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I think it is a nurture thing. A lot of women grow up believing men dont want a forward woman because thats what other women tell them. They think that men like the intrigue that comes with guessing. Women can often communicate feelings just as well as men and if not, better considering how socially unacceptable it still is for men to express emotion. However when it comes to communicating their interest in a man, they they do suck. But it is mostly learned that they're "supposed" to behave that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 06:59 PM
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Haha good luck ! Closest you'll find is one talking about the farmer's daughter's skirt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 04:57 AM
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I would not be attracted to a man who liked to wear skirts around. I like masculine men. Not men who refuse to show emotion or vulnerability, but men who are broad and muscled with facial hair and drink beer and like country music and are self assured. And to see a man do something feminine like that... I would not be attracted to him. Plus, i could never be with a trans person and ive heard horror stories of men trying on womens clothes just as a fetish at first then deciding theyre trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 10:10 PM
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First date with me depends. Either i dont like you so its just a quick lunch and thanks and goodbbye. Or i do like you so it turns into a 10+ hours date where we explore the city after lunch, get dessert, walk around a park, swim at the beach at night, and then close out a club. My longest first date : 13hours. No, i didnt sleep over. No we didn't hook up. We started at 1pm getting yogurt and closed out a club at 2am.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:29 PM
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Ditch your family. Theyre gambling addicts and alcoholics. Im not surprised i was the first girl who said yes to being your girlfriend with how far up your ass their hands are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:25 PM
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I am a young woman of that age range and yes i am. I don't want to be a stay at home mom. I love math and science, so I am trying to build a career in that. I still have plenty of time for relationships and all that during school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 08:23 PM
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Well considering finances is one of the top reasons or divorce, a lot of people would say yes. But not for things like one person spent a little more than budgeted for and its gonna be hard to make it up, but we will manage. If my partner is spending thousands on credit cards that i dont know about and that he even has trouble paying back, or is spending money i put towards both of us for his personal stuff and i dont know... Those are major issues. if he wants to be a stay at home dad thats one…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 07:29 PM
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Im always very disappointed when things dont work out. Theres reasons i choose men. Them being terrible in one area doesnt make it any esier to give up all the good they are. Besides being attractive he was fun and social and good conversation. Im rrslly agreeing with you in the first comment. That its more than looks or money, its a host of things that make someone a better partner than someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 01:55 PM
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Looks eventually go away and do not provide for me the rest of what i want from a partner. Looks cant share in chores or ensure my kids are brought up well or have a lot of good sex. Ive dated #1 before and while i do joke about how i miss his looks, as a LTR, we were doomed to fail because he made little and was dumb with it, gambling it all away on bowling. I'd definitely take a man who is average looking but can keep money in his pocket over the first one again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 10:11 PM
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I like seeing varying viewpoints not to mention some of thos people learn things and have meaningful interactions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:40 AM
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Both hide the failure. You cannot be happy being so manipulative, every other subreddit makes fun of you and points it out. You can get the same and better results without what they do and i know this for a fact because I live it. I have sympathy for a lot of the women who have been wronged by men but turning into an abuser is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 12:08 AM
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This is honestly extremely true. You arent going to find the cream of the crop on tinder or bumble or okc. Thats just... How it is! You may find a good person here or there on them, but people who are social and hold long term relationships typically do not need them. But even worse they have a creepy culty "if you're not with us, youre against us" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:00 PM
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I see a lot of them claim it is going really well but it really isn't once you scratch the surface. No man can really stand them and they know it so they become more insecure with every man who tells them how insufferable they are. Admittedly the only women who can get awsy with acting like that are extremely hot women and women who specifically pick on low self esteem, abused men to prey on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:21 PM
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I know several woman that follow their philosophies irl and honestly it never goes well for them. They honestly talked constantly about being a "strong independent woman" type but then their pinned post is about how to change yourself so you can basically become a prostitute for fee meals. It's very backwards. It seems to me though that they are older women who have been treated poorly by men for whatever reason, so now they are trying to fantasize some way of getting back at them for the percei…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:18 PM
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As someone who has a male friend who has been crushing on me for like 5 years now, but I have definitely "friend zoned" him, it is largely because I am a different person in a relationship than I am in a friendship. I am more intense in a relationship. A lot more needy. If you are my boyfriend, I live with you. There are different requirements for a friend vs. a partner. Some guys do not realize this and idealize what having a relationship would be like... just like a really close friendship wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:01 PM
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They're manipulative and definitely deserve to get made fun of as much as they do on all the other subs around reddit. Most of them are just jealous of women who are more attractive or seemingly dont need to try as hard or else theyre taking out abuse theyve suffered at the hands of past men on future men, becoming abusers themselves. They are the female version of MGTOW: present themselves as harass independent women, but their very first pinned post is about how to change yourself into a prost…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:40 AM
