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OYS 8: The wife and I have coronavirus. Nasty cold symptoms, can’t sleep, absolutely fucks a big family trip and summer school schedule, weve gotta worry about grandma, etc. Gonna skip this week, catch up with you guys next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/21 05:02 PM
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you have no control … no matter how much you offer to help your example/standard can significant. This hits home. Something about the conversation she and I had over goals made me realize she couldn’t visualize herself pushing past mental limits she’s made. The way you put it makes sense. Whatever progress is made there won’t come from rational conversations. It’ll be examples and likely small moments of clarity that I’ll never know about.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/21 03:03 AM
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work on my pull ups is highest priority Why the focus on this particular exercise? Are there particular limitations (travel, gyms closed, etc.) that make it the only option, or is it just a (reasonably good) KPI you're using? PUs are a good overall measure of fitness but they're also so dependent on body weight (brutally hard to rep-out when you're fat, deceptively easy when skinny) that you can easily read the wrong thing into either doing well or poorly.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 02:52 AM
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OYS W7: Timeline 40yo, 218lbs 16.5% Lifts: BP 255, DL: 385, SQ: 375 Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+6. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite. Read: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, TRM 3, Way of The Superior Man, The Red Queen, NMMNG I had a great week. For the first time since writing these OYS's or even swallowing the pill, my day-to-day felt MAP Goals: ~ 12% BF @ ~ 200lbs, Side Business to $40k, take the lead in family finances and projects, d…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/21 02:44 AM
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Yeah. You're right. RP aside, that sounds just like what my dharma teacher would say, followed by: "Anger is just a feeling, it comes, it goes. Note it and move on." > frame issue I just don't, deep down, get it. Discussions wind their way back to lack of frame as a root cause and I'm left blank. I have to do deliberate reading and practice on this or I'm going to keep spinning my wheels.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 08:27 PM
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Similar to your question last week about positivity, I've got some internal resistance to answering this. I think anything I say or plan will largely be BS and won't survive contact with reality. I don't mean to be negative, but I have to admit, in the heat of the moment, I *like* being angry, and letting my mindset go dark is a very strong pattern I've built up over the years. I'll probably be OMSing on this for a while, but here's my thinking now: 1) Cover the basics: make sure I'm eating well…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 07:40 PM
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OYS W6: Timeline 40yo, 218lbs 16.5% Lifts: BP 255, DL: 385, SQ: 375 Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+6. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite. Read: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, TRM 3, Way of The Superior Man, The Red Queen, NMMNG Taking a break from being obsessive about RP stuff and finishing Chernow's biography of US Grant. MAP Goals: ~ 12% BF @ ~ 200lbs, Side Business to $40k, take the lead in family finances and projects, develop a strong…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/21 05:09 PM
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my face seems in an awkward place right now, and like a dumbass I said that out loud. I should have just STFU instead of putting myself down in front of her This is a pretty minor mistake, just don’t make it a pattern or part of your personality to self-deprecate.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 04:45 PM
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OYS W5: Timeline 40yo, 220lb 17% will adjust macros next week if the plateau continues. Lifts: BP 255, DL: 385, SQ: 375 Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+5. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite. Read: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, TRM 3, Way of The Superior Man, The Red Queen, NMMNG Taking a break from being obsessive about RP stuff and finishing Chernow's biography of US Grant. MAP Goals: ~ 12% BF @ ~ 200lbs, Side Business to $40k, take the le…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/21 10:27 PM
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I have a difficult time conversing with him now, it's like we speak two different languages. This sounds tough… inverting the proper roles - he should be the one guiding you, with a clearer view, etc. I don't know how I can grow as a person without cutting my mother out of my life. It’s a hard thing to realize. My relationship with mom isn’t to that point… but it’s been close and I’ve had to set some hard boundaries. Entering her frame for even a second and falling into those ok’d routines can f…
/r/askMRP02/07/21 09:44 PM
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Is that really the lesson here? … or because your frame is so weak… Yeah I’ve thought on that more this week, and you’re right. Being deep in her frame is the root problem. It wasn’t some pro/con rational discussion where she expressed concern. I folded to her indignation - whether it’s a good idea for me was irrelevant. not fucking her hard enough Lol extremely true i was taking it slow and easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/21 09:21 PM
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lead her to the desired behavior Yeah, you’re right. I thought about it more last night and realized I wanted her to “just get it”… but that’s just not her. I’m clumsy about leading without going overt all the time and end up punishing good behavior. Thanks for the clarity.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/21 02:02 PM
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Don’t kid yourself about that being 6lbs of fat. You lost a lb or two and the rest was water from restricting carbs. Losing ~5lbs a week of fat is an unhealthy and unrealistic plan and will result in muscle loss even on a strong anticatabolic like trenbolone. Not trying to shit on you. Be realistic so you don’t grind yourself down and rebound or get upset when you plateau. Set a -1000 cal a day goal and do 2 a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 07:01 PM
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OYS W4: Timeline 40yo, 220lb 17%, -1 lb from last week Lifts: BP 255, DL: 385, SQ: 375Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+5. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite.Read: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, TRM 3, Way of The Superior Man, The Red Queen Re-reading & Doing exercises in NMMNGMAP Goals: ~ 12% BF @ ~ 200lbs, Side Business to $40k, take the lead in family finances and projects, develop a strong and *consistent* spiritual practice, build real-li…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 06:34 PM
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It sounds silly but there are videos on YouTube to practice this. Can’t hurt right?
