calories by 100 as bulking…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 03:21 PM
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OYS 18 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF 15% BP = 175 x 8, Squat = 235 x 8, DL = 285 x 8, OHP 120 x 9 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method, Atomic Habits, Better Small Talk Health: Changing up my gym routine from 5x plan that I got from Bigger, Leaner, S…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 08:43 PM
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I reread my comment and see how the way I wrote it made it come off as me coming in for my reward. This situation happen to be different. I left out that she called me in when she woke up to come see her. I told her I still have 15min left and after I was all done outside I got in bed with her and initiated.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 03:20 PM
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What makes this choreplay vs taking ownership? My wife doesn't even give a shit about our yard.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 12:29 PM
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I was rule 9 banned before you wrote this 2 weeks ago but really appreciated you identifying a key area where I was failing and calling me out for all of this. I've thought a lot about this, reflected, and implemented some changes. I outlined a few in my recent OYS
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 03:40 AM
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OYS 17 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 171, BF 15% BP = 175 x 8, Squat = 235 x 8, DL = 285 x 8, OHP 115 x 9 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 3x NMMNG, 3x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method Reading: Atomic Habits ​ Vision and Leadership: u/man_in_the_world responded to my last OYS after I got rule 9 bann…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 03:35 AM
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OYS #16 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF 15% BP = 175 x 7, Squat = 235 x 8, DL = 265 x 8, OHP 115 x 8 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, 2x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method Reading: Atomic Habits, Rereading NMMNG and WISNIFG Boundaries: I focused on boundaries like I mentioned in my las…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 03:58 PM
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Fair question. I should have never put up with this but only now feel like I have the tools and mindset to do something about it and turn it around. Fortunately, there have not been punches or any physical harm. I am going to keep enforcing boundaries and see where it takes me. This is only the first time I have completely stood up to this behavior and I need to see how things play out.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 11:57 PM
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My wife is very assertive and doesn't back down easily. She blocks the door way and if I try to push through she pushes back and the physicalness intensifies. I don't want to get physical with her and get domestic abuse charges and the past two times she was holding our 1 year old.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 01:54 PM
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I probably used the word boundary incorrectly. I'm really just enforcing rules and being consistent and following through. For example, I'll say, 'If you keep shouting at me I am not going to continue playing with you", and then will stop playing if she screams. Or if I ask her a question several times right in front of her while she is watching TV and she doesnt respond, I'll say "I am going to turn the TV off if you don't respond", and then turn it off. ​ I wouldn't say I am doing anything out…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 09:28 PM
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OYS #15 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 168, BF 15% BP = 170 x8, Squat = 225 x 9, DL = 265 x 8, OHP 110 x 10 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, 2x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method Reading: Atomic Habits, Rereading NMMNG and WISNIFG Reflection after my askmrp post: I posted last week on askmrp …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 04:14 PM
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Realize that a boundary is getting crossed. Consistently enforce as soon as boundary is crossed. Refuse to continue in conversation or anything with her until she stops (restraining me, insulting me, forcing me to say anything) ​ “I am not going to continue talking to you until you stop xyz” “Your behavior is unacceptable in a marriage and I won’t tolerate it” u/Blarg_Risen suggestions "I understand you're upset. This is not the way we will handle it. We can talk later when you calm down." "What…
/r/askMRP14/04/22 02:41 AM
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Helpful, thanks.
/r/askMRP13/04/22 09:28 PM
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I know this and try this myself but I guess suck at it. My wife is relentless after I broken record her 100 times and there is a kid crying in the next room. I guess I need 101 times like it says in the book or just improve my tactics.
/r/askMRP13/04/22 06:52 PM
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I like this and will use this if need, thank you.
/r/askMRP13/04/22 06:50 PM
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I really appreciate you looking through my history and spelling it all out in detail, thank you. Its painful reading this and realizing how I have continued to let this behavior in my life and essentially accepted it by not enforcing any boundary. It is making me realize how little I have established boundaries throughout my life, especially to the extent that is demanded in enforcing them with my wife. I think that, as well as an underlying lack of self-respect is what has made this so difficul…
/r/askMRP13/04/22 06:49 PM
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OYS #14 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 167, BF 15% BP = 165 x10, Squat = 225 x 8, DL = 265 x 8, OHP 110 x 7 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, 2x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk, Sex God Method Reading: Atomic Habits, Better small talk, Rereading NMMNG Health: Over past month I started to plateau in lifts a…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 06:55 PM
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OYS #13 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 166, BF 15% BP = 175 x7, Squat = 215 x 8, DL = 235 x 8, OHP 120 x 5 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, 1.5x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, The Way of the Superior man, Book of Poon, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk. Reading: Atomic Habits, Better small talk Health: My daughter and I had the flu this past week. Fortunately, my case wasn't too …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 04:00 PM
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OYS #12 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 168 , BF 15% BP = 175 x7, Squat = 215 x 8, DL = 235 x 8, OHP 120 x 5 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Journey start: 11/1/21 Have read: 2x NMMNG, 1.5x WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, and The Way of the Superior man. Book of Poon. Reading: Better small talk, how to talk so kids will listen and listen so kids will talk. Lifting: Lifting was starting to plateau and a subtle spine irritation i…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 02:19 PM
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OYS #11 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 167 , BF 15% BP = 175 x7, Squat = 225 x 5, DL = 275 x 5, OHP 120 x 5 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Journey start: 11/1/21 Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, and The Way of the Superior man. Book of Poon. Reading: Rereading WISNIFG, Sex God Method I left my last OYS off with thinking about why I get anxiety over doing new things and why I always liked following rules (r…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 04:05 PM
