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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | When is Reconciliation Worth it? | recon_or_fuckit | /r/askMRP | 10/04/16 04:28 PM |
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| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?I know. I know the right thing to do, I'm just being weak with her physically present. I guess I knew that this sub would smack some sense into me, which is what I need for even entertaining the thought. Have her getting on a plane out of here and I'm determined to end this thing once and for all. I clearly did not conquer my Oneitis and I am trying to hamster away what she did just because I got some strange during our separation too. You're right: fuck being Plan B. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?I've realized I have codependency issues. I was with my wife for 10 years, from age 22 through 32. She was my whole world...so even when I see the abundance around me now it is so hard to break seeing my wife as this magical unicorn. Like I literally feel nothing fucking new women. No feelings other than physical. I need to get used to the "new normal" of being single and focusing on abundance rather than building up one woman as so important and special in my mind. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?Congrats on the flat, man. See, I already had the bachelor pad and was starting to spin plates then she appears in my life again like a ghost and it undid all of that illusory progress I thought I made. I had been seeing a new girl and felt happy about life. Then the stitches got ripped out and I'm swimming in my own weakness again. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?Jesus, man. Your story cut me to the core. I am codependent. You nailed it. Fuck. Sounds like you're going through your own battle. I hope you are able to move past this, too. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?I'm sure you don't remember but you gave me feedback/advice that was just as insightful as this a year ago when I was mustering up the courage to leave her the first time. So thank you again for responding. I'm trying to figure out what the hell is wrong with me. I guess co-dependence is probably the answer, which I can grasp on a logical level. But, it feels so wrong to leave her when she is physically here and begging to atone for everything she's done. Crying and hyperventilating from the fea… | /r/askMRP | 11/04/16 02:10 PM |
| 3 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?Thank you. Looked that up and that post from Rollo is dead on specific to my situation. I'm behaving like a woman, focusing on the present breakfast and blowjobs in bed instead of long term self-respect and peace of mind. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/16 05:03 PM |
| 5 | When is Reconciliation Worth it?I know, man. You're right. I am weak right now and even though I can run this problem through the "What would a rational, healthy man do?" Test and know this conclusion, my mind is splintered because of that weakness. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/16 04:58 PM |
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