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You know you’re still allowed to still go to parties and have adventures when you have a girlfriend, right? You’re even allowed to talk to other chicks. Why don’t you get out more?
/r/askMRP08/11/24 04:58 PM
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Ha, no. we spent the whole day together doing family stuff with the kids. But point taken
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/24 01:22 AM
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Yeah I think I was messing this up… trying not to be beta and clingy afterwards, but went too far into being aloof.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/24 01:21 AM
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OYS 7 42, 40yo wife, married 10 years, 2 kids (7 and 3) 5’11” 198 (+1) 18 % (-0%) Fitness - 1 row, 1 run, 2 lifts Sick in the middle of the- 3 days off The rest of the week was pretty dismal. I got in two short lifts just so I wouldn’t completely miss the week, but the sessions were not intense. Between missing the workouts and slipping on diet my weight shot back up. Lifts BP 225, Squat 315, DL 405, OHP 135 No changes. In general I’m stagnant. Don’t really have any goals beyond looking good and…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 01:07 PM
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Thanks I agree I need to stop if it happens again. Previously I got the advice to care less about whether or not she was enjoying it, so I was soldiering on through some starfish. For a while i was happy to have any sex I could get, but it’s to the point where I’m not enjoying that anymore. Style and hygiene are good. I’m not a model but I stay fit and get compliment on my looks regularly. Social life has room for improvement . I get out about once a week with friends. There’s a bunch of dads on…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 07:36 PM
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I’m not sure I have an exact vision, but number one would be having more variety. I can get her to try different positions but only with some reluctance. I’ve tried introducing variety by initiating in different times/places, or setting out something for her to wear and she’s rejected it every time
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 07:30 PM
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OYS 6 42, 40yo wife, married 10 years, 2 kids (7 and 3) 5’11” 197 (-0), 18 % (-0%) Fitness 3 runs, 2 lifts, 1 hiit workout Bench press 185 x 4, Squat 275 x 5, OHP 115x 5, Run - 3 miles at 9:30 pace Still maintaining. Not putting in the time and effort to make gains. Focus is elsewhere- work/family, which is fine for now. Work When I started my current job (August 2023) I wasn’t sure if it would be a long term thing or a bridge to something else, so I was mainly taking things a day at a time and …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/24 01:06 PM
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I like this reframe of rejecting sex but not game. I’ve done the “hit the gym” or get out of the house response to getting rejected but it always came across like a kid throwing a tantrum when mommy didn’t give me a lolly . Also lacked congruence since I don’t usually go to the gym at 10pm. I enjoy gaming my wife for the sake of gaming. It’s a fun way to break out of the monotony of talking about kids and logistics, and she usually responds by being more playful and enjoyable to be around. I get…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 01:17 PM
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Bench 225, squat 325, deadlift 405
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 01:00 PM
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OYS 5 42, 40yo wife, married 10 years, 2 kids (7 and 3) 5’11” 197 (-2), 18 % (-1%) Fitness - Lifted twice, ran twice. Other days did I was sick and didn’t workout, only some walking to maintain calorie burn. No new maxes for a while. I went through a cycle of higher volume (sets of 6-8 reps) and haven’t gone really heavy for a few weeks. It would be good to build back up to a max in the next few weeks and try to bitch some new PR’s. Still running regularly and getting faster little by little. Wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/24 08:51 AM
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I’ve read SGM and was trying to implement for a few months. My wife was very resistant to any sexually dominant behavior and it seemed like she was shutting down more and more rather than opening up. I think I was failing shit tests along the way. She would pull away after I would do something that pushed the boundaries and I would fall back into chasing
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 04:20 PM
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OYS 4 Two weeks since OYS3 42, 40yo wife, married 10 year, 7 kids (7 and 3) 5’11” 199 (no change) 19% BF navy method (no change) Goals: 15% body fat, run 3 miles at 9:00 pace, bench 250, bigger chest and arms Fitness: Lift x 3, run x 3. Lifting has stalled. I’m just maintaining. I’m spending more time tuning and less lifting. I could fix this by opening more time lifting, but I enjoy running, moving around and being outside. My run pace is progressing, and did 3 miles at 9:30 pace this week. Tri…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/24 09:09 AM
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My first OYS was in May, not a year ago. But sure bro, pop off
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 07:14 PM
