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| 1 | How much likes is normal to get on dating apps?Depends on a couple things, big city vs small town, general attractiveness, good or bad pictures, im sitting on zero likes a week, every week, even though my female friends tell me im definitely handsome enough to get plenty of likes.. That being said, apps have gone way downhill the last couple years. And i lowkey also believe, once youve paid for premium on the apps, and later stopped that subscription, your profile might get shadowbanned or something, because i do have 2 platonic female frien… | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How many of you have ONLY met women to date using apps? I want to hear from youive only dated through dating apps, but even that has been mostly unsuccesfull, im just an average looking guy from a small town, so matches are rare, dates even rarer. Ive just never felt comfortable in a bar, party, etc setting, let alone felt able to strike up conversations with women | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 05:15 AM |
| 3 | What women actually swipe on (the truth from 1,000+ matches)Same, 6'3, last date was in 2023, i might go the passportbro route tbh 😅 | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 09:30 PM |
| 3 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessOh i was shook for while, believe me, didnt smile for weeks, walked around with my shoulders buried in my pockets, couldnt even talk normally to anyone without feeling like they were looking at my grill. But with time, and realising everyone is selfconciouss about something they dont like about themselves, usually people are too hung up in their own insecurities theyll easily overlook yours, atleast thats what ive noticed about the people around me that matter | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 09:33 AM |
| 56 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessIm terrible at this 😅 always have been, the anxiety is unbearable most of the times. But the anticipation to the rejection is usually worse than the actual rejection. I have had pretty harsh ones tho, but ive been able to look at it with a sense of humor to get over it. Once after striking up conversations with a girl i had been seeing at a temp job where i brought kegs to several stands/bars at some exhibits. I felt like she had been checking me out a few times when i brought new kegs of beers.… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Be wary of self-proclaimed alpha males in this subGoes for any "self-proclaimed" anything tbf. Legit doesnt need to proclaim shit | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Is this why men are giving up on their life and resorting to hookers or even worse taking their own lives?Well yes, confidence is key. But i get the sentiment of feeling like the road to being confident is gatekept by people who dont want you being confident. Does that make sense? I feel like when you dont have game, you get rejected harsher, even more so if you are somewhat conventionally attractive, as if you tricked the girl to letting her guard down by looking rather approachable. I mean, its a given thing that the first steps are often the hardest in these kinds of journeys, but i feel like peo… | /r/seduction | 23/12/24 08:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys get over approach anxiety with day game?Bold of you to assume these thoughts need time. Theyre present way before we see a girl we're interested in | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 09:33 AM |
| 5 | “are you gonna murder/kill me?”Nah, basement's full already | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | How can I have an abundance mindset if no girl wants me?how tho.. not op but i guess like many others in a similar situation people terrify me, girls that much more.. how can you enjoy yourself when youre constantly in a state of fear | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | I can't fathom a women being attracted to mefirst off; bugs bunny gets infinitely more pussy than james bond. remember that, keep it as a mantra or whatever, even if you dont believe it yet, because first off you need to get outside your own mind, and i do agree that you need therapy, even if it didnt work out with the ones youve had in the past, you gotta keep searching till you find someone youll be comfortable with and resonates with you. its expensive and you wont see the results immediately, but it really is one of, if not, THE most … | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:10 PM |
| 4 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...how dyou get them to go on a date so quickly, i hate having to invest time in small talk over texting, when you can just meet up and exchange the same amount of info in 2min instead of 20texts | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:01 PM |
| 104 | This movie will get you LAIDIt wont... youre naive, things dont just happen, atleast not for 99,9 % of men. You will have to go after it. That being said, workung on yourself is correct, just dont expect some lady to miraculously walk into your life just because you better yourself, you need to put in the work | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 08:01 AM |
| 6 | [FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery storeYou need to get out of your own head bro, you might give off creepy vibes, but mainly because thats whats going through your mind, you can always adress it tho.. You could start with, i know this might sound weird (id avoid the word creepy) but i just thought you looked gorgeous so i wanted to say hi.. Or something like that | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 11:54 AM |
| 4 | [FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery storeWouldnt say 'sohn' to a woman tho x) | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 11:50 AM |
| 3 | [FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery storeI read a nice one along those lines a while back, dont have the balls yet to approach, but it went something like. Hi, i saw you from way over there (point to entrance or whatever) and i figured it be hard to talk to you from 20feet so i thought id come over and say hello... It probably was a bit less wordy.. but it went something like that. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 11:47 AM |
