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Of course, improve yourself, read, elevate your mind, your soul, your physical appearance as much as possible. Forget about the rest. Focus on yourself, forget about your past, only on how you can improve and move forward❤️ If any man asks you your ‘body count’, consider them no value at all. What kind of man asks that in the first place..
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 09:37 AM
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Submission to me just means softness, being able to sway, not being so rigid towards your partner. Obedience is not a word I would like to use, reminds me of like owner and pet haha.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 06:02 PM
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Wait, you had never actually met in person before? Im confused...
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 05:37 PM
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He sounds like a child whose mother babied him, which is very dangerous. I’m sorry but he does not sound like a masculine man 😞 Where is his Dad and masculine figure in his life?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 07:26 PM
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What happened with the times before he paid for the cab ? Also, how serious are you in the relationship? Does he not pick you up? Does he have a car? Do you just go to his house in a cab and thats your date?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 06:42 PM
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Basically none of it was 'confrontational' or having a discussion, I paid for everything 50/50 bills except groceries (he would pay) We lived together. Things then quickly changed, I got fired from my job, and he (now husband) fully took control of finances. I did not get fired just because, i genuinely loved my job and I was so sad to be fired. It just happened like this? What I am saying is everything has to be action on your part, no words. Im not saying this as advice because lots of times w…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 06:06 PM
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You are too good, trying to prove your ‘worth’ to him, when you do not have to prove aaaaanything. Completely stop paying for things and being too nice. If he is worth it, and you two are meant to be together, he will step up to the plate. I was exactly in this situation before ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 05:10 PM
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This is sweet :) Your Mom sounds like a great person :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 04:54 PM
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My husband and I were together for 7 years before we got married.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 04:45 PM
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Definitely an abusive father is worse .. by a girl speaking with very distance father :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 04:42 PM
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hmmm it could be he may want to get back together with you or ask for you back at that time maybe ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 07:45 PM
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You deserve a much better one and there is lots of them out there, you're still young :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/23 10:15 PM
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You are dating a 12 year old boy in a 34 year old body :(
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/23 11:25 AM
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I think some men love mothering, others find it repulsive. There is a strict line, like having a 'limit' i guess? Sometimes I feel like Im on the border of this. I think what is the most important is letting him make the decisions and be the man :) Your question is a little broad though, does you man not like the mothering when he is sick which is why he acts passive? Also, (in terms of discussions, arguments etc), I think your 'tone' is important. For example, a mom will always use a dominating…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 08:30 PM
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I hope you get one :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 09:29 AM
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trueee!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 09:41 PM
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Yess, very true. thank you so much :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 03:14 PM
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yesss, exactly! I think its a good idea for me to soften up... Thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 01:28 PM
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Yesss, thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 01:28 PM
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haha even though I would loveeee to say that, its a bit much and immature, no ? :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 01:19 PM
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Yes totally true!!! I was also a waitress & bartender at a bar when I was younger so I totalllyyyyy know rude customers! it just doesn't effect me so much? But I should definitely be more nicer, and I guess this is a good lesson for me! As for my fiance, someone commented that he cares a lot about "public perception" and I really thought about it, and Its very true. Its not evening about the lady, hes putting his own feelings first bc he cares how he looks to other ppl!
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 01:19 PM
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yes because he cares a lot about public perception.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/22 01:03 PM
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I would say this is more of a subconscious thing/skill. Compliments, but, they have to be genuine. They have to be in the moment. For example, my husband recently gave his mom a very generous birthday gifts. That day when he made his mom really happy (he didn't have the best relationship with her before), I told him how amazing son he is, how he is so good blah blah blah :) The key thing to compliments to make them sincere is they have to be in the specific right moment! However, I will say that…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 09:36 AM
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Never any male "friends" in a relationship. Your male friend is your boyfriend/husband. Your real friends are your girlfriends.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 09:22 AM
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Yes, it's definitely do-able. Im not against it completely. But I think, in their situation, she outdid herself. She waited and waited, considered an open relationship, spent so many years with this man, he knows she clearly loves him...but the question is, does he ? This man (if he loves her) should not be afraid anymore. She made it clear to him he CAN be vulnerable. He's safe with her. He's the only one for her and he knows this. If she reaches out to him, in his eyes he will never respect an…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 05:28 PM
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Such a good Response!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 05:00 PM
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Be 'in' your body (be more connected with your body) instead of 'in your head'. Dance, move your body, get rid of stuck energy, get a massage!! LOVE your body! Also, be slower with your movements, take your time, enjoy the little things, enjoy your surroundings. Indulge in your senses, eat something that you love and smell something beautiful like flowers. Go out in nature and take a deep breathe. Connect with other girls and women :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/22 08:35 PM
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I have no idea if Im allowed to comment since Im a girl but YESSSS, you don't even have to be attractive to be 'sexually attractive'.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:25 AM
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Oh you can ask me anything:) I am 5'4, my highest weight fluctuated from 145 -150lbs. Then, I lost weight and went down to 110 lbs. I don't remember my measurements at my highest but at 110 lbs, they range 32-24-32 And, you're welcome. Im glad I helped a bit:)
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 09:35 AM
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Pretty privilege is very real! When I lost weight, attention from men (and women) was insane. I have a 'baby face' so I was always getting attention from men and I was never super fat to begin with, but when I lost weight and became fit, Omg! Men are just nicer, notice you more, want to talk with you more, more options for dating pool, get treated better, they pay for everything, don't want to "split" things, want to impress you. I also became very 'petite' and small in my build, so men were mor…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 09:02 AM
