red-tinted Archive

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2	For those of you that actually have a clean diet.. About how long of healthy eating did it take you before it became easy and habitual? There were two points that stand out for me. First, it became a lot easier once I had a clear purpose behind wanting to eat clean (i.e. gains). The second one came a few months after that when the occasional takeaway with my friends started to make me feel sick. It's been very easy ever since then!	/r/askTRP	20/11/15 12:36 AM
4	Have some damn patience. That attitude on asktrp is typical nowadays. The vast majority of us – at least in western society – seek instant gratification. If we don't see results immediately then we just get bored and fuck off to the next distraction. I have a friend who is the extreme version of this. For example, if a web page takes longer than a couple of seconds to load, he'll just close it. It's probably unrelated to this post but Bill Burr Louis C.K. has a great piece on the entitlement of people nowadays in relati…	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/15 12:12 AM
0	Wanting to swallow the pill, but I'm struggling to accept some directives of it As regards your first question: the ultimate goal of TRP is almost a paradox. In order to become a truly abundant and attractive man, your major goals in life must transcend the basic desire for pussy. Women become an accessory to an already fulfilling life, they should be replaceable and interchangeable. TRP is sexual strategy, and that by definition is about getting girls. What TRP also encourages is for you to have bigger goals than just pussy because this will make you more attractive and, m…	/r/askTRP	06/10/15 10:49 AM
1	Aspiring writer? Content producer? Really clever twitterer? I'm interested. I have a background in journalism and communication.	/r/TheRedPill	22/09/15 09:17 PM
3	Coming out of anger and depression phase...struggling to change This link will take you to a course about procrastination and overcoming it. If you do it, it will work. There are no easy answers when it comes to motivation – especially when you're addicted to dopamine the way that you obviously are. But you're going to die one day, man. So at least do yourself justice and die trying. Sell/delete your video games. Porn is inevitable and probably a necessary crutch while you climb out of your shithole routine. But get rid of those fucking games. They're much w…	/r/askTRP	04/09/15 03:14 AM
2	Girl(from China) acted really weird on date 2; should I pursue her A key thing to remember about hesitating in situations like this is that a girl will forgive a guy for being a bit too forward. She KNOWS you're into her because you wouldn't ask her out if you weren't. Therefore you're expected to escalate in these situations. So when you go on two dates with a girl and hugging is the most you do then yeah of course she's gonna be turned off. You need to get yourself into the mindset that too little escalation and kino is a LOT worse than too much. Her inviting…	/r/askTRP	01/09/15 10:59 AM
32	Strategy Your post reminds me of Rollo's writings about Honour, and how it is a system that has been claimed by the female imperative to control men. I'd expand further on what he said by adding that honour systems and the ethical approaches that we are encouraged to pursue in the modern world (the 'American Dream' for example) are devices of control. And these devices are as old as history. Religions like Christianity or Islam were invented to make sure the average man knew his place. To make sure he di…	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/15 11:19 PM
2	Why shouldn't we base our self worth on how many women we can attract? Don't stop, keep going. You should be thrilled because you're making huge strides as regards your own health. Be confident in yourself because you look great and keep striving for improvement in the other areas of your life. Have you learned to drive, for example? Do you have a job or can you make improvements in your studies? The more you improve, the easier women will be. As for your interactions with women, are you approaching many or are you after one or two who just might not like you? Rega…	/r/askTRP	20/06/15 09:30 PM
4	Need Alpha Male Advice! Why are you restricting your options so much? All you're talking about is what you don't want to do. You're acting like a complete bitch and I imagine your wife's pussy must be drier than Death Valley when she's around you. I cannot believe you're okay with her staying out overnight while her mates are throwing themselves at dick! Do you have any self-respect? You stay at home pining for her while she is at the bar getting her ass pinched by a different guy every night. She is fucking your time …	/r/askTRP	20/06/15 09:08 PM
2	Scared of being kicked out of Uni and turning my life upside down Do not, under pain of death, apologise for this. They have no proof it was you and it's likely they're bluffing about legal action. I just did a quick google and like most places in Europe, an IP address is not proof of identity in Germany. If all that app has of you is your location and the IP address then they cannot get to you. You're freaking about nothing.	/r/askTRP	16/06/15 11:03 AM
4	What degrees lead to jobs STEM courses are the most viable for a good job but obviously you need to assess your own strengths. If you're not set on anything then go work for a few years until you figure out what you want to do. A big regret of mine was going straight to college after school as if it was my only choice. If you need time to figure out what you want to do then take that time and do something else constructive in the meantime.	/r/askTRP	15/06/15 01:34 PM