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I usually gravitate towards medium hair with a beard and tallish (that is relative to me who is a 5'3, 110lbs) but I do love stocky guys too so not just tall but wide shoulders. Yes, he definitely has to dress well. I could not take a poorly groomed man in public in good conscious. Extremely important to make me laugh. Humor is a big must have. Confidence is important because I am not his self esteem and I am not going to be there every single day to give 70% while he only gives 30% in terms of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:48 AM
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It does not mean to isolate yourself and replace the desire for a SO with yourself. It means that you should know what your end game is, what you can handle right now, and know how to be aware of if your standards are being met. I did some of this and it honestly helps. I got out of a very long relationship (engagement) and had 0 idea what I wanted and ended up in a very abusive situation where I had to hold a grown man's hand in keeping his apartment and not going to jail. Things ended and I to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:18 AM
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I do not entirely understand the timeline here, but seriously don't. There are the same and even better out there I am sure of it. There always is. Not to mention she had some red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:08 AM
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I think women are pressured because they are doormats. No woman owes anyone sex the same way no man owes any woman sex. Maybe he does try to verbally pressure you... but just say a hard no. If you stop considering someone's hurt feelings over your own comfort, the world really changes for the better. You stop feeling like you owe people parts of yourself you are not willing to give up. Of course rape is rape and the survivor cannot control it, but in my experience most men do not rape nor want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 02:04 AM
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Johnny Desmond. I love the 40s-60s male voices in music. I think the voice is sexy as hell tbh and he was quite good looking, plus did sing well imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 01:56 AM
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Holy shit... What now? I am 5'3 and cannot imagine being 171lbs. I flipped and went off my meds once they made me reach 123lbs so i could go back down to 110-115. I think it is perfectly reasonable standards to want a healthy/slim partner. Honestly, i doubt europe is that far behind. The source i used is a little older so it puts the US female weight at 168lbs and other western countries were not far behind with UK at high 50s (which having lived there surprises me that their average is lower at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:33 PM
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The thing about make up though is You can cover some gnarly facial features under it and pass it off as exemplifying natural features super easy. I see all these tutorials by girls with cystic acne covering it up to the point where youd literally never know and it looks like just regular make up. Not like they have 5 thick layers on their face. Also prosthetics can be used if youre particularly skilled to reshape your face temporarily. I dont see it too often, but definitely see tutorials on how…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:10 PM
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As a bisexual woman... No. Most of us hate that idea and will leave if we figure out thats why youre with us. The only threesomes with mg bfs I have been offered were always my bfs friends saying "you can have a threesome with me and my gf but your bf cant join." Lol. As if. I would consider it only if she was attractive and not a friend of ours to hang around and start drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:39 PM
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ive lived with almost all my bfs and can affirm that you learn A LOT by living with someone that you otherwise would have no idea about. Not to mention i think it either strengthens your relationship or breaks it... But for the better. I learned one guy prioritized Magic the Gathering cards over rent and another couldnt afford food due to his gambling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:30 PM
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Hahaha no! Theyre both "post wall" and i wouldnt even let them talk to me at a bar. Not just anyone can alpha themselves to being desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:20 PM
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Honestly i agree with almost everything in the OP. Women do have it easier and with the acceesibility of make up ive seen literal 3/10s turn into 7 or even 8/10s. Men dont have such an option. Also women will get used once by a wealthy, handsome man at a bar and believe they are above someone who is actually the same in terms or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 11:09 PM
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Of course you would say that because youre the one who posted it. But you definitely feel an entitlement to sex which is objectively rapey and actually the entire basis for the now (gladly) archaic idea that spousal rape doesnt exist. If you cannot read through what you said and glean that from it yourself and instead play the victim or some "batshit crazy feminist", then you just dont want to see it. I dont think ill change your opinion since most come on here with a complete "im stating my opi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:20 PM
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Yes because of the community you chose to post it in. I can find subs on here to post about hating jews and receive 0 negative comments as well. Anyone can create an ideological vacuum, youre not special honey. I also dont consider myself a feminist if youre implying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:59 PM
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Its not that part that sounded rapey lol. And the fact that you wrote it out and still posted it despite knowing ahead of time how others would perceive it says more about you. But thats prettu much how men have been on here especially lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:55 PM
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Those are not "that few and far between" actually since A LOT of super common meds for mental and physical illnesses have the side effect of loss of desire for sexual activity. Really, this whole comment here is kind of rapey. If someone does not want sex or their desire for sexual activity decreases, then either ser a sex therapist to reach a compromise or end things. Trying to convince someone its expected of them will do nothing except make them leave when you could have healed it back to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:49 PM
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Its basic biology. Women retain more fat for baby making through puberty. Not to mention a lot of people do sports in high school and then stop or dont know how to coom for themselves when they leave home.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 11:47 PM
