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| 2 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Oof... Well 20s means you hopefully have plenty of time ahead of you. At least you won't fall into this trap again. I only sensationalized the title because the video was soooo worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:30 AM |
| 8 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.That's what I love about this strategy, because the timeline becomes irrelevant and the focus is put on your newfound ability to choose. Time only exists when the woman is waiting for a man to decide if he wants to marry her. When the man is in the position of waiting, there is so much less pressure on the woman because she has options. No longer are women put in a position where they're hoping one day the boyfriend they're head over heels in love with will propose to them. You could date a man … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 02:45 PM |
| 31 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.She recommends to keep a rotation of men and not becoming exclusive with any of them until he actually provides you with marriage. The ones that don't take you seriously get dropped as simple as that. You don't have to get hung up over any of them, and this level of detachment makes it so crystal clear when someone's playing games. It's a very "no bullshit" approach, basically "Here I am, may the best man win!" Of course each woman can always tell a man who proposes that she'd like to wait a bit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 09:35 PM |
| 12 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.I guess the only way to find out is to learn yourself. I've known 1000% since I was a little girl and if the right man is providing and respects every single last one of my boundaries, I'm really not concerned with time. The amount of time doesn't really seem to be a factor in the success of a relationship. There are plenty of women who shacked up with a man for 20 years and never got the ring, and there are plenty of women who married after 2 weeks and stayed happily married for the rest of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 10 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Thank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Damned if we do damned if we don’t..Lmao I just noticed my mistake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Damned if we do damned if we don’t..Oh yeah of course. When you don't have brawn, use brains to get what you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:45 PM |
| 17 | Never date a guy that’s into animeHow dare you objectify your girlfriend and try to create a delusional fantasy out of her, you creep! In the name of the moon, I'll punish you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 74 | Damned if we do damned if we don’t..Stop caring about coming off as rude. He's the rude one. Bitch=Broad In Total Control Of Herself. I take pride in stepping on toes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Now they want to fuck your URETHRAWell ladies, I have OFFICIALLY seen it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 45 | Unless he's consistently investing his resources in you, he has no place in your lifeIf you're "unworthy", it's likely that ALL women are "unworthy". You're not being singled out. He just hasn't reached the point of wanting to invest in any woman and it's not your job or any woman's job to change him. He'll change only when he personally wants to. It's 100% his issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 01:52 AM |
| 16 | After becoming exclusive/official for a while , what is a way that one can disclose one is a virgin in the most FDS way possible? Should it be casually mentioned or more formally ? Etc .I'm in the same boat so in the past when I've leaked my business it's come as a shock. I've learned my lesson. Personally, I'm not saying anything until I'm ready to have PIV sex. Not right when he's on top of me and about to put it in, but when I'm certain I want to have sex with him soon. That will give him enough time to either mentally prepare himself or to weed himself out before he's had a chance to hit it because "he needs experience". That will also give me enough time to vet and make su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Drunk agAin and accusing me of cheatingLeave him then go read the FDS handbook, stat! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 01:27 AM |
| 20 | More Bad Advice From RPWI don't mind the actions necessarily. The problem is more that she's doing wifey things when she is not his wife. I'm not going to prove I'm a keeper to someone who hasn't proved to me I should keep them. And that age difference-- whoa baby. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 09:56 PM |
| 26 | The realisation there are not enough HVM in society and some of us will likely be single forever and never marry.I actually posted something on this today. This was something I had to get over too, and I know I'll still have days when I get anxious about it. Some of us on this sub toss up our hands and begrudgingly say "Oh well!", not realizing we're devaluing ourselves by buying into the idea that there aren't enough good men for us, and somehow all the good men will be taken up before we have a chance to find one, even though we'd love to find love. I believe it stems from self worth. Remember, HVM are b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 03:09 AM |
| 6 | For those of us who think finding an HVM is next to unreal. Being single forever may be a reality for some of us, but you create a high chance of finding a suitable partner with your mindset first. Align yourself with your desires. You deserve it.Most women who end up with HVM didn't get there by telling themselves it was unrealistic for them and there's not enough men to go around. They concerned themselves only with securing what's theirs. It's more productive to assume and believe that you have what it takes to get what you want. A lot of life is self-fulfilling prophecies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | For those of us who think finding an HVM is next to unreal. Being single forever may be a reality for some of us, but you create a high chance of finding a suitable partner with your mindset first. Align yourself with your desires. You deserve it.I needed it too so I figured there were plenty of other HVW who needed a little reminder of their value 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 11:37 PM |
| 13 | Can't tell if my feelings are justified or if I'm being extra/pettyI'd walk. No one I'm involved with would have an interest in thirst trap pics. They'd have better things to do with the time they spend, even on social media. His true colors would've shown sooner or later. They just so happened to show sooner; less time wasted on your part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:14 AM |
| 12 | MUST WATCH. To all the women who silently lurk FDS—here’s how you can figure out if you are a Pickme.Love Asha 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Is he playing a game here?It's hard to tell about him from your description, but I would lovingly suggest you take a look at what you think about yourself and your self worth and the kind of man you believe you deserve. Saying things like "I don't even know why he's even hanging out with me" because you believe you're average, or "I don't know why he's being nice to me" isn't productive in building yourself up so you naturally attract the kind of men you want. It's not your job to figure out if a guy likes you. You're th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Is he HVM or LVM?The handbook addresses this: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/df9bcn/dont_split_the_bill_millennial_men_creeping_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:13 AM |
| 5 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherI wish we as a whole would stop falling for it. If we had each other's back and relied on other women to validate us instead of men, I doubt it would be as easy for men to get away with treating us poorly in every facet of life. I hold us responsible. Everytime we stand up to men we move forward as a sex. The only time we're stagnant is when majority of us submit to the other team. We set the standard. Women will never truly unite with men and create a whole species of humanity, until we unite w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?Telling him is like handing him a cheat sheet to your dedication. Then he'll know exactly what to hide 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Could you call him if you were in the hospital? If not, DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM.I'm a late bloomer, so when I reached my 20s and really tried my hand at dating, I was unpleasantly surprised to be met with a barrage of guys who only wanted to fuck. No one warned me about this. Luckily I came to my own conclusion early, thinking, "These guys literally don't care about the being inside of my body. It's as if they want me only because I'm a warm human fleshlight. A masturbation toy." And yet all I see (in this culture at least) is women fooling themselves into thinking the casu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Being ok with your single statusThis might go well in the handbook. A lot of us come to FDS with this fear, and also have had traumatic experiences due to this fear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:13 AM |
| 34 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?I haven't yet had a "true" boyfriend, but back when I entered college at 18 and finally learned to fix up my appearance a bit after being a no-esteem slob in high school, I started texting this guy on kik (😷). I was super depressed, hated myself, and placed him as the sun in my planetary system. He text first, saying "Show me your tits", and after talking I thought I had successfully roped him into being this sort of "pseudo-boyfriend". He only ever sent 5 pictures of himself and REFUSED to send… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 03:12 PM |
| 10 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?Still new here and figuring out myself, but I feel like the message is that if he doesn't make it ABUNDANTLY clear he's about YOU and you alone, you need to drop him like a hot diaper. Plus he's lying. If you're not willing to deal with this behavior if you're married to him, you don't need to deal with this behavior at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 02:44 PM |
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