| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1656 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the game | red_rover_red_rover | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 06:12 AM |
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| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameBecoming a man is hard but it's worth it. Read or listen to "On being a man" by David DeAngelo. Kinda cheesy but really good. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Lingering Oneitis (TL;TR)yes it will go away. you may have thoughts about her from time to time but they will become more nostalgic and less painful over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Got called A Creep And Im Proudit was probably because she was with her son and was overly protective. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Red Piller here who's been working in strip clubs for the last 8 yearsI think the best thing is to realize that you are here to serve a purpose in life, and if you're lucky you'll find a girl (or two) who's relatively sane enough to raise your children to become successful adults. Complicating it more than that will give you headaches. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Tinder: The Menprovement Initiative - The Bluepill Strategy.perception is always reality | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 09:52 AM |
| 2 | How To Use The Psychology of Social Proof With WomenGood post. The easiest way to start acting more sexual at first is to just lightly touch them in a non-confrontational or sexual, but friendly way and slowly escalate as you recieve reciprocation. If not, back off and start over. Best points are shoulders, neck, back of her head, and side. Don't start off too agressive. Soft touch but be decisive and not timid. If she verbally and physically pulls away in an aggressive fashion, apologize and move on. Not worth it and will just make you look like… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYou may very well be right. Perhaps an oversight on my end... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameWell I guess he nailed it...lol | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYup...treat her with the intellect of an adult and the emotional maturity of a 14 year old. :( wish it was different but that's life. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameyup what does it feel like?? lol | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThere are some good women out there who break the mold and challenge perception. Some of them are pretty hot too - and they will be wifed up for sure by the time they're 30. If you really meet a good girl who's drop dead gorgeous, don't fuck it up, you may never meet a girl like that ever again in your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThey can't and they won't...sorry. I think we all wish women were more loyal and honest but it's not the case. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameIf you truly have the "game" mastered and treat her like an equal she will be the one qualifying and trying to prove herself to you...advanced is not the right word I think it just comes with experience. In the meantime just try to keep your options open and date as many girls as you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameTreating her like an equal does not equate to treating her like a guy friend. She wants to be managed in the relationship and dominated in bed, and it's her job to make you earn that treatment. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYou are confusing equal with "same" | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameIt's instinct. When they see a real man/alpha male all logic and social conditioning will disappear very fast. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameyes..they like when you are in charge. but will never admit it. a weak man could feel like he has everything going for him and things are clicking on all cylinders but if he loses control and authority of his woman, she will always have one eye open - looking for the upgrade, looking for someone else to make her feel wanted, managed, and safe. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gamelooks, domestic skills, motherly qualities, supplemental income, encouragement, and love | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameno...equal but completely different. Seeing them as inferiors is childish and will get you nowhere. They are completely different and value totally different things. Comparing men to women is like comparing avocados to mangoes. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYup...he/she who cares less and takes things in stride will always have the upper hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameNah, she's yours forever. She'd be a dumbass to leave you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameyeah I have a nephew...My bro is a legend but his fiance wants to raise him soft and organic. I understand where she is coming from but me and my bro are going to mold this kid into a winner. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameIn my experience people rarely change. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameI hear ya...I think we all put the insta models and straight legendary hoes on a pedestal. Hard not to but you gotta just treat them like your little sister etc...don't be afraid to give them shit and make them work a little. They are women too....since they have guys lining up for them they have a bit more confidence than others so you can just act super normal (easier said than done)...keep talking to the other girls and I guarantee she will start meandering over your way. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameAgree to some point. Don't try to be the #1 alpha male above all alpha males...there are plenty of beautiful women to spread along and if you can snag 4 or 5 in a few month period and keep them around you are doing pretty well for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThanks I'm just a normal guy who had to learn the hard way. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYep I think there was a bit of miscommunication. By respect I mean treat them how they would like to be treated aka protected, safe, dominated, and ravaged :) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameclose to what? I fucked your GF a long time ago ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:49 AM |