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I have tried pushing through LMR, starfish and soft no's and it did not once lead to hot sex happening. Maybe i just didn't give it enough time, but i was pushing through ambers for a few months and just getting more and more starfish. And after a while that wasnt very satisfying to me. So no, i dont think my wife gets off on being used by me. I'm not saying she couldn't ever, or might not enjoy getting used by the right chad, but right now it feels like there's something else missing. The stuff…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 06:48 PM
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Care to enlighten me? Or am I supposed to meditate on it like a zen koan?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/24 05:19 PM
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I think Horns hit the nail on the head. In my case the daytime flirting started about a year ago when I cleaned up some of my big time unattractive behavior (like telling my wife every little thing I was feeling and trying to fix her bad moods). suddenly she was interested, but stuck in a warm but not hot enough to fuck state.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 11:58 PM
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I agree that she feels like it’s safe to play along because of low chance of fucking. She’s attracted enough to flirt a little but not actually to fuck. I have tried initiating during the day, and you’re correct that we did not fuck. Happened this morning in fact. She was eyeing me when I came in from dropping off our son so I picked her up, carried her to the bed while our daughter was watching a video. Pushed through some resistance (what if the she comes in?), locked the door, took her clothe…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 05:01 PM
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My home scale is off by 4 pounds, so my initial 205 was actually 209. I found out later when checking it at the gym. The body fat was using the navy method estimate, initially it was 22 or 23%. My height is 5’10.5 so sometimes I round up, sometimes down
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 02:52 PM
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Yeah for sure that’s why my post was mostly not about that. I’ve spent the last year running the dancing monkey attraction plan and had some great newbie gains from upgrading my clothes, learning a little game and getting better at STFU, but it’s all gone away in the last few months as the novelty has worn off and the bigger level issues have remained
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 01:57 PM
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Hmm let’s see…. No fucking social life No clear career trajectory No real vision or goals for where I’m going in life Got fat after the 2nd kid Feeling sorry for myself because I have two disabled kids
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 12:23 PM
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I’ll take “lack of attraction” for $800, Alex
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 11:46 AM
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OYS 3 42, 40yo wife, married 10 years, 2 kids (7 and 3) 5’11”, 199 (-10 from OYS 1), 19% navy method (-4%) Goals: 15% BF Overall: I did two OYS a few months ago but didn’t really understand that point. I just wanted to get some tips about how to have more sex. After a few months of floundering around I’m realizing I don’t have a real vision of where I want to in life or concrete goals. I’ve become a passenger in my own life. Reading: Just finished Bang by Roosh V. Started Mystery Method. Have re…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/24 09:21 AM
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We talked and shared way too much information about our lives with each other. You’re acting like one of her girlfriends, and she’s friendzoned you as a result. Her avoiding your attempts at a date tell you all you need to know. (She likes your company as a friend, not interested in dating)
/r/seduction04/07/24 11:31 AM
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The logistics of your life aren’t great for creating scarcity, so IMO you should focus on how you are behaving when you are together with your wife. Are you deferring to her or being assertive? Being aloof and focused on your own things, or blabbing every thought that comes in your head? It does no good to be out riding motorcycles for 10 hours if you are revert to begging mommy for attention/approval when you get home.
/r/askMRP10/06/24 01:27 PM
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OYS 2 42, wife 40, 5’10, 202lbs (-3), 21% (-1), 2 kids 7 and 3 Reading- Just finished Rian Stone Vol 2 (Dread). Looking for the next thing. Past reading- NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, WOTSM, SGM, Rational Male V1, Masculine in Relationship, Deadbedroom Fix, the Game, Models, Practical Female Psych, Rian stone (Vol 1, Fuccfiles, substack), book of Pook Fitness: Lifted 3x: Was sick for most of the week so no PR’s but matched some previous bests: Squat 295 x 3, Bench 185 x 5 Running: 2.5 miles at 10:00/mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/24 01:31 AM
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OYS #1 42, wife 40. married 9 years, together 16. 2 kids 7 and 3 5’10/205lbs, , 22%BF navy method Fitness Lifted 3x, cardio (rowing) 1x OHP 135 x 2 (+1 rep), DB bench 70lbs x 8 (+2 reps). Squat 295 x3. Haven’t deadlifted in a while but last max was 400 I’ve been focusing on upper body and numbers have slowly been going up. Biggest fitness goal is to get my body fat down. I get to the gym regularly but my diet is sloppy. Too many chicken nuggets and quesadillas with the kids. Spent some time Sund…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 01:21 PM
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