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As a woman my hobbies are spending my boyfriends money, cheating, and manipulating men into giving me free drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:42 PM
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My favorite posts are the ones of great food home cooked as if a woman being around means that they could not have such a luxurious meal as chicken parmesan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:33 PM
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Its a speedy way of being able to rule out unattractive men without rejecting them to their face. I always used it as a speed dating type thing but at my finger tips whenever i wanted and id be able to screen out people quickly. If i go to a bar, i am limited to who is in that bar at that time plus I personally live in an area where most people i meet at bars are from out of town. Never met a single person from my area there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:31 PM
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Yes, i have definitely thought that but he was my long time friend and i grew to love him. There was strain though because other people would literally come up to us and tell him that he wasnt handsome enough for me. He had a bad medical issue sort of disfiguring, but it was really rude for people to say that. Back when i used to date off tinder, dudes wouldnt see me unless i shared my snap or something with them because they always thought i was a catfish and you only think someone is a catfish…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:11 PM
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It is more old women who dont want to be asked their age because that is an old fashioned thing. I doubt its because of "the wall" but rather because if you were not married by like 25, youd be considered a spinster. Now i think its just perpetuated by people who had it ingrained in them to just not ask. Just like income. Ive dated many foreigners and theyd ask about income no problem, but in america it is a huge no no. Studies actually show people would rather be honest about their drug use tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 09:01 PM
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Whoever did that has a stick up their butt and also probably got reprimanded by the company fucking hard as a liability for doing something so unprofessional while claiming the higher ground. And i would understand if she was doing underwear modeling even though i wouldnt agree with it. But everyone wears swim suits. Everyone goes to the beach or pool and wants to take photos while theyre having fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:13 PM
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Ive taken it 5 times and gotten the same answer ENTP even though i have changed wildly. Even when my therapist thought i was an introvert and insisted i read about it and accept that i was. Actually, i was a very extroverted child being abused by my parents into behaving like an introvert. So i think it provides slight insights, but should not be depended on as ultimate truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 04:09 PM
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I agree. I actually think it is probably typical that a virgin man/woman wants a virgin partner because there is likely a reason they remained a virgin (such as religious) and would want their partner to understand or agree with it. But if men want casual sex then dont want a woman whos had casual sex... Who does he expect to be having casual sex with ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:08 PM
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I am talking about married couples specifically because that is what the post was about. I am sure a 60 year old is not going to do amazing on tinder lol. But old couples who married not for sex appeal but a lot of other things are indeed having sex like rabbits. Women actually report the best sex of their life is after 50 because menopause creates the inability to have children so there is no risk of pregnancy and no need to use medications or condoms or anything that hinders feeling or mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 02:22 PM
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Exactly! Like old people are always having sex. Like crazy amounts. These are not people who got married for sex appeal because that fades. They got married to someone they could still laugh with and love decades later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:00 AM
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No, the first problem is marrying someone for their sex appeal. Yeah, but ive been engaged before, lived with every man ive dated, and still never cheated and thought they were great. Ive held puke buckets as my ex bf threw up in it and i patted his back. Ive squeezed pimples for my ex fiance. We pooped while the other person showered. Ive had exes pop stuff back into place, hold me while i puked, handle terrible panic attacks, and shave me before. Yeah, if you assume every time you have sex is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:00 AM
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Nope! I hate how the world expects men to be the dominant one, provider, and expects so much out of their appearance. Idk what i am out of 10, but i get so much attention. I cant have male friends because they all crush on me fairly quick. I once posted a selfie and asked for help with OBS software jokingly and in under 4miniutes got 30 messages offering help or asking where i stream. I dont have a period anymore. Yeah i cant really walk alone anywhere without cat calls, but that beats being ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:08 PM
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Hell world if the government ever ever says someone is not allowed to pursue sexual relationships. Besides for the obvious age, unconscious, and people who are so impaired they are equivalent to a child in brain capabilities, the government should not tell someone who "doesnt understand consent" that he cannot have sex. Slippery slope leading to the government taking away your ability to seek meaningful relationships because you cant pass a consent test. If he rapes someone, the government waggi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:26 AM
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A "nice guy" is a guy who is only friendly to women when he thinks he will personally benefit. A good man is a man who does not feel entitled to women or our labor or our sex. Also i hate taxes so if he is tax evading that makes him a better man imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:47 PM
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Ive seen it then They usually have big money. As long as you can turn out the lights and do doggy style, you can get a SO by having a lot of money. You cant buy love ofc but you can buy someone to pretend they do. Your average 4/10 male i do not see often with a woman. And honestly i rarely see women that low who havent been cheated on or arent insulted constantly as being "hook up material." I do think though that some find happiness with a much more attractive man, but it is more common for he…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 09:41 PM
