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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Sadly, I think the end of the community is hereHe kept thinking of his sister during this...? You're really sweet for considering that a possibility but I think you're an awesome guy and I'd like to keep us just siblings | /r/seduction | 08/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Handsome but awkwardSolid advice from the dude above. I would also add, don't be too quick to accept labels. They may be accurate or not right now, but there's no evidence that those mental labels are real, much less incurable. Many people have found freedom by not accepting the label or dropping it at some point as it no longer applies to their situation/internal experience. Identifying with "having" social anxiety or "being" an aspie will just prompt your mind to filter information and reactions from that identit… | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 02:13 AM |
| 3 | "Non-sexual" ways to turn on a girl on a date?Non-sexual? Can you elaborate? I think you possibly mean covert. Touching is sexual and honestly it can be kind of a huge turn off to be touched, especially when a guy is thinking about it. Being comfortable touching others is sexy because it expresses confidence about the ultimate social taboo, entering someone's bubble of safety distance. It's powerful, especially to the weaker sex. But it's hardly ever the case that men are truly confident with physical touch, even if they do it heavily and o… | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, what men's cologne gets your heart racing?Seen fine men spend a bunch on manfume. Also seen fine men spend cheaply. I once bought a giant cologne bottle for 1$ at the dollar store as a joke because it said "compare to Armani" but it was no joke delicious when I sprayed and it became his signature and always got a lot of compliments. The key, like everything, is to switch it up every once in a while and NEVER apply more than one spritz. | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I dont have an isea how to flirt ant be sexual on datesIncredible. I used to be a nymphomaniac and it depleted my energy considerably, but now I haven't had an orgasm or the need to for weeks, it keeps me focused and energized, I'll use other methods to relax instead like focused breathing. I've also successfully pulled sexual energy up my spine all the way to my heart chakra before, but I cannot bring it past this into my throat, but I heard done successfully can deepen the voice and make words more powerful and masculine. Have you been able to do … | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | I dont have an isea how to flirt ant be sexual on datesCan you elaborate on this? I've seen it in practice be true but it's difficult to accept. | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 04:52 PM |
| 5 | I fucked up...Sounds like it can be recovered and she sounds like an intelligent woman. The whole thing might've just been that she got too stoned, I gathered that from the bit about long silences and awkward convo... also can make kissing and other social interactions awkward because you can get stuck in your head and make meaning out of things that aren't meaningful, or at least in the way the mind takes them (the nature of hallucinogens, sometimes they help us find meaning, sometimes becomes us trying to s… | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 01:45 AM |
| 3 | How do you be MORE romantic? How do you talk to your girlfriend different than normal friends? Improve Romantic connection?I really want to accelerate this process. Kill this mindset. Everything that is great grows slowly, the things that grow fast do not last. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Ok. Im going to a park to smoke weed with my friend. How do i make a move?Stop wanting it so bad. Let go of the outcome. Be upfront with your intentions. Make all choices with a spirit of fun. Relax, breath. Practice more. Fail more. Repeat until you're a master. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I was obsessed with cold approaching and game. Now I got a girlfriend, but can't stop cold approaching. I find myself automatically starting conversations with random girls nearby. How do I stop? My habit and identity keeps making me do that bc I invested so much time into learning this.I dunno, maybe it's just your comfort zone or some childhood issues with your identity and how you saw your parental figures (what was your parent's marriage like?), but the belief that being married and cold approach aren't comparable just isn't accurate. Maybe, yes you could/should tone it down slightly if it would make you more comfortable with the image of a "taken/loyal man"... but honestly it's not as big of a deal as you might expect. My husband and I learned cold approach and Seduction t… | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 02:53 PM |
| 2 | I was obsessed with cold approaching and game. Now I got a girlfriend, but can't stop cold approaching. I find myself automatically starting conversations with random girls nearby. How do I stop? My habit and identity keeps making me do that bc I invested so much time into learning this.Why do you want to stop? Asking for my curiousity and for your own clarification. Maybe if you get clear on your desires/beliefs then you will be able to follow through with achieving/following them | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 04:20 PM |
| -1 | How to be good with kids?If that's your belief and you don't want to change it I wouldn't want to pressure you anymore, but if you would like to look at it critically I'd be happy to continue to conversation and share my resources on the latest science and good podcasts and stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/19 08:07 PM |
| 0 | How to be good with kids?I know it goes against the mainstream. It's the red pill of parenting. Are you saying that you believe a 2 year old wouldn't understand happy facial expressions like a smile unless the adult purposefully exaggerated it into a toothy grin? That's what I meant by cringy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/19 07:26 PM |
| 0 | How to be good with kids?Be fun like you normally would, be fun and engaging like you normally would. No acting necessary. can certainly read emotion, especially when it’s made plainly obvious. It is plainly obvious, acting or forcing emotion convolutes reality. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/19 07:15 PM |
| -2 | How to be good with kids?If kids communicate nonverbally why not just communicate like you normally would nonverbally? Big expressions are cringy. It's like a tourist in Mexico saying english (or Spanish) really slowly and loudly... uncalled for and disrespectful, even if you're not meaning to be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/19 07:04 PM |
| -1 | How to be good with kids?Cringe. This isn't respectful to kids. Babies and toddlers want someone who can be real with them. You don't have to put on a show. Everyone does that because everyone is uncomfortable around kids. Be real. Show them you're not afraid of connecting with them on the same level. Show them you don't have to fake anything, that the reality isn't uncomfortable or something you're trying to escape with them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Sad, crying everyday after the weddingIf the comment was about circumcision, it's changeable. It can't be reversed, yeah, it sucks. You can't get it back. But you can restore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/19 06:57 PM |
| 12 | How long does it usually take to move on after a relationship and be able to fall in love again?I had this experience and it's truly gutwrenching. My condolences. I recovered 5 months later when I decided that I would never be interested in a man again, then I met my husband. Been 8 years, he has never once spoken of leaving because I wasn't "his type". For fights, yes, for logical issues yes, but never for that BS reason. And the weird thing is it's not even a BS reason. It's true, you're not his type and he's not yours for reasons that will become apparent in the years to come when you a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a healthier lifestyle?Thank you for the authentic and full response. My concern was honest but you are studied and know your body. Pardon if the worries came off obsessive or controlling. I feel a little foolish. All matters equal, I value people who have the courage to have confidence in their own methods and test what works personally instead of relying on authorities or never coming to a conclusion, sometimes I fall into that trap and women like you are inspiring to becoming more comfortable with leading and lovin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a healthier lifestyle?Poor digestion of dietary fat is a huge health concern. You've studied nutrition, have you studied minerals? The ratio of copper to zinc is incredibly important for health and digestion of fat, and low fat diets create a dangerous imbalance that might not be reversable. Particularly affected are the liver and digestion,14 which are already hampered by increasing deficiency of zinc. As bile function and digestive vigor decline, difficulty with meat and fat develops. Legions of light-diet and vege… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Audiobook suggestions wantedLaws of Human Nature by Robert Greene His other stuff is pretty good, but this latest book takes the cake. Very balanced compared to his other stuff, very mature perspective and works well for women at any point in their journey. I'm reading it right now and its so applicable that even before finishing it, I've already went back for seconds. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a healthier lifestyle?Butter and egg is the only nutritious food items on that comment. Butter, specifically, makes your pants fall off. Edit: if you're interested in this I can point you to some good resources, I've been studying nutrition for nearly a decade. I've had two kids and lost the baby weight twice, very easily, while restoring nutrients. Actual nutrients that I can specify. Not "fruits, grains vegetables". | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/19 03:34 PM |
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