| 9 | Going out aloneThis is whats terrifying about the whole deal, you just go in and talk to a group of people or do you start smalltalk with the bartender until someone randomly orders a drink and you talk to that person, how does this go about? | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experienceWhats that? | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Everybody sucks before doing 100 approaches. Don't complain, approach.Explain please? | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Considering therapy. Opinions from those of you that have done it?How does one learn to love himself while away tho? | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Finally asked her outSweet dude, hope it goes well Although as im reading it i was thinking you couldve gone for the kiss and see what came from it | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How fucked am I?Relationships, youre fine bro, women can love total bums for their personality, you could be missing your legs, arms, half your face, organs and everything else but your asshole, and still be with a model,, as long as your mindset and personality are up there, so youll need to get out of your shell and get used to rejection One night stands might go either way, some will be so drunk they wont notice, others might try and make fun of it,, same thing tho with the mindset, you need a winners mental… | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 11:27 AM |
| 5 | How Do You Handle Constant Failure?Atleast youre getting dates.. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | 31 and starting from scratch - day 1Oh like that, gotcha, i thought you meant easier as in less hard rejections | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 08:55 AM |
| 1 | 31 and starting from scratch - day 1Implying the dating scene is easy in earlier stages of life? | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 01:33 PM |
| 9 | Asking a Pretty Woman for Coffee - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 4Any pointers or tips that pushed you passed the initial fear or anxiety when approaching, ive been wanting to get into it but im absolutely petrified whenever im in proximity of a girl, so much so i literally freeze up | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How to Approach Girls (In-field + Coaching and Breaking Down Approaches)Any pointers on approach anxiety? I mean im sure you covered some in earlier videos but im at work right now, ill search through em later tonight.. but im absolutely petrified when it comes to approaches, ive never worked my way up to one because of it, (except back in the day in parties where i was on molly or xtc, but even that got me nowhere and i dont wanna stoop back to that level) I mean ive tried baby steps, asking girls for the time a couple of times, but even that made me freeze up to t… | /r/seduction | 06/06/18 10:56 AM |
| 5 | "Rejection is better than Regret" and the habit of fearWhether that actually was the reason or not, it does help adopting that mindset | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/18 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Beta PsychYou say its still in there, the inherent masculinity, thats a hopefull statement, any tips or ideas in finding that within, beneath the indoctrination and conditioning? I mean on a rational level i know its there, and i can apply a "not yet alpha but not quite beta" attitude to situations of im not in the heat of it.. But when it really matters, on an emotional level i still shut down, become petrified by the very notion of interacting with women, So when i need it that masculinity is nowhere to… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | [UPDATE] Do guys appreciate girls asking them out?even then im looking for ulterior motives, like, shes out after my weed or something, i know so | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Norman Finkelstein catches a woman trying to manipulate him with crying, and puts her in her placeshould've ended that last comment with: nor do i care if i wanted to know i would've checked, assumptions make people stupid, so stop assuming | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/14 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Norman Finkelstein catches a woman trying to manipulate him with crying, and puts her in her placei have no idea what any of those 2 things are | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 10:40 AM |
| 4 | ManServant Will Let You Order Around Hot Men For $125 Per Hourthey don't want to create or make shit happen, they want it done for them show a woman how to fish and she'll want you fishing for her every day | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 07:35 PM |
| 5 | RP moviesswingers vince vaughn can really put it to you | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/14 11:11 PM |
| 7 | how to initiate convo with girls for shy guythis right here man... many of us were like you OP, I still am to some extent, just keep pushing yourself.. and don't rationalize your fears, that's just away of coping without fixing the problem edit: grammar | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 01:54 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Women are jealous creatures!http://i.imgur.com/suZWCfn.gif | /r/trpGAME | 21/08/14 09:40 AM |
| 8 | Random thought: approach anxietysweet dude, keep up the good work | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 09:04 AM |
| 3 | You guys are going to love my story. BP, RP, field report, and askRP in one. Grab a seat gents.for all it's worth, my condolences on your first wife. but it seems like you're doing well, pretty sure this case is yours when brought to court, no sane judge would leave a baby with a fruitbasket inside of a cult so yeah, keep us posted on how it's going man best of luck and keep on rocking | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 08:52 AM |
| 2 | r/OkCupid, redpill theory confirmedwhy is being tall an advantage? and how do i use that superpower. 6'3" skinny as phuck tho, and gaining weight is harder than losing it for me so that's not really going in my direction | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 01:02 PM |
| 1 | My experiences as a newbienot to mention the 2 part names starting with mary-.. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/14 12:08 PM |
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