/r/askTRP23/06/21 08:55 PM
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OYS W340yo, 221lb 18%, -1 lb from last week Lifts: BP 255, DL: 385, SQ: 375Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+5. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite. Read: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, TRM 3, Way of The Superior Man, The Red QueenRe-reading & Doing exercises in NMMNGMAP Goals: ~ 12% BF @ ~ 200lbs, Side Business to $40k, take the lead in family finances and projects, develop a strong and *consistent* spiritual practice, build real-life friendsh…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 12:32 AM
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No logistical challenges of split custody could be worse for your kids than seeing you emasculated every day.
/r/askMRP21/06/21 07:24 PM
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Absolutely not. Squeeze that one into a tiny diamond and swallow it. Happy Father’s Day!
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:42 PM
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Working women have provisioning handled. At that point men become a luxury good. Get used to this, it is the future.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:40 PM
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You will become: hungry, hairy, horny, hot. Lifts will go up and fat will go down. If you aren’t already in the gym get there now. If you are prepare yourself for some nice surprises.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:38 PM
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You’re low T but probably won’t get through the urologist gauntlet. Go to a trt clinic or shop online.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:35 PM
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no reason to think I have low T Then it’s not going to do anything useful. For guys with legit low t it’s a life changer.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:31 PM
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34, pretty, fun So an exception to the rule. Most 34 year old women are neither.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:30 PM
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Expressions of male anger may be arousing for women, in a limbic brain, evo-psych sense. But it absolutely terrifies them long term and the inability to control it is extremely unattractive. Put yourself in a woman’s shoes: half of the population is twice your size and can straight up easily kill you with their bare hands. Despite being in a modern world where that’s almost entirely restrained, the wiring is still there. Displaying the potential for violence is useful - important even. Showing y…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:36 PM
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You asked him once what’s up and left it at that? I know women hate being overt but come on. If I did what he’s doing for 3 days my wife would be hysterical. Try showing some effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 08:16 PM
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Men: 100 point scale with 18 pages of indexed lookups Women: 1 or 0, calculated 100 times per second
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:45 PM
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OYS #2 40yo, 6’, 222 lb, 18% bf - 0lb change from last weekLifts: BP255, DL 385, SQ: 375Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+5. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite. Read: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, TRM 3, Way of The Superior Man Reading: The Red QueenMAP Goals: ~ 12% BF @ ~ 200lbs, Side Business to $40k, take the lead in family finances and projects, develop a strong and *consistent* spiritual practice, build real-life friendships and connecti…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:40 PM
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That is indeed weird as fuck and not normal. Find a new place to lift.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 03:21 AM
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OYS #1 40yo, 6’, 222lb, 18% bf Lifts: BP255, DL 385, SQ: 375 Married 13y, together 16, 2 Daughters 7+5. Wife 40yo. Mother lives in MIL suite. Books: Sidebar posts, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Practical Female Psychology, SGM, TRM 1 + 2, Reading TRM 3. Background: *TLDR: Midlife unplugging, drunk captain, fuckup realizes he needs to take control of his life. Lucky dumbass. * Being too comfortable and settling for mediocrity is a big problem for me. My physique is okay, my career is okay, sex life is okay, et…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/21 06:21 PM
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Sorry but she might just be from the Midwest.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 05:03 PM
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It’s a tv show for women. Draw conclusions from that.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:47 PM
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Honestly ANKI (spaced repetition) wouldn’t be a bad place to start.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:46 PM
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Just like desire respect can’t be negotiated or demanded. Your buds are just being buds. It doesn’t mean they truly don’t respect you. If they’re crossing real boundaries then stand up for yourself. If they’re busting your balls… sorry you’re just the goof of the group, they still love ya. Nobody else needs to know.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:46 PM
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Yeah. Girls dream about being sexmurdered but they don’t ACTUALLY want to be.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:43 PM
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I need to ______ * pick up my whatever * turn on the blah blah * feed the dog If she’s showing ASD Make it a specific task that has a plausible “end” so it can roll into “it just happened” without being totally obvious.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 03:42 PM
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You’re doing fine. Enforce boundaries and limits, don’t let her get under your skin. Periodic maintenance is a good way to look at it.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:47 PM
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Good luck sorting out her reasoning. She doesn’t know and her statement is incoherent! It’s a comfort test. She wants some sign you care… don’t worry about it beyond that.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 12:44 PM
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