| 0 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameyou forgot #7 fall for the bait and troll bitter losers who will never have a positive thing to say no matter what. FUCK OFF. that shit attitude will get you nowhere in life - truly hope you can turn it around - but just being honest | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameAnger and butthurt-ness will get you absolutely nowhere with hot girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThanks...UT sucks go Stanford Cardinal!!! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameIf it was that easy we'd all be dating supermodels...oh wait. There are only so many smart, beautiful girls out there and the competition is pretty fierce, not to scare you... In my experience the guys that always had the most rejections, crash and burns, and public humiliations always ended up with the hottest girls. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameDepends on the dynamic of the relationship. I believe in true love..as long as she always loves you more and will do anything for you. Those girls are hard to come by and when you find her you would be a fool not to marry and spend the rest of your life with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameShe doesn't consciously realize what she's doing. It's instinctual and she can't help it. How is it her fault as a person? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameEvery girl is different, Every girl is the same | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameNot caring if they liked me or not Understanding how a woman thinks Practice and reptition...and lots of failure and embarassment Hang out with guys who get laid often | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gamethanks yeah. crying alone in your room after getting dumped by the love of your life sobers you up pretty quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameNice to think but most girls will sway to the second example despite your reasoning... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gamehow long would you be mad if your new dog bit your hand??? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the game1% of the guys get 99% of the girls...80/20 principle is waaaaay to generous. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameEvil is in the eye of the beholder. The modern day "alpha male" doesn't need to intimidate the other guys. Just be better and more emotionally stable, operate in a job or hobby or lifestyle that positions you constantly around babes and let them fight over you | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYa caving in...don't cave in to avoid an argument...or to string out a relationship where the girl is slowly trying to establish control. Those manipulative girls are not worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gamedamn...had a few great relationships and pretty happy being single rn...n-count or being a savage doesn't bring me happiness anymore. being a dude that doesn't take shit from a woman but doesnt treat her like a garbage bag...knows how to put it down and rock the boat...and keeps it quiet except for my best friends who I trust is enough for me. Don't need to impress random strangers on the internet with my "savage" game anymore... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gamethe memory will always be of you...not your possessions. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameyou may be right admittedly i am a bit taller 5'11 so hard for me to relate | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:22 AM |
| 1 | So first time going out and approaching chicks at a frat party!Way to go man...we all had to start somewhere. Keep at it but keep in mind you don't want to become the creepy pickup guy...pick your spots and use some judgement...that reputation will follow you for 4 years. Just go up to them without any expectations...small talk is fine - when you have a goal or agenda they can feel it and that's why they got weirded out. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Three Lessons from an Investment Banking Career for your Professional and Personal LivesIMO you don't have to play the corporate game to be successful with women, but if you are a lone wolf you better have tight game and the substance to back it up. There is more than one way to the top. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 09:18 AM |
| 19 | Article: Females less happy when male partner is more attractivenice little brainwash article... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 09:01 AM |
| 7 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameYup, they can't help themselves lol. I've been on both sides of the fence and it can be initially shocking how easily girls will risk a stable, long-term relationship for one night with "him." The less you care, the more she chases. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:58 AM |
| 189 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThanks. At first I just wanted to get laid. Then I just wanted a girlfriend. Flash forward a few years and now I just want a traditional man/woman, masculine/feminine relationship or two with a cool hot chick, and to be treated with respect. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:46 AM |
| 65 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThanks. Yeah being an asshole is completely unnecessary. People call alpha males assholes not because they treat women like shit, which they don't - but because they don't settle for the first girl that likes them and they treat her like an equal and not a goddess that should be worshipped. Yeah there is the occasional rapper, athlete or executive who gets off on treating women like shit but most guys who are successful with women are extremely normal, they just have high standards for themselve… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:44 AM |
| 8 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameTrust me I've had to learn from experience. Been dumped multiple times for trying to be a "good boyfriend" and giving her almost all of my time and energy. At the time I was completely in love with her and when she dumped me I was devastated for months. It sucks, but sometimes we all need to learn the hard way. You don't have to cheat on her, you just have to stay on top of your game. A relationship is not an excuse to ease up on pursuing your personal goals nor should it be a convenience. A tru… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:39 AM |
| 36 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameGood post but unnecessarily misogynistic and negative IMO | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:32 AM |
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