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Well you show me then two people you consider 3 points apart. The difference of three points is 9/10 vs. 6/10 while 5 is 9/10 vs. 4/10... The first is a medium difference and the last is a huge difference. The difference between them is 2 whole points but in a key area. If 5 is average, then 6/10 is above and 4/10 is below which makes a major difference on social perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:42 PM
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Men who wear snapbacks backwards inside with tank tops/wife beaters then make tiktok videos trying to look sexy especially when they bite their lip. This radiates red flags so hard and to me is exactly a fuckboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:23 PM
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I know which is why i clarified that someone super below is not the same as someone kinda below. Ive been with men definitely 3 points below me and socially it was kinda weird because people would verbally tell us both that he was too ugly... But no one laughed or anything. But ive seen couples with a huge difference and it is all "he must have money" or "he has to have a big dick" so i think there is a fundamental difference in perception of some a lot below another person and someone who is de…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:12 PM
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It is a good way if you are her to begin with. I have always had the best relationships with guys i was friends with before dating. I have a mental illness, therefore i cant have men who are squeamish about health issues. I weed them out that way instead of getting 6 months in and realizing he is an alcoholic gambler and I have BPD and PTSD and these things dont mix. However it is also super important to know that you are sexually compatible too or else you will also be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:08 PM
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It really depends. I think maybe 5 points below makes it seem like he is socially unaware. However, if he is closer like 3 points and he hits on multiple women of varying attractiveness, then he is just taking a shot he may miss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 06:02 PM
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Exactly. Im early twenties and would not date a man with kids right now unless i knew him very very well and understood his situation and who he is now. But in 99% of men... It is an automatic no. I also sympathize with men who wouldnt date a single mom my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:41 AM
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This exactly. It was low class until a bunch of women started streaming games on twitch. They still are a low class activity to many men. I have had women friends tell me that they find their bfs playing games unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:28 AM
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Go to a bar. Clubs =/= bars. Bars are easy to talk to people. Usually have fun events or comedy shows or board game nights specifically for meeting people. Go to events like festivals and stuff in your city too. Night clubs are for clubbing which is what you described. If clubbing isnt your cup of tea, then there are tons of other places to meet people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:20 AM
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No i make eye contact with anyone. I will do it in public if I think i know someone, or sometimes i am watching someone dance or think they look cool or wanna talk to them. Ill make eye contact just fine. I do actively avoid people i think may be creepy and especially beggers outside of bars and parties who ask for money. Guys who approach me that i would rather not, i also do not make eye contact with to let them know theyre not allowed to approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 02:18 AM
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If you look at statistics actually, men are almost always more likely to cheat on their spouses over women. Not to mention, the "free love" generation is much more likely to cheat on their spouses than other generations both before and after them. So, when you say "in the past" you are referring to them too... which... would not be true then. Also, as age continues, you can see that the difference between men more likely to cheat and women more likely grows as well. So that means that women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:22 PM
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Thank you. This is a great presentation of data. The data on why people report they are unsatisfied is really key. Men here are reporting that even though they have fewer sexual encounters, each is more likely to be fulfilling than it is for women (finish more often, not too tired or stressed, and less likely to be forced), and for women it is just the opposite of course. With an exception of a couple more men saying they do not get to pick what they want which is vague imo. Not pick the time? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:28 PM
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It is relevant. You cant give data without context. That's manipulative and slimy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 09:19 PM
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What about the amount of women unsatisfied? How do they compare? Why are they unsatisfied? What is the break down of dissatisfaction based on martial status? Relationship status?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:36 PM
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Thank you. I like to imagine its like how Chihuahuas and little terriers bark like no one's business while the St. Bernard relaxes. If you can command respect through body language and implications, you don't need to manipulate someone through "strategies."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 08:36 PM
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I cant talk to someone like you who has 0 self awareness. I literally told you not to make assumptions that are so easily disproven. Go ahead and call me whatever weird femcel terminology you have to make your pathetic life feel better. Idek what that means as i exist outside the internet. Continue taking advice from other failures, sure. Thatll work. Ill keep bragging about my healthy long term relationship where i had to do 0 of what yall claim id need to, but still get the benefits of him pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:43 PM
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Wow. This had a lot of assumptions about me. If you even took the quickest glance into my history youd see literally 2 of my most recent posts are "we need to love our sisters" and "from a CSA survivor." You should at least have done that so as not to embarrass yourself. Ive been raped and in physically and verbally abusive relationships. I actually almost died because of one man. Its called you gain common sense and dont do it again, not turning into a bitch. Youre the snob assuming my life, my…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:35 PM
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Ive heard of women who are trained taking on male muggers who obviously are not trained at all and winning. But I am sure it has to do with genetics as well. I am very flexible but even at my height of working out, my arms have always been limp noodles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:30 PM
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Whats even more cringey is they post how depraved men are and their hatred for them... Then try to change themselves for men. Its so cringey.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:20 PM
