I used to say the dreaded “daddy” during sex. Immediately when I had children i stopped and my stbx husband was confused as to why. Uhm. Because I have a child and it’s fucking weird and I see that now. How do you differentiate when your child is calling you dad and when I am? The thought of him equating the word daddy with AROUSAL made me want to vomit. I’m shocked that that’s so normalized (that and the “step” mom, dad, sibling porn) Also, I used to work at a bank and a nasty neck beard man wo…