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Yeah, thats wise:)
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 10:32 PM
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Yes I definitely know what you mean! You reallyyyy only like 1! The thing is, these 'ok' men, we don't know yet and we judge them. Meanwhile, they can be good guys ? This 'great' one, we think we know and we may like a lot, we put all our heart and attention on him, but he may fall down the cracks (example this post) and then we get hurt ? The truth is, we never really know someone until we reallyyy get to know them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 10:01 AM
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' I have been seeing ' (OPs question) "seeing someone" is a very beginning stages of a relationship. I assume they are not being intimate? Seeing a few guys in the beginning and going on fun dates comes before being intimate and 'serious' with them. I doubt the OP is very serious with him. Soooo no 'CC' haha. Thanks for informing on the new slang ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 09:40 PM
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What is riding the 'CC' ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 06:54 PM
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Wow, you were having fun and he found it annoying and talked behind your back to his sister? Lol Is he 12? :) Im sorry to say, but they both sound mean, and immature ? Y,ou don't just marry the guy, you marry his whole family. So, if these issues pop up early, be prepared to have this type of drama the rest of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 05:55 PM
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Rotate men. If you have to question his attraction to you, he is not attracted. Im not positive, but he seems confused and like not a true gentleman ? Have a rotation of men and select which ones you like the most and have the deepest connection with :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 04:31 PM
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Never tell any man about your past.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 11:36 AM
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Honey, you are definitely NOT broken. Improve yourself mentally, psychologically, physically, spiritually. Forget about your past and don't ever mention it or think of it to anyone (only if you are in therapy). It does not define you anymore. Don't let it ruin your future. Don't be so 'extreme' in your thinking. Don't let the opinions of bruised men deter you from being positive about yourself and your life! That's literally all it is! YOU define YOU. It all starts with your mindset! You will be…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 11:33 AM
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Lol well yes, women are complex in their own way :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 10:52 PM
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I think 'light' sarcasm is good because it gives you more of a personality and makes you have character! You do not just want to be sweet and innocent all day long, you have to have a little bit of that dark femininity that attracts. You got to have the perfect balance. Im mostly sweet and nice, but I notice when Im talking to a guy, and suddenly I let him see this side of me, he is sooo much more attracted and interested! Why? because it keeps them guessing, makes you unpredictable!:) The thing…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/21 10:50 PM
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Men are very very simple beings, they are much more easier to understand than women. Women are the complex ones. Speaking as a woman:)
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/21 04:38 PM
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ohh yes! I don't ever cry but I have such a strong surge of emotion around babies (not so much animals but moreso human babies haha) its very overwhelming and I feel almost more spiritual / higher power within me. I cant explain it. Its definitely a good feeling though, I love it and I am happy I have that in myself:) To feel so strongly is strength!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 11:02 PM
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Im not sure if this is true, but I heard somewhere that men likes those types because they give off this air of selfishness/non-doormat behaviour. The more "selfish" a woman is, the more she knows herself and the better she wants for herself. The more she has character? They're more 'interesting'. Some girls who are like tooooo nice, tooooo accommodating, very patient etc, they don't truly LOVE themselves. How can you tell ? Because they have no boundaries. They don't know themselves. Maybe that…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 01:03 AM
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Yep! Women have this amazing superpower and the majority don't know it or see it!:(
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 10:51 PM
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Feminine energy, which is happy, nurturing healing for the man.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/21 03:26 PM
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Omg me tooo! I was obsessed with playing "my heart my will go on" on my piano! Hahaa!I really regret quitting as well but Im sure it would be nice to relearn :) I hope you find something!!! :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 10:41 PM
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Yeah Instagram or blog is such a nice creative outlet that can be so fulfilling. Oh also, piano? or any type of musical instrument maybe?haha:) Yep, I just literally watch random youtube videos on belly dancing!
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 10:19 PM
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Dancing (belly dancing is so feminine and helps with your sacral chakra so feminine power), yoga, painting? :) If you want to monetize it, my friend had a lip balm business, a cooking instagram ? :) It depends on what you like!
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 09:41 PM
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Same! Best Answer!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 03:40 PM
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I think it's in the way you behave. Act in a way that makes it seem you are not impressed by status, wealth, success. You can be impressed by someone's ambition dedication and work ethic. You are impressed by the kindness and sincerity of a man. Never make it known that you value his money above his character. Cater to his ego. It's all in the way you act, the way you talk, the way you respond to things. It is very subtle cues that men pick up on. I think the key thing is make it seem like they …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 03:35 PM
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Sweater dresses! Nylons/stockings, Knee-high, or over the knee boots (beige or black or brown). Beautiful warm cashmere wool sweaters. Skirts with nylons! Cute wool long coats, trenches (that are feminine in style), cute hats and gloves that match with the rest! :) Oh I can go on and on. This is the only reason why I like Fall & Winter (because of clothes)! If you want to look more feminine and elegant, dress in lighter colours (beige, camel, white, etc).
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 12:54 AM
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Thank you💜
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 09:21 PM
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Delete her, him, them, everyone from your life who did you wrong! Focus on yourself and yourself ONLY 💜 Develop your mental strength, when no one has the power to control your moods. The more you think and sulk about them, the more harm you are doing to yourself and your development as a woman. If she tried to ruin your reputation, she was threatened by you! Why would she care to sabotage you if you were already below her in any department (looks, intelligence, etc) Maybe you are 10X prettier th…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 03:02 PM
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Watch Boho Beautiful on youtube :) She is amaaazzzinggg! Plus, she always has gorgeous scenic views in every video so you feel so inspired:) She has 10 min videos, 15 min, 20 min, 30 min, 40min. I would highly recommend her :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 02:57 PM
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haha! What a weirdo! Who asks to shower at a girls house????! That is so strange! Like, using your home to get clean ? I would be so weirded out by that and just ghost him from that question! Good riddance girl <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:07 PM
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Yeah. Super Rude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:25 PM
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