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That "strategy" sounds like insecurity masked as bitchiness. I date a lot and none of those things even cross my mind and ive been treated just fine and have had extremely attractive bfs. In fact, i used to be very insecure and did some of the stuff they did and the guy became very uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 07:07 PM
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You dont have a right to anal. It doesnt matter if she had it before. Ive done stuff before ive only done once or twice that id never want to do again because i dont like it. Doesnt mean every man now has a right to do that stuff. You have to do something to know you dont like it. She might have something wrong like libido, etc. Change in diet, medications, etc. Can drastically change desire to have sex. Sexual aspects of relationships are just as important as any other part. If youre not happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:54 PM
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This honestly doesnt sound real. It sounds like what lonely men think lonely women are doing/feel like. If its true, then you need counseling because chasing one man who doesnt want you is not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/19 11:28 PM
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No... I am not. Wow. Your life sounds quite boring if you see no solution when youre single other than to be rampantly sexual. Being sexual like that is also extremely harmful to people... I know because ive lived it. Sex isnt a basic human need in the sense youre talking about. Yeah i want to have sex but you dont get depression from not having sex for x amount of time and if you do... You need therapy. Youre creating a false reality and then trying to argue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 10:11 PM
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Oh yes it absolutely is healthiest. Im just saying they tend to not be which a lot of us who've been through it just want the validation of being loved and to know that we can love another thing or person. This is why a lot of traumatized people get animals. That way you dont have to deal with the complicated ramifications of an adult relationship while healing themselves but can still have that companionship. And to anyone traumatized, as a fellow survivor, i totally recommend getting animals t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 07:24 PM
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Other than the use of the word "damaged" you are entirely correct. Both men and women who have been through trauma (which is a better wording for both sexes) are much more likely to hook up, do drugs, prostitute, etc. Research knows this and observation confirms it. Im glad some people can see that though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 04:05 PM
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Well some answer yes to that because religious people are still a thing. Personally i dont know a man whod love that... But there are definitely people who still go through with waiting until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:52 PM
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Women do get harassed often, but browsing subs that specifically bring out those instances and concentrate them in one area is also not a good way to judge how often it happens or the severity. Especially because reddit is a relatively anonymous social media... So ofc someone whos been through stuff would gravitate to here instead of insta or facebook if theyre looking for help. Honestly, going up to a woman to talk isnt automatically creepy or wrong. Just be aware of what you say, where you app…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:50 PM
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I cant give you an exact measurement and any girl who does is lying because we dont have built in ways to visually measure penises. Not to mention girth matters. The best penis has a healthy looking length to girth ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 01:39 AM
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By oddly precise you mean factually accurate. Men commit suicide more in ways they know they will be successful such as shooting themselves in the head. Women overdose or cut their wrists more which are ways they are less likely to die. This creates a rather large disparity in attempts vs. Actual death. I really hope you are not comparing them though. That would be extremely disrespectful to both men and women who suffer from mental illness. Women attempting had nothing to do with my conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 06:07 PM
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You are conveniently not answering my questions. Men have always had higher suicide rates. If traditional gender roles are how things are meant to be, why arent they happier? Or should only men be allowed to choose to forego a career or have one and women are the only one happy with gender roles? This has been my question from the beginning and the one you refuse to answer. Cant answer me straight? Just tell me that. I know you cant. But men would rather be right than educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:36 PM
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This is great fuel for cringe subs so thanks. No? Now we can choose to stay at home or go to school or get a trade or a career. You still never answered my questions about the increase in male depression. Too much cognitive dissonance to admit youre wrong? Or are facts why you dont write your "advice" to women? Men have been following the path youre told since the beginning of time. You going to call yourselves sheeple? Even today a stay at home man is taboo but a working woman is normal. Men al…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:31 PM
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Oh my word. Its people like you that make me unhappy. Id rather have the right to choose what makes me happy than have you tell me. And i am really REALLY happy to be part of the reason youre not writing that. You know nothing. I actually see a lot of unhappy and pitiful women on the red pill women. Men would rather be right than let women be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:23 PM
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Thats not the kind of depression i am talking about. That would be wrongly prescribing prescriptions when they should he prescribed a vacation. Thats not clinical depression... Thats called "i hate my job" and it has an effective cure of getting a different one. I had a job i hated... So i left. I was getting a degree i hated... So i changed it. And that is a way that trad men usually word that and i hope you arent one of those... I would feel bad for every woman youre around then. Getting a job…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:17 PM
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So... Womens' depression is because we work? And because we can talk about sex more openly? I really hope you dont think this. The only reason more PEOPLE in general are on medications is because we no longer leave babies in forests to die when they show that theyre unwell. Women have always been as depressed as we are now, its just we would be labeled with "female hysteria" and tossed into an institution to be electrified while our husbands cheated. You should read a book on the history of ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:39 PM