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OYS #10 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 165 , BF 15 (Navy). BP = 175 x 5, Squat = 225 x 5, DL = 265 x 5, OHP 120 x 5 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Journey start: 11/1/21 Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, and The Way of the Superior man. Book of Poon. Reading: Rereading WISNIFG My grandmother died this past week at the age of 101. She was a strong character, gritty, depression era person who never complained…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 04:46 PM
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OYS #9 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 165 , BF 15 (Navy). Single rep estimate BP = 200 (+10), Squat = 250 (+10), DL = 280, OHP 135 (+10) Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, and The Way of the Superior man. Reading: Book of Poon about 75% through Health: Workout 5x a week and diet is on point. Focusing on bulking now since Feb and it seems to be going well. Weighing myself daily …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 05:09 PM
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OYS #8 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 165 , BF 15 (Navy). BP = 190x1, Squat = 240x1, DL = 280x1, OHP 125x1 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, and The Way of the Superior man. Reading: Book of Poon about 75% through Fitness: Moved from cutting to bulking this past week after successful cut. Working out 5x a week in gym regularly, counting calories and protein intake. Doing great…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 10:38 PM
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OYS #7 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 163 (-1) , BF ~13/14% (-1%) (Navy). BP = 190x1, Squat = 240x1, DL = 280x1, OHP Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger, and The Way of the Superior man. Reading: Book of Poon about 60% through Who am I: A few central tenants connected with me through reading TWOTSM, the Book of Poon, listing to various podcasts and recalling various literary work…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 04:38 AM
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OYS #6 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 164 (-3lb), BF ~15% (-2%) (Navy). BP = 190x1, Squat = 225x1, DL = 275x1 Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 50% MMSLP, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger. Reading: Book of Poon and The Way of the Superior man, both about 50% in. ​ Health: Crushing this. Working out 5x a week, even when I had mild covid (did workout at home for these days). Also tracking my macros and calories and hitting…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/22 04:00 PM
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You seem in a similar place as me in terms of our progress and how we view our wives and our interactions. Just started listening to The Way of the Superior Man and it is helping me come to terms with male/female psychology and with the bitterness I get like you seem to be having. I'd suggest giving it a shot. Book of pook too.
/r/askMRP25/01/22 03:23 AM
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I believe you are right but I haven't thought about that much so it must be going over my head. I try to be open and direct always in regards to initiations but am clearly missing something. Can you elaborate on what I should change?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 03:41 AM
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I see the blankets down by the fire one for sure but can you help me identify others I'm not seeing?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 03:36 AM
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OYS #5 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 168, BF ~16% (Comparing images on internet). Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 2x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 25% MMSLP, sidebar multiple times, 16 commandments of Poon, Bigger, Leaner, Stronger. Found MRP about 2.5 months ago Lift/Fitness This area is in full force now. I have always worked out consistently throughout life and last week transitioned from hard home dumbbell workouts (during Covid) to gym 5x a week. I read Bigger, …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 09:20 PM
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OYS #4 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 168, BF ~16% (Comparing images on internet). Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: 1.5x NMMNG, WISNIFG, MAP, 25% MMSLP, sidebar multiple times, 16 commandments of Poon Found MRP about 2.5 months ago Lift/Fitness: Went to gym for first time today and it felt great. Had been doing difficult home dumbbell workouts 5/6 days a week and am in good shape but difficult to add bulk with just dumbbells. My diet plan it to cut 5 lbs in Ja…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 10:35 PM
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Your OYS #3 sounds a lot like my situation so I appreciate you sharing it. Reminds me that this road has been traveled by others and is reassuring. ​ What do you mean you have mentioned it (major nukes) in the past? Are you wishy washy about wanting a relationship with her or are you clear about it? If YOU'RE talking about this at all this is definitely somewhere you need to slow your fucking roll. It basically plays out where she says she doesnt want to be with someone who XYZ (describing her v…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 05:01 AM
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OYS #3 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 167, BF ~16% (Comparing images on internet). Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, 25% MMSLP, 50% MAP, sidebar multiple times. Found MRP about 2 months ago I was 14 day banned for breaking rules #9. It gave me a lot of time to think and reflect. I started this journey as most do because of marriage issues, fighting, and lack of sex and so while I have read numerous times that this transformation should be center…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/21 08:27 PM
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OYS #2, cont. Family Frame: My parents were in town this past weekend to celebrate my daughters birthday. They can be very controlling people who assert their own way and for whatever reason, it seemed beyond normal this weekend, unless I am just noticing these types of things more. Constantly telling me to do things a certain way or not listening to rules we have about our household was just infuriating. I have always had trouble when I was younger sticking up for myself with my dad, although I…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 10:17 PM
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OYS #2 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF ~17% (Comparing images on internet). Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: NMMNG, WISNIFG. About 25% through MMSLP. Read NMMNG 2 months ago. Found MRP about 1.5 ago Why I’m Here: OYS #1 Lifting/Health: I have started increasing my weights and intensity in workouts as now I see a bigger purpose than just staying in shape. I do intense adjustable dumbbell workouts following a youtube trainer 5 days a week so workouts have…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 10:17 PM
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Thanks for the link. I was starting to think along these lines and this helped spell it out for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/21 12:28 AM
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OYS #1 Age 35, Height: 5’9, Weight: 170, BF ~17% (Comparing images on internet). Married 5 years, together 12. Have 2 daughters 3yr and 1yr. Have read: NMMNG, WISNIFG. Just starting MMSLP. Read NMMNG 1.5 months ago. Found MRP about a month ago Why I’m here: My wife and I have huge fights often and our sex life has been about once a month roughly for about 4 years. Part of that I rationalized as dealing with 2 pregnancies and a miscarriage, but I knew she wasn't attracted to me but didn’t know wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 03:54 AM
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