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| 218 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation) | recovering_beta | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 06:29 AM |
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| 3 | I have been to my 35th Tinder date. Crosspost from r/TinderI remember reading a post here of tinder profile analysis where they used eye tracking to track where users looked on the photo and pointed out what is likely to be unsuccessful. It is likely because of your profile image could be poor posture/with friends better looking/just not interesting enough I would search for tinder profile analysis or something. | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 12:41 AM |
| 11 | girfriend subreddit?To be honest, seduction goes on much longer once you have the girl, continue to seduce her, don't let her forget the reason she chose you in the first time. don't lose yourself. (e.g stop working out, getting complacent in the relationship.) There is always /r/relationships for relationship advice. | /r/seduction | 01/10/12 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Discussion topic: How can a man be the initiator, but also make her chase?Key is Show, you don't need to tell. so many times people miss read this. Never tell her you "like her", Show her. | /r/seduction | 26/07/12 10:46 AM |
| 1 | PeacockingI love to suit up because it reflects my personality and confidence this is a major importance when dressing, when you wear something you dont feel right wearing or its the wrong size it can just look wrong. In my town its really pathetic the fashion of males, i once got slack for wearing a shirt and trousers saying "girls don't like that", i simply looked at the guy in old tshirt and jeans with run down sneakers and simply said, whatever works for you mate. Pretty much i cant always wear a suit… | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 10:53 PM |
| 4 | Breaking out of armchair modeMomentum! Start with the cab driver, move to the bouncer/chicks outside the club, just hi move on, move to the bar keep, and keep the flow talk to EVERYONE and dont stop, keep a smile on ur face and have a mean time. MOMENTUM. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 07:20 AM |
| 2 | How does one proceed after you find out she has a boyfriend?I find the set up great, but the last line can be a killer, as sometimes the girlfriend actually likes the guy and he matters to her. (also depends on the way it is said ect) I prefer something like: "Oh my bad, i thought we were talking about things we lookafter and feed twice a day" | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I am SASHA DAYGAME - and I will help you GET SOME SEXY GIRLS IN YOUR LIFE! Ask me anything! :)Recently getting into night game and with people that aren't looking for relationships. Any overall advice on Highly attractive girls that get allot of attention from the guys and is sick and tired of being told how good they look ect? | /r/seduction | 29/02/12 10:17 AM |
| 4 | From fireworks to fucking STATIC. How to best reinitiate?Girls hate it when you are up front and logical with they way you really feel, in the future don't say anything but reassure them that you do care about them and they aren't just another notch. Some people just smirk, others go look them in the eye and kiss them and don't say anything. tl;dr: Dodge the question in a non asshole way. | /r/seduction | 28/02/12 08:39 AM |
| 1 | How women you put on pedestals really feel about it...Protip: Create small business become Director of a company. | /r/seduction | 17/02/12 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Recently Single and looking for some advice..Sidebar, be alpha, as soon as you get there talk to a woman to get over AA. Work on state as you are walking to the house, build that attractive alpha guy you are stand up straight(imagine tugging your hair up and body following) and open without thinking. go to party make sure you have talked to everyone guys included. and Bloody hell don't be outcome dependent just have a good time its a party. focus on the moment not on what will happen later. go in expecting nothing and the world will offer … | /r/seduction | 16/02/12 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How to make myself look more attractive?Questioning the whitening teeth, do those crazy gadgets with the UV light work, or am i better off getting whitening strips or getting them professionally done? | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Using a suit to "peacock"Plausible deny-ability (was just at a wedding) i would suggest doing it with a few others dressed up aswell. when if its just you and everyone else is casual. sure you get looks and the odd whistle, but if that turns into more, who knows. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Challenge me...Do this 5 sets, 3 numbers and you cant go home until you do it. Shop keepers don't count (they cant be paid to talk to you) | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 10:24 PM |
| 6 | [FR] I failed hard todayNot a failure man, shes not going anywhere. work on outcome Independence and enjoy the ride. For me i did this to a shop attendant walked off and just out of the store i said "wtf am i doing get back in there" walked back in direct and asked her for her number. Because i always know the regret is always more painful than the action. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I need help changing the view I have of myselfThis what i did to overcome my AA Pretty much keep this advice in mind, They don't know how lame you are, they don't know your not interesting, they don't know how attractive the rest of your personality is. Don't EVER make that decision for them, don't ever say "shes too good for me." bro. let her find that out on her own don't make the decision for her, thats just not fair. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 03:38 AM |
| 1 | A simple method to lift the stress of being friendzoned..."You friendzoned yourself" only one to blame is oneself. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 03:30 AM |
| 1 | So something happened today.Bravo, keep it up this FR really reminded me about my first few, you are on a great path to enlightenment sir. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Silence is golden.. mini FR.Just watched that movie today, yes. | /r/seduction | 03/02/12 02:50 AM |