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Theres research in The Body Keeps the Score that says most people on mental health medication have been traumatized especially as children. And a lot of mental illnesses are being found to be at least significantly inherited. So... I dont really see the point of adding that in there. Are you saying just because white women dont come from a war torn country, their depression cant be taken seriously? I wont even start on the rest of what you said... But that bit doesnt make any sense. Its like tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:15 PM
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Normalized... Absolutely not. Legalized? Well the jury is still out on whether it is good or not. Some research says theres a decrease of sexual diseases and increase in reporting of abuse, rape, etc. When it is legalized. However other research exists to say that there is an increase in illegal prostitution and human trafficking when it is legalized. Generally, I think it should not because if trafficking increases, then the benefits do not outweigh the costs. Women online who sell their nudes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:34 PM
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I mean ive had guys be okay with it as long as it was with another women. At the time i didn't mind taking advantage of it because i was so into women i thought i was a lesbian for a time, realized i was co with guys too but still had a much stronger attraction for women. So I liked it then. I never would now though. Id probably actually end things if a guy now was okay with that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:27 PM
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Because young women might be hot for a fuck, but they dont usually make good life partners if there is a massive age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:21 PM
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Women just need to love themselves and say "i want to finish" and leave the relationship if she is noy sexually satisfied. I had an ex who went 5 years and never ate his gf before me out. I told him right there he wont have that chance with me and to leave now if hr couldn't. He was fine with it just as most men are. Women just need to be stern, speak their mind, and stand up for themselves. I just see too many women on reddit or online in general wondering how they should tell their boyfriend/H…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 04:19 PM
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Go the extra mile with skincare and hair care. Dress well. Meet new people even if they arent lifelong friends. Go to speeches or events and network.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 01:37 AM
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I do not mind waiting a little bit if i like them anyway. Id wait a month or two. I do not like it, but I will do it. I assume n count is how many sexual partners we have had. If it is then mine is like 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:12 PM
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Actually a man opening up to a woman opens up a whole new level of attraction. Emotional attraction. It is so toxic to have the idea that men cant open up. It is why successful suicide rates among men are so high. You need to open up and be vulnerable to have a meaningful relationship on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:39 AM
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rate 1 in every 50ish matches I currently have 60 on tinder, 25 on bumble. I swipe for about an hour maybe once a day for a week at a time before i find someone i like. Then i empty out all matches. So this is about a weeks worth. if i swiped on everyone Waaaaaay too many. I actually put my insta on my profile to see about thus question and i get 5ish dms a day (on weekends its usually more so 5 is an average) saying "found you on tinder" breakdown Most are hi. Including insta dms from tinder an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 04:41 PM
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Well why would someone be with someone they find boring AND ugly? I dont always think my partner is Apollo but they have to have SOMETHINGS i like about them. So they either have a good job, are very nice to me, patient, show up on time, generous... They have to have redeeming qualities in the first place. But sometimes if i am with a guy i do not find extremely attractive at first, yeah itll be a bit before we are physical because i will find them more attractive over time and i am probably loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 04:30 PM
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When I wasnt funny, men wouldnt give me the time of day. I used to be super shy in high school and would only joke with my friends. I didnt really joke back and was perceived as serious in high school. No men really talked to me until i started making jokes that warmed them up to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 04:26 PM
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Theres a lot of people talking about divorce on here, and id just like to add that there are prenups. As long as you file it correctly and have a good lawyer for it, it shouldnt be thrown out. Now, of course you cant also write it to award everything to one party either... That gets thrown out too. It has to be reasonable. It is also a fairly rare thing to throw one out as well... If you look at a high profile example of a Millionaire's Wife in New York who got theirs thrown out, its high profil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/19 11:41 PM
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Same reason dependas often want to be referred by their husbands rank and act entitled to military discounts. People think theyre better by being associated with someone with a title.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:17 AM
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Id love to have a husband that is very wealthy and is the main bread winner. But i would definitely get bored. Id likely just join a lot of clubs and start a hobby farm too. Do stuff ik i could not live off of but still love.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 01:00 AM
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Jist like the saying goes, If a man thinks a woman is filthy after touching her, he should look at his own hands. I personally think it is up to someone personally what they do in their spare life as long as its not cheating or lying by doing it. I wouldnt "slut shame" nor virgin shame since thats their own decision and maybe have a reason for choosing that route that i dont understand. But you cant get mad when your body count or lack thereof isnt taken well by a partner. People have every righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:06 PM
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Oh yes it is so rude to treat people different for something like that. Just because someone isnt physically attractive doesnt mean you need to be rude to them... Especially when you try to shmooze when they become more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 02:06 AM
