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| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Based on what you said, of course I will decline ¯_(ツ)_/¯ why: 1. He starts with generic beauty compliments 2. He finishes one drink and immediately invites me to go home with him 3. “I can just tell that he won’t text me back”, will take my number but is going to find someone that night. What you described is indeed the same directness without ever admitting he “wants to fuck”, but come on, it’s pretty obvious. I’m not that desperate, good luck to him on his quest. | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Saying things like “women were planning on using them anyway” and “women are getting your time and attention in exchange for nothing” reeks of incel vibes and inherent disrespect tbf. Your time and attention is so valuable, but the woman’s time and attention that are equally being spent on you mean nothing? | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Exactly. It’s an art of behaving in a way that makes a person want you without you verbalizing it. “Being direct” is the opposite of that. | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….“if she knows within the first few seconds-minutes whether she’s attracted to you or not” For me, that attraction is like a spark, and whatever behavior from a man that follows it will always affect it. Countless times that spark was shut down almost immediately because the man lacked manners, it’s just so unattractive to me that regardless of how he looks I would be turned off. And on the contrary, that little spark could grow to a full-on fire if I saw that apart from the urge to fuck masked a… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 07:59 AM |
| 6 | I did something a bit creepy, and I’m wondering if I can still turn things around.No, because “I got so close that I was right next to her” isn’t a misunderstanding and it’s better to make your conclusions and move on. Do not make her face this clearly uncomfortable situation more than she already did. You should understand that she won’t get any positive emotions out of it. | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 04:23 AM |
| 16 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Agreed but the correct spelling is Kyiv. There was a government campaign #KyivNotKiev for that matter. | /r/seduction | 11/05/25 08:18 PM |
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