| 2 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)Good idea, that was definetly a major role, the fact to say get out of it just do it. One of the hardest things was just actually going and doing it, for me i turned the "if u don't talk to her you are beta, you are a loser, don't be a loser just go say hi, its easy" Try find something that will push you to make that step, making someone proud, not wanting to look bad, wanting to fulfill your image of the best you can be. | /r/seduction | 28/12/11 09:56 AM |
| 3 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)If its shyness they look back soon after too see if you are still looking. Also i have found facial expressions, something i just picked up on with doing, i suggest doing the same. experiment and see what you find. i think if they look around, and are looking more busy or give the vibe "Ugh hes looking at me i didn't mean to look at him like that" But the look back is probably your best bet. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 09:35 PM |
| 1 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)Good to see you are working on them, smiling doesn't come natural in todays depressing society. I find for me to help with my ability to smile is to simply be happy, be content with everything, be happy with yourself. its all about state, be happy and comfortable. like they say improvement isn't just in one aspect, and to be a good PUA you need to be happy with yourself before you find happiness with anyone else. So simply as you work on your state of mind, be happy be the fun guy that is always… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 09:22 PM |
| 3 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)Great question, Just don't look away first, let her look away, just looking at someone isn't leading them on, i think we are here on seddit because we like to over think and analyze our interactions with other people, most people don't bother as it comes natrually i have found, most people won't remember that conversation we had, wont remember your face ect. i have txted people for a week, and have them say "i'm sorry do i know you? you look familiar ". I mean worst case smile, show her hey im h… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 09:11 PM |
| 2 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)Thanks, i would love to see a post reach the sidebar, i figure when i first came here this kind of thing was lacking, and i just kind of came up with it on my own by miss matching different posts here after reading a few weeks. | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 09:04 PM |
| 3 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)As was mine, i once had eye contact with the girl i mentioned above, she gave me the Level 7th look of this, just after i read that article and understood what happened, and i had missed my chance to get off my ass, never again i tell you. i would recommend this reading to everyone starting to discover women for the first time. The levels of eye contact | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 09:00 PM |
| 3 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)Thanks, close i do hear the accent is similar, but you are safe unless you ever travel to New Zealand. So true, but also i find its important to be friends with the enemy too, me i try to seduce everyone(nohomo), there are ways to use it to your advantage with guys aswell, just don't kino, but you can still do the DHV, talk them up, make them feel special ect. its great to have a ylarge social circle expecially while clubbing, as i find it (in my town anyway) girls are almost impossible to break… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 08:53 PM |
| 15 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)TL;DR because wow that was really long! Be confident as chicks love confidence, work on state of mind and become awesome. Begin by simply holding eye contact with people, all people men and women, be friendly and approachable and always remember to smile. Never be the first to look away and down, this is a major sign of beta behaviour. The smile is important, it is the opener before the actual conversation takes place. Look and smile, hell if u like what you see, show them that. Once the frame o… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 06:38 AM |
| 40 | One way to Overcome Approach Anxiety (with reasoning and explanation)SUMMARY Summary State of mind, be hot as shit, be the guy they all want be awesome and alpha Be tall, inviting, comforting and open to conversation Eye contact, NEVER look away first, don’t be afraid of her, be the alpha look her in the eye and tell her you want her just with your look. smile, Don’t be a angry dick no one likes angry people. A smile is friendly and will change their mood into a good mood to talk to you. Talk to people, its normal, start small with non threat, bring up random con… | /r/seduction | 25/12/11 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Luck is an AttitudeThe way i saw it is, just after the guy on the right got the drinks/waitresses number, the afc on the left appeared to be day dreaming on what could have happened if he was more suave. and at the end he decided, screw it i'm not going to be beta anymore, and acted on what he wanted. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Advice on hitting on coworkersDon't.. Just get with their friends. | /r/seduction | 14/12/11 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Still having a lot of trouble getting over AAyes thats right, also listen to the people because you can pick up small talk topics from them aswell. The challange is a good idea if it will get you motivated and let you complete it. But that last comment. it reminded me of a time when i was with 2 friends, and i said "oh ill go talk to those girls if u come with me.." after saying that without a beat. i told myself "Thats beta as fuck" and i zerg rushed those broads and had a nice convo. not saying its the same as you asking if anyone else w… | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Still having a lot of trouble getting over AANo one talks here either, do your own thing, become alpha not talking is beta as fuck. you don't want to be that do you? leaders lead. think of every alpha like person you know, do they get where they are by not talking to strangers? Simply keep open questions, everything has a response and if you cant think of it start on something new, when i run out of something to say i just move the convo along, "so.... [insert comment here]. That could be "..are you working/studying?"- this is the easiest … | /r/seduction | 28/11/11 10:15 PM |
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