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As a woman, i will agree. There is an ex I saw an old photo of from when he was fat and thought "christ, he looks amazing now." He worked out every single day for 2 years though and meal prepped and did a great job. But ik a guy whos moderately overweight now that i just... Hed be much more attractive having maintained the weight he was before. He wasnt ripped or anything, just a normal average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 01:58 AM
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^ this is precisely why i said that. If you start with "change my view" youre inviting argument, not an informed debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:45 PM
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Obese, chews nails, chews with mouth open, bad acne scars, feminine voice and this last one might get me yelled at but im being honest here: small penis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:07 PM
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Im extremely feminine naturally to the point where its kind of funny. Once i wore a neon pink dress, pink hair bow, took out my pink notebook and pink pen to write with. Then took a drink of pink lemonade out of my pink cup. In a upper level calculus class (basically all men). My teacher laughed at me in a nice way. I do notice that i will get more men saying im cute and stuff like that than a more masculine or gnc friend. Also i used to be very gnc as a kid/young teen and didnt get quite as man…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:05 PM
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Any post that starts out "change my view" is from someone who doesnt want their view changed. To say one is more sexually harassy than the other is based entirely on personal bias. I get harassed by men almost daily, either online or in person. I cannot tell you how many dick pictures ive been sent. I have men randomly offer me money for sex after posting about how much my textbooks cost. And if i dont respond, they always start insulting me. So in my view, men are most sexually harassy. But i a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 02:41 PM
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Nope. I think that we all expect other humans to have a certain amount of life experience that allows us to fill in blanks. The only way someone wont know the implication is if the woman being spoken to is an extremely sheltered adult or a 13 year old girl. Its like when someone asks me about my car and i call it a Kia Soul. Im not lying by not telling them its a silver 2015 Kia Soul with custom work. But i dont feel the need to add those details. You dont need an entire truth to be telling the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:10 PM
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Theres different ways to word something and none of the variations are dishonest. Hes not lying or kidding anyone by saying the first one, its a way less autistic way of saying the second way. If youre able to finesse and not blurt out every thought, its appealing not because of its dishonesty, but because its a more eloquent wording. Both are honest. One just is autistic honesty and the other is well socialized honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 02:29 AM
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Oh i completely agree. I think the phenomenon should be named just like the halo effect is. Its just the opposite of the halo effect. Attractive people are nice and ugly people are creepy. I try to be aware of it but like i said, awareness doesnt mean you dont still fall for it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 11:54 PM
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Thats very good. I think fundamentally, male-female relationships require, as all others between different groups of people do, an understanding that these are two extremely different perspectives. How men and women experience the world is vastly different due to both biological and social factors that cannot really be overcome subconsciously as they are ingrained in our process of relating to other people. The biases will always be there but being aware of it is the best we can do to overcome t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:26 PM
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Yeah, OP is a man so he wouldnt experience how creepy men can be. Ive been stalked 3 separate times by men, including ones who found me at work. Ive had men try to abduct me, bring me home with them when i was taken, and cheat on their gf with me. OP wont see that though because hes a man. Also men treat men different than men treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:17 PM
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I would agree to an extent. While i am consciously aware that a man is not a creep because he is ugly, it is difficult to overcome to ingrained societal notion that ugliness = creepiness. We see it with villains in kids cartoons all the way up to depictions of pedophiles. Unattractive or uniquely unfortunate looking men. So awareness doesnt cause immediate change. I definitely will still feel creeped out if a particularly unattractive man approaches me. However i consciously reason my way to kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:46 AM
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Depends on how well i know the guy. If he was a friend, then hed really have to say "date" for me to understand the intentions. But if it was someone i just met, then the second one is the best. The way I see it the stages of being together go: seeing each other, dating, official. And so it wouldnt be like a real date yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:56 AM
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If thats the argument for every place, then i could argue that you cant be cut off since this is how its been since the beginning. Its not like it turned 1990 and suddenly everyone cared about looks and make up and cold approaches became creepy. Money and attractiveness have always been highly valued. Meeting someone cold with intentions of dating them, like every situation above describes, looks matter almost exclusively. Ultimately the best way to meet more people is to already know people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 04:33 AM
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None definitively determine sex drive because theres difference in how to quantify "sex drive" but it is shown men masturbate more than women and one particular study shows (i would link but im on mobile. Its by Regnerus, Price, and Gordon) that men masturbate more the less sex they have whereas with women, its the inverse. I suspect the reason men usually initiate sex has both societal and biological factors, as is true with most of our behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 03:28 AM
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Yes but only in so far as whether hes cheated and what the most serious relationship hes had is. If hes 26 and never had more than a hook up, in my experience, hes not going to treat me well. I dont really care about how many peoples hes fucked, i care more about the emotional integrity of his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:59 PM
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I know this question is for men, but as a woman who is attracted to other women, what the men are saying really resonates with me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 03:55 PM
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Omg I had never really looked at the rules before but thats so.... Weird?