5	how to have her open up If she thinks you'd leave her because of whatever she's done then that's a red flag. Ask yourself a few questions: When's the last time you had sex? Have you seen her as much lately? You say everything is going great but you're contradicting yourself because you wouldn't be here asking this question otherwise. Your gut is trying to tell you something and you're missing clues here. Stop analysing what she says and start looking at what she's doing. Are things as great now as they were three month…	/r/askTRP	14/06/15 03:46 PM
3	Lacking social skills This recent post on the main sub is a good place to start. Also, check out Real Social Dynamics on YouTube. Making observations about you're surroundings is always a good way to initiate conversation. Observations about the person are even better, be it a sports jersey they're wearing ('hey so you're a 'X' fan? Did you catch the game? - NOTE: if you don't have an interest in sport then don't pursue this line of questioning) or if it's a girl, some weird ass jewellery she's wearing or a tattoo (t…	/r/askTRP	14/06/15 03:19 PM
3	How can I pursue a better social life? If you're studying web development then I assume that's a course in a college? If you are in a college then join some societies. You'll meet lots of new people and hopefully some that have values you share. If you're not in a college then look for some local sports clubs or some other type of hobby that you might like to take up. Or go volunteer at some local events. You're very young so people will be much more likely to take you under their wing and encourage you. Just be willing to try new th…	/r/askTRP	14/06/15 03:06 PM
5	WTF? evolving from blue pill, am I dense or is she just a ***** The busier you are, the less you should be texting. Ask her to meet you. If she blows you off, next her. And don't text girls that they're pretty/gorgeous.	/r/askTRP	13/06/15 08:40 PM
3	Logistics and approach of/to a long distance fuck. In my experience, girls talk a lot of shit over text messages but seldom back that up in person. Another reason against going there just to get your dick wet (other than the fact you would be going there just to get your dick wet) is that sexting takes a lot of the passion out of the encounter. She's already banged you in her head and the mystery could be gone for her, which is not good for you. A big thing to remember is that 'the medium is the message' as Rollo would say. You're 300 miles apar…	/r/askTRP	13/06/15 08:28 PM
1	Anger towards AWALT. The only way to truly overcome the anger is to develop new values for your life that don't concern women. In a year, I promise you won't be as angry – providing you work towards goals that will give you a purpose and a satisfaction beyond getting your dick wet. You should read this post by one of TRP's better contributors to get some perspective on where you should aim to be. A quote from that post you should pay particular attention to: I see women for what they are, I understand them better no…	/r/askTRP	08/06/15 01:36 AM
10	Getting a girl back I fucked things up with You're looking for some abominable concoction of blue pill and red pill. It's disgusting. Go unfuck yourself.	/r/askTRP	06/06/15 12:59 AM
9	[Help] Family friend about to be swindled for all he's worth Listen, your friend's cousin can't be helped. Either he sees the light for himself or he drowns in a mess of his own making. Or maybe it'll all work out! You should do yourself a favour and stay clear of all of it, you shouldn't be getting involved in other peoples' problems.	/r/askTRP	06/06/15 12:53 AM
31	Did I handle this situation like a white knight? You didn't handle it like a white knight. The guy was interfering with your work so you had a valid reason to step in and I think you handled it well.	/r/askTRP	30/05/15 01:47 AM
7	Lack of connection = ridicule? Agree and amplify. It works because essentially it shows you aren't up your own ass. Guys always rip the piss out of each other. 90 per cent of the time it's not malicious and it's also a good way of finding out if someone is a dry cunt or not.	/r/askTRP	30/05/15 01:39 AM
2	Crazy Girl wants some. Don't bother putting her down just stop texting her back.	/r/askTRP	24/05/15 09:24 PM
3	LTR's or MGTOW? You should always have an eye on the future. Definitely don't obsess over it at that age but the work you do now (like building fitness, getting your first car and working at your studies/job) has a knock-on effect throughout your life. Focusing on yourself, regardless of whatever you choose in your above scenario, is key. Be your own man and make decisions that benefit you. Girls come a lot easier when you do that. To answer your question more exactly: they're both bad. One will be good for you…	/r/askTRP	22/05/15 10:55 PM
13	How do you ignore without looking butthurt? Agree and amplify. Agree and amplify. Agree and amplify.	/r/askTRP	17/05/15 12:51 AM
5	How to gain social momentum? The key thing to remember with things like lifting is that no one cares about how hard you work at something. In fact, it's more likely that they'll begrudge you for it. What they'll be impressed by is the results of your hard work and how effortless you can make it seem. As for meeting new people, get a hobby that would allow you to do that. For example, you could join a sports club. You shouldn't have to lie about the fun and interesting things going on in your life, you should be doing fun an…	/r/askTRP	17/05/15 12:49 AM