/r/PussyPassDenied03/08/19 05:54 PM
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I prefer guys who are broad and tall because im 5'3 and really like to feel tiny, but it is far from a deal breaker. I am also only 110-105lbs rn, so the 140lb, 5'7 guy I'm with is still larger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:17 AM
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Honestly might have nothing to do with you. One dude broke up with me by ghosting me after we agreed to be boyfriend and girlfriend for 6 months, id hang out with his family every week, do all his laundry, and lived for weeks at a time with him. Some people are just like that and will do it for no reason but they don't want to end things to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 07:48 PM
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Yeah, but thats not grounds for hating half the population in a really unhealthy way. To cope with that, one should go to therapy. I said in my original post that I actually agree with a lot of what's said. In a lot of ways, women are privileged over men. In the legal system, women are 100% privileged over men. I could ruin a man's life with one rape allegation. I could probably take my boyfriends stuff rn if i wanted because I "live there." But there's healthy ways of handling things and unheal…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:15 AM
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But AA is a healthy outlet for anger. It is controlled by professionals and experienced individuals. It isn't men spending years (and ive seen men talk about how they got divorced years ago on there) ranting to an online forum about how women cannot be abused. Theres a massive difference there. You cannot liken a highly supervised 12 step program that's been developed by doctors to a bunch of angry men spending their weekend talking about how women are lying bitches in an online circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 11:30 PM
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This is a normal relationship and what normal, nonabusive and nontoxic people expect from relationships. Your partner should be your best friend, so they have to act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:23 PM
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I think top comment says a lot, but there's a vocal minority who deny women are abused or victimized at all. I actually agree 80-90% with MGTOW ideology. Women divorce rape men. Women should pay for things and offer to do so. Cheating is abhorrent. Guilting men into open relationships is insidious and abusive. If she asks for your height, you have every right to ask for her weight. If men want to buy a bunch of fancy toys and have no woman to share it with, then more power to him. I agree with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:20 PM
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Like other people said, it's probably largely due to the fact they were John's looking to pay for sex. I'm pretty sure she denies having sex for money, just stripping for it, but thats hard to believe. However, if they weren't johns, i do agree that there would be more outrage over them being women victims than men victims. I consume copious amounts of true crime, especially missing persons cases. One detective in a case said words to the effect of "The best thing to be if you go missing is a wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:05 PM
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There should be a weight certification if there is a height verification, that way 300lb women can't hide behind a snapchat filtered cropped selfie of them with 10lbs of make up. But you know. Won't happen because it's rude or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 03:59 PM
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This article is pretty unclear about how exactly men are getting paid less because it talks a lot about what is happening to both and men got these raises and those raises, but if you type in the title and go to the Washington post instead of New York Times, it states: "In its 2018 study, Google found that managers had dipped into the discretionary funds more often for women engineers, creating a pay gap for men in the same job category. This job class of lower-level software engineers is one of…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/03/19 03:02 PM
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Whenever a girl complains to me about "oh sorry I was on my period, you know how that goes" i always respond, "no i dont because on mine im a normally functioning human being and don't use it as some thinly veil to hide behind while being a raging bitch." Of course, they get mad. But there's medications women can take if their hormones really are out of check to the degree that their being affected emotionally by it. So no excuses!
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/19 04:35 AM
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Nowhere did I generalize you. That them obviously refers to the ones I talked to which you weren't one of, so stop victimizing yourself needlessly. And they were indeed incels. Not fakecels, not chads in disguise, not people who glorified ER. Just polite dudes who seemed genuinely sad about lack of companionship, social status, etc. Who also posted in r/incels or r/foreveralone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 12:50 AM
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I honestly tried when I was single for a bit because I do totally understand where they come from. Looks are a HUGE and often times the only deciding factor over whether a relationship starts because that's all you know about the person. And it can be depressing as hell to watch everyone around you be sexually active, your crush date a new person every week, etc while you've never been able to experience any of it. I know how it feels. But when I tried talking to some, Id get one word answers. "…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 12:11 AM
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