3	What are your TRP-related movie recommendations? Goodfellas, a lot of TRP-in-action in the first three quarters of that movie.	/r/askTRP	11/05/15 11:28 PM
1	Loads of shit tests in workplace- how to cope? Shit tests are a way for women to test whether you are for real or not. They see your confident and cocky exterior and want to know if it's just a front or if you have actual substance backing it up so that's why they're shit testing you. A&A should continue to serve you well so stick with it. Do NOT go nuclear on work colleagues.	/r/askTRP	05/05/15 11:45 PM
3	Problems at handling my temper. Starting to despair Try mindfulness. It's foundation is focusing on the moment and the task immediately at hand. It should help you become more disciplined and as a result give you more control over your emotions.	/r/askTRP	29/04/15 11:10 PM
1	Lost virginity to girl and got oneitis, what to do from here? Get fit. Get money. Fuck bitches.	/r/askTRP	29/04/15 11:07 PM
6	Tips on increasing exposure Get a hobby.	/r/askTRP	29/04/15 11:05 PM
9	Pushed too hard during text? You shouldn't have bothered messaging her the last time. Cut out the play names like 'sweet cheeks' and the compliments like telling her she has a sexy ass. She'll know you like her ass when you have your face between her cheeks so don't validate her until then. Validation is the enemy when you're just having casual sex with a girl.	/r/askTRP	22/04/15 01:27 AM
8	Girlfriend has a guy she liked on snapchat Okay then, I'll be blunt: you're pandering to your deep-seated beta fear about losing your oneitis and ending up alone. That guy is gone, she's with you and until she starts talking to him again, you have nothing to worry about.	/r/askTRP	20/04/15 11:28 PM
9	Girlfriend has a guy she liked on snapchat Clarify this: how does a girl only like a guy 'for probably a day or two' and then cry when he leaves?	/r/askTRP	20/04/15 11:08 PM
1	Call bullshit or no? This hits the nail on the head. Also you need an abundance mentality: there are plenty of other girls out there who will value your time a lot more than this chick.	/r/askTRP	19/04/15 11:53 PM
2	Is there ever a circumstance when you should argue with a girl? No.	/r/askTRP	19/04/15 01:18 AM
2	I have an issue taking action in life.... Yeah I've had this myself. You need to adopt a 'fuck it' attitude and stop thinking about your actions. Don't give yourself time to process any consequences or whether an approach is the best one or not. Just fucking do it. Remember, 'swift and resolute action leads to success. Self-doubt is a prelude to disaster.'	/r/askTRP	15/04/15 11:28 PM
2	What's up with women taking guys clothing? Your approach to things like this (gifts, essentially) should be relative to the girl and the situation. Obviously you don't let a random ho or a plate take your shit but I don't see a problem if you're letting an LTR hold onto something belonging to you as a reward for good behavior.	/r/askTRP	09/04/15 10:32 AM
1	Do you guys think Gonewild subreddits have made redditors swallow the red pill? I don't think so. When I was blue pill, I never thought of gonewild as a bad thing and I still feel that way. I understand more now about what a girl gets out of posting there but AWALT, and if it wasn't gonewild it'd be tumblr or something else that they'd be posting to for validation. Unless a guy has found pictures of his girlfriend up there then I can't imagine it has directly inspired anyone to swallow TRP.	/r/askTRP	22/03/15 12:10 PM
3	Unimaginably Pissed. (Valentines Day Story) You're obsessing over the sweets. They're irrelevant. You are (or were) an orbiter to this girl and you tried to nice your way into her pants. You're obviously aware of the red pill but you're trying to apply it with blue pill practices. You need to read more. Forget about this girl and concentrate on working out the flaws in your game. She's not what's important, you are.	/r/askTRP	15/02/15 01:51 AM
1	Friendzoned... kind of? First off, you have oneitis, which is an attraction-killer. And when you stopped talking to her, you displayed some outcome independence, which she found attractive. She says she wants to hang out as friends but what she is telling you is that she wants you to initiate. It's basically so she can rationalize fucking you even though she still has feelings for that other chump. You have this girl as a plate as it is but your oneitis will fuck it up eventually. You are not outcome independent and yo…	/r/askTRP	08/02/15 01:47 AM
2	Girls think I'm just going to fuck once and never call back I think your first port of call should be to read (or hopefully re-read) this post on the Rational Male: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/ If this has only happened a handful of times then you next the girl and move on. She's not worth the effort. Why? Because you're the prize and there are a dozen other girls like her. However, if this is recurring a lot then you need to analyse what you're doing. You might be coming off as desperate or you might be failing a shit test. Or both…	/r/askTRP	04/02/15 10:52 PM
17	Girlfriend got wolf whistled at Your initial response was good. Cocky and dismissive. Wolf-whistling is beta behavior so I wouldn't lose sleep about it. As for frame, do not underestimate it. Frame is your foundation: without it, you'll fail. You need to take a stoic view of other men hitting on your girlfriend. When it happens, remember that you cannot control what other people do (your girlfriend and the other guys in this case), you can only control your reaction to the situation. Some general advice for dealing with it wou…	/r/askTRP	14/01/15 02:43 PM